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confusion about swinging from some men
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By *oxy j OP Woman 27 weeks ago
somerset |
so this last couple weeks i have had more than normal messages from men who are travelling with work staying in hotels sending messages that simply say '' are you available tonight'' ??? no hi im such n such no attempt to chat just are you available ..
so am i a working girl or a swinger because alot of these guys clearly think im the working girl or thats their way of thinking thats what swinging is ... more and more of these messages of late im in you area tonight are you available i sit here thinking that guys thinking to what swinging is is actually getting worse not better ... sw ingers are not women who open there legs to anyone just because they have a cock .. money will not temp us swinging is about sexual attraction and fun not satisfying cause your away from home and you want to empty your balls ... its getting worse ... any othersw get thiese types of message from men who seem to have no clue as to what swinging really is not even the bare basics ???? |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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We get this a lot to tbh , we just block and move on |
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Last week I got loads of in in your area this eve/later type messages immediate delete from me.
I need a connection & they never send me face pics, to gauge it I find them attractive or not.
The ones who send these messages that are 30+ miles away make me laugh, that's not v local to me and I'm hardly likely to schlepp miles for a man I've never spoke to before.
I wonder what percentage the success rate is with these sort of messages. |
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Can probably blame all TV programmes about swinging  I've said in previous forum post that swinging etiquette has gone out of the window together with the respect that should go with it. Not in all cases but it does seem to be more common place now |
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There are many on here who haven't a clue as they see swinging as a way to get free sex until they find a girlfriend and then they would have no intention of swinging as a couple. |
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I often get messages regarding instant hook ups. That's not what everybody is looking for. I prefer to get to know somebody first. I'm a single lady and sometimes people presume you are desperate. |
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Why on earth are they offering money??!!
Bloody dipsticks, if you're going to pay, just find a bloody pro. |
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Firstly if anyone offers money please report them, It's against site rules.
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We occasionally get messages to meet from people staying in hotels or at nearby holiday parks. The thing is some people do arrange spontaneous meets like that and enjoy them. Swinging has a really broad range of definitions now but exchange of money isn't one of them. |
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Always loads of those messages, and being told when replying with no thank you 'It's a sex site' or 'It's a fuck site'
Jog on, dickhead  |
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I turned my location off a few years ago because I used to get messages from couples exactly like this. They were in an hotel or planning on passing through and even though we had never spoken before they would ask to meet and quite a few got nasty when I said no.
As said above people use this site in many different ways and use different criteria for meeting so it's not just men who use this tactic |
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By *CExeCouple 27 weeks ago
Lincoln/Exeter |
We had 3 of these last week, despite the first line of our profile stating that Chelsea is overseas. One had the cheek to message back and say how annoying that was as he really fancied fucking her. I can't imagine these losers have a very high success rate. |
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i had a guy today who was nearby.he said he could 'pick me up'we hadnt even chatted. He just persumed i would drop what i was doing and meet him.i did not. I gets lots asking if am free as they are close. |
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By *nj6969Couple 27 weeks ago
Grimsby |
"so this last couple weeks i have had more than normal messages from men who are travelling with work staying in hotels sending messages that simply say '' are you available tonight'' ??? no hi im such n such no attempt to chat just are you available ..
so am i a working girl or a swinger because alot of these guys clearly think im the working girl or thats their way of thinking thats what swinging is ... more and more of these messages of late im in you area tonight are you available i sit here thinking that guys thinking to what swinging is is actually getting worse not better ... sw ingers are not women who open there legs to anyone just because they have a cock .. money will not temp us swinging is about sexual attraction and fun not satisfying cause your away from home and you want to empty your balls ... its getting worse ... any othersw get thiese types of message from men who seem to have no clue as to what swinging really is not even the bare basics ????"
Funny you say that we have had loads of oneline fancy this or do you want to?
Like you say most at hotels etc and no pics just seem to think we are sat playing with ourselves waiting for these chancers.
Sadly why we often turn filters on but it's a shame for the real respectful guys.
Pretty obvious they never read your profiles so frustrating isn't it MnJ x
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"so this last couple weeks i have had more than normal messages from men who are travelling with work staying in hotels sending messages that simply say '' are you available tonight'' ??? no hi im such n such no attempt to chat just are you available ..
so am i a working girl or a swinger because alot of these guys clearly think im the working girl or thats their way of thinking thats what swinging is ... more and more of these messages of late im in you area tonight are you available i sit here thinking that guys thinking to what swinging is is actually getting worse not better ... sw ingers are not women who open there legs to anyone just because they have a cock .. money will not temp us swinging is about sexual attraction and fun not satisfying cause your away from home and you want to empty your balls ... its getting worse ... any othersw get thiese types of message from men who seem to have no clue as to what swinging really is not even the bare basics ????"
We have had quite a few recently and all asking to go to their hotel room. Two even offered to pay. Amazes me how little these men think of women. We are just a set of walking holes for their use. So little respect also.
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By *otgirl32Woman 27 weeks ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
"Firstly if anyone offers money please report them, It's against site rules.
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We occasionally get messages to meet from people staying in hotels or at nearby holiday parks. The thing is some people do arrange spontaneous meets like that and enjoy them. Swinging has a really broad range of definitions now but exchange of money isn't one of them. "
You'll be getting a barrage of messages if I report all of them. It's literally about a dozen messages a week |
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By *nj6969Couple 27 weeks ago
Grimsby |
Been offered money a few times have to say pretty shocking for sure.
Usually not proper members just free accounts.
I really wish fab would stop giving free accounts it's a fiver, it would stop the loosers and chancers a lot we think xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 27 weeks ago
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Alllllll the time - awful! Dunno what response they expect , if any |
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"There are many on here who haven't a clue as they see swinging as a way to get free sex until they find a girlfriend and then they would have no intention of swinging as a couple."
Agreed.
We have our filters on, but when off we've had offers of ££££. |
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"Firstly if anyone offers money please report them, It's against site rules.
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We occasionally get messages to meet from people staying in hotels or at nearby holiday parks. The thing is some people do arrange spontaneous meets like that and enjoy them. Swinging has a really broad range of definitions now but exchange of money isn't one of them.
You'll be getting a barrage of messages if I report all of them. It's literally about a dozen messages a week"
If you don't report they don't get stopped. Admin get hundreds of messages a day |
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I'll close this now as discussing payment isn't allowed on the forum.
Admin ask that we report people offering to pay. |
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