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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I think there are a lot of people on here who would prefer building up a good swinging relationship over time. This is why you get so many peoples looking for FBs.
I like a bit of both - some NSA fun where we will never meet again, and a couple of guys who I'd like to see regularly for a more 'friends with benefits' relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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of course a quick fuck leaves me feeling cold and used, I prefer at least 30 minutes so we can have a drink, chat and then have sex, so much more satisfying  |
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"The more we swing the more we find that having a quick fuck just isn't satisfying. We like to have a bigger connection with the people we play with.
Is there anyone else who feels like that?
Xxx"
Yes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This might be slightly off the subject, but can you have several fb's?
Is that possible or practical, or do you really have more than sex with one person you are really compatible with and then just have meets with others?
I'm new, so forgive the ignorance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This might be slightly off the subject, but can you have several fb's?
Is that possible or practical, or do you really have more than sex with one person you are really compatible with and then just have meets with others?
I'm new, so forgive the ignorance "
There's no rule. You are in control and you decide what suits you and have fun with it.
P.s welcome aboard x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im a the point where i dont want connection..saves all the falseness and bullshit that seems happen! someone i met i thought connected with and wanted same things from meeting, unfortunatly that didnt mean respect and even though had quality time together and went out my way to be a good host..i cudda just been a quick fuck..so makes no difference. least if a guy just wants a fuck u know they mean what they say/want as to a guy making out other things  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The more we swing the more we find that having a quick fuck just isn't satisfying. We like to have a bigger connection with the people we play with.
Is there anyone else who feels like that?
Xxx"
Very much so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love the social side and connection..i cant speak for everyone, but many single guys on here say stuff just to get the sex..then move on the the next person, yet they state want different/regular etc
very few mean what they say and anyone can be nice when they want something. After its a different story cause all that matters is they have someone stick cock in.
i know at end of day it is about having fun and meeting different people but its a shame respecting others isnt there for many |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most definitely .. I stopped going to clubs because I was feeling dissatisfied .. Now I make clear that although I don't want a relationship as such , but regular fun with friends is far more enjoyable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This might be slightly off the subject, but can you have several fb's?
Is that possible or practical, or do you really have more than sex with one person you are really compatible with and then just have meets with others?
I'm new, so forgive the ignorance "
Yes , definitely .. I have a few regular friends with benefits who I socialise with as well as playing . I think for me it's important to have a connection in and out of the bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This might be slightly off the subject, but can you have several fb's?
Is that possible or practical, or do you really have more than sex with one person you are really compatible with and then just have meets with others?
I'm new, so forgive the ignorance
Yes , definitely .. I have a few regular friends with benefits who I socialise with as well as playing . I think for me it's important to have a connection in and out of the bed "
i agree with this...its rare to find but does happen is good some people do meet people who mean what they say and become friends, i gave up on that one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i love the social side and connection..i cant speak for everyone, but many single guys on here say stuff just to get the sex..then move on the the next person, yet they state want different/regular etc
very few mean what they say and anyone can be nice when they want something. After its a different story cause all that matters is they have someone stick cock in.
i know at end of day it is about having fun and meeting different people but its a shame respecting others isnt there for many "
Yes I think you may well be right and although I do want a fb maybe just straight talking meets are the answer because at least people are honest about their needs?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The more we swing the more we find that having a quick fuck just isn't satisfying. We like to have a bigger connection with the people we play with.
Is there anyone else who feels like that?
Xxx"
Yes. We felt like that for a long time. There are those that go in for the "quick fix" type meet, but we prefer something along the lines of a friendship. If I don't feel I would like to meet and chat to a guy socially, then why would I want him having sex with my wife ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i love the social side and connection..i cant speak for everyone, but many single guys on here say stuff just to get the sex..then move on the the next person, yet they state want different/regular etc
very few mean what they say and anyone can be nice when they want something. After its a different story cause all that matters is they have someone stick cock in.
i know at end of day it is about having fun and meeting different people but its a shame respecting others isnt there for many "
Agree with this. The single guys rarely want more than one or two meets. Get their fix and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The more we swing the more we find that having a quick fuck just isn't satisfying. We like to have a bigger connection with the people we play with.
Is there anyone else who feels like that?
Xxx"
Definitely. |
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For ourselves we want to really make contact with a couple and get to know them before we moved onto the next stage , its probably because im a big chap [ cock is average tho ] and I want to know that they are happy with everything that is on the plate so to speak ,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So maybe it really is better to just meet and go?
Just being devils advocate...."
im begining to think this way as last guy i had connection with, well lets just say left me feeling very low and knocked my confidence big time, at which im still not 100%. silly thing is though, i shouldnt give a shit as they dont..but sometimes only takes one thing happen to get u down!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Completely... Iv never been into a quick fucks/fuck n go's.
I'm guessing there will be times them happening though, the more I venture the club scene? "
Ditto  |
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"For ourselves we want to really make contact with a couple and get to know them before we moved onto the next stage , its probably because im a big chap [ cock is average tho ] and I want to know that they are happy with everything that is on the plate so to speak ,
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this is me also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The more we swing the more we find that having a quick fuck just isn't satisfying. We like to have a bigger connection with the people we play with.
Is there anyone else who feels like that?
Xxx"
Not read all the thread but no, meets are just that and definitely no connection required - get a long yes but there for a reason and not a relationship. |
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