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"My young lady and I are very new in our adventure and looking on here for soft swap. Any advice on finding interested parties? "
Hi there we've played this way for years now and there are people out there happy to do the same.Dont be pursued otherwise if you're not looking for more |
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By (user no longer on site) 30 weeks ago
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That's how I started and it's a great way to test your boundaries without irrevocably shattering them altogether on the first experience. The reality is that all the talking and thinking before you get into a clinch with another party will not prepare you for your emotional response and how that affects you.
I would just be up front with whoever you choose to play with. Soft swap is very common and even experienced swingers will indulge you in a soft swap. Moreover, if they know you're nervous newbies they often help you take baby steps and check in with you. |
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Firstly, set up a couples profile. You will stand a better chance and come across better than on a single males profile.
List your interests clearly and in the write up put down what your boundaries are. Some couples see soft swap different to others. For us it’s anything but full penetration with other people. |
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We've only ever been soft play or parallel play and really enjoy it  We thought we'd run into more resistance to it in clubs but aside from one couple calling us 'fake swingers' it's all been pretty positive
Just be upfront about it to avoid having to turn someone down mid play and it's all good. Clubs have been the best places to find this. |
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"I was wondering, on a arranged soft meet I was asked to rub my cocks head against her clit, could it still bee called a soft meet?"
Everyone has their own boundaries but generally, soft play is anything apart from penetration. |
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"I was wondering, on a arranged soft meet I was asked to rub my cocks head against her clit, could it still bee called a soft meet
Everyone has their own boundaries but generally, soft play is anything apart from penetration. "
Yes it’s important that you discuss any limitations that you may have in advance, maybe arrange a social meet in advance. x |
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