I have noticed that quite a few single female profiles on here are married and husband / partner doesn’t know .
Just wondering the reasons and peoples thoughts ?
Not enough sex from partner ? Different type of sex that partners won’t do ?
Thrill of getting away with it ?
I’m sure there are far more married men on here than women of course .
Men seem to get more stick for it than women though .
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By *uvs2snogMan 20 weeks ago
Now living in Spain - Vistabella |
Probably the same reasons men do it
Hoping for a discreet shag
The thrill and risk
Learning about new things ?
Doing things they don’t do at home
Experimenting
Pushing boundaries
Probably loads more…. |
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There's probably as many reasons as there are profiles.
Women do get treated less harshly. I've often said that infidelity is almost always blamed on the man whoever is being unfaithful. If it's him it's because he's a cheating rat if it's her it's because he's not treating her right 🤷♀️ |
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"There's probably as many reasons as there are profiles.
Women do get treated less harshly. I've often said that infidelity is almost always blamed on the man whoever is being unfaithful. If it's him it's because he's a cheating rat if it's her it's because he's not treating her right 🤷♀️"
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"There's probably as many reasons as there are profiles.
Women do get treated less harshly. I've often said that infidelity is almost always blamed on the man whoever is being unfaithful. If it's him it's because he's a cheating rat if it's her it's because he's not treating her right 🤷♀️"
Yep that last bit definitely rings true , not sure why it’s like that though ! |
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"There's probably as many reasons as there are profiles.
Women do get treated less harshly. I've often said that infidelity is almost always blamed on the man whoever is being unfaithful. If it's him it's because he's a cheating rat if it's her it's because he's not treating her right 🤷♀️
Yep that last bit definitely rings true , not sure why it’s like that though !"
On here it's because there are way more men than women and a lot of guys don't want to ruin their chances. |
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"I’m slightly torn , I love the thought of sleeping with a married woman , something about it gets me going …………but I know I would also feel a bit guilty ! "
i always think that if I wouldn't like it done to me it's best not to do it to someone else 🤷♀️ |
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By *renzMan 20 weeks ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I've met and had sex with women who's husband's know and with those who's husband's don't know. They 'cheat' for many reasons and I feel it's not for me to judge. I don't specifically look for those married and 'cheating'. The only thing that annoys me and it has happened on occasion, is that they've not told me until after. I would prefer honesty up front, then I decide if I wish to continue. |
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"I've met and had sex with women who's husband's know and with those who's husband's don't know. They 'cheat' for many reasons and I feel it's not for me to judge. I don't specifically look for those married and 'cheating'. The only thing that annoys me and it has happened on occasion, is that they've not told me until after. I would prefer honesty up front, then I decide if I wish to continue. "
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Men get more stick because they come on to the forums, trying to justify cheating regularly and often blaiming their partners for it.
Cheating women are hot to many men for some reason, so those types will rush to her defence in the hope of a shag.
Some men and women cheat because they can, some don't get enough sex at home.
Others do it because they have the opportunity ie work away regularly and have a hotel room.
Either way, you only hear their side of the story and what they want you to know.
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By *odd66Man 18 weeks ago
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"There's probably as many reasons as there are profiles.
Women do get treated less harshly. I've often said that infidelity is almost always blamed on the man whoever is being unfaithful. If it's him it's because he's a cheating rat if it's her it's because he's not treating her right 🤷♀️"
and people see it as sexy and exceptable for women i feel.... |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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I'm not seeing the list of reasons as reasons, that's a cowardly list of excuses.
Why they do it -
Selfishness.
Needs ego boost.
Thinks grass is greener.
The need to expose themselves to others.
Thrill of the chase.
Too cowardly to discuss problems in their marriage.
Because they are -
Deceitful.
Untrustworthy.
Unreliable.
Liars.
Cowards.
Swinging should be about openness and honesty which is what brought me here, however the amount of disgusting cheats men & women spoil it, they aren't swingers.
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"Seen my friends husband on here, with verified meets and saying he's cheating in his profile. What would you do? Should his wife be told?"
Personally I would keep out of it and not tell. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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People cheat for lots of reasons and that's their business, so long as they are open and upfront with the people they want to meet and play with so that the other person can make a fully informed decision.
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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I have someone who lives in the same town as me, admitted she had a partner. She loves him he just is not interested in being adventurous, to quote her “he’s just terrible in bed”
So she’s looking for satisfaction else where.
She’s honest about her situation, she was bloody gorgeous btw, so agreed she could come round when she felt the need |
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