"No. It feels super demanding.
If I want "within 30 minutes" I get onto Deliveroo or whatever."
Exactly I’m also sitting here in a pair of joggers and unwashed hair. There’s no way 30 mins would be doable 🫣🤣 |
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"No. It feels super demanding.
If I want "within 30 minutes" I get onto Deliveroo or whatever.
Do deliveroo do more than food now?"
No. I wouldn't ask for that from anyone.
Well, maybe if I had a friend who I knew was nearby and knew might be available.
And even then it'd be "hey, if I remember correctly you're free today, what are you up to?" rather than "my place, now, 1-1:30" |
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I've had messages like that, thankfully not often. I've attended group socials in, say, Covent Garden, and received messages from couples which read something like "We're in Soho, in a chic hotel bar, why don't you join us for drinks and more??".
As resplendent and enticing as the wife may 'look' from her profile it's not my method in meeting people in this way. Perhaps it's me but I see it as a red flag. 🚩 |
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"Does anybody actually take up these offers? We’ve just had a message of this nature asking to meet in 30 mins 🫣"
we’ve only had meet now messages, we’ve never been given 30 mins notice, so I guess they don’t care how we look at the time 😂 |
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"Does anybody actually take up these offers? We’ve just had a message of this nature asking to meet in 30 mins 🫣
we’ve only had meet now messages, we’ve never been given 30 mins notice, so I guess they don’t care how we look at the time 😂"
I've been given really narrow appointment times.
Like, excuse me, do I know you? |
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"Does anybody actually take up these offers? We’ve just had a message of this nature asking to meet in 30 mins 🫣
we’ve only had meet now messages, we’ve never been given 30 mins notice, so I guess they don’t care how we look at the time 😂"
It would take me 30 mins to get to where he was so no time to change wonder what his reaction would be to me rocking up with my unwashed hair in a messy bun, joggers and ancient hoodie 🤣 |
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By *cgmcgMan 22 weeks ago
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"Does anybody actually take up these offers? We’ve just had a message of this nature asking to meet in 30 mins 🫣
we’ve only had meet now messages, we’ve never been given 30 mins notice, so I guess they don’t care how we look at the time 😂
It would take me 30 mins to get to where he was so no time to change wonder what his reaction would be to me rocking up with my unwashed hair in a messy bun, joggers and ancient hoodie 🤣"
I would imagine he would have been delighted.... Not a time waster!! |
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"Does anybody actually take up these offers? We’ve just had a message of this nature asking to meet in 30 mins 🫣
we’ve only had meet now messages, we’ve never been given 30 mins notice, so I guess they don’t care how we look at the time 😂
It would take me 30 mins to get to where he was so no time to change wonder what his reaction would be to me rocking up with my unwashed hair in a messy bun, joggers and ancient hoodie 🤣
I would imagine he would have been delighted.... Not a time waster!!"
🤣 fair point |
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