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over a year ago
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"What are people's experiences of 'single men' actually being married still?
They're the ones who usually cancel at the last minute."
Wow generalising there aren't we? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it when one said to us..."I think honesty an trust is essential in swinging"
Two day later we find out he's married...hmm honesty and trust you say?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people's experiences of 'single men' actually being married still?
They're the ones who usually cancel at the last minute."
Really? And does any single lady who cancels at the last minute married?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people's experiences of 'single men' actually being married still?
They're the ones who usually cancel at the last minute.
Really? And does any single lady who cancels at the last minute married? "
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"Maybe fab could have an option to select 'married but playing alone' option in profile set up. Although not sure how honest people would be lol."
there are lots of profiles that state that already and I guess the ones who conceal it still would but its a good idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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who's to say a couple is a real couple..just being realistic..how much would u want me to invade ur life (to the general readers)?
but if we are talking generally in the 'swing' world where ppl can meet openly in public etc, thats normally my guess they are single..unless they appear all figity and paranoid
but ppl just after the wambam n cheerio, tend not to care so much about whether someones married or not
and if someone does lie about being married..delete block move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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depends how you define single
To me a single guy on here is just a guy that meets alone, what else is he supposed to be? if he had a couples profile and his Mrs didn't meet then people would moan about that, so all he can do is open a single account, its like fuck buddies that have couples profiles, if your meeting as a couple your a couple, if your meeting alone your single, definitions in the swinging world and the real world arnt really the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"depends how you define single
To me a single guy on here is just a guy that meets alone, what else is he supposed to be? if he had a couples profile and his Mrs didn't meet then people would moan about that, so all he can do is open a single account, its like fuck buddies that have couples profiles, if your meeting as a couple your a couple, if your meeting alone your single, definitions in the swinging world and the real world arnt really the same "
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"I went running tonight and overdid it I think. Not the naughty kind of hardly walking...sigh! There is always tomorrow for that tho  "
Let that be a lesson to you, all this exercise is just not good for a person 
Hope you can walk tomorrow |
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You can usually tell pretty quickly as they tend to go quiet in the evenings and not be around at the weekends. This also applies to the not married but have a significant other which is really the same thing. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"What are people's experiences of 'single men' actually being married still?
They're the ones who usually cancel at the last minute.
Wow generalising there aren't we? "
Yes, I am. Because, in general, in my experience, that is what happens. Time and again. Sorry you didn't like that response - but there it is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont really understand the question.? But as a single guy on here i find most women ive spoken to either assume im married or that i must be lying.?! "
Sorry, to clarify - men saying they are single but in fact married and playing without their wife's consent. In fact she is probably oblivious to the whole thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people's experiences of 'single men' actually being married still?
They're the ones who usually cancel at the last minute.
Wow generalising there aren't we?
Yes, I am. Because, in general, in my experience, that is what happens. Time and again. Sorry you didn't like that response - but there it is."
maybe your selection process needs work |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What are people's experiences of 'single men' actually being married still?
They're the ones who usually cancel at the last minute.
Wow generalising there aren't we?
Yes, I am. Because, in general, in my experience, that is what happens. Time and again. Sorry you didn't like that response - but there it is.
maybe your selection process needs work "
Go on - suggestions welcome! |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"What are people's experiences of 'single men' actually being married still?
They're the ones who usually cancel at the last minute.
Wow generalising there aren't we?
Yes, I am. Because, in general, in my experience, that is what happens. Time and again. Sorry you didn't like that response - but there it is.
maybe your selection process needs work "
I no longer have that problem - but thanks for the advice. My selection problem is not an issue. Often I have a 'lying his ass off' problem like many women on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont really understand the question.? But as a single guy on here i find most women ive spoken to either assume im married or that i must be lying.?!
Sorry, to clarify - men saying they are single but in fact married and playing without their wife's consent. In fact she is probably oblivious to the whole thing. "
Ahh ok well thats just dishonest & shamefull.though like i said ive found if i cant make a time im married or a certain day im married etc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people's experiences of 'single men' actually being married still?
They're the ones who usually cancel at the last minute.
Wow generalising there aren't we?
Yes, I am. Because, in general, in my experience, that is what happens. Time and again. Sorry you didn't like that response - but there it is.
maybe your selection process needs work
I no longer have that problem - but thanks for the advice. My selection problem is not an issue. Often I have a 'lying his ass off' problem like many women on here."
your welcome.anytime.! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I talk to a married guy who has a couple profile with his wife but also has a single profile but he does state that he plays alone when his wife is out of action, think that is on couple profile. so he is being honest with everyone and ive seen picture of his wife too, not a pic on site but a pic he showed me on cam |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I talk to a married guy who has a couple profile with his wife but also has a single profile but he does state that he plays alone when his wife is out of action, think that is on couple profile. so he is being honest with everyone and ive seen picture of his wife too, not a pic on site but a pic he showed me on cam"
thats fair enough,was about guys saying their single when infact married & playing without there partners consent |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh look, this crap again......like clockwork.
These threads (and the responses that follow) are tedious."
Well don't bother reading or responding to them then. I, personally, as a newbie to the forum have found it very useful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can usually tell pretty quickly as they tend to go quiet in the evenings and not be around at the weekends. This also applies to the not married but have a significant other which is really the same thing."
Am single and genuine, but sometimes i work late, travel in the evening and often work away on weekends! so i get pigeon holed do i?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyway.
We meet single men and have found that most are actually married or in a relationship (not that they have told us) but to be honest what does it matter it's their relationship they are putting at risk not ours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was married or with someone I would be with them and not stray because I would be with them because I loved them and if I never there would be no point in being together . Never cheated and never would |
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Hilarious , are the couples that take the moral high ground and say " no married men " we don't like cheaters . But are happy for a single guy to fuck her brains out while hubby knocks one out in the corner of a premier inn room ...... LOL . |
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"Hilarious , are the couples that take the moral high ground and say " no married men " we don't like cheaters . But are happy for a single guy to fuck her brains out while hubby knocks one out in the corner of a premier inn room ...... LOL . "
??? your point been ???
in that situation nobody is cheating are they?, cheating and swinging are two very different things maybe you need to look up the two meanings. |
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"Hilarious , are the couples that take the moral high ground and say " no married men " we don't like cheaters . But are happy for a single guy to fuck her brains out while hubby knocks one out in the corner of a premier inn room ...... LOL .
??? your point been ???
in that situation nobody is cheating are they?, cheating and swinging are two very different things maybe you need to look up the two meanings."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hilarious , are the couples that take the moral high ground and say " no married men " we don't like cheaters . But are happy for a single guy to fuck her brains out while hubby knocks one out in the corner of a premier inn room ...... LOL . "
This makes no sense.. :/
Also don't understand why its always put down to a moral high ground.. Is all our preference a moral high ground, sounds very bitter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take me to the wall and shoot me if you disagree but I prefer straight talking.....I am attached and I have met several "single" women near my age who can't accommodate and find they too are attached...so what is the difference.
For me....as long as you are open and honest so if you are both attached and having extra fun then let it be discreet and between you two.
Difficult I know, not everyone's cup of tea but there are now even more overworked husbands & wives /Partners than in previous years hence why many seek fun outside of their relationships and many do it to get away from Boring vanilla life for some tactile contact that they are missing due to work/life pressures. I'm not saying it is right but it's happening everyday |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I was married or with someone I would be with them and not stray because I would be with them because I loved them and if I never there would be no point in being together . Never cheated and never would "
But life isn't that straight forward. There is probably a large number of attached men who have sex with their partners but are also looking on here and elsewhere for extra. What about those who are not getting satisfied after trying hard to resolve it and being very patient? The only thing missing is the sex and they can't bear the thought of the mess that divorce brings? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I was married or with someone I would be with them and not stray because I would be with them because I loved them and if I never there would be no point in being together . Never cheated and never would
But life isn't that straight forward. There is probably a large number of attached men who have sex with their partners but are also looking on here and elsewhere for extra. What about those who are not getting satisfied after trying hard to resolve it and being very patient? The only thing missing is the sex and they can't bear the thought of the mess that divorce brings?"
I can't speak for everyone but I wasent getting any for a few years but found out she was so she decided she wanted a break and that was that she got with him |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I prefer men and ladies to be honest. If they are maried and playing behind their partners back put it on their profile. Then someone seeing their profile can make an informed choice to meet or not.
I am very much single and people often do not believe that I am single. |
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