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What do people get out of it ?

By *ir Renders OP Man 33 weeks ago

chelmsford

Not going to go into too much detail as i got a ban once before for giving details of a chat, but honestly i don't know why people do it.

chat, make all the promises and then block !

Why can't they just be honest if they change there mind, we all have that right but its just being polite to tell someone isnt it ?

Or is it just me that still think its the decent thing to do and have manners, even on here ?

Sorry for the rant 😒

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By *uncshellaMan 33 weeks ago

west

Defo got worse last few months. I could write a book about blocks and ghostings haha

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By *awpleasureMan 33 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

I think some do it as a deliberate wind up.

Its one think deleting a first message but if theres been several and a meet is planned, then basic manners should come in to play.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple 33 weeks ago

near you...

I don't block unless they become a pain. And no, considering how many (many) men casually saunter over the line of acceptable behaviour, I don't feel I owe them an explanation before I smack that block button. Lx

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple 33 weeks ago

Round the bend

Because they are cowards with no manners.

Because they get off at the thought of it but can't carry it through.

Because they could be pretending to be someone that they aren't.

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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago

"Because they are cowards with no manners.

Because they get off at the thought of it but can't carry it through.

Because they could be pretending to be someone that they aren't. "

I'm totally AI me 🤣🤣

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By *icecouple561Couple 33 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

The block has told you they've changed their mind. It's horrible and very disappointing though

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By (user no longer on site) 33 weeks ago

Because likely they never intended to meet, it was all a wank fantasy until it became too real.

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By *WB85Man 33 weeks ago

Staffordshire

From the comments my wife makes, blocking if often the easiest option.

Being adult and explaining why she's changed her mind often ends up in an abusive response.

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By *uvs2watchherCouple 33 weeks ago

newcastle

Im with james.9 months now. It's different. Sex is different. Sorry but it is!!! Xx

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By *CExeCouple 33 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

No different to buying a lass a drink in a bar and then seeing her saunter off with a guy without so much as a good bye. Nobody owes you anything on here and you're not entitled to anything. I've driven an hour before after weeks of chatting only to be met with lights off, curtains twitching and no reply to messages. It sucks, but that's life.

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By *cLovin2Man 33 weeks ago

London

"No different to buying a lass a drink in a bar and then seeing her saunter off with a guy without so much as a good bye. Nobody owes you anything on here and you're not entitled to anything. I've driven an hour before after weeks of chatting only to be met with lights off, curtains twitching and no reply to messages. It sucks, but that's life."

That's bloody annoying, I went to a posh nightclub in London bought a hot girl a very expensive drink it was like £20 or something. Only for me to come back from the loo, she's snogging some next man on my booze!

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