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By *avidNP OP Man 13 weeks ago

manchester

How do people prefer the first interaction to take place?

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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago

"How do people prefer the first interaction to take place?"

I’d be absolutely amazed if anyone say winks.

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By *estwirralcoupleCouple 13 weeks ago

Wirral

Wink!…..

…no, only joking, message (of course)

. X

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple 13 weeks ago

Leicester

Message, 100%.

Wink system feels broken. The amount of times we've winked back, no response. We send a message off a wink, no response!

So yeah, state your intentions early doors and don't leave us unread for two weeks

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By *oppet22TV/TS 13 weeks ago

huddersfield

Both wink or message

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By *handlerMonicaCouple 13 weeks ago

Leicester

Winks are better than nothing I suppose, but a (good) message is much more likely to get the ball rolling

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By *hat.coupleCouple 13 weeks ago

Kent

I like winks but some people seem to take offence to them for some reason. Its a quick and convenient way of saying "hi, I like you, wink back if you like us too". I take time to read a profile carefully and compose a thoughtful message tailored to them only to not even get a simple "no thanks". When people say things on their profile like "make the effort with your message and I'll reply" and then not reply when I do, it can be very discouraging. So winks are very handy and can save a lot of time when used correctly I feel.

Mrs x

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By *avidNP OP Man 13 weeks ago

manchester

You be are all confirming what i believe. A nice well thought out message should be the best way.

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By *ust want fun 888Man 13 weeks ago

nearby

Messages, as you can get a brief idea of how they reply to you

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By *elboy1978Man 13 weeks ago

Jarrow

Both

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By *umalotagainMan 13 weeks ago

between OX26 & BH23

"I like winks but some people seem to take offence to them for some reason. Its a quick and convenient way of saying "hi, I like you, wink back if you like us too". I take time to read a profile carefully and compose a thoughtful message tailored to them only to not even get a simple "no thanks". When people say things on their profile like "make the effort with your message and I'll reply" and then not reply when I do, it can be very discouraging. So winks are very handy and can save a lot of time when used correctly I feel.

Mrs x"

This, exactly this, it’s a quick intro, I am not into copy and paste messages so I am going to put some effort in I at least want to have an idea if the person/s are interested at least in some way

It’s not perfect but it works if people want it to

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By *nked199Man 13 weeks ago

Manchester

I’ll normally send a wink first,if I get a wink back then I’ll send a message

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple 13 weeks ago

cannock

"Message, 100%.

Wink system feels broken. The amount of times we've winked back, no response. We send a message off a wink, no response!

So yeah, state your intentions early doors and don't leave us unread for two weeks

Same for us too