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I find it really hot how many men actually crave to be submissive... what's a submissive desire you have?
Or feel free to share a submissive story if you were lucky enough to experience it 😉 |
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One of my biggest desires is having a woman watch and play with herself as I’m used by a group of guys |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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Not experienced but would love too |
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Having a woman sit on my face, and not be afraid to ride my mouth however she wants to. |
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I've been very fortunate to have had many deeply submissive experiences over the years so there's not too many things left on my bucket list. I'm always open to new ideas and kinks though so perhaps someone will suggest something here that I've not thought of.
In terms of favourite experiences, it usually involves watersports for me. There's nothing more degrading to put a sub in their place than having a woman pee on you. |
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"I find it really hot how many men actually crave to be submissive... what's a submissive desire you have?
Or feel free to share a submissive story if you were lucky enough to experience it 😉"
On one of our meets i was blindfolded and tied to the chair and I could hear my wife and our 3rd on our bed and could see movements of shadows under the blindfold for a while which was hot, eventually she untied me and pulled me up by my chain, and pulled me over to him and made me feel and rub his cock (this was the first bi experience i had). Since then ive thought more and more about the situation and if she would do it again but force my on my knees to suck him and then her lay on the end of the bed, pull me close while im on my knees on the floor and going down on her, while she makes him fuck me.
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I have lots. Id love to be spitroasted by a woman and a man. Or be made to dress and used x |
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Taking my gfs strap on as I’m having to suck a cock for her has to top the list I think. |
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Found out at uni I was submissive which was a surprise as I hadn't even considered it before. That started us on cuckold trajectory, full time chastity serving my gf and her bulls on demand.
My biggest and most recurring fantasy is been one of the "house submissive" available to all the guests at a huge party |
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I’d love to be passionately ravished and taken advantage of by a butter wielding northern beauty 😘
Unsalted butter obvs 😂😂 |
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The only real mismatch in our relationship is that we both lean subby. Mrs P has been hotwifing for years and going down on her after one of her meets is incredibly submissive. Unfortunately we've yet to meet anyone who truly "gets" our dynamic enough to make it a sub/sub threesome. Most wannabe Doms seem to have learned all they know through porn. |
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I've indulged my very submissive occasional side quite often although for various reasons not so much lately. Used to being a pretty respected guy mostly so I think it is a balance to that. Always was in stockings and panties and a very willing obedient naughty girl. Still some further desires to hopefully try |
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"One of my biggest desires is having a woman watch and play with herself as I’m used by a group of guys "
Ugh damn that is hot. |
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"Having a woman sit on my face, and not be afraid to ride my mouth however she wants to."
I'm sure many women would enjoy this, some perhaps are a little shy to start 😉 |
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"I've been very fortunate to have had many deeply submissive experiences over the years so there's not too many things left on my bucket list. I'm always open to new ideas and kinks though so perhaps someone will suggest something here that I've not thought of.
In terms of favourite experiences, it usually involves watersports for me. There's nothing more degrading to put a sub in their place than having a woman pee on you."
Lucky you, firing through that bucket list. I hope you discover more things to add to it! |
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"I find it really hot how many men actually crave to be submissive... what's a submissive desire you have?
Or feel free to share a submissive story if you were lucky enough to experience it 😉
On one of our meets i was blindfolded and tied to the chair and I could hear my wife and our 3rd on our bed and could see movements of shadows under the blindfold for a while which was hot, eventually she untied me and pulled me up by my chain, and pulled me over to him and made me feel and rub his cock (this was the first bi experience i had). Since then ive thought more and more about the situation and if she would do it again but force my on my knees to suck him and then her lay on the end of the bed, pull me close while im on my knees on the floor and going down on her, while she makes him fuck me.
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Well someone sounds like a good boy 🥵 I truly hope you get to explore this more! |
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"I have lots. Id love to be spitroasted by a woman and a man. Or be made to dress and used x"
Also hot. Would you have a preference for who got which end? 🤔 |
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For me it’s a lifestyle… to submit to a FLR that leads to her confidence growing, knowing she can ask for that thought that hesitates to be spoken with a smile and see my awkwardness to comply. Fulfilling desires and taking care of or assisting with the everyday things she doesn’t like to do but teasing a little while doing so knowing I’ll still comply even when batting. Submission gives such a purpose, drive and motivation to know she’s the only one on my mind that gets the real me and brings out the real her… |
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To be blunt blindfolded, tied up and used by a mf couple  |
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"Taking my gfs strap on as I’m having to suck a cock for her has to top the list I think. "
A desire or have you been lucky to experience this? |
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"Taking my gfs strap on as I’m having to suck a cock for her has to top the list I think.
A desire or have you been lucky to experience this? "
Sadly a desire |
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Being with a woman that likes me being an occasional cross dresser. Sadly mrs is not at all into it  . Not end of world as we do lots of other things but it just does not turn her on. |
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"Found out at uni I was submissive which was a surprise as I hadn't even considered it before. That started us on cuckold trajectory, full time chastity serving my gf and her bulls on demand.
My biggest and most recurring fantasy is been one of the "house submissive" available to all the guests at a huge party "
Ooo now that's a big one. I wonder if you've already established a cuckold lifestyle if that's actually quite within the realms of possibility for you? |
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Erotic power dynamics being her sub. |
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"I’d love to be passionately ravished and taken advantage of by a butter wielding northern beauty 😘
Unsalted butter obvs 😂😂"
Does the butter play a part? Are you into sploshing? |
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"The only real mismatch in our relationship is that we both lean subby. Mrs P has been hotwifing for years and going down on her after one of her meets is incredibly submissive. Unfortunately we've yet to meet anyone who truly "gets" our dynamic enough to make it a sub/sub threesome. Most wannabe Doms seem to have learned all they know through porn."
Sorry to hear you've not quite found the right person, hopefully 2026 will be your year 🤞 |
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No doubt lame to majority here, im what a woman here described as a "gentle dom".....had phone sex with another woman a few years, ago, she started to abuse me verbally....it was a major turn on, epic orgasm!!
Yet to relive said experience.... |
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"I've indulged my very submissive occasional side quite often although for various reasons not so much lately. Used to being a pretty respected guy mostly so I think it is a balance to that. Always was in stockings and panties and a very willing obedient naughty girl. Still some further desires to hopefully try"
Love the need for the contrast in your life, it's all about balance 😉 |
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Personally I would love to be nothing more than a cuck for someone. Would absolutely love to be gang banged by alphas while the woman i was seeing was being fucked by someone with a bigger cock than me.
Being told over and over and over again im a worthless c**t with a small clitty and only here for real men to use.
Having to wear their freshly fucked in knickers while going out for a walk.
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"For me it’s a lifestyle… to submit to a FLR that leads to her confidence growing, knowing she can ask for that thought that hesitates to be spoken with a smile and see my awkwardness to comply. Fulfilling desires and taking care of or assisting with the everyday things she doesn’t like to do but teasing a little while doing so knowing I’ll still comply even when batting. Submission gives such a purpose, drive and motivation to know she’s the only one on my mind that gets the real me and brings out the real her… "
Do you identify as a switch or brat by any chance? 😉 glad you found someone to enjoy it with |
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"To be blunt blindfolded, tied up and used by a mf couple "
That's hot, I hope it happens for you! |
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"Taking my gfs strap on as I’m having to suck a cock for her has to top the list I think.
A desire or have you been lucky to experience this?
Sadly a desire "
I can understand why this is the top of your list 🥵 |
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I like handing control over to a queen like you, I know my place and even lock in chastity and give you the key |
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"Being with a woman that likes me being an occasional cross dresser. Sadly mrs is not at all into it . Not end of world as we do lots of other things but it just does not turn her on."
That's a tricky one, it either does something or it doesn't I guess. Are you able to dress for yourself or share images of this with people (with the Mrs consent)? Can still find ways to indulge yourself 😉 |
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"Erotic power dynamics being her sub. "
Very erotic 😉 |
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Love a mistress to cage me and order me to satisfy other men how ever she pleases |
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"Fancy being a sub one time"
I hope this happens for you 🤞 |
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"No doubt lame to majority here, im what a woman here described as a "gentle dom".....had phone sex with another woman a few years, ago, she started to abuse me verbally....it was a major turn on, epic orgasm!!
Yet to relive said experience...."
Oh this is hot. I've also found men believing themselves to be dom questioning it after a bit of playful degrading 🥵 |
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To be tied up and dominated by a young woman half my age, (who isn't a dominatrix but doing it for the first time) totally for one night including waterports and generally being used, face sitting and using my cock just for herself while I don't cum is something I'd like to do as I find the dynamic erotic. |
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"Personally I would love to be nothing more than a cuck for someone. Would absolutely love to be gang banged by alphas while the woman i was seeing was being fucked by someone with a bigger cock than me.
Being told over and over and over again im a worthless c**t with a small clitty and only here for real men to use.
Having to wear their freshly fucked in knickers while going out for a walk.
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This is very hot, I hope it happens for you 🤞 |
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"I like handing control over to a queen like you, I know my place and even lock in chastity and give you the key "
You sound like a good boy 😉 |
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"Love a mistress to cage me and order me to satisfy other men how ever she pleases "
Ugh yea that's hot 🥵 |
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"To be tied up and dominated by a young woman half my age, (who isn't a dominatrix but doing it for the first time) totally for one night including waterports and generally being used, face sitting and using my cock just for herself while I don't cum is something I'd like to do as I find the dynamic erotic. "
Do you think you'd be able to stop yourself cumming? |
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"To be tied up and dominated by a young woman half my age, (who isn't a dominatrix but doing it for the first time) totally for one night including waterports and generally being used, face sitting and using my cock just for herself while I don't cum is something I'd like to do as I find the dynamic erotic.
Do you think you'd be able to stop yourself cumming?"
I'd have to  |
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By *KS88Man 20 weeks ago
Lancaster |
Bi orgy for the first time ⛓️💪🏻🖤 |
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I am, I will stay in my cage for as long as you decide, I live to serve you |
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"No doubt lame to majority here, im what a woman here described as a "gentle dom".....had phone sex with another woman a few years, ago, she started to abuse me verbally....it was a major turn on, epic orgasm!!
Yet to relive said experience....
Oh this is hot. I've also found men believing themselves to be dom questioning it after a bit of playful degrading 🥵"
It came out of no where, her verbal abuse thst is
Still a dom but still want that filth x |
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My dream is to find the mistress again who enjoys pegging and having a sub for her pleasure face sitting , ass worshipping generally just being there for her wishes and fetishes  |
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Probably like to try chastity just to see how it feel like or maybe my fem side see if for me or not |
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To be told by the lady I have to suck her man off and be pegged by her and then I can have her as a reward! |
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Would love to be edged and teased to orgasm !!! |
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My biggest and most recurring fantasy is been one of the "house submissive" available to all the guests at a huge party
Ooo now that's a big one. I wonder if you've already established a cuckold lifestyle if that's actually quite within the realms of possibility for you? "
. Certainly hope so , whilst in cuckold relationships my gf only had one maybe 2 bulls round at once never groups |
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"For me it’s a lifestyle… to submit to a FLR that leads to her confidence growing, knowing she can ask for that thought that hesitates to be spoken with a smile and see my awkwardness to comply. Fulfilling desires and taking care of or assisting with the everyday things she doesn’t like to do but teasing a little while doing so knowing I’ll still comply even when batting. Submission gives such a purpose, drive and motivation to know she’s the only one on my mind that gets the real me and brings out the real her…
Do you identify as a switch or brat by any chance? 😉 glad you found someone to enjoy it with"
More bratty than switch but the right person can bring out a dom side in me!!! Wish I had found someone to enjoy this with… but not just yet… |
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I enjoy being submissive and love to be tied up and have my face,cock and ass be used for the lady’s pleasure. Love to receive watersports or be squirted on whilst tied up |
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Have so many that I'm still to fulfil...
My biggest desire probably would be having my dominant partner invite her vanilla friends over, where I'd be used as a naked servant for the evening. Everything from foot worship to being used to piss on, just love a group CFNM type thing |
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I read this forum title as "shave"... very confused until I read the initial posting! Doh! |
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People have already covered most of my fantasies. Two main things I want to try:
-Being fucked by men in the arse while the Mistress pats on my head, encourages me and tells me I am a good slut.
- Food play
Cuckolding roleplay was on the list but I managed to do it already. |
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"I find it really hot how many men actually crave to be submissive... what's a submissive desire you have?
Or feel free to share a submissive story if you were lucky enough to experience it 😉"
Many of sub desires, I'd love for a mistress to invite a friend over and they both use me and dominate me and humiliate me.
Be dressed up, collared and leashes and walked in front of a row of guys to be used as she film's and gives me instructions to obey. |
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"To be tied up and dominated by a young woman half my age, (who isn't a dominatrix but doing it for the first time) totally for one night including waterports and generally being used, face sitting and using my cock just for herself while I don't cum is something I'd like to do as I find the dynamic erotic.
Do you think you'd be able to stop yourself cumming?
I'd have to "
I'm not convinced you'd be able to help it 😉 |
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"Bi orgy for the first time ⛓️💪🏻🖤"
I'd love to be the only F at a bi M orgy 🥵 |
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"No doubt lame to majority here, im what a woman here described as a "gentle dom".....had phone sex with another woman a few years, ago, she started to abuse me verbally....it was a major turn on, epic orgasm!!
Yet to relive said experience....
Oh this is hot. I've also found men believing themselves to be dom questioning it after a bit of playful degrading 🥵
It came out of no where, her verbal abuse thst is
Still a dom but still want that filth x"
Was there a specific thing she said that really did it for you? |
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"My dream is to find the mistress again who enjoys pegging and having a sub for her pleasure face sitting , ass worshipping generally just being there for her wishes and fetishes "
That is a beautiful dream, I hope it comes true for you 🤞🥵 |
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"Probably like to try chastity just to see how it feel like or maybe my fem side see if for me or not"
So what's stopping you? Give it a go already 😉 |
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"To be told by the lady I have to suck her man off and be pegged by her and then I can have her as a reward!"
Very hot 🥵 I hope it happens for you! |
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"Would love to be edged and teased to orgasm !!!"
Ugh I love this. Especially if the guy is whimpering by the end 🥵 |
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My biggest and most recurring fantasy is been one of the "house submissive" available to all the guests at a huge party
Ooo now that's a big one. I wonder if you've already established a cuckold lifestyle if that's actually quite within the realms of possibility for you? . Certainly hope so , whilst in cuckold relationships my gf only had one maybe 2 bulls round at once never groups"
Well I hope it happens for you in 2026! 🤞 |
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"For me it’s a lifestyle… to submit to a FLR that leads to her confidence growing, knowing she can ask for that thought that hesitates to be spoken with a smile and see my awkwardness to comply. Fulfilling desires and taking care of or assisting with the everyday things she doesn’t like to do but teasing a little while doing so knowing I’ll still comply even when batting. Submission gives such a purpose, drive and motivation to know she’s the only one on my mind that gets the real me and brings out the real her…
Do you identify as a switch or brat by any chance? 😉 glad you found someone to enjoy it with
More bratty than switch but the right person can bring out a dom side in me!!! Wish I had found someone to enjoy this with… but not just yet… "
Yea I feel that. I hope you get to enjoy it soon! Need more bratty sub men 😉 |
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To get on my knees and suck a guy she has hand-picked while she watches. She has sent me to a gay sauna before but would be nice to share the experience with her. Extra points for if I was unaware of her planning it before it happened |
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"I enjoy being submissive and love to be tied up and have my face,cock and ass be used for the lady’s pleasure. Love to receive watersports or be squirted on whilst tied up "
Very hot! Long may it continue 😉 |
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My favourite past experience was being stripped and dressed in stockings, knickers and bra, and being made to suck cock whilst my mistress pissed all over me and fucked me with her huge strap-on.
Floated off into subspace that day and it was amazing. |
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My favourite was when a woman sat astride my face, held my head and told me to orally worship her before she released her golden nectar into my mouth. She didn’t let go of my head and told me to lick her piss soaked pussy clean |
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"Have so many that I'm still to fulfil...
My biggest desire probably would be having my dominant partner invite her vanilla friends over, where I'd be used as a naked servant for the evening. Everything from foot worship to being used to piss on, just love a group CFNM type thing"
Now that's a hot scenario 🥵 quite a difficult one to make happen I would imagine |
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"I read this forum title as "shave"... very confused until I read the initial posting! Doh! "
Silly you 😉 I'm sure some enjoy maintenance as part of their play, however... |
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"People have already covered most of my fantasies. Two main things I want to try:
-Being fucked by men in the arse while the Mistress pats on my head, encourages me and tells me I am a good slut.
- Food play
Cuckolding roleplay was on the list but I managed to do it already. "
Ooo yes, coaching through being used as a toy, that's a hot one 🥵
What kind of food play? |
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"I find it really hot how many men actually crave to be submissive... what's a submissive desire you have?
Or feel free to share a submissive story if you were lucky enough to experience it 😉
Many of sub desires, I'd love for a mistress to invite a friend over and they both use me and dominate me and humiliate me.
Be dressed up, collared and leashes and walked in front of a row of guys to be used as she film's and gives me instructions to obey. "
Very good choice for a desire 🥵 I hope it happens for you one day! |
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"I have lots. Id love to be spitroasted by a woman and a man. Or be made to dress and used x"
I’d be in a wedding gown discovered by a couple to be a tv she would take me under her control for the night teasing me then get me giving her partner oral while she took my anal virginity with a strap on . Then have me lying on my back astride my face while her partner lets me feel the real thing . Don’t know how much the dry cleaner would be able to with my gown afterwards .   |
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"To get on my knees and suck a guy she has hand-picked while she watches. She has sent me to a gay sauna before but would be nice to share the experience with her. Extra points for if I was unaware of her planning it before it happened "
Ooo this is a fun one too. Could this be easier to arrange at a swingers club perhaps? 🤔 |
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"*reading with interest* 🤓🤓🤓"
Right?? Ugh I just love how filthy subby men are 🫠 |
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"My favourite past experience was being stripped and dressed in stockings, knickers and bra, and being made to suck cock whilst my mistress pissed all over me and fucked me with her huge strap-on.
Floated off into subspace that day and it was amazing."
Oh how lucky you are. I hope you have more days like it |
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"People have already covered most of my fantasies. Two main things I want to try:
-Being fucked by men in the arse while the Mistress pats on my head, encourages me and tells me I am a good slut.
- Food play
Cuckolding roleplay was on the list but I managed to do it already.
Ooo yes, coaching through being used as a toy, that's a hot one 🥵
What kind of food play?"
Spitting |
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Gutting
Id make a shit sub
Way to dom for it |
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"My favourite was when a woman sat astride my face, held my head and told me to orally worship her before she released her golden nectar into my mouth. She didn’t let go of my head and told me to lick her piss soaked pussy clean "
And I hope you did as you were told 😉 |
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"I have lots. Id love to be spitroasted by a woman and a man. Or be made to dress and used x
I’d be in a wedding gown discovered by a couple to be a tv she would take me under her control for the night teasing me then get me giving her partner oral while she took my anal virginity with a strap on . Then have me lying on my back astride my face while her partner lets me feel the real thing . Don’t know how much the dry cleaner would be able to with my gown afterwards . "
This is hot. And I don't think there'd be any saving the gown 😉 |
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I would love you to coach me too, and tell me if I can unlock or not or if you’d rather me be locked |
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"People have already covered most of my fantasies. Two main things I want to try:
-Being fucked by men in the arse while the Mistress pats on my head, encourages me and tells me I am a good slut.
- Food play
Cuckolding roleplay was on the list but I managed to do it already.
Ooo yes, coaching through being used as a toy, that's a hot one 🥵
What kind of food play?
Spitting "
Interesting one, I've not experienced it myself |
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"Gutting
Id make a shit sub
Way to dom for it"
🤭 |
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"People have already covered most of my fantasies. Two main things I want to try:
-Being fucked by men in the arse while the Mistress pats on my head, encourages me and tells me I am a good slut.
- Food play
Cuckolding roleplay was on the list but I managed to do it already.
Ooo yes, coaching through being used as a toy, that's a hot one 🥵
What kind of food play?
Spitting
Interesting one, I've not experienced it myself "
The mental effect of that is phenomenal |
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"My favourite was when a woman sat astride my face, held my head and told me to orally worship her before she released her golden nectar into my mouth. She didn’t let go of my head and told me to lick her piss soaked pussy clean
And I hope you did as you were told 😉"
Of course. Then thanked her for it |
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"To get on my knees and suck a guy she has hand-picked while she watches. She has sent me to a gay sauna before but would be nice to share the experience with her. Extra points for if I was unaware of her planning it before it happened
Ooo this is a fun one too. Could this be easier to arrange at a swingers club perhaps? 🤔"
It could be, but we have found the bi nights near us aren't nearly as bi as we need them to be!
We did take a trip up to a gay sauna in Northwich that does a bi night once a month which was better though (unfortunately we are both very introvert so may need to take a few trips up there!). Maybe we can make the dream a reality through clubs/saunas or someone on here could take her fancy enough to have me worship their cock for her. |
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By *andM4FunCouple 20 weeks ago
Cambridgeshire |
What is happening in this country ….. where are all the real proper men ??? |
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"What is happening in this country ….. where are all the real proper men ??? "
Small minded comment… much easier to just look past things that don’t interest you than belittle others but I guess that makes this a hypocritical comment |
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By *andM4FunCouple 20 weeks ago
Cambridgeshire |
"What is happening in this country ….. where are all the real proper men ???
Small minded comment… much easier to just look past things that don’t interest you than belittle others but I guess that makes this a hypocritical comment"
Hypocritical????? Hahaha …… get real  |
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"What is happening in this country ….. where are all the real proper men ??? "
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"I have lots. Id love to be spitroasted by a woman and a man. Or be made to dress and used x
I’d be in a wedding gown discovered by a couple to be a tv she would take me under her control for the night teasing me then get me giving her partner oral while she took my anal virginity with a strap on . Then have me lying on my back astride my face while her partner lets me feel the real thing . Don’t know how much the dry cleaner would be able to with my gown afterwards .
This is hot. And I don't think there'd be any saving the gown 😉"
If ever I get the chance I’ll report back .
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"Would love to be edged and teased to orgasm !!!
Ugh I love this. Especially if the guy is whimpering by the end 🥵"
Ooo yes! Love being edged! For both of us, seeing who will last longest! |
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By *andM4FunCouple 20 weeks ago
Cambridgeshire |
"What is happening in this country ….. where are all the real proper men ???
Ew. But thanks for publically showing everyone your red flag, I guess 😬🚩"
HAHAHAHAHA |
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Mine is simple, I would happy be a toy for a women on couple. Just giving up control completely |
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By *ser.meMan 20 weeks ago
Near you |
I've been a very good boy on the past. My fav thing is hearing what women or others want me to do to please them. I have a thing for agreeing to please them before they tell me what they want me to do.
What would you want? |
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By *olfiMan 20 weeks ago
Leeds |
I just want to be tied up and used however my partner would like to use me. |
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I would love to be submissive to some mistress and do her bidding |
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I went to a Kink/Fetish event a while back. Towards the end of the night, I asked one of the dommes there to cuff me to a St Andrew's Cross to whip and spank me.
That was a very exciting moment for me.
Want to take it a bit further and find someone willing to tie me up, and basically use me however they see fit  |
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"What is happening in this country ….. where are all the real proper men ??? "
What's your definition of a "real proper man"?
How many Stella's should they drink per day? |
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By *lim_funMan 20 weeks ago
Hebden bridge |
Like being tied up and face sat and then ridden like a pony |
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By *andM4FunCouple 20 weeks ago
Cambridgeshire |
"What is happening in this country ….. where are all the real proper men ???
What's your definition of a "real proper man"?
How many Stella's should they drink per day?"
Not you! |
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By *_2000Man 20 weeks ago
London |
Open to explore this side with the right people |
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"What is happening in this country ….. where are all the real proper men ???
What's your definition of a "real proper man"?
How many Stella's should they drink per day?
Not you! "
And what makes you the "manliness" judge? |
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I'd like to be used as a fluffer, cleaner and toilet by a dominant woman at a gangbang. |
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"What is happening in this country ….. where are all the real proper men ??? "
I really don't understand the mindset of this post. You've come on a forum for sub men to slag off all the men who enjoy being sub?! Everyone's kinks are different, great if you enjoy being Dom but amazingly not everyone shares your view. Why can't everyone enjoy pleasure in whatever they enjoy it without anyone saying they are wrong to do so. Just grow up! |
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Not had the chance for a real submissive experience but I would love to be at the beck and call to a goddess of a woman in whatever she wants doing. |
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By *eskaMan 20 weeks ago
Winchester / London |
I'm a big fan of chastity and denial... I've had a few experiences serving couples orally while locked, or being locked for some time by a woman between meets to build up anticipation! |
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"I find it really hot how many men actually crave to be submissive... what's a submissive desire you have?
Or feel free to share a submissive story if you were lucky enough to experience it 😉
On one of our meets i was blindfolded and tied to the chair and I could hear my wife and our 3rd on our bed and could see movements of shadows under the blindfold for a while which was hot, eventually she untied me and pulled me up by my chain, and pulled me over to him and made me feel and rub his cock (this was the first bi experience i had). Since then ive thought more and more about the situation and if she would do it again but force my on my knees to suck him and then her lay on the end of the bed, pull me close while im on my knees on the floor and going down on her, while she makes him fuck me.
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Well someone sounds like a good boy 🥵 I truly hope you get to explore this more!"
Oh, I was and is can't want to do it again 😍 |
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"Having a woman sit on my face, and not be afraid to ride my mouth however she wants to.
I'm sure many women would enjoy this, some perhaps are a little shy to start 😉"
Yes, that’s the problem I think. Need one who is not shy and will take what she wants. |
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"What is happening in this country ….. where are all the real proper men ???
I really don't understand the mindset of this post. You've come on a forum for sub men to slag off all the men who enjoy being sub?! Everyone's kinks are different, great if you enjoy being Dom but amazingly not everyone shares your view. Why can't everyone enjoy pleasure in whatever they enjoy it without anyone saying they are wrong to do so. Just grow up!"
I think that apart from anything else that they don’t realise that a lot of men who enjoy being very submissive sexually are not like that at all in ordinary life, in fact it is very often the case that they are the opposite (i.e. sexually submissive but dominant in ordinary and professional life). |
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When you guys say “let her tie me up and just use me”, hahawhat do you kean exactly?
Sorry, new to all this.
Because face-sitting, riding cock etc- that is all pretty standard without the D/S element, no?
Pegging for us and bi-male actuon is completely out of the question. Huge turnoff for both. (Respectfully)
I have discovered I am soooo sub 🤣🤣🤣 but want to give being in charge a go!
Keep the ideas coming! 🎀 |
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I love being bound and caned by a lady who enjoys giving the cane. I would also like to be bound up infront of a group of ladies who are having a girly chat and a tea or coffee around me as im bound and gagged and then they take it in turns to cane me etc humiliate me infront of the group. |
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Not really a kink, but to have a partner be very clear with what they want, how they want it and to make sure it happens. Absolutely love to be told how to please a playmate and be rewarded for it |
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I'd really like to be dressed up and feminised by a woman before she ravishes me with a strapon |
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Love to be forced to play with another sub for the entertainment of a domme women |
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Would fancy being controlled by a trans mistress , what a way to pop your cherry 🍒 |
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Me and someone husband get naked and I suck him on my knees in front of his wife
The first time I did this, his wife said cum in his mouth, shortly after down my throat and feeling of my mouth exploding with his cum, she said swallow darling which I did x |
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I really want to be lay on my back with a face strapon on watching a lady slide up and down until she cum so her wetness runs down over my face. I want her to ride that dildo as rough as she wants! |
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More of a want - sometimes want to be put in my place and have the power turned against me |
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I’d love to suck a guys cock as my wife watched and rubbed her pussy, then have him fuck me in front of her and a group of her friends!
I have brought it up with her but sadly she’s not into it at all |
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"I’d love to suck a guys cock as my wife watched and rubbed her pussy, then have him fuck me in front of her and a group of her friends!
I have brought it up with her but sadly she’s not into it at all "
Although I am a trans-woman living with my wife as women friends that is exactly what I would love to happen too, but sadly she isn’t at all interested either! |
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To be completely under the spell of a bi couple , to be comfortable enough to do whatever they ask , to please them both to the best of my ability , compliance , obedience and 100% trust . |
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By * D 777Man 20 weeks ago
bathgate |
Not much experience in this but the only time i had i was tied down an blindfolded , cock teased an edged as she sat on my face an ordered me to lick her for a good while till she had her way an left me tied down then came back an poured candle wax on my chest . I was lucky enough to be finished of later on . |
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"Not much experience in this but the only time i had i was tied down an blindfolded , cock teased an edged as she sat on my face an ordered me to lick her for a good while till she had her way an left me tied down then came back an poured candle wax on my chest . I was lucky enough to be finished of later on . "
I wasn't lucky enough to get finished off , sent home on a 90 minutes drive with further instructions, the whole thing was such an intense feeling and still is |
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Only Dabbled with sub side thus far, best experience to date was being tied and blindfolded and teased and edged for an hour then various toys etc
Then she had a very fem tv join us who sucked my cock as she sat on my face
Would love to experience being pegged |
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It’s interesting to see just how much pegging/anal play features in men’s fantasies! |
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Would love to be tied to a chair or bed and teased by a domme for a few hours, begging to cum and when do it must be done very slowly  DM me if It can become a reality |
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I payed to visit a professional dominatrix once it was an incredible experience |
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I love being dominated by a woman and pegged / denied any cock fun |
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By *ultiOMan 20 weeks ago
Galway |
Unfortunately I haven't had many submissive experiences, it seems less women are interested in that side of it (totally fair tho) but I've always wanted to experience it...
Perhaps not specifically Sub/Dom type, but I get off on the thought of being "used" for pleasure. Being told what she wants, and making sure she cums again and again...
Though I think it might really be about skipping that step about reading signals, or reading them incorrectly I suppose. When there is no ambiguity, and it's clear what she wants, then I know I can perform and be free within that context. |
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Interesting topic.
I occasionally meet with a fem-dom friend.
Play includes CFNM, verbal and physical humiliation, spitting, foot worship, bondage, CBT, nipple clamps, wax and pegging. It is amazing. |
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For me I’d love to be on tied to a table with a whole in it and just made to cum multiple times. Either with mouth or toys but I want to just be made to cum until I can’t anymore! |
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Like most submissive men, I love facesitting and getting nothing in return, if I could choose. But Im open to most things as long as they don't involve other men Im straight |
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By *rMan321Man 20 weeks ago
Somewhere Cold |
A fantasy I have is to be blindfolded and tied up by a couple. Then to be strap-on fucked by the female half of the couple.....or is it the male half fucking me???
Then my cock starts getting sucked until I cum.
They untie me but tell me to wait until they leave before I can remove the blindfold. |
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By (user no longer on site) 20 weeks ago
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"What is happening in this country ….. where are all the real proper men ???
Ew. But thanks for publically showing everyone your red flag, I guess 😬🚩"
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Or feel free to share a submissive story if you were lucky enough to experience it 😉"
Lover of having my cock edged by a woman as she eases a strap on into my tight ass, has to be loads of lube and lots of trust for the right woman. |
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I crave to be used for a ladies pleasure, teased, edged and denied
I want to watch how turned on she gets with such power
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"I crave to be used for a ladies pleasure, teased, edged and denied
I want to watch how turned on she gets with such power
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But how does this give a woman pleasure? It is all about the man it seems to me…
I am really not understanding this dynamics. 🤷♀️ |
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By *ultiOMan 20 weeks ago
Galway |
"I crave to be used for a ladies pleasure, teased, edged and denied
I want to watch how turned on she gets with such power
But how does this give a woman pleasure? It is all about the man it seems to me…
I am really not understanding this dynamics. 🤷♀️ "
I'm obviously not the poster of that message so I can't answer for him, but because I have a similar preference (sans the denial and hard focus on me) I think it's mainly about the being used for the woman's pleasure.
What does the woman get out of it? Pretty much anything she wants, additionally she holds the power and some might like that.
For me at least it's more about clarity and not overstepping (consent, and enthusiastic consent is very important to me and there's nothing that completely destroys my mood faster than making someone uncomfortable or worse) and since the woman's pleasure is much more important to me than my own (in fact I get pleasure from the woman having pleasure) it makes sense to me to directly give the power to her.
I added a lot there so probably not directly applicable to the question, but I feel it's in the same vein? Perhaps. |
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I have quite a few.
Would love to be 'made' to do stuff with a guy by a sexy woman, possibly dressed up.
Think Mistress T stuff and that's a good start! |
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Or feel free to share a submissive story if you were lucky enough to experience it 😉"
To be on my knees wearing her knickers / panties while she instructs 2 men to make me suck them both to completion |
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Plenty of sub guys around even the ones you’d assume are very macho (muscle queens really).
I get plenty of offers to be a mistress to some straight guy who wants to suck cock, spanked, pissed on, humiliated etc…
Maybe I now look like a dominant Tgirl than the sissy I see myself as.  |
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Have always had a submissive side but up until
Now this has always been with guys. Would love to serve a couple or a woman as well |
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By *D07Man 20 weeks ago
Huddersfield |
Feet worship,ass and pussy licking, piss drinking |
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My Mrs loves to wank me off over our strap on, then she pushes it down my throat, she wants to do it with a real cock one day and wank him off into my mouth, obviously I wouldn’t object |
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Tied up blindfolded and teased.
Love to worship a woman and forced to pleasure orally. Told to make her cum and clean it up when she’s finished. |
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Ive had many sub experiences ranging from light activity such as task completion to be tied to St Andrews cross, put across spanking benches. All others have been fab experience but my ultimate sub fantasy is to have my other half fuck my ass with a strap on
"I find it really hot how many men actually crave to be submissive... what's a submissive desire you have?
Or feel free to share a submissive story if you were lucky enough to experience it 😉"
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By *vaRoseWoman 20 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
Don’t mind me
I’m just going to read back and take any interesting notes |
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"Don’t mind me
I’m just going to read back and take any interesting notes"
😂😂😂 love that |
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By *vaRoseWoman 20 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"Don’t mind me
I’m just going to read back and take any interesting notes
😂😂😂 love that "
It’s always good to get some new ideas |
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By *vaRoseWoman 20 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"Plenty of sub guys around even the ones you’d assume are very macho (muscle queens really).
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It’s such an interesting observation, and I concur |
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My favourite experience was having my hands tied behind my back and completely naked before a guy turned up and my wife and the guy laughed at me before they started making out , when they had undressed I was made to serve them , for example while my wife was busy sucking his cock I was made to keep her pussy wet and while he was busy licking my wife’s pussy I was made to suck his cock to keep him nice and hard , then when he started fucking her from behind she sat on my face until he filled her pussy with his cum and pulled out , as he pulled out and his cock landed on my face he pushed his cock in my mouth for me to clean and when he had finished with my mouth my wife pushed her spunky pussy down on my face to clean , then as she lay beside the other guy on the bed playing with his cock she untied my hands and allowed me to wank myself off over her feet |
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I just love to be told, what, how and when to do it, my biggest turn on fire sure. |
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Probably only submissive desire I currently have is to be under a lady licking her 69 while she's being fucked by a large cock, every now and then he pulls out and has me suck her juices off him |
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I’ve always been sexually submissive & the ideal of being any other way doesn’t really compute.
Finding a couple or even more a women that really want to play with a sub TV like that is in my experience very rare but occasionally happens. I was lucky enough to meet a couple from up north, we played for a while on video on the old MSN including giving me sub tasks to do, so we all knew the score & a level of trust & knowledge of each others desires was built up, then the opportunity came for a meet in there home town.
They both wanted to play with a mindless real sex toy & that was the submissive role that I’d always dreamed of.
For a few hours we all lived out our fantasies & desires & even a good few years on I still think of it as the best sexual night of my life. |
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"Probably only submissive desire I currently have is to be under a lady licking her 69 while she's being fucked by a large cock, every now and then he pulls out and has me suck her juices off him"
I can 100% recommend it , it’s awesome especially if he fucks her bareback and you get covered in cum |
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By *ow69Man 20 weeks ago
Preston |
Mine is JOI, being made to get my cock out and stroke it as the lady desires. No matter where or when. |
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I love to be bound, gagged and pegged |
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Love joi and Cfnm |
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To be used and pissed on by a couple x |
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