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"Just the thought of seeing my mother in that situation reviles me!!!!!!!!!!! We really do need a puke smiley....It is soooooooooooooo gross" thats kinda how i feel I just cant imagine what kind of family think it ok/normal to have sex in front of your parent/child  | |||
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"Is just to strange I understand everyone has different ideas and values and are free to do what ever they want, but I couldnt have sex in the same building let alone the same room as any member of my family,and I don't think i'd feel comfortable in the situation that you mentioned either. " Hence not playing or have anyone stay over and my kids at home are 18 and 22! I find the situation mentioned unsavoury to say the least and wouldn't feel comfortable at all! | |||
"Is just to strange I understand everyone has different ideas and values and are free to do what ever they want, but I couldnt have sex in the same building let alone the same room as any member of my family,and I don't think i'd feel comfortable in the situation that you mentioned either. Hence not playing or have anyone stay over and my kids at home are 18 and 22! I find the situation mentioned unsavoury to say the least and wouldn't feel comfortable at all! "I totally agree, I don't think I would have even stayed at the party! Also, never go to meets at peoples homes when the children are there - although they may be in bed, they're still in the house and could potentially see what's going on! Z | |||
"me and my bro bother went with the same woman at the same time in charms i think it made her nite that we was brothers lol" That's a really different situation from a parent / child situation. Men dream of having twins and there are sisters who like to play at the same time with the same partner. Point in case: Being judgemental is not necessarily a negative. Deciding not to take part IS a judgement but it could be the best judgement you could make. | |||
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"me and my bro bother went with the same woman at the same time in charms i think it made her nite that we was brothers lol That's a really different situation from a parent / child situation. Men dream of having twins and there are sisters who like to play at the same time with the same partner. Point in case: Being judgemental is not necessarily a negative. Deciding not to take part IS a judgement but it could be the best judgement you could make. " Some cloudy lines in all of that  | |||
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"I saw something mildly incestuous once and it made me want to vomit,could'nt get away quick enough Was I judgmental.............Yes!!! For me it was wrong so I removed myself from the situation,and the fact that the people involved thought it was right makes me want to vomit again "I told you, I know he looked like mi dad, but he wasn't! | |||
"I saw something mildly incestuous once and it made me want to vomit,could'nt get away quick enough Was I judgmental.............Yes!!! For me it was wrong so I removed myself from the situation,and the fact that the people involved thought it was right makes me want to vomit again
I told you, I know he looked like mi dad, but he wasn't! "Getting my Jeremy Kyle style lie detector out | |||
"I saw something mildly incestuous once and it made me want to vomit,could'nt get away quick enough Was I judgmental.............Yes!!! For me it was wrong so I removed myself from the situation,and the fact that the people involved thought it was right makes me want to vomit again "But is it judgmental if you don't see the situation but just decide you probably wouldn't be comfortable in that situation so you didn't put yourself up for it? Does that mean if you are not comfortable with anal you are judging every a***hole? | |||
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"me and my bro bother went with the same woman at the same time in charms i think it made her nite that we was brothers lol That's a really different situation from a parent / child situation. Men dream of having twins and there are sisters who like to play at the same time with the same partner. Point in case: Being judgemental is not necessarily a negative. Deciding not to take part IS a judgement but it could be the best judgement you could make. Some cloudy lines in all of that "So clarify the situation cos I don't know what you are alluding at. It's best to be clear than allude don't you think ? | |||
"I saw something mildly incestuous once and it made me want to vomit,could'nt get away quick enough Was I judgmental.............Yes!!! For me it was wrong so I removed myself from the situation,and the fact that the people involved thought it was right makes me want to vomit again
But is it judgmental if you don't see the situation but just decide you probably wouldn't be comfortable in that situation so you didn't put yourself up for it?
Does that mean if you are not comfortable with anal you are judging every a***hole?"No I don't think so,and if it is then who cares? lol If someone decides to say im judgmental because I know there are situations that I would'nt want to be involved in then let them Im still not going to get involved no matter what,they can think what they like of me............id be long gone anyway 
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"I chatted to guy who said he went with a mother and daughter at the same time. When he told me they gave each other oral, well, lets just say I was glad I hadn't had dinner yet!!! This was when he was younger and probably wouldn't do it again now. So yes, I am judgemental in a case like this. It just wouldn't seem right!" Men have been known to lie. Prostitutes have been known to pretend to be related. Punters have been known to buy a fantasy. | |||
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"I saw something mildly incestuous once and it made me want to vomit,could'nt get away quick enough Was I judgmental.............Yes!!! For me it was wrong so I removed myself from the situation,and the fact that the people involved thought it was right makes me want to vomit again
But is it judgmental if you don't see the situation but just decide you probably wouldn't be comfortable in that situation so you didn't put yourself up for it?
Does that mean if you are not comfortable with anal you are judging every a***hole?
No I don't think so,and if it is then who cares? lol
If someone decides to say im judgmental because I know there are situations that I would'nt want to be involved in then let them
Im still not going to get involved no matter what,they can think what they like of me............id be long gone anyway
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"me and my bro bother went with the same woman at the same time in charms i think it made her nite that we was brothers lol That's a really different situation from a parent / child situation. Men dream of having twins and there are sisters who like to play at the same time with the same partner. Point in case: Being judgemental is not necessarily a negative. Deciding not to take part IS a judgement but it could be the best judgement you could make. Some cloudy lines in all of that
So clarify the situation cos I don't know what you are alluding at. It's best to be clear than allude don't you think ? "I agree with Granny on this one, in most situations life to me is represented in shades of greys, but presence of family members never mind involvement simply feels wrong. This one for me/ us is black and white. | |||
"A good post Granny, but I think you answered yourself really. It is all about what you are comfortable with, obviously the people who have sex in front of their parents as a group session are comfortable enough to do it, but equally I would find it REALLY uncomfortable so wouldn't even entertain the idea. Obviously if they are not having sex with each other then it isn't incest.....but because I find it so off putting, I do wonder what made them want to do it. Do they look at each other while having sex with others? Do they avoid each other? if they do why have sex in the sameplace? " Now you've done it I realise my dad must have had a cum face
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"A good post Granny, but I think you answered yourself really. It is all about what you are comfortable with, obviously the people who have sex in front of their parents as a group session are comfortable enough to do it, but equally I would find it REALLY uncomfortable so wouldn't even entertain the idea. Obviously if they are not having sex with each other then it isn't incest.....but because I find it so off putting, I do wonder what made them want to do it. Do they look at each other while having sex with others? Do they avoid each other? if they do why have sex in the sameplace? " And also in agreement with this post - while for me/ us it would be wrong/ black and white etc stuff... it does not mean for somebody else it would not be ok. It is all about what ethical moral framework one sets oneself | |||
"I am very open sexually,naked bodies around families does not equal sexual intention Naturism does'nt either Sex between family members makes me feel sick though and I can't help feeling like that" nope .... none of us can. No blame attached. | |||
"I am very open sexually,naked bodies around families does not equal sexual intention Naturism does'nt either Sex between family members makes me feel sick though and I can't help feeling like that nope .... none of us can. No blame attached. " Absolutely, Granny has, as always, put it in a nutshell, no blame attached- and yet acknowledging that sex (not naturism) between family members is a "no-go" concept for most. | |||
"me and my bro bother went with the same woman at the same time in charms i think it made her nite that we was brothers lol That's a really different situation from a parent / child situation. Men dream of having twins and there are sisters who like to play at the same time with the same partner. Point in case: Being judgemental is not necessarily a negative. Deciding not to take part IS a judgement but it could be the best judgement you could make. Some cloudy lines in all of that
So clarify the situation cos I don't know what you are alluding at. It's best to be clear than allude don't you think ? "Well I was just thinking how some circumstances may seem more or less appropriate (not saying your comments are cloudy btw). How some may judge a parent with a child (all be it of legal age) to be wrong, yet plenty as you mentioned have the fantasy of siblings. Why should siblings be any more or less wrong than parent/child... and I bet some people would more comfortable with say 2 brothers playing in the same room, than if it was brother and sister.... perhaps similarly, people might hold different views on father/son to mother/son etc... I might point out, none of this states my personal position, just airing some thoughts | |||
"me and my bro bother went with the same woman at the same time in charms i think it made her nite that we was brothers lol That's a really different situation from a parent / child situation. Men dream of having twins and there are sisters who like to play at the same time with the same partner. Point in case: Being judgemental is not necessarily a negative. Deciding not to take part IS a judgement but it could be the best judgement you could make. Some cloudy lines in all of that
So clarify the situation cos I don't know what you are alluding at. It's best to be clear than allude don't you think ?
Well I was just thinking how some circumstances may seem more or less appropriate (not saying your comments are cloudy btw). How some may judge a parent with a child (all be it of legal age) to be wrong, yet plenty as you mentioned have the fantasy of siblings.
Why should siblings be any more or less wrong than parent/child... and I bet some people would more comfortable with say 2 brothers playing in the same room, than if it was brother and sister.... perhaps similarly, people might hold different views on father/son to mother/son etc...
I might point out, none of this states my personal position, just airing some thoughts "Must confess, you have a really valid point here. I met a guy a while ago who only played with the fantasy of including my sister... to me it was an instant turn off. Now fantasies are very different from acting out, and nobody should be judged or criticised for their imagination. In fact, it can be very empowering to be in a relationship where one can TALK about all those hidden fantasies and dark thoughts without fear of judgment.... But then this would forme at least be in a close relationship of deep trust AND with the safe knowldge that it is a fantasy only. | |||
"me and my bro bother went with the same woman at the same time in charms i think it made her nite that we was brothers lol That's a really different situation from a parent / child situation. Men dream of having twins and there are sisters who like to play at the same time with the same partner. Point in case: Being judgemental is not necessarily a negative. Deciding not to take part IS a judgement but it could be the best judgement you could make. Some cloudy lines in all of that
So clarify the situation cos I don't know what you are alluding at. It's best to be clear than allude don't you think ?
Well I was just thinking how some circumstances may seem more or less appropriate (not saying your comments are cloudy btw). How some may judge a parent with a child (all be it of legal age) to be wrong, yet plenty as you mentioned have the fantasy of siblings.
Why should siblings be any more or less wrong than parent/child... and I bet some people would more comfortable with say 2 brothers playing in the same room, than if it was brother and sister.... perhaps similarly, people might hold different views on father/son to mother/son etc...
I might point out, none of this states my personal position, just airing some thoughts "gotcha ! Im in total agreement ... | |||
"me and my bro bother went with the same woman at the same time in charms i think it made her nite that we was brothers lol That's a really different situation from a parent / child situation. Men dream of having twins and there are sisters who like to play at the same time with the same partner. Point in case: Being judgemental is not necessarily a negative. Deciding not to take part IS a judgement but it could be the best judgement you could make. " Humm dont know, i dont see it as being different, i couldnt take my sister to chams when she asked me, i know she only wanted me to go show her round as she was curious about going and didnt want to go alone but i still found it strange that she would even think abiout going with me, as for having a 3sum with two brothers, i just couldnt do it, i cant understand why anyone would want to see any family memebr having sex, let alone be a part of the act, i know we all have different views and im not saying its right or wrong but its just something thats not for me | |||
" Men dream of having twins... " Julie's ok, but Gerald's moustache puts me off a bit | |||
"I saw something mildly incestuous once and it made me want to vomit,could'nt get away quick enough Was I judgmental.............Yes!!! For me it was wrong so I removed myself from the situation,and the fact that the people involved thought it was right makes me want to vomit again
But is it judgmental if you don't see the situation but just decide you probably wouldn't be comfortable in that situation so you didn't put yourself up for it?
Does that mean if you are not comfortable with anal you are judging every a***hole?
No I don't think so,and if it is then who cares? lol
If someone decides to say im judgmental because I know there are situations that I would'nt want to be involved in then let them
Im still not going to get involved no matter what,they can think what they like of me............id be long gone anyway
"Agree with you - it's about being comfortable in any given situation. It doesn't make us puritanical because we find having sex in front of family members inappropriate as some people seem to allude to!  | |||
"I saw something mildly incestuous once and it made me want to vomit,could'nt get away quick enough Was I judgmental.............Yes!!! For me it was wrong so I removed myself from the situation,and the fact that the people involved thought it was right makes me want to vomit again
But is it judgmental if you don't see the situation but just decide you probably wouldn't be comfortable in that situation so you didn't put yourself up for it?
Does that mean if you are not comfortable with anal you are judging every a***hole?
No I don't think so,and if it is then who cares? lol
If someone decides to say im judgmental because I know there are situations that I would'nt want to be involved in then let them
Im still not going to get involved no matter what,they can think what they like of me............id be long gone anyway
Agree with you - it's about being comfortable in any given situation.
It doesn't make us puritanical because we find having sex in front of family members inappropriate as some people seem to allude to! "Amazing how we all read things differently. I can't find one person on this thread that IS comfortable with incest or even simply knowing their family members are at it. I can't see anyone alluding that it's puritanical or even wrong to object to being with family members when things hot up. I can only see people agreeing. | |||
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"sorry but creeps me out totally the idea of 2 family members being in such close contact with each other yeah im being judgemental but tryin to picture being at a party with my mum and it just aint happenin in fact i can safely say the thought of it making me sick!! as far as im concerned my parents never had sex i dont want to think of it at all!!! and i cant imagine in ten yrs or whatever being in that position with any child of mine and yes im judgin but it makes me feel very sick!! and the thought of it with any family member is just not for me at all xx "I have a mother (you dont say lol) and a 18 year old daughter so guess i could be in the possition where i could be in the same room as either of them havings sex, have to admit the thought of my mum or my daughter having sex does not make me feel sick, but its just something i never EVER want to see i do understand where your coming from tho | |||
" Also even if mum + daughter played with each other is that even incest? We don't think it is. A quick google would suggest any sexual relationship between two females - be it sister-sister etc is NOT illegal nor even taboo by major faiths (in as much as it is not even mentioned - for example in lists of what is considered incestuous in christian or even islam faith) " I think that boils down to a lot of translational issues, possibly stemming from Victorian eras where "women cant have sex with each other". Although this home office PDF does detail a fairly clear definition of family members, including parent/child: http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/rds/pdfs10/countsexual10.pdf I dont know if I could ever do anything with a family member in my own family. I'd love to try a mum/daughter combination one time, I think I genuinely would find it erotic. I remember being very young, and my mum drying me off after a bath and telling me off for having a hardon - she must have known I was a pervert then  | |||
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" Also even if mum + daughter played with each other is that even incest? We don't think it is. A quick google would suggest any sexual relationship between two females - be it sister-sister etc is NOT illegal nor even taboo by major faiths (in as much as it is not even mentioned - for example in lists of what is considered incestuous in christian or even islam faith) I think that boils down to a lot of translational issues, possibly stemming from Victorian eras where "women cant have sex with each other". Although this home office PDF does detail a fairly clear definition of family members, including parent/child: http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/rds/pdfs10/countsexual10.pdf I dont know if I could ever do anything with a family member in my own family. I'd love to try a mum/daughter combination one time, I think I genuinely would find it erotic. I remember being very young, and my mum drying me off after a bath and telling me off for having a hardon - she must have known I was a pervert then "So you are quite happy to promote incest as long as it doesn't sully your own family ? Please don't say that's their choice. It's your choice as to whether it's wrong or not. If it's wrong don't encourage it in others. If it's not wrong you won't object to your family members coming on to you. | |||
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"Question. People say how sick this is and it makes them vomit etc - fair enough. But the question is why? What is it about this subject that promotes such strong feelings? Could it be because most of the time the word "incest" is used its tagged along with "rape" and "paedophile"? Just a thought." I'd say yes. We are conditioned from birth to fit in with our society. There are other cultures and there have been times in our own culture when incest was not frowned up or criminalised. Especially in Royal Families where the blood line needed to be maintained. | |||
"Question. People say how sick this is and it makes them vomit etc - fair enough. But the question is why? What is it about this subject that promotes such strong feelings? Could it be because most of the time the word "incest" is used its tagged along with "rape" and "paedophile"? Just a thought." Sex happens, in evolutionary terms for the purpose of procreation and sex within close relatives can lead to genetic abnormalities. Perhaps nature's way of preventing this is to make us feel sick at the thought of it? | |||
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" Just a thought. Sex happens, in evolutionary terms for the purpose of procreation and sex within close relatives can lead to genetic abnormalities. Perhaps nature's way of preventing this is to make us feel sick at the thought of it?" yes - yet it's still the case that it's abhorrent for same sex close relatives to do it - so seeing as procreation is out of the question, why is that? | |||
"Question. People say how sick this is and it makes them vomit etc - fair enough. But the question is why? What is it about this subject that promotes such strong feelings? Could it be because most of the time the word "incest" is used its tagged along with "rape" and "paedophile"? Just a thought." reason 1. they are family. reason 2. i hardly like them in a family way never mind sexual. reason 3. granny mentioned bloodline i remember 2 kids when i was younger whos parents were close family and god love them but they just werent firing on all cylinders. reason 5. its not socially acceptable. reason 6. its just wrong!!!!! and in my eyes disgustin but i suppose it happens if people feel that way but personally i find it vile and could never imagine bein in that position but on the flip side how many people might be related but dont know it?? there are so many children with father unknown what happend they meet someone and it turns out to be thier half brother /sister?? xx | |||
"Question. People say how sick this is and it makes them vomit etc - fair enough. But the question is why? What is it about this subject that promotes such strong feelings? Could it be because most of the time the word "incest" is used its tagged along with "rape" and "paedophile"? Just a thought." To be honest i dont connect incest with rape and paedophilia, there are adult family members who willing give themselves to each other sexually, i know ive seen it lol i actually watched a dad fuck his daughter in the swinging scene, didnt know it was his daughter till after when they walked round proud as punch telling everyone, and by all accounts the mother was there too, and i can honestly say not a single person there thought what they did was ok, infact you could have heard a pin drop when she turned round and said to him after.....im going for a drink dad i'll see you later , they didnt even try to hide what they did, and there was no rape involved and she wasnt a child, its just bloody wrong!! end of, | |||
"Question. People say how sick this is and it makes them vomit etc - fair enough. But the question is why? What is it about this subject that promotes such strong feelings? Could it be because most of the time the word "incest" is used its tagged along with "rape" and "paedophile"? Just a thought. To be honest i dont connect incest with rape and paedophilia, there are adult family members who willing give themselves to each other sexually, i know ive seen it lol i actually watched a dad fuck his daughter in the swinging scene, didnt know it was his daughter till after when they walked round proud as punch telling everyone, and by all accounts the mother was there too, and i can honestly say not a single person there thought what they did was ok, infact you could have heard a pin drop when she turned round and said to him after.....im going for a drink dad i'll see you later , they didnt even try to hide what they did, and there was no rape involved and she wasnt a child, its just bloody wrong!! end of, "that must be one of the sickest things i have ever heard and just so wrong on many accounts!! i think if it had been me i would have to have went to the police but i suppose iv never been in that position and hopefully never will xx | |||
"Question. People say how sick this is and it makes them vomit etc - fair enough. But the question is why? What is it about this subject that promotes such strong feelings? Could it be because most of the time the word "incest" is used its tagged along with "rape" and "paedophile"? Just a thought. reason 1. they are family. reason 2. i hardly like them in a family way never mind sexual. reason 3. granny mentioned bloodline i remember 2 kids when i was younger whos parents were close family and god love them but they just werent firing on all cylinders. reason 5. its not socially acceptable. reason 6. its just wrong!!!!! and in my eyes disgustin but i suppose it happens if people feel that way but personally i find it vile and could never imagine bein in that position but on the flip side how many people might be related but dont know it?? there are so many children with father unknown what happend they meet someone and it turns out to be thier half brother /sister?? xx" Hope you don't see this as an attack and I am not condoning, but this is an interesting open discussion so I am going to question your points. Reason 1 is irrelevant in this thread. Cant be incest if they are not family - we are asking why its wrong! Reason 2 - Ok its not for you, but why is is not for others? Reason 3 Contraception. Can be easily prevented or in the worst case aborted. Plus, as has been pointed out already Same sex family members... Reason 4 - Yes we know, but the question is why! Reason 5 Again, Yes, but why! If all the other points are taken in to account, its not rape, all involved are adults, no chance of a child, why is is so wrong for consenting adults to play together? | |||
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"Thats an absolutely gross thought including the mother and daughter and i would have left "There's me thinking I'd heard it all! | |||
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"Thats an absolutely gross thought including the mother and daughter and i would have left
There's me thinking I'd heard it all! "Not sure i understand? | |||
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"Question. People say how sick this is and it makes them vomit etc - fair enough. But the question is why? What is it about this subject that promotes such strong feelings? Could it be because most of the time the word "incest" is used its tagged along with "rape" and "paedophile"? Just a thought. reason 1. they are family. reason 2. i hardly like them in a family way never mind sexual. reason 3. granny mentioned bloodline i remember 2 kids when i was younger whos parents were close family and god love them but they just werent firing on all cylinders. reason 5. its not socially acceptable. reason 6. its just wrong!!!!! and in my eyes disgustin but i suppose it happens if people feel that way but personally i find it vile and could never imagine bein in that position but on the flip side how many people might be related but dont know it?? there are so many children with father unknown what happend they meet someone and it turns out to be thier half brother /sister?? xx Hope you don't see this as an attack and I am not condoning, but this is an interesting open discussion so I am going to question your points. Reason 1 is irrelevant in this thread. Cant be incest if they are not family - we are asking why its wrong! Reason 2 - Ok its not for you, but why is is not for others? Reason 3 Contraception. Can be easily prevented or in the worst case aborted. Plus, as has been pointed out already Same sex family members... Reason 4 - Yes we know, but the question is why! Reason 5 Again, Yes, but why! If all the other points are taken in to account, its not rape, all involved are adults, no chance of a child, why is is so wrong for consenting adults to play together?" because its just wrong in my eyes plain and simple for family to be involved in anyway sexually in my opinion there a whole world out there why by sexually involved with family sorry i just find it vile xx | |||
"Thats an absolutely gross thought including the mother and daughter and i would have left
There's me thinking I'd heard it all!
Not sure i understand? "Oh I was agreeing with you on how gross the idea of mother and daughter swinging. Thought I'd heard it all...things to turn my stomach! | |||
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"Thats an absolutely gross thought including the mother and daughter and i would have left
There's me thinking I'd heard it all!
Not sure i understand?
Oh I was agreeing with you on how gross the idea of mother and daughter swinging.
Thought I'd heard it all...things to turn my stomach! "Ah gotcha, well i have to say that i met a woman on another site, we got chatting on msn and she said she often had sexual feelings for her 3 daughters so i blocked her i then found her on another site and reported and blocked her there too, thing is that she is a nurse!! | |||
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"this normally only happens in rural areas "In the days of large familys, small villages and poor transport, some inbreeding was inevitable. OK, perhaps not direct family, but close enough! I think the main reason why we`re conditioned not to have sex with family members is, and I`m sorry if this offends, religeon! There is the risk of ginetics defects in childbirth of couse, but I understand that this only gets worse if the father would breed his child from his child, if you get my drift. | |||
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Please note *may have been* We dont' actually know anything else was.
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"Yes bimbo there we're several other couples on this site who were present - we know exactly the ones you met in fact we'll be seeing hem very shortly No one was freaked out enough not to play, be everyone we've spoke with since said it was rather weird This thread has drifted somewhat - so to clarify no incest actually occurred at the party as there was no direct contact between the family members. As no contact therefore no incest was actually occurring - is it still wrong or as stated just weird and freaky and therefore not to everyones taste in the same way as WS or scat isn't to taste but no-one says it's wrong? In retrospect what really bothered us (and we know it bothered our friends you talk about as we have met them since) - was not so much what happened on the night, but the thought of what *may* have been going on in private
Please note *may have been* We dont' actually know anything else was.
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j&r"Yes they explained the situation fully about no actually "contact between family members".... no judgement ...on what that family choose to do...consenting adults and all that...same goes for scat etc...peeps choice. For me personally ..MY CHOICE...would be not to play in a situation...where members of the same "family" were in volved.... Only "that couple"... could make that situation sound blooming hilariously funny...freaky ...but funny..love them to bits...xxxx | |||
"Yes bimbo there we're several other couples on this site who were present - we know exactly the ones you met in fact we'll be seeing hem very shortly No one was freaked out enough not to play, be everyone we've spoke with since said it was rather weird This thread has drifted somewhat - so to clarify no incest actually occurred at the party as there was no direct contact between the family members. As no contact therefore no incest was actually occurring - is it still wrong or as stated just weird and freaky and therefore not to everyones taste in the same way as WS or scat isn't to taste but no-one says it's wrong? In retrospect what really bothered us (and we know it bothered our friends you talk about as we have met them since) - was not so much what happened on the night, but the thought of what *may* have been going on in private
Please note *may have been* We dont' actually know anything else was.
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Yes they explained the situation fully about no actually "contact between family members"....
no judgement ...on what that family choose to do...consenting adults and all that...same goes for scat etc...peeps choice.
For me personally ..MY CHOICE...would be not to play in a situation...where members of the same "family" were in volved....
Only "that couple"... could make that situation sound blooming hilariously funny...freaky ...but funny..love them to bits...xxxx"P.s and off thread...lol...I was their matchmaker...yay...best couple eva.. xx | |||
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"phone the police" What would/could they do?. As consenting adults and seemingly not having sex together I'm not sure there is any illegal activity going on. Moralistically wrong perhaps, but not illegal I don't think. Then, just because it's law doesn't make it right. | |||
"Yes bimbo there we're several other couples on this site who were present - we know exactly the ones you met in fact we'll be seeing hem very shortly No one was freaked out enough not to play, be everyone we've spoke with since said it was rather weird This thread has drifted somewhat - so to clarify no incest actually occurred at the party as there was no direct contact between the family members. As no contact therefore no incest was actually occurring - is it still wrong or as stated just weird and freaky and therefore not to everyones taste in the same way as WS or scat isn't to taste but no-one says it's wrong? In retrospect what really bothered us (and we know it bothered our friends you talk about as we have met them since) - was not so much what happened on the night, but the thought of what *may* have been going on in private
Please note *may have been* We dont' actually know anything else was.
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Yes they explained the situation fully about no actually "contact between family members"....
no judgement ...on what that family choose to do...consenting adults and all that...same goes for scat etc...peeps choice.
For me personally ..MY CHOICE...would be not to play in a situation...where members of the same "family" were in volved....
Only "that couple"... could make that situation sound blooming hilariously funny...freaky ...but funny..love them to bits...xxxx"You see its the choice thing that bothers me,Other people have spoken of playing with brothers and sisters as Adults,this is a very different situation from the one parents are in ,and the family dynamic should reflect this | |||
"This is where I hold my hands up and admit that a few years ago I was involved in a mfm scenario with my brother and his wife for about two/two and a half years. I'd been open with my brother about my part in the swinging lifsetyle, he knew that I used to indulge with my ex, and that after we'd split up, that I was participating as a single. Usual guy talk after a few beers etc, he knew the score. Then, one night, his wife, who I always had an excellent relationship with, got into a lengthy conversation with me about swinging - you know the kind of thing 'your brother has told me what you're into you dirty dog' etc, teasing me and winding me up. Then, she said that the more they'd talked about it, about what me and my ex did, about the whole scenario etc, the more turned on they got and they had decided to dip their toe into the swinging lifestyle. Like most people, it came after plenty of discussions between each other, pilow talk and fantasising etc. Their first attempts, which apparently went very well, saw them having some successful ffm meets with single females they'd met online (the lucky sods!). Then she hit me with the bombshell. They were both keen to invite a single male into their sex life, but she was nervous about who it was, and had suggested to my brother that they invited me to play as I was what she called 'the perfect answer' - not that I'm perfect, but in that they knew me very well, I was experienced, and that she trusted me implicitly, which was important to her. Obviously I was taken aback, but she said that they were both really keen, and suggested I talk it through with my brother, which I did. He was cool about it,said it would be fun for everyone. The first time, was just a one-on-one with sis-in-law. We arranged that she would come to mine, we had drinks, a night of fun, and she went home to bro in the morning to tell him all about it where I think they had a morning to remember!! It had gone exceptionally well, everybody happy, so when we spoke about it again, we agreed to all meet up next time and make it a MFM. I'll make it absolutely clear at this point that despite my bisexuality, there was no sexual contact between us two at any time. It was a great situation, we'd meet up maybe once a month (occasionally more often) and have no strings fun. In everyday life it was our little secret, just as swinging usually is for most people and we'd go about our business without mentioning it until I'd get a text to arrange some fun. Over the course of time, it built up so that we enjoyed being part a foursome with some single fems they met online, I joined them with different couples on various occasions to make it a fivesome, and I also attended several parties they hosted where I was the only single male. I wasn't involved in all their swinging, they had plenty of fun that was nothing to do with me, and likewise, I was having fun away from them. We were just an element of each others sex lives. At all times that we involved anyone else, it was always made perfectly clear what the relationship was, at the early stages of contact and we never, ever had a negative response. In fact, I would say that it inevitably added to the excitement for those we were playing with. As if they were ticking off another fantasy from their list - 'that's a pair of brothers done!' Eventually a couple of years back they took a break from swinging to try for a family. At this moment in time, I don't see them on any of the websites, and the last conversation I had with them re the swinging scene about a year ago suggested that they would be back when the family is complete - whenever that would be!!! We were all mature enough to deal with our situation and after that first night it was always agreed that it had to be all three of us or not at all - i.e. not behind bro's back, and it worked incredibly well for all three of us. Just as it seemed to be working for everyone we met. Is what we did wrong? Are all the others who played with us, well aware of the relationship, wrong as well? I'd say no. We didn't break any laws, and everything we did was consensual between wiling adults who were aware of the facts. So, just because someone doesn't like the sound of it, they shouldn't judge people, like those in the original post, because they have a different take on things... " Bizarrely, I don't have an issue with that. Unfortunately, I cannot as of yet give you a reason why this feels ok but it does to me (Female). | |||
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