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Do people prefer b8gger women?
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I've lost a lot of weight in the last year and have been shocked to discover that has resulted in us having less meets. At first I thought it was just a coincidence but it seems to be the only thing that has changed in the last year or so. We would consider ourselves to be reasonably attractive and absolutely not supermodels by any stretch of the imagination. We were quite successful at meeting ladies in a club without prior arrangement, but now it seems that we can't even attract a ladies attention. Has anyone else noticed this? Or is it something else that we can't see? Any help and advice would be greatly appreciated, it feels like we are invisible lately 😞
(Not looking for pity or fishing for compliments, just honest feedback)
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Could be people think they’ve less of a chance to meet. Could just be the luck of the draw. I feel it’s been quieter for a while too. I think a lot of people have got sick of the time wasters and binned it off. And more club meets. |
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By *eys00Man 14 weeks ago
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It’s always been my personal preference but it’s just that; personal. Are you happy with how you look after your weight loss? That’s all that matters. If you are then enjoy the feeling of accomplishment for your hard work and have no doubt that the attention will undoubtedly follow |
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Uh, I think a lot of it is to do with perceived threat. The more attractive a woman is, the more of a threat she is to the position of the woman considering her. Lizard brain can take over quite easily when dealing with something as primal as sex.
It's silly. But I know I've seen a massive change in people's reactions to me since losing a lot of weight.
Chubby is just safe and comfortable 💜 |
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"simple answer is no i do very well via fab and other sites and clubs and private parties and im super picky too
im 5ft size 6/8 small petite
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Single ladies are always super popular wherever they go, very lucky and very attractive x
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Depends on the person but I would say generally no, you only have to glance at the hot photos or look in the media to see what most people prefer, as I'm sure you're aware.
The media, and by extension, the world has a huge issue with fatphobia which infects our daily lives; I know I'm not the only person on fab who gets hated on constantly for my body, especially if I have the audacity to not respond to a 'wanna fuck' message which naturally warrants a tirade of fatphobic abuse |
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"simple answer is no i do very well via fab and other sites and clubs and private parties and im super picky too
im 5ft size 6/8 small petite
Single ladies are always super popular wherever they go, very lucky and very attractive x
Mrs x"
im not single im part of a couple and also have my couples profile on here too  |
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There are men like myself who absolves the larger woman , and ti be fair bring quite select on that does narrow down my search so struggle to find who men I like that local , looking at you , you definitely tick all my boxes
"Depends on the person but I would say generally no, you only have to glance at the hot photos or look in the media to see what most people prefer, as I'm sure you're aware.
The media, and by extension, the world has a huge issue with fatphobia which infects our daily lives; I know I'm not the only person on fab who gets hated on constantly for my body, especially if I have the audacity to not respond to a 'wanna fuck' message which naturally warrants a tirade of fatphobic abuse "
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"Depends on the person but I would say generally no, you only have to glance at the hot photos or look in the media to see what most people prefer, as I'm sure you're aware.
The media, and by extension, the world has a huge issue with fatphobia which infects our daily lives; I know I'm not the only person on fab who gets hated on constantly for my body, especially if I have the audacity to not respond to a 'wanna fuck' message which naturally warrants a tirade of fatphobic abuse "
We both find women of all sizes and shapes attractive, we find personality and attitude play a very big part for us both.
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"simple answer is no i do very well via fab and other sites and clubs and private parties and im super picky too
im 5ft size 6/8 small petite
Single ladies are always super popular wherever they go, very lucky and very attractive x
Mrs x
im not single im part of a couple and also have my couples profile on here too "
Regardless of being in a couple you play solo and will always be in demand as a result x
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"Some do some don't but most of the women in the first few pages of hot women are slim. "
But getting fabs on here or reaching the hotlist is irrelevant, I don't go in for fab or like culture. I'm speaking more as a couple that only plays with bi ladies and how it's become harder to meet at clubs as a result of weight loss.
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By *eys00Man 14 weeks ago
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"Depends on the person but I would say generally no, you only have to glance at the hot photos or look in the media to see what most people prefer, as I'm sure you're aware.
The media, and by extension, the world has a huge issue with fatphobia which infects our daily lives; I know I'm not the only person on fab who gets hated on constantly for my body, especially if I have the audacity to not respond to a 'wanna fuck' message which naturally warrants a tirade of fatphobic abuse
We both find women of all sizes and shapes attractive, we find personality and attitude play a very big part for us both.
Mrs x"
This is the thing, I find for this site a personality will go much further than amazing pictures and particularly when it comes to actually arranging some fun. Granted I’m still somewhat of a rookie in terms of meets, but the ladies I’ve been drawn to have been the ones that seem fun and confident when chatting. Connection does far more than attraction! |
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"Depends on the person but I would say generally no, you only have to glance at the hot photos or look in the media to see what most people prefer, as I'm sure you're aware.
The media, and by extension, the world has a huge issue with fatphobia which infects our daily lives; I know I'm not the only person on fab who gets hated on constantly for my body, especially if I have the audacity to not respond to a 'wanna fuck' message which naturally warrants a tirade of fatphobic abuse
We both find women of all sizes and shapes attractive, we find personality and attitude play a very big part for us both.
Mrs x
This is the thing, I find for this site a personality will go much further than amazing pictures and particularly when it comes to actually arranging some fun. Granted I’m still somewhat of a rookie in terms of meets, but the ladies I’ve been drawn to have been the ones that seem fun and confident when chatting. Connection does far more than attraction!"
[you are so right about that , fir me connection and chemistry is a big must for having great fun , so I always like to build this by chatting and finding things out , that’s goes much further than just looks for instance , being a lover of larger women , I find them all to be more genuine, better fun and easier |
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You look great to me. From your pics it looks like you are fellow visitors to Pleasures. Whilst there has to be an attraction its more about personality, a smile and a laugh, cleanliness, and a bit of fun. I dont think it's really about size. Often it just takes a simple hello to break the ice.....we are crap at that btw 🤣
Maybe you are now just too hot 🔥 and people think they are not good enough themselves to stand a chance.
If you bump in to us give us a nudge and say hello.
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"We predominantly meet at clubs, always had more success getting meets in person. Fabs has never been easy to arrange a meet through.
Mrs x"
I’d be after a meet if closer but that always seems to be the case too. The ones that want to meet are to far away |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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"I've lost a lot of weight in the last year and have been shocked to discover that has resulted in us having less meets. At first I thought it was just a coincidence but it seems to be the only thing that has changed in the last year or so. We would consider ourselves to be reasonably attractive and absolutely not supermodels by any stretch of the imagination. We were quite successful at meeting ladies in a club without prior arrangement, but now it seems that we can't even attract a ladies attention. Has anyone else noticed this? Or is it something else that we can't see? Any help and advice would be greatly appreciated, it feels like we are invisible lately 😞
(Not looking for pity or fishing for compliments, just honest feedback)
Mrs x "
Congrats on the weight loss though you look great in your before and after pics in my opinion |
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