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My wife’s ex is meeting us Tuesday night for a meal, staying the night with her while I’m away for the night.
She hasn’t met him for two years.
Wednesday morning I pick her up and we all go on holiday for a week to Belgium.
We have a three bedroom apartment and she will choose whose room she sleeps in each night at bed time.
She has told me she still loves him but would never go back to him.
He’s also been a good friend of mine for many years.
Your thoughts please ?
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"My wife’s ex is meeting us Tuesday night for a meal, staying the night with her while I’m away for the night.
She hasn’t met him for two years.
Wednesday morning I pick her up and we all go on holiday for a week to Belgium.
We have a three bedroom apartment and she will choose whose room she sleeps in each night at bed time.
She has told me she still loves him but would never go back to him.
He’s also been a good friend of mine for many years.
Your thoughts please ?
X
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Recipe for disaster |
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"My wife’s ex is meeting us Tuesday night for a meal, staying the night with her while I’m away for the night.
She hasn’t met him for two years.
Wednesday morning I pick her up and we all go on holiday for a week to Belgium.
We have a three bedroom apartment and she will choose whose room she sleeps in each night at bed time.
She has told me she still loves him but would never go back to him.
He’s also been a good friend of mine for many years.
Your thoughts please ?
X
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I don't see you getting any that week. |
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"My wife’s ex is meeting us Tuesday night for a meal, staying the night with her while I’m away for the night.
She hasn’t met him for two years.
Wednesday morning I pick her up and we all go on holiday for a week to Belgium.
We have a three bedroom apartment and she will choose whose room she sleeps in each night at bed time.
She has told me she still loves him but would never go back to him.
He’s also been a good friend of mine for many years.
Your thoughts please ?
X
Recipe for disaster "
Why a disaster?
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"My wife’s ex is meeting us Tuesday night for a meal, staying the night with her while I’m away for the night.
She hasn’t met him for two years.
Wednesday morning I pick her up and we all go on holiday for a week to Belgium.
We have a three bedroom apartment and she will choose whose room she sleeps in each night at bed time.
She has told me she still loves him but would never go back to him.
He’s also been a good friend of mine for many years.
Your thoughts please ?
X
I don't see you getting any that week. "
Do you not ?
Why’s that ? |
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It depends on how your dynamics are… if you feel comfortable enough with that and there’s enough trust between you two, you can speak openly about all of this and all feeling are made clear I guess it could work. We have a different view being outside the relationship you two have. Sometimes it might be good hearing others opinions, sometimes it could also do more harm then not. Just go along with what you are both comfortable with and if there’s anything that’s giving you doubts, it might be worth having another conversation about it… |
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"Why did they split up ?
He moved to Wales so lost touch.
Shame there is no means of communication or contact between England and Wales"
They remained friends on txt but havnt met for two years
I’ve visited him a few times and remain mates |
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"It depends on how your dynamics are… if you feel comfortable enough with that and there’s enough trust between you two, you can speak openly about all of this and all feeling are made clear I guess it could work. We have a different view being outside the relationship you two have. Sometimes it might be good hearing others opinions, sometimes it could also do more harm then not. Just go along with what you are both comfortable with and if there’s anything that’s giving you doubts, it might be worth having another conversation about it… "
Thank you for your reply, we have a solid relationship and very open x |
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"I think perhaps you should all spend a night or two in the same house or hotel here to see how it goes. Plunging straight in to a whole week abroad together seems a bold move. "
Yes I see your point
We have tried to arrange a meet beforehand but dates didn’t align I’m afraid x |
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Personally I think it sounds great. 
Certainly for me, the best MFM is when all those involved know each other, it just takes it to another level.
In the past I had a long-term relationship with a couple and we were really close. I'd stay over and we'd all sleep together or I'd stay in their guest room when we were fit for nothing else and just wanted to sleep.
I have a very fond memory of her visiting me in the spare room in the middle of the night for an extra fill up.
Ultimately, like anything around what we like in these parts, you've got to trust each other. I'd say you were better to embrace and enjoy the scenario, as opposed to dwelling on any issues you feel may arise from it; People do what they want to do in life. If something adverse happens (as seems to be the sub-text of your post), then it's going to happen anyway and way more likely so, if you make a fuss or try to control the situation to prevent it. |
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"Personally I think it sounds great.
Certainly for me, the best MFM is when all those involved know each other, it just takes it to another level.
In the past I had a long-term relationship with a couple and we were really close. I'd stay over and we'd all sleep together or I'd stay in their guest room when we were fit for nothing else and just wanted to sleep.
I have a very fond memory of her visiting me in the spare room in the middle of the night for an extra fill up.
Ultimately, like anything around what we like in these parts, you've got to trust each other. I'd say you were better to embrace and enjoy the scenario, as opposed to dwelling on any issues you feel may arise from it; People do what they want to do in life. If something adverse happens (as seems to be the sub-text of your post), then it's going to happen anyway and way more likely so, if you make a fuss or try to control the situation to prevent it. "
My thoughts entirely
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By *ooneyCouple 7 weeks ago
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"My wife’s ex is meeting us Tuesday night for a meal, staying the night with her while I’m away for the night.
She hasn’t met him for two years.
Wednesday morning I pick her up and we all go on holiday for a week to Belgium.
We have a three bedroom apartment and she will choose whose room she sleeps in each night at bed time.
She has told me she still loves him but would never go back to him.
He’s also been a good friend of mine for many years.
Your thoughts please ?
X
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total madness and will end in tears. |
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"My wife’s ex is meeting us Tuesday night for a meal, staying the night with her while I’m away for the night.
She hasn’t met him for two years.
Wednesday morning I pick her up and we all go on holiday for a week to Belgium.
We have a three bedroom apartment and she will choose whose room she sleeps in each night at bed time.
She has told me she still loves him but would never go back to him.
He’s also been a good friend of mine for many years.
Your thoughts please ?
X
total madness and will end in tears."
Thank you for your opinion x |
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"Looking forward to some daily updates about how the week is going.
Have you some daytime excursions planned ?"
Happy to send you updates
Yes we are touring the WW2 history around the area
It’s my friends hobby, apart from pleasuring my wife  |
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"I am right in thinking your good friend had a partner. They drifted apart when he moved to Wales. Now you have married this ex. ?"
Yes, when he moved to wales he suggested I took her walking with me in the mountains and it progressed from there
I didn’t know at the time that they were swinging as well |
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"I don't think they are planning threesomes.
Oh yes we are
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It was just you didn't mention threesomes in your original thread. How exciting. So it will be a first for you and your good friend. "
We have had threesomes before but not with him |
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"I am right in thinking your good friend had a partner. They drifted apart when he moved to Wales. Now you have married this ex. ?
Yes, when he moved to wales he suggested I took her walking with me in the mountains and it progressed from there
I didn’t know at the time that they were swinging as well "
They were swinging, they are texting, she says she still loves him. Despite you getting married, it sounds like they never broke up.
Personally, of the number of people you could meet, invite or communicate with, an ex lover would not be one of them. |
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"My wife’s ex is meeting us Tuesday night for a meal, staying the night with her while I’m away for the night.
She hasn’t met him for two years.
Wednesday morning I pick her up and we all go on holiday for a week to Belgium.
We have a three bedroom apartment and she will choose whose room she sleeps in each night at bed time.
She has told me she still loves him but would never go back to him.
He’s also been a good friend of mine for many years.
Your thoughts please ?
X
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some complicated answers but i fnd this situation and your accetance so exciting and sexy
are you going to find it as intense and erotic as your wife and your freind undoubtedly will? |
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"I am right in thinking your good friend had a partner. They drifted apart when he moved to Wales. Now you have married this ex. ?
Yes, when he moved to wales he suggested I took her walking with me in the mountains and it progressed from there
I didn’t know at the time that they were swinging as well
They were swinging, they are texting, she says she still loves him. Despite you getting married, it sounds like they never broke up.
Personally, of the number of people you could meet, invite or communicate with, an ex lover would not be one of them. "
Thanks for your reply x |
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"I imagine she will be picking his room but will she tuck you in wiht a reasssuring kiss and a promise to return in the morning with a lovely smile and salty kiss for you "
Mmmmm do hope so
Coffee and bacon sandwich as well would be nice |
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By *43SomeCouple 7 weeks ago
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I think if your marriage is very stable and you can honestly say you are still in love with your husband, I know it is very easy to love two men at the same time. One a part time lover that just shares you.
Honesty between all of you is paramount. |
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"I think if your marriage is very stable and you can honestly say you are still in love with your husband, I know it is very easy to love two men at the same time. One a part time lover that just shares you.
Honesty between all of you is paramount."
Exactly that, thank you xx |
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"Interesting setup "
It was, very
All three enjoyed the freedom to do whatever we wanted with each other
Either in the apartment or outside or in bars and restaurants
We both treated her with love and respect as we would our wives
Planning another tri soon |
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