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Candy doesnt do hotwife, but we do have mfm sometimes. A big one for us is that Duke is NOT a cuck, and to be honest a lot of people need to realise mfm doesnt necessarily mean the man is one.
First and foremost we need to have someone that will talk and enguage with both of us. A proper conversation. Mainly because before we play we will usually chill out and have a drink and a chat etc before anything happens. Someone who keeps themselves clean and respectful to themselves and Candy. Crude comments about her chest wont win any points.
The simple fact of the matter is there are so many men that couples and single females can afford to have a shopping list as there will be men who forefill any requierment made.
For us though, when we meet a good guy we are more than happy to meet him more than once! |
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"Candy doesnt do hotwife, but we do have mfm sometimes. A big one for us is that Duke is NOT a cuck, and to be honest a lot of people need to realise mfm doesnt necessarily mean the man is one.
First and foremost we need to have someone that will talk and enguage with both of us. A proper conversation. Mainly because before we play we will usually chill out and have a drink and a chat etc before anything happens. Someone who keeps themselves clean and respectful to themselves and Candy. Crude comments about her chest wont win any points.
The simple fact of the matter is there are so many men that couples and single females can afford to have a shopping list as there will be men who forefill any requierment made.
For us though, when we meet a good guy we are more than happy to meet him more than once!"
Exactly this 👆. |
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For us, regardless of what we're looking for sexually at the time, it always has to be someone we can actually be friends with. Someone we could go for food/drinks and have a laugh with and nothing happen. |
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"For us, regardless of what we're looking for sexually at the time, it always has to be someone we can actually be friends with. Someone we could go for food/drinks and have a laugh with and nothing happen. "
I get that… it’s important to have a normal conversation before and after and even better to have a laugh with too..  |
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The key for us is connection above anything else. When you have that, everything just clicks.
We have enjoyed meeting people of all genders, and all various group sizes, from intimate threesomes to big mixed groups. All have been different but amazing experiences, but the really amazing ones are where there is the right chemistry |
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We look forward someone who can hold a conversation , and actually string a sentence together
And sometimes that can be a big ask
Personality goes a long way to getting a meet with us
We've met people and were not ashamed to say that we've straight away thought no
But we've just all got on , and then got it on .......
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"We look forward someone who can hold a conversation , and actually string a sentence together
And sometimes that can be a big ask
Personality goes a long way to getting a meet with us
We've met people and were not ashamed to say that we've straight away thought no
But we've just all got on , and then got it on .......
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This. |
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By *aandLoCouple 13 weeks ago
Southampton |
"Interesting that I haven’t heard about the physical like a 6 pack stomach or 12 inch cock mentioned yet… as what couples look for in a male third. "
Our decision to chat and connect with people on Fab, or at clubs isn't driven by 6 packs, cock size, or boob size. In our experience it's a minority, rather than a majority.
Connecting as people, chatting, laughing and a willingness to understand our dynamic (wanting to share L with other men does not mean J is a cuck!) is far more important. |
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We are looking for couples or that elusive unicorn for fmfm or ffm. No single blokes, though we have played with single men as part of a group play at a club where there were couples, single men and single woman all part of the play. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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We're looking for the elusive lady to join us as well as a couple we can get to know on more than one occasion, problem is we're soft play with couples ( not single ladies) so that puts some people off. |
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By *agE97Couple 13 weeks ago
Gwynedd |
Another couple to have great a connection and of course some sexy fun with  but not sure why? it is proving to be quite difficult to find couples, starting think it's us??
But we're keeping positive 😊 xxx |
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By *eeNKayCouple 13 weeks ago
Stockport |
We look for people we can get on with, and that aren't only wanting to interact with Kay - Tee is straight, so doesn't want direct sexual interaction with other men, but is still here for the social aspect with them.
If that's a single person, of either gender, for them to realise neither of us are cucks, and that it's polite to involve the other one in the conversation before you get your rocks off. In most cases this is Single men, but there have been a few single women just after FF thst have done the same.
If it's a couple, for them to not be treating Kay as a Unicorn and Tee as an obstacle to get past.
After that ... it all comes down to how the conversation goes and what the 'vibe' is. |
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By *arand25Couple 13 weeks ago
Crowborough |
We look initially at the profile bio & photos of single guys, then message back & forth, then if all are happy - go on to a meeting.
We don't do socials, we just go straight into play so we make sure that everything is covered via messages first.
So far so good  |
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We have limited experience of MMF because at the moment taz is happy exploring her bi side.
We are chatting to a few men who we may meet when the time is right but they need to be more than just an appendage. We do enjoy the social side as much as the sex side of things.
On the plus side most men do make it easy for us to just delete their messages purely through any lack of real effort put into it |
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"Explicitly when adding another for an extra bit of spice what are the key ingredients .. ? Hotwife dates or mfm or ladies being invited for ffm .. lucky ducks.. "
If we are having a mmf or mmmf then it’s all about the cock and if it’s to our liking or not,
For a MFF just someone who has that filth streak in them, bi and preferably curvy with big boobs
For couples, just for full swap or soft swap and everyone involved |
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MFM which we have done and enjoyed so want to try again. We would also potentially like to have fun with a couple and also a single female. Nothing is ruled out as such, bar our dislikes
But all of the above is based on connecting with people, so whether any happen or not is another question |
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"Explicitly when adding another for an extra bit of spice what are the key ingredients .. ? Hotwife dates or mfm or ladies being invited for ffm .. lucky ducks..
If we are having a mmf or mmmf then it’s all about the cock and if it’s to our liking or not,
For a MFF just someone who has that filth streak in them, bi and preferably curvy with big boobs
For couples, just for full swap or soft swap and everyone involved "
Well at least your honest about the cock Mrs |
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