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Trying to find my first couple
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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It's virtually impossible to find a.couple on here. I've been trying for months - without success.
Messages either get ignored or deleted.
It's the women who are too fussy is my conclusion. |
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If you're interested in some constructive advice I'd rewrite your profile read the profiles of guys who are getting meets and take inspiration from them
Referencing Facebook on your profile is pointless and those disclaimers do nothing |
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By *hipdaleCouple 11 weeks ago
Greenhithe |
Problem you have is single guys out number thexrest 2 to 1 if not more, the minority spoil it for the majority, most don't bother reading the bio they just look at the pictures and videos , and it depends on what you write in messages and how you communicate, 9 out of 10 messages we get are hi darling great tits fancy a fuck , not a great way to introduce themselves.
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"Messaged a few couples, and most couples don’t reply, anyboady know any couples that would be interested in me, I’m verified and jus want chance! 
Maybe a club visit might be easier? "
But 100% this too |
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I obviously can't speak for all couples but we immediately disregard guys who have a dick pic as their profile picture. That does rule out 95% of guys on fab but we're looking for something a little more classy or creative.
Purely an observation, not a criticism. |
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By *eri24Woman 11 weeks ago
Bridgend |
"It's virtually impossible to find a.couple on here. I've been trying for months - without success.
Messages either get ignored or deleted.
It's the women who are too fussy is my conclusion."
Are they not allowed to be? |
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"Messaged a few couples, and most couples don’t reply, anyboady know any couples that would be interested in me, I’m verified and jus want chance!
Maybe a club visit might be easier? "
I 100% agree on this . Club meets are for sure a great way to get noticed  |
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"It's virtually impossible to find a.couple on here. I've been trying for months - without success.
Messages either get ignored or deleted.
It's the women who are too fussy is my conclusion."
Fussy. FFS. A sexual experience is not a “oh go on then” if I cant find a costa and settle for a Starbucks is it?  |
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By *as0046Man 11 weeks ago
stourbridge |
"It's virtually impossible to find a.couple on here. I've been trying for months - without success.
Messages either get ignored or deleted.
It's the women who are too fussy is my conclusion.
Fussy. FFS. A sexual experience is not a “oh go on then” if I cant find a costa and settle for a Starbucks is it? "
I wouldn’t drink Starbucks 🤨 |
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By *harAndBryCouple 11 weeks ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"Messaged a few couples, and most couples don’t reply, anyboady know any couples that would be interested in me, I’m verified and jus want chance! "
Your pictures (including your profile pic) are killing your chances.
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By *harAndBryCouple 11 weeks ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"I obviously can't speak for all couples but we immediately disregard guys who have a dick pic as their profile picture. That does rule out 95% of guys on fab but we're looking for something a little more classy or creative.
Purely an observation, not a criticism."
Very much this. It's actually insulting to think that guys think that we consider the most important factor in deciding who to meet is their cock.
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By *as0046Man 11 weeks ago
stourbridge |
"I obviously can't speak for all couples but we immediately disregard guys who have a dick pic as their profile picture. That does rule out 95% of guys on fab but we're looking for something a little more classy or creative.
Purely an observation, not a criticism.
Very much this. It's actually insulting to think that guys think that we consider the most important factor in deciding who to meet is their cock.
(Bry)"
Your the one with a cock in your hand 😂😂 |
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"It's virtually impossible to find a.couple on here. I've been trying for months - without success.
Messages either get ignored or deleted.
It's the women who are too fussy is my conclusion.
Fussy. FFS. A sexual experience is not a “oh go on then” if I cant find a costa and settle for a Starbucks is it? "
As above, I am never going to take one for the team, if I find a guy attractive then yes. Its not about being fussy! |
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By *eri24Woman 11 weeks ago
Bridgend |
"So if we wanna keep our faces private, what else do we have to use as profile pic, I’ve seen lots of women with tits out arses out etc …."
Arms? Legs? Torso? Bum? Fully clothed minus face?
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Speaking as someone that's part of a cpl profile aswell, any & I mean ANY single guy profile that doesn't play safe, plays with bi males , and has pictures or videos of them with thier latest conquest is instantly deleted. 🤷
Don't shoot me, that's the hubby's preferences |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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Ok,choosy.is.probably a better word to use.
The the original poster, naked photo or dick photo is a big no no. All you have effectively done is reduce your chances of meeting a couple from near zero to a guaranteed zero, so avoid that.
Also, there is the fact that guys outnumber women by a huge factor. In fact I wouldn't be surprised if it is an order of magnitude.
Like other members have stated, you may be better off joining a club. I'm sure there will be one in your town.
Be patient.and try not to get dispondent when you see that 99% of your messages will not get a response.
Assuming you do get a reply, there is still no guarantee you will meet. It could be a polite No. |
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