I know men always talk about getting the wife’s involved. But my dilemma is the other way around.
I’m looking to get the hubby involved. I have a few fantasy’s with him going on in my mind. I’ve done a lot of my own fantasy’s . So the ones I have with him in them are really turning me on.
Can anybody help offer advice. |
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"I know men always talk about getting the wife’s involved. But my dilemma is the other way around.
I’m looking to get the hubby involved. I have a few fantasy’s with him going on in my mind. I’ve done a lot of my own fantasy’s . So the ones I have with him in them are really turning me on.
Can anybody help offer advice."
How and when have you approached this with your husband?? What scenarios are you fantasising about |
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"I know men always talk about getting the wife’s involved. But my dilemma is the other way around.
I’m looking to get the hubby involved. I have a few fantasy’s with him going on in my mind. I’ve done a lot of my own fantasy’s . So the ones I have with him in them are really turning me on.
Can anybody help offer advice."
Are you already on the scene together, alone or not at all?
If already on it and he doesn’t know it’s going to difficult without him feeling cheated and betrayed.
If he does know it starts with talking, and keep taking more. Communication is key as a couple on the scene |
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Might be a sweeping statement but most guys would happily hear their wife/gf open up to them about their fantasies, as most likely the guy would have his own but not air them.
I personally think women looking to explore have it slightly easier. But all starts with open conversations in what you want to explore; but also be prepared to explore what he wants too |
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By *eyeYCouple 13 weeks ago
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"I understand that a conversation needs to happen. But the thought off putting him into situations i am controlling really turns me on."
Same for us, but you need his consent and to have talked through the 'how would you feel about' points..
It's been a huge turn on for both D and I, me directing play with both men and women, watching and joining in.
We're both switch, so it isn't a one way thing either 😈🔥 |
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