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I am wanting to bring up the topic of wife sharing as I’d love to see it but how do I go about it, I was going to book a sex show in Amsterdam or maybe say a sex club, what are your thoughts please
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
op only you know your wife ? you must know if she is sexually adventurous or not .. i dont get people that are married that dont talk ? its as if people marry strangers ? ...but wish you luck op
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I appreciate your opinion, she is adventurous in regards to sex well I’d say she is there will be far more adventurous people on here, she will watch porn, dress up, loves big toys and dildos, pegging etc, just don’t want to scare her off |
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"I have mentioned it as a joke and during sex also, iv told her I want her to take a big cock and have me watch, sometimes she says no sometimes she laughs and says she knows "
That's a pretty good indication that she means no.
Has she agreed to go to a sex show or club? Does she know you're on here? Have you spoken to her about it without joking and not while having sex? |
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"I appreciate your opinion, she is adventurous in regards to sex well I’d say she is there will be far more adventurous people on here, she will watch porn, dress up, loves big toys and dildos, pegging etc, just don’t want to scare her off"
What do you mean 'scare her off'? |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I appreciate your opinion, she is adventurous in regards to sex well I’d say she is there will be far more adventurous people on here, she will watch porn, dress up, loves big toys and dildos, pegging etc, just don’t want to scare her off"
Are you adventurous as your wife |
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I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach |
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By *rnypairCouple
over a year ago
south Yorkshire |
"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach"
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us. |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us."
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you |
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By *rnypairCouple
over a year ago
south Yorkshire |
"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you "
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome. |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome."
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach"
You've kind of answered your own question here. You know her better than anybod us ever can, just talk to her, don't make it all about you or all about s X, he sure she knows that you love her whatever her answer is, listen to what she says and answer any questions she has openly and honestly. One thing people (not just women) value in a relationship is emotional intimacy, once that's established it's possible to talk about about anything without fear of frightening anyone |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says "
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you? |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
You've kind of answered your own question here. You know her better than anybod us ever can, just talk to her, don't make it all about you or all about s X, he sure she knows that you love her whatever her answer is, listen to what she says and answer any questions she has openly and honestly. One thing people (not just women) value in a relationship is emotional intimacy, once that's established it's possible to talk about about anything without fear of frightening anyone "
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?"
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Speak to her first op before taking her to a sex club/show
Have a proper honest conversation & see what she's open to & what's a no go.
If you just poll up to a sex club/show she may feel rail roaded by you. |
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"Speak to her first op before taking her to a sex club/show
Have a proper honest conversation & see what she's open to & what's a no go.
If you just poll up to a sex club/show she may feel rail roaded by you."
Yes and I have said I want to see her and not the other way round she would never agree to that and I’m fine with it I just want to see her with a bigger cock than mine and watch her enjoy having sex with another person |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game "
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here? |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here?"
Thanks for not judging, no she doesn’t the profile is not to cheat I have no veris from meets it is more to learn and understand the Hot wife or cuckold scene first and to get advice |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Speak to her first op before taking her to a sex club/show
Have a proper honest conversation & see what she's open to & what's a no go.
If you just poll up to a sex club/show she may feel rail roaded by you.
Yes and I have said I want to see her and not the other way round she would never agree to that and I’m fine with it I just want to see her with a bigger cock than mine and watch her enjoy having sex with another person "
Yes I get you want to see her etc ,but check what she wants first is all we're saying op.Have that chat with her . |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here?
Thanks for not judging, no she doesn’t the profile is not to cheat I have no veris from meets it is more to learn and understand the Hot wife or cuckold scene first and to get advice"
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here?
Thanks for not judging, no she doesn’t the profile is not to cheat I have no veris from meets it is more to learn and understand the Hot wife or cuckold scene first and to get advice"
Err you have a green tick? |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here?
Thanks for not judging, no she doesn’t the profile is not to cheat I have no veris from meets it is more to learn and understand the Hot wife or cuckold scene first and to get advice
Err you have a green tick? "
It could be a social |
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Jusr be honest man , start straight talking to her it will get easier and she will respect you more.
in my experience most partners will be up for at least taking a look if they love, trust and respect you . Don’t try and trick her into it like so many men here , it’s the lowest of low |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here?
Thanks for not judging, no she doesn’t the profile is not to cheat I have no veris from meets it is more to learn and understand the Hot wife or cuckold scene first and to get advice
Err you have a green tick? "
Hi that is correct I was given some advice from a couple and they verified, I have zero reason to lie on here whatsoever |
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"Speak to her first op before taking her to a sex club/show
Have a proper honest conversation & see what she's open to & what's a no go.
If you just poll up to a sex club/show she may feel rail roaded by you.
Yes and I have said I want to see her and not the other way round she would never agree to that and I’m fine with it I just want to see her with a bigger cock than mine and watch her enjoy having sex with another person
Yes I get you want to see her etc ,but check what she wants first is all we're saying op.Have that chat with her ."
Thank you |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here?
Thanks for not judging, no she doesn’t the profile is not to cheat I have no veris from meets it is more to learn and understand the Hot wife or cuckold scene first and to get advice
I see. How's that working out?"
It’s helped me learn what I want it’s just if my wife agrees |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here?
Thanks for not judging, no she doesn’t the profile is not to cheat I have no veris from meets it is more to learn and understand the Hot wife or cuckold scene first and to get advice
Err you have a green tick?
It could be a social"
Was a couple who give advice , thank you much appreciated |
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"Jusr be honest man , start straight talking to her it will get easier and she will respect you more.
in my experience most partners will be up for at least taking a look if they love, trust and respect you . Don’t try and trick her into it like so many men here , it’s the lowest of low "
Defo understand that thanks mate |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here?
Thanks for not judging, no she doesn’t the profile is not to cheat I have no veris from meets it is more to learn and understand the Hot wife or cuckold scene first and to get advice
I see. How's that working out?
It’s helped me learn what I want it’s just if my wife agrees "
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"op only you know your wife ? you must know if she is sexually adventurous or not .. i dont get people that are married that dont talk ? its as if people marry strangers ? ...but wish you luck op
#justmyopinion"
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"Speak to her first op before taking her to a sex club/show
Have a proper honest conversation & see what she's open to & what's a no go.
If you just poll up to a sex club/show she may feel rail roaded by you."
Totally |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here?
Thanks for not judging, no she doesn’t the profile is not to cheat I have no veris from meets it is more to learn and understand the Hot wife or cuckold scene first and to get advice
I see. How's that working out?
It’s helped me learn what I want it’s just if my wife agrees
Don't start alone something you want to do together. "
Ye I get that totally just needed the advice to see what my chances are and how to approach |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here?
Thanks for not judging, no she doesn’t the profile is not to cheat I have no veris from meets it is more to learn and understand the Hot wife or cuckold scene first and to get advice
I see. How's that working out?
It’s helped me learn what I want it’s just if my wife agrees
Don't start alone something you want to do together.
Ye I get that totally just needed the advice to see what my chances are and how to approach "
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Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us."
you could suggest seeing a sexual therapist together to find alignment and happier marriage. I recall one session where our homework each was to divide a sheet of paper into 4 and list out what enjoy doing most together, what you'd like to do, what you're uncertain of and what definitely don't want to do. Discussing it with the therapist helped identify ways to broach common desires and kinky ones. |
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"I am wanting to bring up the topic of wife sharing as I’d love to see it but how do I go about it, I was going to book a sex show in Amsterdam or maybe say a sex club, what are your thoughts please
Thanks in advance "
slow things down. you're excited about possibilities, she'll probably need more time and not feel pressured. |
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"I am wanting to bring up the topic of wife sharing as I’d love to see it but how do I go about it, I was going to book a sex show in Amsterdam or maybe say a sex club, what are your thoughts please
Thanks in advance
slow things down. you're excited about possibilities, she'll probably need more time and not feel pressured. "
She might not want to do it at all. |
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"I am wanting to bring up the topic of wife sharing as I’d love to see it but how do I go about it, I was going to book a sex show in Amsterdam or maybe say a sex club, what are your thoughts please
Thanks in advance
slow things down. you're excited about possibilities, she'll probably need more time and not feel pressured.
She might not want to do it at all. "
indeed. hence being kind and removing pressure |
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"I have not sat her down to speak to her about it iv brought it up more in passing, we discussed going to Amsterdam a few years ago and going to sex shows etc, although quite body conscious she is open minded and let’s me take pics and vids, I meant scare her off by going in 2 footed and not a gentle approach
Best thing you can do is sit her down and try and discuss things properly with her, you could always ask her about her fantasies too that’s what we did and it worked pretty well for us.
Thanks for the advice, did your fella bring it up to you
I brought the subject up with the mrs and she was honest with me that at the time she didn’t feel comfortable trying out my fantasies but told me hers and we ended up inviting another guy round for a threesome.
That sounds perfect we both like a massage so I was even considering an erotic one so her arse and boobs say got massaged to start as soft play to see what she says
You'd tell her before though wouldn't you?
Yes absolutely I’d ask her can I book it I would never presume, she adores her arse being massaged and also between her legs but another person doing it is a whole new ball game
So without any judgement from me whatever your answer, does she know about your profile on here?
Thanks for not judging, no she doesn’t the profile is not to cheat I have no veris from meets it is more to learn and understand the Hot wife or cuckold scene first and to get advice
I see. How's that working out?
It’s helped me learn what I want it’s just if my wife agrees
Don't start alone something you want to do together.
Ye I get that totally just needed the advice to see what my chances are and how to approach
Nobody here can tell you what your chances are. "
Fingers crossed it’s every chance, she used to say sex is meaningful etc and you have to be in love etc but I think she’s changed on that front or I need it to to be in with a chance |
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"I am wanting to bring up the topic of wife sharing as I’d love to see it but how do I go about it, I was going to book a sex show in Amsterdam or maybe say a sex club, what are your thoughts please
Thanks in advance
slow things down. you're excited about possibilities, she'll probably need more time and not feel pressured. "
Thanks for the advice I’m going to go slow it’s just verbal only at the minute |
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"Are you recently married OP?"
Hi there no long time together and Married, open minded but kids get in way, recently started watching porn again, dresses up, toy fun including big dildos, tell her I want to see a big dick in her |
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