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Does this happen a lot? I'm not sure if I'm just being super skeptical and paranoid but there are a lot of couples profile that just scream out single male.
I've spoke about this amlot at meets and people say the same.
Is it a genuine thing or not? Is it right to be suspicious? |
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I think it's sensible to keep your wits about you. If something seems off it's because you're subconsciously picking up signs.
I don't think it's as rife as people make out but there are probably quite a few couples profiles where the man is far more invested than the woman. |
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When mine was a couples profile it was me that done all the comunication. My wife just looked and the profile, read the conversation and said "yeah sounds good to me"
Don't understand what someone would hope to gain from this? If you had a meet what do you say? Sorry the missus had to work late?
We were never interested in MMF anyway |
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By *ossannCouple 21 weeks ago
London |
What I think is that there are a good few guys posing as part of a couple, but there are also guys who pursue a couple despite their female partner expressing disinterest in them.
So for whatever reason, the woman says she's not into them and since they "only play together", he's supposed to pull out. But he doesn't. Instead, he swaps details with them and either suggests an MMF or tries to deceive the other couple for as long as he can. |
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By *essaMayWoman 21 weeks ago
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Appearing to be a couple often is a way guys feel they can improve their chances of starting a dialogue, as couples and single females are more likely to engage with them as a couple or just getting round filters.
Also another side is they were a couple, maybe as behest of the male I know I was once. either she separates or no longer wants to carry on but they (the male) carries on with the pretence.
As single female I often get guys of "couples" messaging me want to either meet alone or pictures.
They are easy to spot usually also if you ask to ask to speak to the female and they either are not available or they block you.
Unfortunately it is endemic within all these sites, just have to do your due diligence. |
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"What I think is that there are a good few guys posing as part of a couple, but there are also guys who pursue a couple despite their female partner expressing disinterest in them.
So for whatever reason, the woman says she's not into them and since they "only play together", he's supposed to pull out. But he doesn't. Instead, he swaps details with them and either suggests an MMF or tries to deceive the other couple for as long as he can. "
Yeah my wife was quite picky, the guy had to be in fairly good shape, no dad bods. But we only played together and going behind her back would be cheating! |
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By *ikilovesCCouple 21 weeks ago
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"Appearing to be a couple often is a way guys feel they can improve their chances of starting a dialogue, as couples and single females are more likely to engage with them as a couple or just getting round filters.
Also another side is they were a couple, maybe as behest of the male I know I was once. either she separates or no longer wants to carry on but they (the male) carries on with the pretence.
As single female I often get guys of "couples" messaging me want to either meet alone or pictures.
They are easy to spot usually also if you ask to ask to speak to the female and they either are not available or they block you.
Unfortunately it is endemic within all these sites, just have to do your due diligence."
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"Due Dilligence" Exactly that lol,
do your homework if you start talking about having a "meet" Op,
but you'll find you will soon get a feel for whether someone you are chatting to is genuine or not  |
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By *oxy jWoman 21 weeks ago
somerset |
there are alot more than people think not just guys setting them up to decieve but also failed fb/fwb accounts that the guy keeps going along with relationship breakdowns where the guy keeps and them accounts where the wife is no longer interested i would never be surprised if it was 30 to 40% of couples profiles ..
then add in the male led swingers profiles where the wife has little interest that leave very few couples that are real 50/50 |
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By *hloe_TTV/TS 21 weeks ago
Nottingham |
I always assume that im talking to the male half. Really hard to. Know if they're genuine or not x ask for a live pic before you meet. Couple voice messages stuff like that.
The annoying bit about catfish is it affects all your conversations, like i dont really talk dirty on here purely because i hate the idea of being catfished. |
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"Does this happen a lot? I'm not sure if I'm just being super skeptical and paranoid but there are a lot of couples profile that just scream out single male.
I've spoke about this amlot at meets and people say the same.
Is it a genuine thing or not? Is it right to be suspicious?"
yup |
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Yes you do get caught out, we did twice in the past couple of months but these people had no verifications and a couple of pictures. So if there are no credible verifications or pictures we avoid, shame really as there will be some genuine people without verifications who are starting out |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"there are alot more than people think not just guys setting them up to decieve but also failed fb/fwb accounts that the guy keeps going along with relationship breakdowns where the guy keeps and them accounts where the wife is no longer interested i would never be surprised if it was 30 to 40% of couples profiles ..
then add in the male led swingers profiles where the wife has little interest that leave very few couples that are real 50/50"
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"Does this happen a lot? I'm not sure if I'm just being super skeptical and paranoid but there are a lot of couples profile that just scream out single male.
I've spoke about this amlot at meets and people say the same.
Is it a genuine thing or not? Is it right to be suspicious?"
Trust your gut.
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"Does this happen a lot? I'm not sure if I'm just being super skeptical and paranoid but there are a lot of couples profile that just scream out single male.
I've spoke about this amlot at meets and people say the same.
Is it a genuine thing or not? Is it right to be suspicious?"
It’s not uncommon. If you have any doubt then ask them for a phone chat - they soon disappear. |
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By *archelCouple 21 weeks ago
A field somewhere |
Yep loads of them. We get them regular away. Can spot them a mile off. Had one yesterday, told him straight we knew he was a single guy. He blocked us immediately. I'm rude as fuck to them. Mr cringes with me lol
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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We are a married couple with verifications but it’s always me the husband who does the messaging , we get so many messages that prior to a meet I narrow it down to a manageable number and then let my wife decide who we are going to meet.
Seems to work for us. |
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By *impcuckMan 21 weeks ago
edge of taunton |
it got to be in the high 60 to 70% of couples that are not couples and the sad thing is its men making more men fustrated with the % of men vrs couples/women this is why people say men out number women/couples 200 to one by the time you add in all the fake profiles,
the good thing is mrs is so good at sussing these guys out so they really dont bother us and now we just blocked all couples as that was the eassier choice we know so many from cklubs and private parties and years of swinging so if we wanted couples fun its easy to find.
we have always found that male led profiles and indeed male led couples anywhere very rarely float our boat as most are so onesided that it makes it all a bit uneasy most of swinger couples we know are very 50/50 you know they are a real couple that way as in both want |
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See, I wonder if people think I am women posing as a couple as MrAbz never comes on the forums and 90% of messages are replied to from me (all chit chat ones from forun topics etc are 100% me). Mainly as I am chattery.
Or a man posing as a woman, posing as a couple.
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It happens.
Even to a single older guy like me!! I can understand some desperate guy trying to meet a woman or a couple -- but some deranged guys even get a weird pleasure out of trying to play another guy along!!
With experience you can quickly find them out |
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We had this in the chat rooms, he was typing away and every time the other half stopped behind him he shut the cam off. I've never seen the point, play a silly game and win a silly prize.
It's always been an issue on here but you do wise up to it and all the crap they talk |
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"Loads of it about. Ask to message or speak to Mrs asap - they all disappear "
Many years as a couple here as well as single and met a lot of couples. There are lots where the man does most if not all the Fabmin. Just because the lady doesn't message on Fab doesn't mean not real. After a while on here lots of the female half of couples get fed up with the all crap and leave most to the male half. Agreed good to be cautious but if a couple with recent veris then nothing to be worried about per se. If a new profile, or old profile with no veris for a long time and not Fab photo verified then different story of course. |
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"Thats why I block when a couple messages me when I know its a man behind the profile"
lol but you've said many times you've no interest in meeting couples regardless. Even if the female half messages you wouldn't want to meet. |
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"Does this happen a lot? I'm not sure if I'm just being super skeptical and paranoid but there are a lot of couples profile that just scream out single male.
I've spoke about this amlot at meets and people say the same.
Is it a genuine thing or not? Is it right to be suspicious?
It’s not uncommon. If you have any doubt then ask them for a phone chat - they soon disappear."
That might be because they don't want to give out number to some random stranger from Fab as phone number leads to WhatsApp which leads to Facebook and Instagram. So many stories out there of problems. Not a chance in hell we would give out number to somebody unless we've met or feel extremely comfortable after chatting a long time with somebody who is well-verified. |
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I have came across at least two profiles like that. It's usually profiles with verifications hidden because the verification just says they met the male but couldn't meet the female or just one or two verifications from many years back.
Always ask for a social first. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"See, I wonder if people think I am women posing as a couple as MrAbz never comes on the forums and 90% of messages are replied to from me (all chit chat ones from forun topics etc are 100% me). Mainly as I am chattery.
Or a man posing as a woman, posing as a couple.
MrsAbz "
Women can recognise a woman chatting. Men often can't.
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By *ossannCouple 20 weeks ago
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"Loads of it about. Ask to message or speak to Mrs asap - they all disappear
Many years as a couple here as well as single and met a lot of couples. There are lots where the man does most if not all the Fabmin. Just because the lady doesn't message on Fab doesn't mean not real. After a while on here lots of the female half of couples get fed up with the all crap and leave most to the male half. Agreed good to be cautious but if a couple with recent veris then nothing to be worried about per se. If a new profile, or old profile with no veris for a long time and not Fab photo verified then different story of course. "
I think its ridiculous for only one.half of the couple to talk. How are you meant to know that the other person is a good fit for what you want to do?
I really hate small talk and stuff but if you're looking for people to fuck online, you have to.
If the woman doesn't get involved in the conversation, I assume she is Fake, being forced to participate or just dense. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"What the fuck do you get out of this. "
Men give them wank chat. They chat about what they will do to the 'wife'. Both have a lovely wank and go to sleep happy. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"Loads of it about. Ask to message or speak to Mrs asap - they all disappear
Many years as a couple here as well as single and met a lot of couples. There are lots where the man does most if not all the Fabmin. Just because the lady doesn't message on Fab doesn't mean not real. After a while on here lots of the female half of couples get fed up with the all crap and leave most to the male half. Agreed good to be cautious but if a couple with recent veris then nothing to be worried about per se. If a new profile, or old profile with no veris for a long time and not Fab photo verified then different story of course.
I think its ridiculous for only one.half of the couple to talk. How are you meant to know that the other person is a good fit for what you want to do?
I really hate small talk and stuff but if you're looking for people to fuck online, you have to.
If the woman doesn't get involved in the conversation, I assume she is Fake, being forced to participate or just dense."
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By *ossannCouple 20 weeks ago
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"Does this happen a lot? I'm not sure if I'm just being super skeptical and paranoid but there are a lot of couples profile that just scream out single male.
I've spoke about this amlot at meets and people say the same.
Is it a genuine thing or not? Is it right to be suspicious?
It’s not uncommon. If you have any doubt then ask them for a phone chat - they soon disappear.
That might be because they don't want to give out number to some random stranger from Fab as phone number leads to WhatsApp which leads to Facebook and Instagram. So many stories out there of problems. Not a chance in hell we would give out number to somebody unless we've met or feel extremely comfortable after chatting a long time with somebody who is well-verified. "
I won't meet People who refuse to.give their number. For a woman, a phone number is a way of tracing the guy you just banged. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"Does this happen a lot? I'm not sure if I'm just being super skeptical and paranoid but there are a lot of couples profile that just scream out single male.
I've spoke about this amlot at meets and people say the same.
Is it a genuine thing or not? Is it right to be suspicious?"
It's a strategy some men use to actually get replies from messaging. Once some kind of conversation has developed and the woman likes the guy the truth becomes clear. The chances of that resulting in a meet are still better than if you are an honest single guy it would appear. There was thread about this last month I'm sure ... |
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I’m not sure how regular they are but if you are chatting to a couple then make sure it’s not just one person you are chatting with all the time.
I will more than likely open messages and filter the crap but we both chat to perspective play partners.
If I was a single person and just chatting to the guy all the time, I’d leave it.
Whilst people are busy in their lives, if you are meeting for sex then the connection has to be made.
This is why we chat away from here cos we can see how much interaction there is from both people if chatting to a couple and they can see how much both of us are involved and interested too.
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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Also gay guys use it to try get to meet men hoping you'll suddenly become gay for them when she doesn't turn up at the meet. Only stupid folk get that far without detecting bullshit though. |
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Can anyone explain all the "couples" profiles that only have details of the woman and every verification is as a single woman?
It states clearly that they are a MF couple but instead of having the age and height etc of the male half there is only a () symbol.
I've seen them numerous times and didn't care really until a few messaged me and in the last couple of weeks I have clicked on 2 or 3 forum posters I didn't recognise and their profiles are exactly like this.
These are all very well verified profiles, some of which have 40 or 50 verifications. |
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"Can anyone explain all the "couples" profiles that only have details of the woman and every verification is as a single woman?
It states clearly that they are a MF couple but instead of having the age and height etc of the male half there is only a () symbol.
I've seen them numerous times and didn't care really until a few messaged me and in the last couple of weeks I have clicked on 2 or 3 forum posters I didn't recognise and their profiles are exactly like this.
These are all very well verified profiles, some of which have 40 or 50 verifications. "
Just to add to this, the women on the profiles that messaged me were well below my lower age filter so I assumed they were using a fake couples profile to get around filters. |
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By *ossannCouple 20 weeks ago
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"Can anyone explain all the "couples" profiles that only have details of the woman and every verification is as a single woman?
It states clearly that they are a MF couple but instead of having the age and height etc of the male half there is only a () symbol.
I've seen them numerous times and didn't care really until a few messaged me and in the last couple of weeks I have clicked on 2 or 3 forum posters I didn't recognise and their profiles are exactly like this.
These are all very well verified profiles, some of which have 40 or 50 verifications. "
What that tells you is that the guy is useless in bed and they usually connect with couples who don't value sexual skill.
I always read the verifications and they are usually saying the woman has nice tits and looks good and very little about the man. But that's what most people seek with sex: someone who simply shows up. That's good enough for them. I don't want to know that she will squirt if I know how to make her. I want to know that the people can give good head, aren't prudish, have good hygiene, are up for casual sex rather than seeking emotional intimacy. That kind of thing.
Just turning up with your genitals isn't enough for me
Nor is lingerie or a suit or whatever. |
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"Can anyone explain all the "couples" profiles that only have details of the woman and every verification is as a single woman?
It states clearly that they are a MF couple but instead of having the age and height etc of the male half there is only a () symbol.
I've seen them numerous times and didn't care really until a few messaged me and in the last couple of weeks I have clicked on 2 or 3 forum posters I didn't recognise and their profiles are exactly like this.
These are all very well verified profiles, some of which have 40 or 50 verifications.
What that tells you is that the guy is useless in bed and they usually connect with couples who don't value sexual skill.
I always read the verifications and they are usually saying the woman has nice tits and looks good and very little about the man. But that's what most people seek with sex: someone who simply shows up. That's good enough for them. I don't want to know that she will squirt if I know how to make her. I want to know that the people can give good head, aren't prudish, have good hygiene, are up for casual sex rather than seeking emotional intimacy. That kind of thing.
Just turning up with your genitals isn't enough for me
Nor is lingerie or a suit or whatever."
My point is that there is no guy.
These are all clearly single women using a couples account to bypass filters. They aren't even pretending that there is a male half.
There are no male details, no pics and no mention of him in the profiles which all clearly say "I" rather than "we" and every verification refers to them as a single woman.
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"We are a married couple with verifications but it’s always me the husband who does the messaging , we get so many messages that prior to a meet I narrow it down to a manageable number and then let my wife decide who we are going to meet.
Seems to work for us. "
This is exactly the same as Sarah and I. We are really enjoying our new found pleasure for meeting others, however Sarah has no interest on being on this site searching and messaging, she leaves this to me and totally trusts my judgement.
If single guys are uncomfortable with this then they can move on as will we.
I think there is too much emphasis on if things are not done a certain way it must be fake.
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By *ossannCouple 20 weeks ago
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"Can anyone explain all the "couples" profiles that only have details of the woman and every verification is as a single woman?
It states clearly that they are a MF couple but instead of having the age and height etc of the male half there is only a () symbol.
I've seen them numerous times and didn't care really until a few messaged me and in the last couple of weeks I have clicked on 2 or 3 forum posters I didn't recognise and their profiles are exactly like this.
These are all very well verified profiles, some of which have 40 or 50 verifications.
What that tells you is that the guy is useless in bed and they usually connect with couples who don't value sexual skill.
I always read the verifications and they are usually saying the woman has nice tits and looks good and very little about the man. But that's what most people seek with sex: someone who simply shows up. That's good enough for them. I don't want to know that she will squirt if I know how to make her. I want to know that the people can give good head, aren't prudish, have good hygiene, are up for casual sex rather than seeking emotional intimacy. That kind of thing.
Just turning up with your genitals isn't enough for me
Nor is lingerie or a suit or whatever.
My point is that there is no guy.
These are all clearly single women using a couples account to bypass filters. They aren't even pretending that there is a male half.
There are no male details, no pics and no mention of him in the profiles which all clearly say "I" rather than "we" and every verification refers to them as a single woman.
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No there is a guy. It's just that the only person who bothered reviewing anyone is the man from the other couple, and he talks about the woman.
So Pete and Sue meet Dave and Amy. Dave fucks Sue and leaves a review ("her holes were there, she has nice tits, I felt validated"). Pete leaves a similar review for Amy.
Neither Amy or Sue care enough about sex to review Pete or Dave. They probably didn't even want to do it. Or it's that they had an awful time so don't have anything pleasant to say.
The women exist. They just don't play any real part in this other than showing up to keep their man happy. |
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By *ossannCouple 20 weeks ago
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"We are a married couple with verifications but it’s always me the husband who does the messaging , we get so many messages that prior to a meet I narrow it down to a manageable number and then let my wife decide who we are going to meet.
Seems to work for us.
This is exactly the same as Sarah and I. We are really enjoying our new found pleasure for meeting others, however Sarah has no interest on being on this site searching and messaging, she leaves this to me and totally trusts my judgement.
If single guys are uncomfortable with this then they can move on as will we.
I think there is too much emphasis on if things are not done a certain way it must be fake.
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People who care and avoid jail or just guilt want yo know that Sarah is sane, enthusiastic and able to advocate for herself. It's a legal risk to have sex with someone who is unable to articulate their own consent and needs.
The men who agree to meet and fuck her under those conditions are stupid
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"Can anyone explain all the "couples" profiles that only have details of the woman and every verification is as a single woman?
It states clearly that they are a MF couple but instead of having the age and height etc of the male half there is only a () symbol.
I've seen them numerous times and didn't care really until a few messaged me and in the last couple of weeks I have clicked on 2 or 3 forum posters I didn't recognise and their profiles are exactly like this.
These are all very well verified profiles, some of which have 40 or 50 verifications.
What that tells you is that the guy is useless in bed and they usually connect with couples who don't value sexual skill.
I always read the verifications and they are usually saying the woman has nice tits and looks good and very little about the man. But that's what most people seek with sex: someone who simply shows up. That's good enough for them. I don't want to know that she will squirt if I know how to make her. I want to know that the people can give good head, aren't prudish, have good hygiene, are up for casual sex rather than seeking emotional intimacy. That kind of thing.
Just turning up with your genitals isn't enough for me
Nor is lingerie or a suit or whatever.
My point is that there is no guy.
These are all clearly single women using a couples account to bypass filters. They aren't even pretending that there is a male half.
There are no male details, no pics and no mention of him in the profiles which all clearly say "I" rather than "we" and every verification refers to them as a single woman.
No there is a guy. It's just that the only person who bothered reviewing anyone is the man from the other couple, and he talks about the woman.
So Pete and Sue meet Dave and Amy. Dave fucks Sue and leaves a review ("her holes were there, she has nice tits, I felt validated"). Pete leaves a similar review for Amy.
Neither Amy or Sue care enough about sex to review Pete or Dave. They probably didn't even want to do it. Or it's that they had an awful time so don't have anything pleasant to say.
The women exist. They just don't play any real part in this other than showing up to keep their man happy. "
You are clearly on a different wavelength.
You are telling me that 50 people met a "couple" at various gatherings, one on one socials or had sex with them and then every last one of them verified this "couple" as a single woman because the male was so insignificant or useless or the women didn't want to be there in the first place?
The profiles I am talking about have been verified many times by other single women.
Even if what you say is a possibility why and how are they allowed to advertise themselves on fab as a couple but have removed all details of the male?
This thread is about men posing as couples and the consensus is that they are all arseholes using it as a ploy to trick others.
My question is why aren't people asking about the women posing as couples or is that more acceptable? |
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"We are a married couple with verifications but it’s always me the husband who does the messaging , we get so many messages that prior to a meet I narrow it down to a manageable number and then let my wife decide who we are going to meet.
Seems to work for us.
This is exactly the same as Sarah and I. We are really enjoying our new found pleasure for meeting others, however Sarah has no interest on being on this site searching and messaging, she leaves this to me and totally trusts my judgement.
If single guys are uncomfortable with this then they can move on as will we.
I think there is too much emphasis on if things are not done a certain way it must be fake.
People who care and avoid jail or just guilt want yo know that Sarah is sane, enthusiastic and able to advocate for herself. It's a legal risk to have sex with someone who is unable to articulate their own consent and needs.
The men who agree to meet and fuck her under those conditions are stupid
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So you are saying your way is the only right way?
Sarah is not blindfolded or tied to the bed. We meet with the the full understanding that if anyone is not happy at any point it stops.
My point is everyone's way of using this site is different. |
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By *ossannCouple 20 weeks ago
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"Can anyone explain all the "couples" profiles that only have details of the woman and every verification is as a single woman?
It states clearly that they are a MF couple but instead of having the age and height etc of the male half there is only a () symbol.
I've seen them numerous times and didn't care really until a few messaged me and in the last couple of weeks I have clicked on 2 or 3 forum posters I didn't recognise and their profiles are exactly like this.
These are all very well verified profiles, some of which have 40 or 50 verifications.
What that tells you is that the guy is useless in bed and they usually connect with couples who don't value sexual skill.
I always read the verifications and they are usually saying the woman has nice tits and looks good and very little about the man. But that's what most people seek with sex: someone who simply shows up. That's good enough for them. I don't want to know that she will squirt if I know how to make her. I want to know that the people can give good head, aren't prudish, have good hygiene, are up for casual sex rather than seeking emotional intimacy. That kind of thing.
Just turning up with your genitals isn't enough for me
Nor is lingerie or a suit or whatever.
My point is that there is no guy.
These are all clearly single women using a couples account to bypass filters. They aren't even pretending that there is a male half.
There are no male details, no pics and no mention of him in the profiles which all clearly say "I" rather than "we" and every verification refers to them as a single woman.
No there is a guy. It's just that the only person who bothered reviewing anyone is the man from the other couple, and he talks about the woman.
So Pete and Sue meet Dave and Amy. Dave fucks Sue and leaves a review ("her holes were there, she has nice tits, I felt validated"). Pete leaves a similar review for Amy.
Neither Amy or Sue care enough about sex to review Pete or Dave. They probably didn't even want to do it. Or it's that they had an awful time so don't have anything pleasant to say.
The women exist. They just don't play any real part in this other than showing up to keep their man happy.
You are clearly on a different wavelength.
You are telling me that 50 people met a "couple" at various gatherings, one on one socials or had sex with them and then every last one of them verified this "couple" as a single woman because the male was so insignificant or useless or the women didn't want to be there in the first place?
The profiles I am talking about have been verified many times by other single women.
Even if what you say is a possibility why and how are they allowed to advertise themselves on fab as a couple but have removed all details of the male?
This thread is about men posing as couples and the consensus is that they are all arseholes using it as a ploy to trick others.
My question is why aren't people asking about the women posing as couples or is that more acceptable? "
It makes no sense for a single woman to pose as a partnered woman because everyone finds single women more attractive and approachable than partnered women.
You'll get less attention as a partnered woman, less opportunity, than you would if you come paired with a male partner.
So what would be the point of a woman posing as a couple when fewer couples, men and women will contact/reply to her? |
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"Does this happen a lot? I'm not sure if I'm just being super skeptical and paranoid but there are a lot of couples profile that just scream out single male.
I've spoke about this amlot at meets and people say the same.
Is it a genuine thing or not? Is it right to be suspicious?"
Too often! |
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By *ossannCouple 20 weeks ago
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"We are a married couple with verifications but it’s always me the husband who does the messaging , we get so many messages that prior to a meet I narrow it down to a manageable number and then let my wife decide who we are going to meet.
Seems to work for us.
This is exactly the same as Sarah and I. We are really enjoying our new found pleasure for meeting others, however Sarah has no interest on being on this site searching and messaging, she leaves this to me and totally trusts my judgement.
If single guys are uncomfortable with this then they can move on as will we.
I think there is too much emphasis on if things are not done a certain way it must be fake.
People who care and avoid jail or just guilt want yo know that Sarah is sane, enthusiastic and able to advocate for herself. It's a legal risk to have sex with someone who is unable to articulate their own consent and needs.
The men who agree to meet and fuck her under those conditions are stupid
So you are saying your way is the only right way?
Sarah is not blindfolded or tied to the bed. We meet with the the full understanding that if anyone is not happy at any point it stops.
My point is everyone's way of using this site is different."
No I'm saying your way is very risky and many of us who are more conscientious and happy with our current liberty would want Sarah to speak for herself before we get anywhere near meeting her.
A lot of guys don't care about that or don't realise it to be a potential legal issue. I'm not g9ing to jail for assaulting someone's wife. |
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"Can anyone explain all the "couples" profiles that only have details of the woman and every verification is as a single woman?
It states clearly that they are a MF couple but instead of having the age and height etc of the male half there is only a () symbol.
I've seen them numerous times and didn't care really until a few messaged me and in the last couple of weeks I have clicked on 2 or 3 forum posters I didn't recognise and their profiles are exactly like this.
These are all very well verified profiles, some of which have 40 or 50 verifications.
What that tells you is that the guy is useless in bed and they usually connect with couples who don't value sexual skill.
I always read the verifications and they are usually saying the woman has nice tits and looks good and very little about the man. But that's what most people seek with sex: someone who simply shows up. That's good enough for them. I don't want to know that she will squirt if I know how to make her. I want to know that the people can give good head, aren't prudish, have good hygiene, are up for casual sex rather than seeking emotional intimacy. That kind of thing.
Just turning up with your genitals isn't enough for me
Nor is lingerie or a suit or whatever.
My point is that there is no guy.
These are all clearly single women using a couples account to bypass filters. They aren't even pretending that there is a male half.
There are no male details, no pics and no mention of him in the profiles which all clearly say "I" rather than "we" and every verification refers to them as a single woman.
No there is a guy. It's just that the only person who bothered reviewing anyone is the man from the other couple, and he talks about the woman.
So Pete and Sue meet Dave and Amy. Dave fucks Sue and leaves a review ("her holes were there, she has nice tits, I felt validated"). Pete leaves a similar review for Amy.
Neither Amy or Sue care enough about sex to review Pete or Dave. They probably didn't even want to do it. Or it's that they had an awful time so don't have anything pleasant to say.
The women exist. They just don't play any real part in this other than showing up to keep their man happy.
You are clearly on a different wavelength.
You are telling me that 50 people met a "couple" at various gatherings, one on one socials or had sex with them and then every last one of them verified this "couple" as a single woman because the male was so insignificant or useless or the women didn't want to be there in the first place?
The profiles I am talking about have been verified many times by other single women.
Even if what you say is a possibility why and how are they allowed to advertise themselves on fab as a couple but have removed all details of the male?
This thread is about men posing as couples and the consensus is that they are all arseholes using it as a ploy to trick others.
My question is why aren't people asking about the women posing as couples or is that more acceptable?
It makes no sense for a single woman to pose as a partnered woman because everyone finds single women more attractive and approachable than partnered women.
You'll get less attention as a partnered woman, less opportunity, than you would if you come paired with a male partner.
So what would be the point of a woman posing as a couple when fewer couples, men and women will contact/reply to her? "
How would I know? That's my point because that is exactly what they are doing.
They may well have single profiles but the ones I'm talking about are couples profiles.
They aren't pretending to be partnered because there is not even the slightest hint of a partner anywhere on the profile.
If they were originally partnered and split up but continued to use the same profile that could be one reason but in doing so they are able to get around filters.
A single male doing this is treated with suspicion and people refuse to engage with him so why wouldn't a woman be treated likewise? |
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By *ossannCouple 20 weeks ago
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"Can anyone explain all the "couples" profiles that only have details of the woman and every verification is as a single woman?
It states clearly that they are a MF couple but instead of having the age and height etc of the male half there is only a () symbol.
I've seen them numerous times and didn't care really until a few messaged me and in the last couple of weeks I have clicked on 2 or 3 forum posters I didn't recognise and their profiles are exactly like this.
These are all very well verified profiles, some of which have 40 or 50 verifications.
What that tells you is that the guy is useless in bed and they usually connect with couples who don't value sexual skill.
I always read the verifications and they are usually saying the woman has nice tits and looks good and very little about the man. But that's what most people seek with sex: someone who simply shows up. That's good enough for them. I don't want to know that she will squirt if I know how to make her. I want to know that the people can give good head, aren't prudish, have good hygiene, are up for casual sex rather than seeking emotional intimacy. That kind of thing.
Just turning up with your genitals isn't enough for me
Nor is lingerie or a suit or whatever.
My point is that there is no guy.
These are all clearly single women using a couples account to bypass filters. They aren't even pretending that there is a male half.
There are no male details, no pics and no mention of him in the profiles which all clearly say "I" rather than "we" and every verification refers to them as a single woman.
No there is a guy. It's just that the only person who bothered reviewing anyone is the man from the other couple, and he talks about the woman.
So Pete and Sue meet Dave and Amy. Dave fucks Sue and leaves a review ("her holes were there, she has nice tits, I felt validated"). Pete leaves a similar review for Amy.
Neither Amy or Sue care enough about sex to review Pete or Dave. They probably didn't even want to do it. Or it's that they had an awful time so don't have anything pleasant to say.
The women exist. They just don't play any real part in this other than showing up to keep their man happy.
You are clearly on a different wavelength.
You are telling me that 50 people met a "couple" at various gatherings, one on one socials or had sex with them and then every last one of them verified this "couple" as a single woman because the male was so insignificant or useless or the women didn't want to be there in the first place?
The profiles I am talking about have been verified many times by other single women.
Even if what you say is a possibility why and how are they allowed to advertise themselves on fab as a couple but have removed all details of the male?
This thread is about men posing as couples and the consensus is that they are all arseholes using it as a ploy to trick others.
My question is why aren't people asking about the women posing as couples or is that more acceptable?
It makes no sense for a single woman to pose as a partnered woman because everyone finds single women more attractive and approachable than partnered women.
You'll get less attention as a partnered woman, less opportunity, than you would if you come paired with a male partner.
So what would be the point of a woman posing as a couple when fewer couples, men and women will contact/reply to her?
How would I know? That's my point because that is exactly what they are doing.
They may well have single profiles but the ones I'm talking about are couples profiles.
They aren't pretending to be partnered because there is not even the slightest hint of a partner anywhere on the profile.
If they were originally partnered and split up but continued to use the same profile that could be one reason but in doing so they are able to get around filters.
A single male doing this is treated with suspicion and people refuse to engage with him so why wouldn't a woman be treated likewise?"
Maybe fab doesn't change their profile to a single one after they split.
But you know you can just decide yourself not to engage with those women, right? You're not forced to interact with them. There are many men/couples I decide not to engage with because they give off red flags of some sort. Nobody says I have to talk to them. |
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"Can anyone explain all the "couples" profiles that only have details of the woman and every verification is as a single woman?
It states clearly that they are a MF couple but instead of having the age and height etc of the male half there is only a () symbol.
I've seen them numerous times and didn't care really until a few messaged me and in the last couple of weeks I have clicked on 2 or 3 forum posters I didn't recognise and their profiles are exactly like this.
These are all very well verified profiles, some of which have 40 or 50 verifications. "
Often women meet with a man or are in a new Fab 'relationship' and only meet with the man. Someone reports their profile and Admin changed it to Couple- as they only meet as such.
Women won't willingly change to a couple profile as it will reduce the attention they get. |
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"Can anyone explain all the "couples" profiles that only have details of the woman and every verification is as a single woman?
It states clearly that they are a MF couple but instead of having the age and height etc of the male half there is only a () symbol.
I've seen them numerous times and didn't care really until a few messaged me and in the last couple of weeks I have clicked on 2 or 3 forum posters I didn't recognise and their profiles are exactly like this.
These are all very well verified profiles, some of which have 40 or 50 verifications.
What that tells you is that the guy is useless in bed and they usually connect with couples who don't value sexual skill.
I always read the verifications and they are usually saying the woman has nice tits and looks good and very little about the man. But that's what most people seek with sex: someone who simply shows up. That's good enough for them. I don't want to know that she will squirt if I know how to make her. I want to know that the people can give good head, aren't prudish, have good hygiene, are up for casual sex rather than seeking emotional intimacy. That kind of thing.
Just turning up with your genitals isn't enough for me
Nor is lingerie or a suit or whatever.
My point is that there is no guy.
These are all clearly single women using a couples account to bypass filters. They aren't even pretending that there is a male half.
There are no male details, no pics and no mention of him in the profiles which all clearly say "I" rather than "we" and every verification refers to them as a single woman.
No there is a guy. It's just that the only person who bothered reviewing anyone is the man from the other couple, and he talks about the woman.
So Pete and Sue meet Dave and Amy. Dave fucks Sue and leaves a review ("her holes were there, she has nice tits, I felt validated"). Pete leaves a similar review for Amy.
Neither Amy or Sue care enough about sex to review Pete or Dave. They probably didn't even want to do it. Or it's that they had an awful time so don't have anything pleasant to say.
The women exist. They just don't play any real part in this other than showing up to keep their man happy.
You are clearly on a different wavelength.
You are telling me that 50 people met a "couple" at various gatherings, one on one socials or had sex with them and then every last one of them verified this "couple" as a single woman because the male was so insignificant or useless or the women didn't want to be there in the first place?
The profiles I am talking about have been verified many times by other single women.
Even if what you say is a possibility why and how are they allowed to advertise themselves on fab as a couple but have removed all details of the male?
This thread is about men posing as couples and the consensus is that they are all arseholes using it as a ploy to trick others.
My question is why aren't people asking about the women posing as couples or is that more acceptable?
It makes no sense for a single woman to pose as a partnered woman because everyone finds single women more attractive and approachable than partnered women.
You'll get less attention as a partnered woman, less opportunity, than you would if you come paired with a male partner.
So what would be the point of a woman posing as a couple when fewer couples, men and women will contact/reply to her?
How would I know? That's my point because that is exactly what they are doing.
They may well have single profiles but the ones I'm talking about are couples profiles.
They aren't pretending to be partnered because there is not even the slightest hint of a partner anywhere on the profile.
If they were originally partnered and split up but continued to use the same profile that could be one reason but in doing so they are able to get around filters.
A single male doing this is treated with suspicion and people refuse to engage with him so why wouldn't a woman be treated likewise?
Maybe fab doesn't change their profile to a single one after they split.
But you know you can just decide yourself not to engage with those women, right? You're not forced to interact with them. There are many men/couples I decide not to engage with because they give off red flags of some sort. Nobody says I have to talk to them. "
I've never spoken to them. This isn't about my engagement with anyone on here.
I'm more curious as to why so many people were happy to meet a couple who weren't actually a couple simply because the profile was run by the woman but if it had been male led they would have reported it? |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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Lots of Cat Fish pose & portray different sexes....It's also quite common here for some women to pretend to be men to throw abuse at other women they feel jealous towards ....Yup apparently very true....  |
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"Thats why I block when a couple messages me when I know its a man behind the profile
lol but you've said many times you've no interest in meeting couples regardless. Even if the female half messages you wouldn't want to meet. "
If she's willing to play alone with her husband consent but not him present then it's kool but in most cases couples want a threesome which I don't want |
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"Lots of Cat Fish pose & portray different sexes....It's also quite common here for some women to pretend to be men to throw abuse at other women they feel jealous towards ....Yup apparently very true.... "
women really pretend to be men on here? That's even more crazy then if it was vice versa |
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