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Darkroom Rules/Ettiquette

By *oulkiss OP Man over a year ago

Croydon

So off the back of another thread.

What are the understood rules of being in a darkroom at a club.

My assumption is that by entering you are consenting to being touched, but still have the right to say to someone who does touch you to stop.

Is this in line with others understanding?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I’ve been in dark rooms the etiquette has always been you’re expecting to get touched or groped but politely/firmly remove hands you don’t consent to. Have to be realistic that others can’t see clearly what they are touching.

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By *andaloriansCouple over a year ago

Malvern

They sound so hot to experience! Yes deffo the consent has to be by entering as long as said people stop if asked. Deffinately something to be tried!

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By *each needs some creamWoman 8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I would say that if you are going into a darkroom you should expect there to be some touching be that accidental or on purpose but still have the the right to say No.

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By *uffsandkinkCouple 8 weeks ago

leeds

Yeah being in a dark room doesn't remove your right to say no but I think touching depends on the situation at the time if a couple are on their own a polite can I join in wouldn't hurt at all a busy Saturday night I doubt people would expect you to ask

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By *lowupdollTV/TS 8 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

In my experience darkroom etiquette is just move or remove their hand politely if you don’t want them touching you.

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By *oknickers coupleCouple 8 weeks ago

A Town called Malice

I have to agree with some points & disagree with others, in our experiences with dark rooms, just by entering does not mean you are game for anythin, it might be your 1st venture into one, imagine 3 horny blokes suddenly surrounding a female or couple ? It’d more than likely put them off for a while, also you may just want to play voyeur & just take in all the action. If you indulge in the bed or whatever is in the room, then yes, you should realise that someone is going to touch you with or without consent, but that’s what dark rooms are there for BUT, you always have the right to say no, again in our experience, we don’t think we’ve ever heard anyone say no

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By *tlanshiaWoman 8 weeks ago

Chatham

I've been in one but more for a general tour of the club.

I think I wouldn't go up to someone and start touching them, I'd always ask first, the lighting shouldn't change that

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By *cLovin2Man 8 weeks ago

London

How do you know if you are being wanked off by a guy or girl in there. That's the fear that has kept me out of them as a straight guy.

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