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By (user no longer on site) OP 9 weeks ago
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Theres no need in it, I have screen shots a conversation that was very harmless and was respectful, but the response I got was diabolical…. This is fab swingers, no one is a above anyone, get some respect for us men, if you can’t do that, get some dignity for your self and dont have 50 public videos if you don’t want messages all day from men 😡 |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 9 weeks ago
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Well I personally wouldn't have reacted like that to a compliment, but at the same time you need to appreciate how annoying it can be when people don't read your profile..
Btw I'm pretty sure this thread & those pics are against the rules, you should probably delete them  |
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Tbf, she was unnecessarily rude, I (mr) do enjoy winding up some men just to see if they are on the same wavelength and can have a laugh with them, as it's a good way of seeing whether they're worth meeting. If a message is quite rude from a guy I'd respond accordingly. But a simple compliment, if I'm not too busy and the inbox isn't too crazy I'd respond with a heart emoji to show its appreciated. Problem is, there are a lot of members here that are not swingers, but just attention seekers and are most likely trying to promote their content for other reasons. You can normally tell as they have 100+ verifications all from Cam. X |
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"Tbf, she was unnecessarily rude, I (mr) do enjoy winding up some men just to see if they are on the same wavelength and can have a laugh with them, as it's a good way of seeing whether they're worth meeting. If a message is quite rude from a guy I'd respond accordingly. But a simple compliment, if I'm not too busy and the inbox isn't too crazy I'd respond with a heart emoji to show its appreciated. Problem is, there are a lot of members here that are not swingers, but just attention seekers and are most likely trying to promote their content for other reasons. You can normally tell as they have 100+ verifications all from Cam. X"
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In your screenshots you go on to message them saying “Dont come at me acting like you're something special, because let's be honest... you're not, you're just the average Joe”
If you felt like this why did you message them in the first place paying them a compliment? |
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"In your screenshots you go on to message them saying “Dont come at me acting like you're something special, because let's be honest... you're not, you're just the average Joe”
If you felt like this why did you message them in the first place paying them a compliment? "
Exactly this! |
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By *eyeYCouple 9 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"In your screenshots you go on to message them saying “Dont come at me acting like you're something special, because let's be honest... you're not, you're just the average Joe”
If you felt like this why did you message them in the first place paying them a compliment?
Exactly this! "
Amazing how people's appeal diminishes for some after they say no 🤷😂 |
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I got a msg from a guy this morning "Hi" so I replied politely.
His next message was "do you sit on straight dick"
I ignored this one. Then I get the "?".
Ffs then they complain about the site.
If you were in a bar and saw someone you liked would you
A. Try and start a conversation in the hope you got on.
B. Rush over, get your phone out and show her a pic of your dick?
Which option do you think would have the best chance of success? |
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OP, at least you got a reply. I have not seen the exchange you had, and don't need to see it, but you may have been an umpteenth person in that Fab user's mailbox. And compliments on here are never free, there is always a hidden agenda behind them, that's what I've learned on this site.
Also, OP, sorry that you got a rude reply, but the way you've let off your steam via your status update, and via this post, is not going to get you many friends. If the site is getting to you, maybe take a break, evaluate why you're on here and your attitude.
What is more, please be advised that anyone can use this site however they want. They want to have 175 pics of their biggest pride and glory, from a million different angles - they can. They want 100 videos- they can. They want just to chat and cam- they can. But what they don't want, and don't have to experience, is being called names when not replying or replying not the way the sender expected. If you come across rude people, just block and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"Theres no need in it, I have screen shots a conversation that was very harmless and was respectful, but the response I got was diabolical…. This is fab swingers, no one is a above anyone, get some respect for us men, if you can’t do that, get some dignity for your self and dont have 50 public videos if you don’t want messages all day from men 😡"
You should have gone to Specsavers, then you would be able to read profiles properly wouldn't you! |
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"Theres no need in it, I have screen shots a conversation that was very harmless and was respectful, but the response I got was diabolical…. This is fab swingers, no one is a above anyone, get some respect for us men, if you can’t do that, get some dignity for your self and dont have 50 public videos if you don’t want messages all day from men 😡
You should have gone to Specsavers, then you would be able to read profiles properly wouldn't you! "
Specsavers can only help with seeing the profile. Reading with understanding is a much higher skill  |
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"Theres no need in it, I have screen shots a conversation that was very harmless and was respectful, but the response I got was diabolical…. This is fab swingers, no one is a above anyone, get some respect for us men, if you can’t do that, get some dignity for your self and dont have 50 public videos if you don’t want messages all day from men 😡
You should have gone to Specsavers, then you would be able to read profiles properly wouldn't you!
Specsavers can only help with seeing the profile. Reading with understanding is a much higher skill "
Most guys refuse to wear the glasses x |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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Screenshotting a message then posting it screams untrustworthy, self obsessed, and entitled.
So so many red flags...
The only things missing were "us good guys" and "deserve a chance".
You need to think about how you have reacted and put it in context.
Just no.
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Glad to see other people holding the OP accountable here. Hopefully some lessons are learned from this.
OP, you might have gotten an unexpected response in the first instance but the screenshots of your responses exposes you as much worse. You pay a compliment then become very insulting and derogatory when you don’t get the response you want. Typical of the “fake nice guy” you see all over Fab. You’re not entitled to a response of any kind and people are allowed to post whatever they like here.
Your behaviour with the couple is bad enough but then to try and slander them in the forum is absolutely disgusting. Hope you read these replies and take some notes. |
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When you didn't get the reply you wanted you could of simply left it at that and moved on. It does seem like you have blown this out of proportion a bit. Especially with taking screen shots and your status and this thread. I'm sure that couple have blissfully blocked you and moved on. |
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If your bothered by that then you are in for a bumpy ride,
Wait till you get to the ones where you chat, I goes well then when you go to reply again your blocked, for no reason.
You move on, there aren plenty of amazing ladies on here that will engage and chat with you, just have to find common ground |
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By *ayxWoman 9 weeks ago
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"Tbf, she was unnecessarily rude, I (mr) do enjoy winding up some men just to see if they are on the same wavelength and can have a laugh with them, as it's a good way of seeing whether they're worth meeting. If a message is quite rude from a guy I'd respond accordingly. But a simple compliment, if I'm not too busy and the inbox isn't too crazy I'd respond with a heart emoji to show its appreciated. Problem is, there are a lot of members here that are not swingers, but just attention seekers and are most likely trying to promote their content for other reasons. You can normally tell as they have 100+ verifications all from Cam. X"
Amen to that |
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By *tr8MrEMan 9 weeks ago
somewhere near Sheffield |
The truth is there are some on here that are certainly what OP says...however, they are the type you don't message, they just want the "look at me attention"
Now, having said that being a dickhead is never a good look, so I can see why OP is being birched when you create a thread bitching about it.
I'm sure this won't end well 🤣🤣 |
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"OP, at least you got a reply. I have not seen the exchange you had, and don't need to see it, but you may have been an umpteenth person in that Fab user's mailbox. And compliments on here are never free, there is always a hidden agenda behind them, that's what I've learned on this site.
Also, OP, sorry that you got a rude reply, but the way you've let off your steam via your status update, and via this post, is not going to get you many friends. If the site is getting to you, maybe take a break, evaluate why you're on here and your attitude.
What is more, please be advised that anyone can use this site however they want. They want to have 175 pics of their biggest pride and glory, from a million different angles - they can. They want 100 videos- they can. They want just to chat and cam- they can. But what they don't want, and don't have to experience, is being called names when not replying or replying not the way the sender expected. If you come across rude people, just block and move on. "
Your 3rd paragraph is on point. |
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"OP, at least you got a reply. I have not seen the exchange you had, and don't need to see it, but you may have been an umpteenth person in that Fab user's mailbox. And compliments on here are never free, there is always a hidden agenda behind them, that's what I've learned on this site.
Also, OP, sorry that you got a rude reply, but the way you've let off your steam via your status update, and via this post, is not going to get you many friends. If the site is getting to you, maybe take a break, evaluate why you're on here and your attitude.
What is more, please be advised that anyone can use this site however they want. They want to have 175 pics of their biggest pride and glory, from a million different angles - they can. They want 100 videos- they can. They want just to chat and cam- they can. But what they don't want, and don't have to experience, is being called names when not replying or replying not the way the sender expected. If you come across rude people, just block and move on.
Your 3rd paragraph is on point. "
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By *ayxWoman 9 weeks ago
brentwood |
"I have just realised that I have previously blocked OP - I think this must have been due to unsolicited, repeat, and/or impolite or pushy messages. My block list is generally very small."
Ditto |
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"I have just realised that I have previously blocked OP - I think this must have been due to unsolicited, repeat, and/or impolite or pushy messages. My block list is generally very small.
Ditto "
Abundant evidence
Case Closed 🧑⚖️ |
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"Tbf, she was unnecessarily rude, I (mr) do enjoy winding up some men just to see if they are on the same wavelength and can have a laugh with them, as it's a good way of seeing whether they're worth meeting. If a message is quite rude from a guy I'd respond accordingly. But a simple compliment, if I'm not too busy and the inbox isn't too crazy I'd respond with a heart emoji to show its appreciated. Problem is, there are a lot of members here that are not swingers, but just attention seekers and are most likely trying to promote their content for other reasons. You can normally tell as they have 100+ verifications all from Cam. X"
Totally agree! |
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By *eyeYCouple 8 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"We are thinking it is more likely the profile has been suspended.
Yes it appears ops account is suspended 👍"
Not necessarily a good thing, now we don't know what username he'll have rejoined with by now.. |
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"In your screenshots you go on to message them saying “Dont come at me acting like you're something special, because let's be honest... you're not, you're just the average Joe”
If you felt like this why did you message them in the first place paying them a compliment? "
Ah the bruised ego, hey your sexy wanna fuck, no thanks, well you're nothing special anyway 😂😂
After complimenting them, oh dear, any holes a goal and all that.....🙄
The irony here though.
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Well Op that went well. People realising they have blocked you. True responses to your comments.
As a guy on here I take the mind set of. Would I say that in a pub face to face. Yes im old enough to remember actual face to face chat ups when I was out in Leeds.
None of us are entitled to anything other than respect.
Anyone making a brew?
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"I got a msg from a guy this morning "Hi" so I replied politely.
His next message was "do you sit on straight dick"
I ignored this one. Then I get the "?".
Ffs then they complain about the site.
If you were in a bar and saw someone you liked would you
A. Try and start a conversation in the hope you got on.
B. Rush over, get your phone out and show her a pic of your dick?
Which option do you think would have the best chance of success?"
There's a lot of modern men who would say option 2.
Id try option 1 with you though x |
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Threads like this show why we just don't respond to a lot of messages...
If you do then you leave yourself open to abuse or very weird sulking messages.
It's just easier to not respond... Sometimes we feel bad especially if the person is nice and complimentary but if we aren't interested it's not even worth saying 'thank you for the message but not our type etc' as a barrage of abuse occurs nearly every time 🙈 |
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"Tbf, she was unnecessarily rude, I (mr) do enjoy winding up some men just to see if they are on the same wavelength and can have a laugh with them, as it's a good way of seeing whether they're worth meeting. If a message is quite rude from a guy I'd respond accordingly. But a simple compliment, if I'm not too busy and the inbox isn't too crazy I'd respond with a heart emoji to show its appreciated. Problem is, there are a lot of members here that are not swingers, but just attention seekers and are most likely trying to promote their content for other reasons. You can normally tell as they have 100+ verifications all from Cam. X
Totally agree! "
And wow you're profile is pretty awesome , totally original , fun and sexy ...and jesus your hubby cums for England !!!! |
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"I got a msg from a guy this morning "Hi" so I replied politely.
His next message was "do you sit on straight dick"
I ignored this one. Then I get the "?".
Ffs then they complain about the site.
If you were in a bar and saw someone you liked would you
A. Try and start a conversation in the hope you got on.
B. Rush over, get your phone out and show her a pic of your dick?
Which option do you think would have the best chance of success?
There's a lot of modern men who would say option 2.
Id try option 1 with you though x"
Thank you x |
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