I'm getting a lot of messages as a first message or after 2/3 pretty bland, generic messages of "would you be interested?"
Am I the only one who thinks interested in what?
Like I need more of a connection (I'm not taking love notes and wedding plans) but I have to know I'd get on with the person, have banter or a friendship.
Am I weird for thinking this, or is this something others get annoyed with? |
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I mean i suppose its better than the obligitory "meet now", "hi" or, as C got on her personal profile "shit on my chest?"............some folks just dont have the chat......or theyre waaaaay too forward!
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"I'm getting a lot of messages as a first message or after 2/3 pretty bland, generic messages of "would you be interested?"
Am I the only one who thinks interested in what?
Like I need more of a connection (I'm not taking love notes and wedding plans) but I have to know I'd get on with the person, have banter or a friendship.
Am I weird for thinking this, or is this something others get annoyed with? "
It's a pyramid scheme. Be careful 🧐 |
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I imagine some people need feedback off a first message even if its just a hi or a maybe before they can comfortable flow with a conversation.
Dont just go by their first message, check their profiles and pics, and if you like what you see then maybe you help them out by getting the conversation flowing yourself. |
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I get quite a few messages with 'would you be interested in... insert scene here'
Which is nice. I like people who know what they want.
Sorry... doesn't help OP...
Ok.. doesn't like gt/lt brackets...
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"I'm getting a lot of messages as a first message or after 2/3 pretty bland, generic messages of "would you be interested?"
Am I the only one who thinks interested in what?
Like I need more of a connection (I'm not taking love notes and wedding plans) but I have to know I'd get on with the person, have banter or a friendship.
Am I weird for thinking this, or is this something others get annoyed with? "
I think a lot of guys just don’t know what to say to girls on here and in the real world. You have a lovely profile and they are probably worrying anything as they think they don’t have a chance, so just say that to you with out showing any real interest or effort xx |
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I've sent out countless messages and very rarely do they even get read never mind replied to. After a while it just feels like a waste of time in the opening message at least. I understand women must get a lot of messages but it's very difficult being a guy on here 🤣 |
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I nice quite guy (said no serial killer ever 😂 😂)and always send polite and respectful messages all the time and ask how they are really doing and get nowhere I feel like there's no place for nice guys here just feel like giving up sometimes.
I know that's my problem not the ladies but it's really hard to get anywhere. |
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Interested in what? Is my usual reply.
It's bad enough when they're sort of inviting me to read their profile. But when it's 8 sad dick pics and 11 words I really don't know why they're wasting either of our time 💜 |
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"I've sent out countless messages and very rarely do they even get read never mind replied to. After a while it just feels like a waste of time in the opening message at least. I understand women must get a lot of messages but it's very difficult being a guy on here 🤣"
What sort of messages are you sending tho? |
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"Interested in what? Is my usual reply.
It's bad enough when they're sort of inviting me to read their profile. But when it's 8 sad dick pics and 11 words I really don't know why they're wasting either of our time 💜"
Could be a duel at dawn 🤺⚔️
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