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why are couples so arrogant on these sites
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"The vast majority of couples I've had contact with have been great, same with single guys and single ladies! There are always oddballs where ever you are, people who think they're better than every one else or what have you - just move on and ignore them! Z" Ditto they're in the minority thank fook so just put it down to experience and move on | |||
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"met and chatted to some nice people on here but couples seem more and more to think its their site and just assume all single males here are timewasters. i am sure a lot are but it be nice to at least be given benifit of the doubt" nah i actually agree with you, i think a lot of couples think they own swinging and have the rights to set all the rules I did say a lot, i have met some really nice couples but met some right serious and stuck up ones too | |||
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"Blimey! Is it couple bashing night tonight?!! "It's always someone bashing on here....tonight they are bashing couples, tommorrow it will be single guys again, the next day it will be bisexuals.....blah blah blah | |||
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"Blimey! Is it couple bashing night tonight?!!
It's always someone bashing on here....tonight they are bashing couples, tommorrow it will be single guys again, the next day it will be bisexuals.....blah blah blah"You're soooo wrong, it's single women bash night tomorrow. | |||
"I think alot of the arrogant couples on here think because there's 2 of them and are meeting a single they have the right to lay down the law but there's also alot of stupid people that cant read profiles and its annoying when you get the same thing over and over again especially off single guys "I don't agree with that. It is meant to be enjoyable for all, not just the couple, so if there are couples about who are laying down the law of what happens in meets without regard for what the other party wants, then no wonder they are gtting accused of being arrogant. | |||
"met and chatted to some nice people on here but couples seem more and more to think its their site and just assume all single males here are timewasters. i am sure a lot are but it be nice to at least be given benifit of the doubt nah i actually agree with you, i think a lot of couples think they own swinging and have the rights to set all the rules I did say a lot, i have met some really nice couples but met some right serious and stuck up ones too" I have found that also, I sometimes think its a power trip with some of them and this usualy comes from the male part of the couple , e.g you can fuck my wife but under my terms scenario, or maybe they arnt use to all this attention and this just goes to their heads | |||
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 pictues of cocks and so on.
what i'm getting at is been a male in a couple i think personally i need to protect my wife to a curtain degree,as i would in a club.it's not a power trip at all but you saying you can fuck my wife but under my terms of course it's going to be under my terms or no meet,should that even be questioned!!
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"met and chatted to some nice people on here but couples seem more and more to think its their site and just assume all single males here are timewasters. i am sure a lot are but it be nice to at least be given benifit of the doubt" I do think single guys have it hard on here (no pun) lol..to be honest all the couples bar one i have chatted to have been lovely, as someone mentioned there are the odd few rude people but u get them everywhere, let it go and move on xx | |||
"met and chatted to some nice people on here but couples seem more and more to think its their site and just assume all single males here are timewasters. i am sure a lot are but it be nice to at least be given benifit of the doubt" Not had a problem at all with couples that you seem to have experienced, most I have met have been really nice people. What you have to remember as a single guy is that they are doing you a favour not the other way round, there are so many single guys here that the couples have a lot of choice , you have a couple of verifications in a short time and you can build on that. Relax enjoy it for what it is. A face pic on your profile would also help. regards Mike | |||
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"met and chatted to some nice people on here but couples seem more and more to think its their site and just assume all single males here are timewasters. i am sure a lot are but it be nice to at least be given benifit of the doubt Not had a problem at all with couples that you seem to have experienced, most I have met have been really nice people. What you have to remember as a single guy is that they are doing you a favour not the other way round, there are so many single guys here that the couples have a lot of choice , you have a couple of verifications in a short time and you can build on that. Relax enjoy it for what it is. A face pic on your profile would also help. regards Mike "Personally I disagree with your comment that couples are doing single guys a favour! Isn't it a mutual need? I know some single guys look at sites like this as a source of easy sex and the women, married and single are gagging for it, but couples are here to meet single men too to fulfil their desires. If they alienate the single men they lose out too don't they?! | |||
"met and chatted to some nice people on here but couples seem more and more to think its their site and just assume all single males here are timewasters. i am sure a lot are but it be nice to at least be given benifit of the doubt nah i actually agree with you, i think a lot of couples think they own swinging and have the rights to set all the rules I did say a lot, i have met some really nice couples but met some right serious and stuck up ones too I have found that also, I sometimes think its a power trip with some of them and this usualy comes from the male part of the couple , e.g you can fuck my wife but under my terms scenario, or maybe they arnt use to all this attention and this just goes to their heads "Actually, you may find the opposite is also equally as true, when replying to a message, I always try to be polite, no matter what, Ms Rooney on the other hand, after receiving a message like 'you want to meet', she chooses not to reply. | |||
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"met and chatted to some nice people on here but couples seem more and more to think its their site and just assume all single males here are timewasters. i am sure a lot are but it be nice to at least be given benifit of the doubt nah i actually agree with you, i think a lot of couples think they own swinging and have the rights to set all the rules I did say a lot, i have met some really nice couples but met some right serious and stuck up ones too I have found that also, I sometimes think its a power trip with some of them and this usualy comes from the male part of the couple , e.g you can fuck my wife but under my terms scenario, or maybe they arnt use to all this attention and this just goes to their heads
Actually, you may find the opposite is also equally as true, when replying to a message, I always try to be polite, no matter what, Ms Rooney on the other hand, after receiving a message like 'you want to meet', she chooses not to reply."same here kelly looks at the men who mail us not me.she chooses to reply or not.as she says i'm not the 1 who has to fuck him,but on the other hand we do have to get on.i'm thinking it's the same for you mr rooney | |||
"Took the wind out of my sails.... I was going to place the same views. Couples ask to be treated with respect from singles guys which we can appreciate. However when genuine guys read all your profile and adhear to the age limits and take time to send a proper message and attach face pics as requested. And it reads only meesages with face pics will be replied to even if a no thanks, we can handle that. Only to find that your message has been deleted make you wonder how rude are these people.Is there any wonder single guys just send winks or friend invites as they get treated just the same. So couples if you dont intend to reply please say so. Think how you like to be treated , I am sure you would find this rude and bad mannered if it happened to you couples. Rant over " I think possibly it can sometimes come down to this..... One of the couple writes out the profile with intention of following those little rules, but it happens to be the other half that reads and deletes some of the messages. | |||
"met and chatted to some nice people on here but couples seem more and more to think its their site and just assume all single males here are timewasters. i am sure a lot are but it be nice to at least be given benifit of the doubt nah i actually agree with you, i think a lot of couples think they own swinging and have the rights to set all the rules I did say a lot, i have met some really nice couples but met some right serious and stuck up ones too I have found that also, I sometimes think its a power trip with some of them and this usualy comes from the male part of the couple , e.g you can fuck my wife but under my terms scenario, or maybe they arnt use to all this attention and this just goes to their heads
Actually, you may find the opposite is also equally as true, when replying to a message, I always try to be polite, no matter what, Ms Rooney on the other hand, after receiving a message like 'you want to meet', she chooses not to reply.
same here kelly looks at the men who mail us not me.she chooses to reply or not.as she says i'm not the 1 who has to fuck him,but on the other hand we do have to get on.i'm thinking it's the same for you mr rooney "Very similar, although I do tend to do the message reading, I will always tell Ms Rooney when there are messages I think she may be interested in. those I believe she may be interested in are those that I have learned are the type to catch her eye. Example, a profile with no pics at all, and little type context, a message of 'read your profile, lovely bum, want to meet sexy bum?'. Well I know she will pass it on by. Also, I don't tend to delete messages either, so they're always there for her to see. | |||
" What you have to remember as a single guy is that they are doing you a favour not the other way round, there are so many single guys here that the couples have a lot of choice , you have a couple of verifications in a short time and you can build on that. Relax enjoy it for what it is. A face pic on your profile would also help. regards Mike "so many alarms went off at chez fabs when I heard that statement I don't know where to start... okay... be calm, breathe in... breathe out!! first of all, let me say I think you are so wrong on this issue that if that this is the way that you go about your swinging that I am actually really sad to hear that you feel this... If that is your attitude you are taking into meets then you are nothing to help the situation.... in fact I think you are actually doing more harm than good in the perception that couples are all powerful and single men are the lowest of the low and we feed off scraps..... If I am meeting people then in that situation, I am the equal of anyone, be that a single fem or a couple! They are there to get out of it as much as I am.... so when once a couple came up to me with a lorry load of demands before I met them.. my reply to them was "what you are after is some sort of "stunt cock" not a person! If they don't treat you as a equal then walk away! if your pride and your integrity means less to you then getting your leg over, then fine, you do what you do! but for me if you have to roll over and cowtow to get a meet I think that is a really sad Actually attitudes like the above make me really angry...... | |||
"met and chatted to some nice people on here but couples seem more and more to think its their site and just assume all single males here are timewasters. i am sure a lot are but it be nice to at least be given benifit of the doubt nah i actually agree with you, i think a lot of couples think they own swinging and have the rights to set all the rules I did say a lot, i have met some really nice couples but met some right serious and stuck up ones too I have found that also, I sometimes think its a power trip with some of them and this usualy comes from the male part of the couple , e.g you can fuck my wife but under my terms scenario, or maybe they arnt use to all this attention and this just goes to their heads
Actually, you may find the opposite is also equally as true, when replying to a message, I always try to be polite, no matter what, Ms Rooney on the other hand, after receiving a message like 'you want to meet', she chooses not to reply.
same here kelly looks at the men who mail us not me.she chooses to reply or not.as she says i'm not the 1 who has to fuck him,but on the other hand we do have to get on.i'm thinking it's the same for you mr rooney
Very similar, although I do tend to do the message reading, I will always tell Ms Rooney when there are messages I think she may be interested in. those I believe she may be interested in are those that I have learned are the type to catch her eye.
Example, a profile with no pics at all, and little type context, a message of 'read your profile, lovely bum, want to meet sexy bum?'. Well I know she will pass it on by.
Also, I don't tend to delete messages either, so they're always there for her to see."same here i never delete messages till she has had a look,we are looking for singles males at the moment,but what single men have to relise is there is 100's of you,so couples can be very pickie,if we spoke to every single male that contacted us we would be permantly at the computer.i really don't think it's couples that make the rules of course they have there own like us and stick by them.but it's the single bi females who have not all but most of the control... | |||
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"met and chatted to some nice people on here but couples seem more and more to think its their site and just assume all single males here are timewasters. i am sure a lot are but it be nice to at least be given benifit of the doubt" As a single women i find some can be even more pushy than the single men and get funny if you don't mail back. | |||
"Blimey! Is it couple bashing night tonight?!!
It's always someone bashing on here....tonight they are bashing couples, tommorrow it will be single guys again, the next day it will be bisexuals.....blah blah blah"fucking couples get them off the site.useless arrogant b*******.ps can we go back to single guys bashing tommorrow. | |||
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