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This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
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Block would have saved a lot of problems he is right about people having a shitty attitude though |
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Honestly op, he'd have been blocked the 2nd time he sent me a dick pic, with a flea in his ear first.
Remember respect works both ways and he hasn't shown you any.Don't get to a 3rd or 4th message, when you have no interest in them and they are being rude to you.
I'm guessing he can't see his behaviour is shitty and that's causing the lack of replies or responses from women. |
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I see no point in engaging with anyone I have no interest in.
No response is their response, if they bother to read the site rules, or block button if they’re particularly nasty.
It’s easy that simple. |
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"It's a good filter...if they can't be bothered to read a profile they're not going to be great when it comes to sex."
Exactly this. If they're not prepared to make the effort to get a meet then the meet itself would probably be poor.
Guys are quick to complain about not getting meets but they never seem to wonder why. Pavlovs dogs would work it out quicker x |
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
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Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
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"I'm not sure of the point of the thread. 2nd message. Block. Move on."
Well you could say that about a lot of threads on here
I was incredulous that he said I had a shitty attitude when I was trying to be patient with him and was venting. That’s all |
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
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Maybe I just attract the dickheads then because the majority of guys that message me have not read my profile |
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"I'm not sure of the point of the thread. 2nd message. Block. Move on.
Well you could say that about a lot of threads on here
I was incredulous that he said I had a shitty attitude when I was trying to be patient with him and was venting. That’s all "
I think you were liking the attention then got bored and decided to post a rant on here for more attention |
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"The internet brings out the worst in people but why make a big victim post? Are we perhaps attention seeking?"
I don’t feel like a victim at all. As I said earlier I was incredulous that he thought I had a shitty attitude when I’d been more patient with him than most people would.
Just having a rant as it frustrated me. It’s not something I can moan about to my friends so thought I’d do it on here |
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"I'm not sure of the point of the thread. 2nd message. Block. Move on.
Well you could say that about a lot of threads on here
I was incredulous that he said I had a shitty attitude when I was trying to be patient with him and was venting. That’s all
I think you were liking the attention then got bored and decided to post a rant on here for more attention "
I do enjoy the attention I get from most guys but certainly not guts like him. It just makes me roll my eyes
Yes I was ranting, was I doing it for attention? Not consciously. I do enjoy attention and let’s face it so do a lot of people on here. It’s a big part of the lifestyle for a lot of people.
I was interested in other people’s experiences and views |
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From speaking to people and seeing various status and threads on here this unfortunately is more and more common on here. There are a lot of men who can't be polite, can't speak to women normally and have a worrying response to being told no which is usually abuse.
Makes you worry how they handle being told no in the real world. |
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There are a lot of men on here who have no interest in using it for the proper purposes. I block loads daily. One person keeps starting new accounts asking if I want to see him have sex with his step mother. Absolutely not. Today I blocked someone who wants to sniff my pants. It's just constant. Block and forget it |
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"I'm not sure of the point of the thread. 2nd message. Block. Move on.
Well you could say that about a lot of threads on here
I was incredulous that he said I had a shitty attitude when I was trying to be patient with him and was venting. That’s all
I think you were liking the attention then got bored and decided to post a rant on here for more attention
I do enjoy the attention I get from most guys but certainly not guts like him. It just makes me roll my eyes
Yes I was ranting, was I doing it for attention? Not consciously. I do enjoy attention and let’s face it so do a lot of people on here. It’s a big part of the lifestyle for a lot of people.
I was interested in other people’s experiences and views "
If you weren’t enjoying the attention from him why allow it to go on for seven days ?. And yes the majority of us want attention there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that but doing a big ranty thread about something you allowed to happen makes you look a bit silly |
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"From speaking to people and seeing various status and threads on here this unfortunately is more and more common on here. There are a lot of men who can't be polite, can't speak to women normally and have a worrying response to being told no which is usually abuse.
Makes you worry how they handle being told no in the real world. "
I had another crank yesterday who is clearly a follower of Andrew Tate and was very abusive and then blocked me before I could report him.
And yes it is worrying |
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"I'm not sure of the point of the thread. 2nd message. Block. Move on.
Well you could say that about a lot of threads on here
I was incredulous that he said I had a shitty attitude when I was trying to be patient with him and was venting. That’s all
I think you were liking the attention then got bored and decided to post a rant on here for more attention
I do enjoy the attention I get from most guys but certainly not guts like him. It just makes me roll my eyes
Yes I was ranting, was I doing it for attention? Not consciously. I do enjoy attention and let’s face it so do a lot of people on here. It’s a big part of the lifestyle for a lot of people.
I was interested in other people’s experiences and views
If you weren’t enjoying the attention from him why allow it to go on for seven days ?. And yes the majority of us want attention there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that but doing a big ranty thread about something you allowed to happen makes you look a bit silly "
So because I didn’t block him I allowed it to happen?
I usually find ignoring the ignorant ones is quite effective and I don’t like to block unless I really have to. We all deal with things in our own way. Sometimes guys will work it out and send a half decent message so I am open to giving them a chance. We all make mistakes sometimes |
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"I'm not sure of the point of the thread. 2nd message. Block. Move on.
Well you could say that about a lot of threads on here
I was incredulous that he said I had a shitty attitude when I was trying to be patient with him and was venting. That’s all
I think you were liking the attention then got bored and decided to post a rant on here for more attention
I do enjoy the attention I get from most guys but certainly not guts like him. It just makes me roll my eyes
Yes I was ranting, was I doing it for attention? Not consciously. I do enjoy attention and let’s face it so do a lot of people on here. It’s a big part of the lifestyle for a lot of people.
I was interested in other people’s experiences and views
If you weren’t enjoying the attention from him why allow it to go on for seven days ?. And yes the majority of us want attention there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that but doing a big ranty thread about something you allowed to happen makes you look a bit silly
So because I didn’t block him I allowed it to happen?
I usually find ignoring the ignorant ones is quite effective and I don’t like to block unless I really have to. We all deal with things in our own way. Sometimes guys will work it out and send a half decent message so I am open to giving them a chance. We all make mistakes sometimes "
second chances yes 💯 you gave him seven chances over seven days then want to moan about it 😂 |
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
Maybe I just attract the dickheads then because the majority of guys that message me have not read my profile "
Wouldn’t have thought it was just you most of women on hear probably get the same point I was trying to make is that all men are not the same most of us read profiles and respect them
Obviously a few don’t again happy Monday do understand you wanting to vent you’re frustration
But please bear in Mind as said Most guys respect and read profiles
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
Maybe I just attract the dickheads then because the majority of guys that message me have not read my profile
Wouldn’t have thought it was just you most of women on hear probably get the same point I was trying to make is that all men are not the same most of us read profiles and respect them
Obviously a few don’t again happy Monday do understand you wanting to vent you’re frustration
But please bear in Mind as said Most guys respect and read profiles
TTFN
Or
Ta ta for now "
Oh I absolutely know that not all men are like that. I think I even put that in my original post.
I have some very nice conversations on here with guys all the time and even if at first they haven’t read it they often do when I ask them to.
Which is why I don’t go straight to blocking them like so many keep telling me I should do. If they know what I’m about I don’t have to keep explaining it to them and we can just chat |
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
Maybe I just attract the dickheads then because the majority of guys that message me have not read my profile
Wouldn’t have thought it was just you most of women on hear probably get the same point I was trying to make is that all men are not the same most of us read profiles and respect them
Obviously a few don’t again happy Monday do understand you wanting to vent you’re frustration
But please bear in Mind as said Most guys respect and read profiles
TTFN
Or
Ta ta for now
Oh I absolutely know that not all men are like that. I think I even put that in my original post.
I have some very nice conversations on here with guys all the time and even if at first they haven’t read it they often do when I ask them to.
Which is why I don’t go straight to blocking them like so many keep telling me I should do. If they know what I’m about I don’t have to keep explaining it to them and we can just chat "
I have read youre profile and it seems pretty clear to me and other users what you want and what you don’t want and unlike other users understand you’re need to vent you’re frustration
Have a great day fab is fab some good some very bad enjoy what we have and we are blessed with |
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There has been a huge rise in poor attitude and manners, not just on here either, I have been missing from some regular events this year and not been so active in the scene over the past 12 months, one thing I have noticed is online there are lots of chancers and just rude, demanding people, and I have noticed more the same in people's attitude at events too. I always try to avoid people like that and the drama they create, but it is getting harder.
I can only imagine the problem is one hundred times worse for females. I feel your pain. |
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It works both way ladies. One or more of you on here need to consider YOUR manners and be rather more polite...........than the arrogant and ignorant fuckers some of you are just because you possess a cunt.  |
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Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
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Sadly it's very much the opposite...maybe 1% do but the vast majority either don't read or ignore profiles and preferences and message anyway. Then we are expected to make exceptions, give them a chance etc. |
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Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
Sadly it's very much the opposite...maybe 1% do but the vast majority either don't read or ignore profiles and preferences and message anyway. Then we are expected to make exceptions, give them a chance etc. "
This is our experience also unfortunately 😕 |
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"It works both way ladies. One or more of you on here need to consider YOUR manners and be rather more polite...........than the arrogant and ignorant fuckers some of you are just because you possess a cunt. "
Language Timothy! |
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Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
Sadly it's very much the opposite...maybe 1% do but the vast majority either don't read or ignore profiles and preferences and message anyway. Then we are expected to make exceptions, give them a chance etc. "
it’s not just men it’s the majority of people on here that don’t read profiles |
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"It works both way ladies. One or more of you on here need to consider YOUR manners and be rather more polite...........than the arrogant and ignorant fuckers some of you are just because you possess a cunt. "
 what a lovely way with words, I’m sure that will get you far |
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"It works both way ladies. One or more of you on here need to consider YOUR manners and be rather more polite...........than the arrogant and ignorant fuckers some of you are just because you possess a cunt.
Language Timothy!"
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It happened to me over the weekend by a couple, they wanted me to invite them around my house after 1 message. I politely declined advising them, like it states on my profile I prefer to chat first and meet for a social. The reply I got back was shitty, they came to the conclusion that I actually cant accommodate. Block,block and block  |
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Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
Sadly it's very much the opposite...maybe 1% do but the vast majority either don't read or ignore profiles and preferences and message anyway. Then we are expected to make exceptions, give them a chance etc. "
Always knew
Part of 1% club
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
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Never understood why you’d send the same pic over and over again, if it didn’t catch their attention first time it’s unlikely to on the next 😂 |
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Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
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whiles you are correct about ''not all men'' but sadly it is most men 95% of those who message me clearly have not read my profile at all 99% of my messages are one line rubbish some as short as hi or wanna fuck so agree not all but its deffo most. |
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""...95% of those who message me clearly have not read my profile at all" Maybe that's because your Profile reads like War and Peace? "
my profile does its job perfectly as its deliverd me a few guys ive met that have turnned out to be fantastic meets, men that dont like it means its working for me and the guys who understand what im looking for .
the men who moan only moan because they dont like women who know what they want and what they dont want the same men who moan that women wont have sex with them. |
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I think we just need to charge guys who want to upload or send dick pics £1 per photo. Anyone who tries to game the system in any way is banned for a week per pic.
We could solve world hunger inside a month.
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Tbh I probably read and rule people out based on profiles…
Christ I can’t remember the last time I sent a dick to anyone, and certainly not uninvited person as in someone who hadn’t med me in person.
It may mean that I don’t get the amount of message or meets that I probably should but then I chat to people in clubs. |
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So basically if the person / person doesn’t meet single guys, doesn’t have safe sex, doesn’t do clubs or accommodate the chance of me messaging them are virtually nil
If they at least meet single guys, and have safe sex, then I will see do they do clubs, where are they based, is there anything in photos or
Profile that catches my eye. If and normally only if I may message them and certainly not a picture of my cock with is on my profile anyway |
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I love being told I'm a fat cunt anyway, or I'm a prude, prick whatever else they come out with because they couldn't be arsed to read two lines of my profile.
Yet they messaged me, the ego, desperation and self entitlement of many on here never ceases to amaze me.
Apparently the most recent is that I was a horrible nasty person because I don't meet men 😂😂 |
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"I love being told I'm a fat cunt anyway, or I'm a prude, prick whatever else they come out with because they couldn't be arsed to read two lines of my profile.
Yet they messaged me, the ego, desperation and self entitlement of many on here never ceases to amaze me.
Apparently the most recent is that I was a horrible nasty person because I don't meet men 😂😂"
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By *renzMan 15 weeks ago
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""...95% of those who message me clearly have not read my profile at all" Maybe that's because your Profile reads like War and Peace? "
I actually prefer to read a profile that has something to it. It's easier to decide if you have something in common and even then if I send a message, I have no expectations. The profiles that read, will fill in later with lots of veris, makes me think that some people will just fuck anyone. |
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Unfortunately, there is a lot of men on here who either don't bother going further than profile pics, or, even if they read the profile, they still try their luck. The messages that get me most are along the lines of "I love your profile... "/"I read your profile...", and something like "when can we meet?". Erm... Read my profile again, the answer is there. I normally block them after this anyway as if they can't respect my profile, are they going to respect any boundaries I may set for the meet, if I choose to meet them? Also, as a lot men seem to be on here when they are horny, cock only has one eye and is unable to read...
OP, I wouldn't worry about it, stick to your guns, to whatever suits you. And block the twats that can't read with understanding. |
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
Maybe I just attract the dickheads then because the majority of guys that message me have not read my profile
Wouldn’t have thought it was just you most of women on hear probably get the same point I was trying to make is that all men are not the same most of us read profiles and respect them
Obviously a few don’t again happy Monday do understand you wanting to vent you’re frustration
But please bear in Mind as said Most guys respect and read profiles
TTFN
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Ta ta for now
Oh I absolutely know that not all men are like that. I think I even put that in my original post.
I have some very nice conversations on here with guys all the time and even if at first they haven’t read it they often do when I ask them to.
Which is why I don’t go straight to blocking them like so many keep telling me I should do. If they know what I’m about I don’t have to keep explaining it to them and we can just chat
I have read youre profile and it seems pretty clear to me and other users what you want and what you don’t want and unlike other users understand you’re need to vent you’re frustration
Have a great day fab is fab some good some very bad enjoy what we have and we are blessed with "
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"It works both way ladies. One or more of you on here need to consider YOUR manners and be rather more polite...........than the arrogant and ignorant fuckers some of you are just because you possess a cunt.
Language Timothy!"
Well said!! 👏🏼👏🏼
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
Never understood why you’d send the same pic over and over again, if it didn’t catch their attention first time it’s unlikely to on the next 😂"
Some people clearly have no understanding of manners or social Niceties |
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
Maybe I just attract the dickheads then because the majority of guys that message me have not read my profile
Wouldn’t have thought it was just you most of women on hear probably get the same point I was trying to make is that all men are not the same most of us read profiles and respect them
Obviously a few don’t again happy Monday do understand you wanting to vent you’re frustration
But please bear in Mind as said Most guys respect and read profiles
TTFN
Or
Ta ta for now
Oh I absolutely know that not all men are like that. I think I even put that in my original post.
I have some very nice conversations on here with guys all the time and even if at first they haven’t read it they often do when I ask them to.
Which is why I don’t go straight to blocking them like so many keep telling me I should do. If they know what I’m about I don’t have to keep explaining it to them and we can just chat
I have read youre profile and it seems pretty clear to me and other users what you want and what you don’t want and unlike other users understand you’re need to vent you’re frustration
Have a great day fab is fab some good some very bad enjoy what we have and we are blessed with
Thank you for kind comments and understanding xx"
No problem as said think I’m part of 1% club just be who you want to be and be happy with you’re life that’s all we can ask for any of us
Anyway off to cook a lamb currry with leftovers from yesterday if fat dog hasn’t eaten it yet
Happy Monday to all
Remember anyone let them without sin throw the first stone
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
"
I agree there a lot of men that don't read profiles but I'm betting there are also a lot that do. However, those that do won't message because they know they don't fit what we are looking for so we only see the ones that take no notice.
We can't tar all men with the same brush, but it does sometimes feel like I block more people than I speak to. |
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
I agree there a lot of men that don't read profiles but I'm betting there are also a lot that do. However, those that do won't message because they know they don't fit what we are looking for so we only see the ones that take no notice.
We can't tar all men with the same brush, but it does sometimes feel like I block more people than I speak to. "
And that’s exactly why I don’t block people straight away because it just feels such a negative thing to do and I only want to do it if it’s completely necessary |
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
Maybe I just attract the dickheads then because the majority of guys that message me have not read my profile
Wouldn’t have thought it was just you most of women on hear probably get the same point I was trying to make is that all men are not the same most of us read profiles and respect them
Obviously a few don’t again happy Monday do understand you wanting to vent you’re frustration
But please bear in Mind as said Most guys respect and read profiles
TTFN
Or
Ta ta for now
Oh I absolutely know that not all men are like that. I think I even put that in my original post.
I have some very nice conversations on here with guys all the time and even if at first they haven’t read it they often do when I ask them to.
Which is why I don’t go straight to blocking them like so many keep telling me I should do. If they know what I’m about I don’t have to keep explaining it to them and we can just chat
I have read youre profile and it seems pretty clear to me and other users what you want and what you don’t want and unlike other users understand you’re need to vent you’re frustration
Have a great day fab is fab some good some very bad enjoy what we have and we are blessed with
Thank you for kind comments and understanding xx
No problem as said think I’m part of 1% club just be who you want to be and be happy with you’re life that’s all we can ask for any of us
Anyway off to cook a lamb currry with leftovers from yesterday if fat dog hasn’t eaten it yet
Happy Monday to all
Remember anyone let them without sin throw the first stone
"
I’m very happy with who and what I am
I know my intentions are good and that I’m a nice person with a good heart
Others have judged me otherwise on here today but I don’t care and the majority of comments and private messages have been very supportive |
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"This morning I have received the seventh unsolicited (and identical) dick pic from a single guy on here in 7 days.
He has requested to meet me on several occasions. Presumably I am expected to jump at the chance to be with him.
I have politely made it clear that I do not do meets and suggested he read my profile. Which he has clearly not done.
Something very few guys who message me seem to do. An approach I find staggering. We all know there are hugely more guys on here than women so surely to improve your chances of a response and some chat you would read the profile, find out why someone is on here.
Anyway I digress. So this morning when I received said 7th pic I simply replied with read my profile. Nothing rude but nothing sugar coated either.
His response; to tell me he’ll leave it (as if there was anything on offer for him to leave) and he’s fed up with women on here having a shitty attitude.
I try to be polite at all times on here because I know some guys get short shrift on here. I’ll point them in n the right direction and be light hearted with them as idiots like this give the nice guys a bad name
Anyway rant over and happy Easter everyone
Not all men are like this think you will find most on hear will respect filters and preferences and yes most of us read profiles
Happy Monday enjoy you’re day
Maybe I just attract the dickheads then because the majority of guys that message me have not read my profile
Wouldn’t have thought it was just you most of women on hear probably get the same point I was trying to make is that all men are not the same most of us read profiles and respect them
Obviously a few don’t again happy Monday do understand you wanting to vent you’re frustration
But please bear in Mind as said Most guys respect and read profiles
TTFN
Or
Ta ta for now
Oh I absolutely know that not all men are like that. I think I even put that in my original post.
I have some very nice conversations on here with guys all the time and even if at first they haven’t read it they often do when I ask them to.
Which is why I don’t go straight to blocking them like so many keep telling me I should do. If they know what I’m about I don’t have to keep explaining it to them and we can just chat
I have read youre profile and it seems pretty clear to me and other users what you want and what you don’t want and unlike other users understand you’re need to vent you’re frustration
Have a great day fab is fab some good some very bad enjoy what we have and we are blessed with
Thank you for kind comments and understanding xx
No problem as said think I’m part of 1% club just be who you want to be and be happy with you’re life that’s all we can ask for any of us
Anyway off to cook a lamb currry with leftovers from yesterday if fat dog hasn’t eaten it yet
Happy Monday to all
Remember anyone let them without sin throw the first stone
I’m very happy with who and what I am
I know my intentions are good and that I’m a nice person with a good heart
Others have judged me otherwise on here today but I don’t care and the majority of comments and private messages have been very supportive "
Exactly this just carry on being you it’s for no one to judge anyone on hear from you’re profile just be you |
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By *aciamiCouple 15 weeks ago
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"I see no point in engaging with anyone I have no interest in.
No response is their response, if they bother to read the site rules, or block button if they’re particularly nasty.
It’s easy that simple."
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I never understand it, that's why I don't do it, I'll send a message or a wink, if I get no response I'll take it as it is, why pester someone whose not interested? |
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Tbh i rarely even message people new people on fab that I haven’t met from club scene.
Yes I am well verified but I am a bit picky and I don’t have a lot of time outside the club scene, football and work.
So socials before hand, unless local or when I am in Manchester or Birmingham are unlikely realistically. |
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