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By *r_reus OP Man
over a year ago
Coventry |
Something I've often wondered, why do women tend to be more vocal during sex than men?
Not suggesting that all are of course, but it often seems to be the case, is it a psychological thing, or is a vagina just more sexually sensitive, and the sensations it produces more physically intense than those of a penis? |
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Woman just tend towards being more vocal in bed.
The majority of men seem conditioned to think that anything less than stoic concentration is somehow less masculine.
I see it in dungeons too. Women are more likely to vocalise a sensation. Men tend to keep as absolutely silent as possible.
It's weird.
I like when people express what they're feeling  |
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By *r_reus OP Man
over a year ago
Coventry |
It's not stoicism for me, I tend not to be vocal even when I'm enjoying myself.
There have been occasions where I've been with a woman who's *particularly* excited me and I've let out a few oohs and ahs, but that's very rare.
I sincerely hope women aren't acting... |
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"It's not stoicism for me, I tend not to be vocal even when I'm enjoying myself.
There have been occasions where I've been with a woman who's *particularly* excited me and I've let out a few oohs and ahs, but that's very rare.
I sincerely hope women aren't acting..."
That's why I say conditioned rather than actively choosing that path.
Some people act in the bedroom. Some don't. |
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"It's not stoicism for me, I tend not to be vocal even when I'm enjoying myself.
There have been occasions where I've been with a woman who's *particularly* excited me and I've let out a few oohs and ahs, but that's very rare.
I sincerely hope women aren't acting...
That's why I say conditioned rather than actively choosing that path.
Some people act in the bedroom. Some don't."
I'm opening up much more now as I've had more sex. I used to be quiet but now I'm embracing the vocalising. It feels good too. |
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I (Mart) get sexual Tourettes, I lose the filter that stops me from uttering swear words and phrases. Jayne is very vocal when we swing, probably because at home she has to hold it in due to our daughter complaining if we make noise in bed lol.  |
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"Something I've often wondered, why do women tend to be more vocal during sex than men?
Not suggesting that all are of course, but it often seems to be the case, is it a psychological thing, or is a vagina just more sexually sensitive, and the sensations it produces more physically intense than those of a penis?"
Some put the noises on unfortunately, thinking that's what the Man wants to hear. We've heard noises in clubs where we've had to walk away as we're about to burst out laughing! |
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Honestly? I usually cum silently alone, unless I've edged myself for a while for a big finish.
I make noise with a partner because I'm giving feedback, and praise, and showing appreciation for his efforts, and I'm hoping he's paying attention. If I'm not moaning, talking dirty, or telling him what to do, I'm probably bored, distracted and zoning out and he's going to need to do something interesting to get my head back in the bedroom.
I like my men vocal too. Praise me. Let me know how much you like what I'm doing to you, what you want next, how hot I am. I love all the dirty talk and delicious moans. I enjoy giving, so when they let me know how much they're enjoying me it makes me want them more. And it keeps my head in the room. On my partner. In the moment and in my body. That positive feedback loop activated with us both being vocal and getting off on the words and sounds is the hottest  |
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...swear a lot too 
