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How long til you cum during sex?
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I'm normally 30-45 mins without condom but can do 10-15 if not focussed on making Mrs cum lots. Seemingly the average is 7 mins which I find hard to believe with a condom and less sensitivity?
How long does it take you to cum?
Would rather it Mrs got a bit more than 7 mins but if that's average then that's what to expect when we meet someone. |
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"I'm normally 30-45 mins without condom but can do 10-15 if not focussed on making Mrs cum lots. Seemingly the average is 7 mins which I find hard to believe with a condom and less sensitivity?
How long does it take you to cum?
Would rather it Mrs got a bit more than 7 mins but if that's average then that's what to expect when we meet someone."
45 mins!!! Points him in the direction of the A1 south
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It really depends on how I’m feeling on the night, the setting we’re in, the shared mood etc, lots of factors can affect the ‘result’ lol…
I gave up with one particular woman; her physical makeup meant I just couldn’t get the right angle for comfortable penetration, combined with how soaking wet she got, meaning I just didn’t get any ‘feel’ on my cock through the condom, so I eventually admitted defeat……
Other times though, I can be 5 minutes, or up to an hour before my first ejaculation, and most times I can repeat a further two times within 20 minutes….? |
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By *r90Man 6 weeks ago
Devon |
"If you can actually fuck for 30 to 40 mins then the partner is doing something wrong."
not if you get to try out loads of different positions. Agree if 30-40 mins of missionary then something is up  |
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By *alsam1Couple 6 weeks ago
Caister |
"If you can actually fuck for 30 to 40 mins then the partner is doing something wrong.not if you get to try out loads of different positions. Agree if 30-40 mins of missionary then something is up "
Swapping positions and doing other things isn't lasting for said amounts of time. I can have sessions that last hours but thats not the same as lasting 40 mins of sex.
I'm guessing he's saying he can last ages to sound awesome but honestly 10 mins is plenty lol |
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Depends entirely on the situation and how turned on you both are. A quicky can a few minutes of very intense fun or a sensual evening of slow gentle playing can take 1 or more hours slipping in and out, changing positions and edging each other. |
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I’m pretty lucky and can control when I cum.
My view is to focus on the lady and ensure she is satisfied first and then I enjoy cumming at the end.
Hopefully that way it’s a successful meet and everyone is happy….
If I came before her I’d feel disappointed and bad… just my opinion. |
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These days it can be quite a long time, often over an hour, and needs some climatic fucking to get there. On the other hand, just occasionally, someone will hit the spot so quckly sucking my cock that it only takes a few minutes. Then, as others have said, one wants the object of attention to have had enough orgasms too. |
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For me it really depends on the woman . Almost as if I can completely control when I cum. I always make sure the woman cums first. If the girl is really wanting to suck that load out I let it happen in a couple of mins, too. |
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By *acantMan 6 weeks ago
Isle of Wight |
I've never lasted too long at all during penetrative sex. I suppose I'm just very sensitive down there. Half of me feels embarrassed in a way about it because I'd love to give any play partners a good proper session. I still enjoy giving oral and doing other things though, so it's not as if penetration is the only way I have lol. |
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By *acantMan 6 weeks ago
Isle of Wight |
"Are we talking 45 min straight humping here?
Because that would bore the fuck out of me.
A good session lasts hours and hours but the penetration is only the tip of the iceberg for great sex"
Love this
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I find it varies hugely when I play at clubs. Some guys can only manage a few pumps before they shoot their load. Others can go on for ages but in a group scenario I prefer them to be quick, it’s the idea of being used that turns me on. It’s a numbers game so it bores me if the last ages, I just want to move on to the next guy |
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"I find it varies hugely when I play at clubs. Some guys can only manage a few pumps before they shoot their load. Others can go on for ages but in a group scenario I prefer them to be quick, it’s the idea of being used that turns me on. It’s a numbers game so it bores me if the last ages, I just want to move on to the next guy "
Remind me to start going to the clubs you go to  |
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