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Has any other men never came from a bj or am i just unlucky??
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Going back decades before my transition I just thought I was shit at getting blown. I would get all the mind blowing sensations, the pulsing, the body wracking feeling of orgasm over and over but nothing ever came out.
It was frustrating as hell for me and my partner.
I've given oral to a few women over the years and only very recently realised and discussed with someone who I've gone down on and who's given me oral, that we're both having the same sensations.
As I embraced the realities of expressing my sexuality and being intimate with people as a woman I'm leaning into those sensations rather that treating them as a failure.
I get clitoral orgasms. It's weird and it sounds like bullshit but people with clitorises have witnessed them and agree and I'm going to accept that expert opinion. |
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By *am4sinMan 18 weeks ago
Mansfield |
I struggle, due to years of abuse lol, I lost a lot of feeling so as much as I enjoy a good BJ I fail to cum. I'm more like an old car now, you have to get it going by hand and jump on at the last minute.
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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I've never been a big fan, they don't do much for me, and I've had a lot of girls with different techniques
It's a mental problem I'm sure, I need that control to cum which I've never felt I had get blown, even by the best deep throater |
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I'd never cum froma blowjob until last year.
Years of wanking kind of got me to place where I thought only me could get myself off.
But my partner B has amazing skills with her mouth and tongue and also taught me to just relax, not rush and just be in the moment.
The feeling when she does make me cum is incredible. |
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By *33ukMan 18 weeks ago
fareham |
Total opposite. I can't hack them sends me wild, I think it's mental though... Its bloody annoying cause I wanna lay back and enjoy a nice long BJ but I have to tell them to stop after fuck all time sometimes a few sucks... Embarrassing  |
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the mood has to be right and the level of horniness high, but a few ladies have gotten me off with a bj ,but only one lady with her hand wanking me makes me cum everytime. A bj feel nice though, i enjoy them and i do get lovely feelings i just dont ejeculate very often from a bj. |
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I think circumcision makes big difference. Not as sensitive nowadays which makes it harder to get there so as mentioned before it needs a bit of hand work to help get me there. Sloppy deep throat with some oily hand wank work usually does the trick  |
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Love getting Cock Sucked, sometimes they have workforce it though which I love. Always heard it said men suck Cock better than women. So had to. Test this out&TBH my all time top Cocksuckers still women Really good. Ones been sucked by few men but they never lived up to own hype be honest. I’d hate not be able cum from BJ though |
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I dont get much feeling from a blow job, im not sure if im not sensitive enough or what, when I have cum from a BJ, it’s because of how watching someone sucking me off gets me going, mental stimulation. |
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I've know a couple guys who couldn't cum from a bj. A few who could cum unless they gave themselves a hand job.
Neither bother me as long as we have a good time and enjoy what we do together. Doesn't mean I won't give a bj or have sex. Cumming isn't always the goal |
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"I've know a couple guys who couldn't cum from a bj. A few who could cum unless they gave themselves a hand job.
Neither bother me as long as we have a good time and enjoy what we do together. Doesn't mean I won't give a bj or have sex. Cumming isn't always the goal"
Enjoyment and fun should be in there always IMO |
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"It’s unusual for me, but with the right person  "
Same for me. Sometimes, it's just so good I can't hold back; other times it just goes on and on until I fade away, which happens more frequently as I get older. |
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I (mrs) have met a few men on here that have cum in my mouth from just oral, one of which was about 30seconds after I started, but I've been with the Mr for 10 years now and still havnt managed to make him cum in my mouth from just oral  |
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About 15 years ago I picked up a young woman i knew she wanked me sucked me and I never blew my load, my only thought is that I just wasn't into her.
She'd been the mistress my mate was fucking until his misses found out.
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I have cum plenty of times from BJs, and also not cum at all from them , and like others in here ive sometimes cum way sooner than id like to admit, someones tongue around me is just on another level of sensation but it does all depend on their technique and how turned on i am at the time. Its a mix of mental and physical stimulation. But for the most part ive never really had an issue with cumming from oral. |
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By *rLicksMan 18 weeks ago
Worcester |
OP you’re not alone…. I have only ever cum during a BJ on 3 occasions and it took some very dedicated action to get there!
Don’t get me wrong… I absolutely love receiving a BJ it feels amazing, can be super intense and I can often feel the build up just can’t get past the final hurdle so to speak.
I put it down to being psychological for some reason… can’t explain anything about it beyond that. |
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By *dc1Man 18 weeks ago
essex and all over the south |
If they are good at it then i dont have a problem. My trouble is keeping it in there mouth as i cum. Its bloody sensative as i cum and if they insist on licking the end it hurts and i dont like that |
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"Came close but struggle to lay there i feel. Surely it cant be just me "
It's not just you mate, many of us can't reach orgasm this way. Just enjoy the sensations if you are lucky enough to find a woman who is happy to suck your cock. I tend to say "I really need to fuck you now..." to move things on 
The majority of women think it's just a 'line' men say to get their cock sucked, and to be fair, there may be some truth in that. But one thing is for sure; I've yet to see a thread appear from any women who succeeded (no pun intended) where others failed.... |
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