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By *emma200 OP Woman 3 weeks ago
Warwickshire |
Was asked by a friend the other day what I’d rate myself out of 10 in terms of body and look wise ?
Now .. confidence is off the scale for my mouth, but when it comes to body / looks.. it’s quite the opposite. |
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What rating did you give yourself? |
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I think it is healthy to love how you look |
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"Was asked by a friend the other day what I’d rate myself out of 10 in terms of body and look wise ?
Now .. confidence is off the scale for my mouth, but when it comes to body / looks.. it’s quite the opposite."
you are not less than a 9/10 for me, you are stunning.
I'd be happy with 7 for myself |
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By *emma200 OP Woman 3 weeks ago
Warwickshire |
"What rating did you give yourself?"
6..I’m quite a confident person but clothes off.. unfortunately it’s a different story |
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"What rating did you give yourself?
6..I’m quite a confident person but clothes off.. unfortunately it’s a different story "
From what I can by your pics. You're definitely higher than a six for sure. |
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"What rating did you give yourself?
6..I’m quite a confident person but clothes off.. unfortunately it’s a different story "
You look amazing you are a 10/10 for me |
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"Was asked by a friend the other day what I’d rate myself out of 10 in terms of body and look wise ?
Now .. confidence is off the scale for my mouth, but when it comes to body / looks.. it’s quite the opposite."
I’m the same, I’m still not confident about my body to put a public pic on.
I do have some distinctive features too so also worried about privacy in my area |
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I'd say definitely higher than a 6, I'd rather you 8 or 9 x |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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"What rating did you give yourself?
6..I’m quite a confident person but clothes off.. unfortunately it’s a different story "
You have a great figure. It would be a “omg yes please!” from me  |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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5 for me on a good day with the wind behind me...but higher than 6 for you, comfortably imo 😍 |
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Definitely higher than 6 |
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By *emma200 OP Woman 3 weeks ago
Warwickshire |
"Was asked by a friend the other day what I’d rate myself out of 10 in terms of body and look wise ?
Now .. confidence is off the scale for my mouth, but when it comes to body / looks.. it’s quite the opposite."
The question for you all was meant to be.. what would you rate yourselves 🙄🙈 |
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"Was asked by a friend the other day what I’d rate myself out of 10 in terms of body and look wise ?
Now .. confidence is off the scale for my mouth, but when it comes to body / looks.. it’s quite the opposite.
I’m the same, I’m still not confident about my body to put a public pic on.
I do have some distinctive features too so also worried about privacy in my area "
I certainly understand you concerns for privacy. However, you have no need to be concerned about your body from your pic. |
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"Was asked by a friend the other day what I’d rate myself out of 10 in terms of body and look wise ?
Now .. confidence is off the scale for my mouth, but when it comes to body / looks.. it’s quite the opposite.
The question for you all was meant to be.. what would you rate yourselves 🙄🙈"
I'd give myself a 6 |
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I think we all harbour elements of self doubt, some which could be attributed to genuine reasons and others less so - as in we are much 'better' than we would give credit for.
My confidence within a one-to-one social setting (e.g. a date) or in a bedroom is a 9 out of 10...
... however I would give myself a 5 overall. That's not a self deprecating remark but more to do with existential issues: Alopecia. That knocked my confidence and, whilst I'm still meeting people (women) it's a hurdle which I have to overcome and gain reassurance that she is also comfortable with my 'condition'.
Sorry for the waffle! 🩶 |
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By *limlady76Woman 3 weeks ago
Southampton for a bit… |
Always been body confident but now I have a bloating issue which has made me really self conscious, but still have good days and know I’m in better shape than most women my age
Definitely not confident about my face though, know I’m not pretty and have features that I hate.
Avoid face videos and selfies at all times… 😔 |
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I would say 8 for me. I am far from perfect, but I have had children and am no spring chicken. I do, however, have good genes and try to make the most of what I have. |
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I’m fairly body confident most of the time although I do have days where I can only see the bits I don’t like but on the whole I’d say maybe a 7-8 xx 😄 |
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By *rG2025Man 3 weeks ago
Blackpool |
More often than not I give myself 1 |
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We get confidence from each other so an 8 😊 |
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7 on a good day, mostly 6 though. |
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At work very confident but in pvt quite shy and find difficult to small talk so 5 because carrying to much weight |
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I'd give myself a 7. Others maybe rate me slightly less but I'm confident in my own skin and couldn't give a s$%t! |
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I am currently a 7, after some recent weight loss. I think my face does the heavy lifting though… as well as other areas 
[Happy to send a face pic in message if you’re curious] |
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I say a 6.
Hubby says a 10
He's biased tho. 🤷 |
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"I say a 6.
Hubby says a 10
He's biased tho. 🤷"
I agree with hubby
And I think most will |
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SW is a definite 8-9 with and without clothes. I maybe biased but scared to say anything else 🤣🤣🤣.
Me in definitely under a 5, but that’s age and kids🙄.
Mr |
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My I'm reasonably shaped for my age, fairly good looking with lovely blue eyes.
So I'm giving myself 7 out of 10
Always good to have a little room for improvement.
Jemma 7+ be you be confident be happy
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By *beeMan 3 weeks ago
Bristol |
I roll between a 5&8 I recon... Oh the highs and lows of self confidence!!! |
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I'd give myself a 6 to 7, had a lot of ill health over the last 3 years, I like to think I've worked hard to get back fit |
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Both 8/10 in the Fab world.
Both 6/10 in the real world. |
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5
I'm quite critical of myself  |
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"Both 8/10 in the Fab world.
Both 6/10 in the real world. "
Add 2 (at least) to both your scores for me. |
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I always rate myself at 10.
Other people will definitely disagree which is fine by me. You have to like yourself |
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I'd go with a 7/10 for me
But Mr says he's 5/10 not sure why |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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I'd say a 6 for myself |
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Have more confidence in yourselves everyone.
You've got one body, treat it nicely and be kind to it, rate it highly. You'll never get another. |
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"Have more confidence in yourselves everyone.
You've got one body, treat it nicely and be kind to it, rate it highly. You'll never get another. "
I find it very diffcult...and I say this at the risk of making others avoid me...Very difficult to like myself  |
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By *emma200 OP Woman 3 weeks ago
Warwickshire |
"Have more confidence in yourselves everyone.
You've got one body, treat it nicely and be kind to it, rate it highly. You'll never get another. "
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How can you rate yourself?? Every woman hates something about ourselves. Every man seems to like my boob's so that's it. Boobies. Men are narcissist. We aren't xxx |
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5.5 to 6 face
6 to 7 body
Darent say for my little fella
Can send pic
Xx |
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"Have more confidence in yourselves everyone.
You've got one body, treat it nicely and be kind to it, rate it highly. You'll never get another.
I find it very diffcult...and I say this at the risk of making others avoid me...Very difficult to like myself "
You can still be kind to yourself .
I'm not saying it's easy for everyone |
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By *ossssMan 3 weeks ago
North East of England |
No more than 4 I'd say |
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Probably an 8 for my age, I knocked one off for being under 6ft and another for not having a BBC |
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By *avexxMan 3 weeks ago
cheshire |
just be happy with what youve got,, i wouldnt give myself a rating |
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Probably an 8 for my age, I knocked one off for being under 6ft and another for not having a BBC |
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I'd say 6/7 depending if i make an effort or not. |
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I’d give myself an average score 4-5 but personality 9 |
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By *tr8MrEMan 3 weeks ago
somewhere near Sheffield |
I'm a 5
Don't consider myself anything but average all round. I'm not the kinda guy you stare at for hours in a bar with brain going "phwoar" .... I'm more a quick glance and move along gentleman...it's only when you converse with me that you'll discover what I'm all about |
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im 6.5 but my cock is a 10
apparently |
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I'm going with 7... if I do more cardio that might go up 🤣 |
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I'm an 8 but always had a high opinion of myself |
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By *tr8MrEMan 3 weeks ago
somewhere near Sheffield |
"I'm going with 7... if I do more cardio that might go up 🤣"
Sod off, you're an 8.5 at the least....I can't think of any sane man who'd say no to you!! |
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I'd give myself a 7.5 and hubby a 10 (obviously! He's f*king gorgeous) 🥰 |
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"I'd give myself a 7.5 and hubby a 10 (obviously! He's f*king gorgeous) 🥰"
Other way I'd say
No offence hubby strong 8 I'd say bud
Glad I could clear that up
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Id say I'm a 6/10 at the most, just mr average lol |
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"I'd give myself a 7.5 and hubby a 10 (obviously! He's f*king gorgeous) 🥰"
Whaaaaat?!! You need to up your score, you're beautiful!!! |
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Id say I'm maybe a 5-5.5, it’s only my personality and humour that’s saves me. |
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I rate myself a gazillion out of ten!!!
Not an ego thing.
More a self confident, know I'm fucking worth it...
As Gloria once said, I am what am, I sm my own special creation".... |
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"I'd give myself a 7.5 and hubby a 10 (obviously! He's f*king gorgeous) 🥰
Whaaaaat?!! You need to up your score, you're beautiful!!!"
You never rated yourself |
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Love it that no one's been cocky enough to go I'm a 11
Lol |
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I'd rate myself a 7 and Mr a 9  he's sexy as..... |
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I'd rather myself maybe a 4 on a good day. |
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"I'd give myself a 7.5 and hubby a 10 (obviously! He's f*king gorgeous) 🥰
Whaaaaat?!! You need to up your score, you're beautiful!!!
You never rated yourself"
Yes she did.. she gave herself a 7.
Clearly she deserves more than that though. She's banging! 🔥🔥🔥 |
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By *ike341Man 3 weeks ago
Leamington Spa |
"Was asked by a friend the other day what I’d rate myself out of 10 in terms of body and look wise ?
Now .. confidence is off the scale for my mouth, but when it comes to body / looks.. it’s quite the opposite."
J I would give you 1 |
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I would say possibly a 8 and happy with what I’ve got |
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For me an 8 at the highest, hubby is a 9 x |
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"For me an 8 at the highest, hubby is a 9 x"
More a 9.5 |
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You are definitely above a 6 I’d say I’m more of a 6 |
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"Prob a 6"
6??? I think you need to add another 3 |
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Difficult to give one number...
Body 8 (I like it)
Face 6 (Joe average)
Sense of humour 10 (I'm funny as f***)  |
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"Was asked by a friend the other day what I’d rate myself out of 10 in terms of body and look wise ?
Now .. confidence is off the scale for my mouth, but when it comes to body / looks.. it’s quite the opposite."
you are a 8/9 for sure near the 9 i say as for me im only a 3 but someone has be unlucky |
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By *enelope2UWoman 3 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
Looks 6
Body 5
Character 8
Confidence 9 |
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I'd say 8.
That's purely based on how comfortable I am with myself, not on how attractive I think I am to other people. |
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"What rating did you give yourself?
6..I’m quite a confident person but clothes off.. unfortunately it’s a different story
From what I can by your pics. You're definitely higher than a six for sure."
I agree 100% |
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6 for female half
5 for male half.
You’re a 10 though definitely.  |
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I’d say a 4/5 for me on a good day
Donna x |
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I don't like rating people as beauty is subjective. One man's 4 could be another man's 10 x
Mrs x |
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"I don't like rating people as beauty is subjective. One man's 4 could be another man's 10 x
Mrs x"
Agree 100% |
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"I’d say a 4/5 for me on a good day
Donna x"
Donna you’re a 9 easy |
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"6 for female half
5 for male half.
You’re a 10 though definitely. "
You’re way higher than 6 |
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By *sh n kCouple 3 weeks ago
blackpool |
We would say we both maybe 2 or 3 if lucky pm us your opinions lol |
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"I don't like rating people as beauty is subjective. One man's 4 could be another man's 10 x
Mrs x"
Fair point |
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Honestly... 3 for body but I'd say 8 for personality |
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Feel free to throw a rating my way 🙂 |
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Based purely on aesthetics..... I'm probably a 5/6 I work out 4/5 times a week..... but love cake, I'm also quite plain looking, I don't really have an 'outstanding feature (other than my eyes)
With regards to things like my personality, sense of humour and ability to hold conversation etc.
I'd say maybe 7.
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"Who doesn’t love cake 😉😂"
Absolutely nobody normal, that's for sure |
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Personally I’d say a solid 7, but it’s so subjective.. what is an 8 to one could be a 4 to another |
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"Was asked by a friend the other day what I’d rate myself out of 10 in terms of body and look wise ?
Now .. confidence is off the scale for my mouth, but when it comes to body / looks.. it’s quite the opposite."
8/10 x |
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Body wise I’m 5 /10
Company wise … I’d like to think I err on a 9 …. |
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Gonna sound cocky but looks is a 10 for me
Body a good 9 and same with personality |
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I’d say body I’m confident at a 7 and face I am around a 6/7… got to work with what you got right  |
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"I'd say 8.
That's purely based on how comfortable I am with myself, not on how attractive I think I am to other people. "
I like this approach. Like everyone else has said looks are subjective but it’s the whole package isn’t it and being comfortable with what you have to offer. |
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"7.5 x"
Can we rate you higher please…I think there’s been a misprint |
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"We would say we both maybe 2 or 3 if lucky pm us your opinions lol"
You’re way higher than that! |
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By *ophie_GTV/TS 3 weeks ago
Gainsborough |
I would give myself a 4 maybe 3 |
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10/10 confidence is everything 🙌 |
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I don't think I look bad ... Though I'm not loving my body at the moment.
Like maybe a 6 for looks |
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I’d say 6, room for improvement |
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7 behind frosted glass or 3 if out in the open. |
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M is clearly a 10
I’m probably more a 6 on a good day when I haven’t been feasting on pizza.
M would not give herself a 10 though.
But that’s the important thing about this subject, everyone will have their own little insecurities, and no matter what you think of your own body others will probably view it better than you do. |
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By *fffunCouple 3 weeks ago
Somewhere just outside London |
8/10 have to back myself but nobody's perfect either. |
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For my age
Body 8
Cock 6
Face 8 |
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"6  "
Absolutely not having that…. |
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By *avexxMan 2 weeks ago
cheshire |
for my age..
body 10
cock 9
face 8 |
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Not sure.. a 7.5 for my body and a 8.5 for my face. Think that’s the best part of me 😅 |
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"I go 6 above average "
Bum - 10 |
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I’d give myself a 5 for my body and 5 for my face. 10 overall 😂 |
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By *ossssMan 2 weeks ago
North East of England |
Body deffo above 8.5 can't judge face from pics shown |
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It’s a hard one this isn’t it! Have to back yourself, I always get told I am much better in person! I’ll stick with standard Len Goodman 7!! |
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Cock 10
Body 5
Fun to be with 10
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In vanilla life In a fairly humble, typically British chap who just wants to fade into the background account. However, I’m not ashamed to say that when I get to play naked I totally love my body. Lots of people won’t agree - but they can take their negativity elsewhere. |
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I'm realistic and know I'm not that good looking. I would say 4 or at a push 5. |
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I’d say I’m about a 7 some may go higher some lower! |
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I’d probably say a 4 pushing maybe to a 5 on a good day. But give a few beers and a dance floor then obviously a 10 (because let’s be honest middle aged sweaty uncoordinated men are hot right🤣 ) |
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"3.5 - 4."
exactly how I see myself too  |
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6, think im being generous abput myself there lol |
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I say a solid 7 lol but my severe social anxiety makes me less confident |
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probably a 6ish but I’m happy and confident with how I look |
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5 for me, feel mid range slight higher than an Aldi equivalent |
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9 for my bum, 5 for boobs although I do like my lil ones, 7 for everything else |
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"9 for my bum, 5 for boobs although I do like my lil ones, 7 for everything else "
9 ass 10 boob's 10 pussy |
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I'm a realist so I'd say I'm a 4. Xx |
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9
I been working out hard and eat very well. So confident in my body x |
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Mr here and I’d probably say I’m a decent 6 |
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Not feeling it today
Face a 7 or 8 on a good day
Body 5 |
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5 maybe but some people make me feel like a 8 or 9 |
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See I'd say a 6. OP you're objectively a number bigger than 6. I think this whole thread would tell you that  |
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When I'm dressed as Arianna I'd rate my body as an 8
As a guy I lack confidence and can be shy, would rate myself as a 6 |
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