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Which do you prefer sex bareback or with condom ? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I default to condoms for safety, I'm more likely to not use them if I've been with that person for a while and/or we're in a relationship and even then as long as there's no pregnancy risk |
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For on here a condom, I wouldn't risk my health for a fumble. If I was in a relationship or long term fwb then bareback. |
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Bareback but I'm selective with who  |
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Condom for sure until both are comfortable and boundaries are made etc |
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By *andB130Couple 10 weeks ago
northampton |
Condoms for anyone joining us except with one trusted friend |
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Absolutely would agree  |
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Condom. As much as I like it otherwise. |
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I think everyone if they were honest, would say bareback, but obviously every concerns put people off |
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Condom ,even though I’m tested negative and on prep |
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I don’t use a condom for oral. But everytime I have sex I use one |
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I know it is bad, but bareback is so much hotter! |
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We are a bareback couple. Please single guys do not bombard us with messages. We are looking really to meet couples for full bareback swap |
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Bare all the way, never liked condoms |
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Ideally bare but all wishes are respected xx |
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Hate condoms, love the feeling of bare inside me  |
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By *oodo69Man 10 weeks ago
London (visiting frequently) |
Nothing beats that bare feeling xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Bare like the feeling of pussy around my cock |
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Condom, I have no idea who you have been with before me. |
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Obviously we love bareback but that's only for eachother |
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always safe unless in long term and getting tested |
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"Bare is best "
Would love to go bare with you |
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I would have thought everyone would prefer bareback? |
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"I would have thought everyone would prefer bareback?"
definitely prefer it but safety first |
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By *heelerMan 10 weeks ago
Northants |
No contest bareback everytime unless it's someone new and not quite trustworthy |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I prefer bareback because condoms put me off don’t get me excited |
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I love bareback sex, who doesn't...sadly though, it doesn't happen as my trust in people is non existent.
With a condom on, it doesn't feel as animalistic or as horny but needs must! |
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"Bare all the way, never liked condoms "
Likewise |
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mrs much prefers bareback but would have to be condom with others |
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Only with condoms unless they are a partner or my fwb. Not worth the risk. |
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"I love bareback sex, who doesn't...sadly though, it doesn't happen as my trust in people is non existent.
With a condom on, it doesn't feel as animalistic or as horny but needs must! "
Exactly this, pausing to put a condom on kinda dampens the mood a bit, makes it feel less impulsive, but I'd still do it every time unless they're a trusted partner |
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It entirely depends on the level of trust and knowledge of history. Whilst bare is obviously the most sensual, my continued good health is paramount so Condoms where unsure. |
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By *ornado69Man 10 weeks ago
Princess Risborough |
Love bb and licking a lady clean afterwards, but for safety reasons i reserve that for trusted friends. |
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Bare is our preferred way to play...but respect all boundaries...x |
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We're very safe players (thus the name), but a couple we've known for many years and trust, then bareback.
Otherwise the thought of risking it takes a lot of the pleasure away so we're all for carrying condoms |
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By *ixie69Woman 10 weeks ago
leicester |
Condom for random meets. I see a couple of guys regularly and go bareback with them now. |
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She refused to use condoms which suited me to the ground. |
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Bareback with a guy we see quite regularly. |
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Bareback but in the lifestyle we only play safe so unfortunately condoms for play. |
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Bareback is preferred with someone regular. Condoms make me lose an errection but I'd rather lose the errection than catch or pass something |
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Bareback would be preferable if I had someone regular, I find condoms make me come too fast |
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By *jekimMan 10 weeks ago
Wigan |
I'll play with or without if I trust the woman but if you want me to cum it will never happen in a condom  |
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I think most of us prefer bare, but whether it’s realistic is another matter |
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My choice is bareback, but if the guy wants to use a condom I'm OK with it |
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"My choice is bareback, but if the guy wants to use a condom I'm OK with it "
I’m with there BB all the way |
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Bareback all the way if I could! |
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We're surprised this question keeps cropping up. Obviously everyone prefers bare but in this lifestyle it has to be condoms for us. |
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We are all adults and can make that decision with scrutiny from others xx |
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"We are all adults and can make that decision with scrutiny from others xx"
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Condoms but now I’ve turned 60 I’ve given bare a thought or two |
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I find condoms better for comfort, but they can cause a burning sensation if I haven't used enough lube.
If I was to go bare I'd use my trusty water based lube. Shower before and after. No problems and no health issues.
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Would both absolutely love our mfm threesome to be bareback, but ultimately depends on how well we know and how comfortable with him we are |
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We been away back next week our 3rd will be fucking my wife loads and bare back we love his cum up her 😀 |
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Bareback, creampie , pussy leaking sticky wet fucking preferably please with a trusted friend....completely random stranger? no. I've had the snip and am tested so could vouch for my safety. Can you? |
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Post covid I've flipped to bareback.
Love to feel squishy...
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Condoms for safety,,,health s so important,,but I struggle to cum in a condom |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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With a condom and I prefer it that way. |
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Both depends on the person who your having sex with |
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Bareback with a trusted partner |
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Better to be safe than sorry
I do try to be selective, looking for people who are sane, sensible, take their health seriously and others.
And if it becomes a regular thing, trust us built, and both tested then I’ll go bare. As it’s the best feeling, very liberating. |
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Bareback with my man- condoms when we play with others x |
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By *anandrubyCouple 10 weeks ago
Chelmsford / Sutton |
"Bareback with my man- condoms when we play with others x"
Definitely this |
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What’s wrong with the withdrawal method?🤷♂️ |
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Bareback for me I'm regularly tested I prefer to have a regular FWB to be bare with. If someone has a recent clear sti test then if it feels right why not. |
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"Which do you prefer sex bareback or with condom ? Xx"
hmm tough choice
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"We been away back next week our 3rd will be fucking my wife loads and bare back we love his cum up her 😀"
I’m near you, if you are ever looking for someone else, let me know |
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Depends. I always default to condom, unless it’s with the wife or someone I trust and have known for a long time and if there’s no pregnancy risk and if there’s a recent sti test showing everyone’s negative.
Otherwise, condom for sex |
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I prefer bare,as most people do.
I like cummin inside a lady. However,it's only with people I know and trust,so doesn't happen a lot in the greater scheme of things. |
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Without with my husband bit we always use protection when with others x
Mrs x |
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By *riel13Woman 10 weeks ago
Northampton |
Condom only... Don't think I even like the thought of bareback anymore  |
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I've never understood the whole bareback with strangers thing... I tend to go bare in relationships and people that I trust, but for clubs, one nighters and randoms I go wrapped. An exception could be that they have a recent clean health check done |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Condom only... Don't think I even like the thought of bareback anymore "
Same as me. I actually prefer sex with a condom.
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Bare obviously feels worlds apart but it depends on people’s risk levels they are happy living by |
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Condom all the way. Not worth the risk. |
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Bareback with the mrs but safety first with everyone else! |
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Obviously bareback feels better, but too many std’s and condom is safe. Equally seen some women only meet bb, yet to have the offer to meet and dilemma of their preference vs risk… |
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I'm a big risk taker (feels like I'm really living life), so bareback. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Always the balance between safety or real pleasure  |
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Bareback with us
Condoms with anyone else |
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We like bareback, not for everyone. But we respect people’s choices. |
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Well condoms for most meets, but if everyones tested and clean there is NOTHING sexier then a couple loads inside a sexy hot wife |
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By *amsoonMan 9 weeks ago
Stornoway |
My wife loves bareback with her long term lover but makes me wear a condom |
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"We like bareback, not for everyone. But we respect people’s choices. "
Exactly the same here |
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"We like bareback, not for everyone. But we respect people’s choices. "
Same for us, but appreciate not everyone is of the same opinion. |
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"We like bareback, not for everyone. But we respect people’s choices.
Same for us, but appreciate not everyone is of the same opinion."
Definitely respect others too. |
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By *redzMan 9 weeks ago
liverpool |
Bareback for sure, love my hole being stretched skin on skin and the feeling of a guy cumming inside especially multiple loads |
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Bareback between ourselves, helps that the mr has had the snip. Always safe sex on here though |
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Not for everyone but the Ex and I always went BB with other men |
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"We like bareback, not for everyone. But we respect people’s choices.
Same for us, but appreciate not everyone is of the same opinion."
Same for me |
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Bareback when it’s me and Sean, condom for meets
Donna x |
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By *ina777Woman 9 weeks ago
Cumbria |
Much prefer Bare and lots of spunk inside my cunt and arse |
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"Much prefer Bare and lots of spunk inside my cunt and arse "
I’m around every week, shame you’ve blocked single men! |
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By *jekimMan 9 weeks ago
Wigan |
"Much prefer Bare and lots of spunk inside my cunt and arse "
mmmm yes please I'd leave every drop 💧 I had in your bum   |
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By *ina777Woman 9 weeks ago
Cumbria |
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By *ina777Woman 9 weeks ago
Cumbria |
"Much prefer Bare and lots of spunk inside my cunt and arse
I’m around every week, shame you’ve blocked single men!"
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By *ina777Woman 9 weeks ago
Cumbria |
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By *ina777Woman 9 weeks ago
Cumbria |
Single men are not blocked btw |
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Preference gets superseded by good sexual health and hygiene so on hear is condoms every time. |
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By *oodo69Man 9 weeks ago
London (visiting frequently) |
Cunt or ass, nothing feels better than bareback xx |
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love the feeling but always play safe unless long term |
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We *prefer* without but we wouldn't do with anybody except each other. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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I like bare but will go with whatever the person prefers |
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By *ebbie69Couple 9 weeks ago
milton keynes |
Always prefer bare but understand it's not for everyone so happy with condoms to. If the person is also kinky I do ask that they empty the condom over me once they have filled it. |
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By *ornado69Man 9 weeks ago
Princess Risborough |
I love bare but only with somebody i trust. My ex loved bare, she loved the excitement of sex and knowing that the guy would be enjoying her so much he filled her up |
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whilst we are sure we would prefer bareback, unfortunately in nature's wisdom various std can come along so for us it's condoms with everyone else and bareback for between the two of us |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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Bareback with each other safe with everyone else ...though we do have a few trusted friends 😉 |
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"Single men are not blocked btw "
We are!!
Message me if you want to chat. |
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Bare all the way.. any MMF or group creampie I would love 👌 |
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safe si the way unless in a genuine relationship, in an ideal world it would be bare, but its far from ideal |
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Bareback is for us only
Anyone else is safe sex only |
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I think everyone prefers bareback pretty much. Just some don't want to risk catching anything so use condoms |
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I prefer bareback. I don’t hide that on my profile. In my experience most people I’ve met play bare even if their profile says they don’t. |
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"Much prefer Bare and lots of spunk inside my cunt and arse "
Would love to see your friend videos! |
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I like to be disease free so condoms for me please.
Mrs x |
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"I like to be disease free so condoms for me please.
Mrs x"
100% this |
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Ive met with females who say condom only on their profiles, yet have jumped at the chance to go bare and want cum up them |
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Reading threads like this confirms our choice to insist on condoms.  |
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"Condoms 💯 madness not to "
As above xx
Stupid not to |
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By *leetwoCouple 9 weeks ago
Cleethorpes |
Is anyone brave enough to admit catching anything from bare ? lol xx |
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With regular partner bareback all the way but someone u meet for extra fun should definitely be condom |
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By *arsMan 9 weeks ago
dundee |
Condom for first few meets,however if things were to turn into the fwb direction,then I don’t see bareback being such a no go |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"Much prefer Bare and lots of spunk inside my cunt and arse "
Lovely spunk in arse ... Just lovely |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"Single men are not blocked btw "
Oh well impossible to message you |
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Bare once you get to know someone |
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The Ex and I were in the swinging lifestyle, mostly with men, since we first met over 40 years ago and continued through our marriage of 37 years. Never used condoms and all the couples we ever met with the same sexual mindset as us never used condoms either. Can't speak for all but the only STI either of us ever got was Chlamydia, I know that is more luck than anything but considering the first 8 years we were living in Africa so good going. |
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I prefer bareback but always play safe. I would only bareback with a long term partner |
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I only go bare with people I want to fuck. Otherwise I keep my pants on. |
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Prefer bare back but only do it with people I know and can trust, would NEVER consider with someone first time. Unless they were a virgin lol |
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"Which do you prefer sex bareback or with condom ? Xx"
Can you tell real bullets from blanks ?
Just saying. |
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"Which do you prefer sex bareback or with condom ? Xx
Can you tell real bullets from blanks ?
Just saying."
Yes. Blanks have a crimped end. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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Bare |
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Safe sex is a must. Condoms only |
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By *redzMan 8 weeks ago
liverpool |
Definitely bareback, why fuck if you’re not filling a hole with cum?!  |
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Bareback for me is a super turn on and feeling that pussy griping my pulsing cock |
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By *AT4funMan 8 weeks ago
Milton Keynes |
BB as it feels so good and just sliding into a wet pussy bare and in the moment is hot |
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Bareback is always better but depends on the person you’re with and how comfortable they are |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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Definitely prefer bareback but I respect everyone’s wishes or preferences. |
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By *andSxxCouple 8 weeks ago
Birmingham |
This is not a question.
Definitely bareback. |
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