"Is us both being bi putting a lot of people off us, we love to share but struggle to find others who feel the same..  "
I’d be very surprised if it did put people off, if anything it’s the opposite from what I can tell. The only time I’ve seen being bi on here is as a single guy tbh so it more likely you’ve sadly just had a bit of bad look with finder others that feel the same. It’s no reflection on you both and there plenty that would love to know you both and do share the same interests and feel the same as you both x |
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"Is us both being bi putting a lot of people off us, we love to share but struggle to find others who feel the same.. "
Definitely not, I find it pretty difficult finding bi couples who are interested in bi curious guys tbh |
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I think it all comes down to finding chemistry and attractiveness between 4 people.
Just because a couple or a single is bi doesn't necessarily mean we're all going to click or find each other sexually attractive.
For us, the difficulty isn't being bi, it's finding a couple we match well with.
Saying that, it is also more difficult to meet straight couples as it does put some of them off us as J is bi - rightly or wrongly this is their preference and we respect that.
S xxx
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You shouldn’t worry about anything. You both have great sex appeal. We find that people close have a problem with play with others close by. Then they tend to be the one who moan the most when we try to make contact with them. Guys, we have no problem with, but saying that, we still have no shows. We’re friends with you and would play in a heartbeat if it could be arranged. X |
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"Is us both being bi putting a lot of people off us, we love to share but struggle to find others who feel the same.. "
If it's what you're looking for it shouldn't really matter if it puts people off...we see it as an extra filter that makes life a bit easier on here
If it puts people off that we're both bi, then they're probably not people we'd be looking to meet anyway... |
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"Is us both being bi putting a lot of people off us, we love to share but struggle to find others who feel the same.. "
I've often suspected that my bisexuality is a "hindrance" as being a bi male is still quite taboo even in this day and age, however it's who I am so if it turns people away then they clearly weren't the right people for us.
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"Is us both being bi putting a lot of people off us, we love to share but struggle to find others who feel the same.. "
I think its just about being lucky and in the right location I find your profile so hot |
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"Great post xxx can I expand to how bi couples feel about tvs? Are we regarded as bi guys in a dress or a bi girl with a cock? Not wanting to get into the trans debate here just sexual perception from a swinger point of view x    "
Hey Alice
I've never really thought about whether I regard TV's as bi guys in a dress or a bi girl with a cock, I more see you for the individual you are if that makes sense.
I adore bi men and I find them exceptionally masculine, having the confidence to be open about their sexuality is really attractive to me.
As with all preferences I have a 'type' of bi man I find attractive and so does J.
S xxx |
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"Great post xxx can I expand to how bi couples feel about tvs? Are we regarded as bi guys in a dress or a bi girl with a cock? Not wanting to get into the trans debate here just sexual perception from a swinger point of view x
Hey Alice
I've never really thought about whether I regard TV's as bi guys in a dress or a bi girl with a cock, I more see you for the individual you are if that makes sense.
I adore bi men and I find them exceptionally masculine, having the confidence to be open about their sexuality is really attractive to me.
As with all preferences I have a 'type' of bi man I find attractive and so does J.
S xxx"
Have to agree with this, we take people at face value and how they present themselves (including personality) we also have a "type" although I'm not convinced that mine an Luna's type always align  This makes meeting people we would like to play with very difficult.
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"Great post xxx can I expand to how bi couples feel about tvs? Are we regarded as bi guys in a dress or a bi girl with a cock? Not wanting to get into the trans debate here just sexual perception from a swinger point of view x
Hey Alice
I've never really thought about whether I regard TV's as bi guys in a dress or a bi girl with a cock, I more see you for the individual you are if that makes sense.
I adore bi men and I find them exceptionally masculine, having the confidence to be open about their sexuality is really attractive to me.
As with all preferences I have a 'type' of bi man I find attractive and so does J.
S xxx"
Thank you S
All makes sense and agree that the individual is the key. Glad you see tvs as not being passive and have their own strength in their own way xxx great pix and thank you for sharing - would have shared some pix with you but appreciate your preferences x
Hugs and stay deliciously deviant xx
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"Great post xxx can I expand to how bi couples feel about tvs? Are we regarded as bi guys in a dress or a bi girl with a cock? Not wanting to get into the trans debate here just sexual perception from a swinger point of view x
Hey Alice
I've never really thought about whether I regard TV's as bi guys in a dress or a bi girl with a cock, I more see you for the individual you are if that makes sense.
I adore bi men and I find them exceptionally masculine, having the confidence to be open about their sexuality is really attractive to me.
As with all preferences I have a 'type' of bi man I find attractive and so does J.
S xxx
Have to agree with this, we take people at face value and how they present themselves (including personality) we also have a "type" although I'm not convinced that mine an Luna's type always align This makes meeting people we would like to play with very difficult.
Mr H "
Thank you for your thoughts xxx agree with the personality point. I do hope you find your elusive ‘compatible with both’ t girl playmate
Hugs
Alice xxxxx  |
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By *m3232Man 9 weeks ago
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It will definitely be harder to find a match as all 4 have to find each other attractive to want to meet.
Where the likes of a mfm we only have to be attracted to the lady.
For myself I have to like the look of the guy to enjoy a Bi mmf and likewise back.
If the guy is big and hairy that’s definitely not for me. I would only find a slim smooth guy attractive to enjoy myself.
Fully bi will definitely limit the chances of meeting. |
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By *luefire2Couple 9 weeks ago
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Both being bi will only be a put off to those that are not bi I guess.
We are both bi but we make it clear that we also respect couples that only want straight play.
Bi play is our preference and love exploring that side of our sexuality.
This site isn't the best place to meet authentic people anyway so don't get disheartened. We have lots of meets that are arranged away from FAB. Bi couples are out there!
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We are both bi so it wouldn't put us off.
Bi best in our view everyone gets to sample everything.
We haven't found that us both being bi has put anyone off meeting us at all.
Hope that makes sense x |
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