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From where I'm standing you seem to be expressing double standards here..... you are damning the people, who you say are damning people for their choices!!
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"i've never really looked much at the forums before, but they do seem to attract judgemental people who flame others and moralise, declaiming their virtuosity, the anti bareback and bi brigade. Whats happening to the world, this is a swinging site FFS. Are these the same people who have "NO TURNING" and "NO BALL GAMES"signs at their houses? Its fine what they do, just as its fine what I do, but stop damning people for their choices, as it is after all their choice." How very dare you come on here and says you have got hair like James May...his hair certainly isn't messy...its fecking tousled... | |||
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"i've never really looked much at the forums before, but they do seem to attract judgemental people who flame others and moralise, declaiming their virtuosity, the anti bareback and bi brigade. Whats happening to the world, this is a swinging site FFS. Are these the same people who have "NO TURNING" and "NO BALL GAMES"signs at their houses? Its fine what they do, just as its fine what I do, but stop damning people for their choices, as it is after all their choice." Well said that man ,,,, i getting to enjoy the forums again ,,, nice to see some frsh points of view | |||
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"you are damning the people, who you say are damning people for their choices!! "Ooooooooooooooooo my head hurts now  | |||
"i've never really looked much at the forums before, but they do seem to attract judgemental people who flame others and moralise, declaiming their virtuosity, the anti bareback and bi brigade. Whats happening to the world, this is a swinging site FFS. Are these the same people who have "NO TURNING" and "NO BALL GAMES"signs at their houses? Its fine what they do, just as its fine what I do, but stop damning people for their choices, as it is after all their choice. Well said that man ,,,, i getting to enjoy the forums again ,,, nice to see some frsh points of view " Seconded - we are really enjoying the forums again and it is lovely to see new faces, fresh opinions and most people just genuinely expressing opinions - it is lovely and refreshing xx | |||
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"I suspect a lot of posts and replies are a form of attention seeking, to ge them noticed on the site. ?the have to say something crowd, hence the the yes/no crowd or i think this or that etc. " So if you post ..its all attention seeking...??? And if you agree or disagree with an opinion...its crowd pleasing..arse licking...interesting perspective... You have got my attention...which crowd are you pleasing ..????? | |||
"I suspect a lot of posts and replies are a form of attention seeking, to ge them noticed on the site. ?the have to say something crowd, hence the the yes/no crowd or i think this or that etc. So if you post ..its all attention seeking...??? And if you agree or disagree with an opinion...its crowd pleasing..arse licking...interesting perspective... You have got my attention...which crowd are you pleasing ..????? "It is a bit like a social gathering where some people talk, others prefer to listen and observe. I (female) love to chat and be sociable on forums not to seek attention but to interact with others and hear their opinions. Its greatalso to have a laugh and banter, makes a refreshing change when working on your computer. And with this site. well there is the naughty sexy aspect to keep me entertained . | |||
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"yes, but why share them with people who don't want them? there is a thread, about 4 weeks old, where a couple just ask if couples into bareback will message them. there are loads of replies from people saying they never do it, etc etc. was that necessary or relevant to what was asked?????" its a public forum people WILL post what they think oh and for the record I am anti bareback in swinging those that do are fools hows that then, so sue me | |||
"everybody judges no matter what some more than others but but I love pandoras comment are you judging those that judge tut easy done isn't it besides which there is a difference between a choice or preference and judgmental but there are those that will label you as being judgemental " | |||
"yes, but why share them with people who don't want them? there is a thread, about 4 weeks old, where a couple just ask if couples into bareback will message them. there are loads of replies from people saying they never do it, etc etc. was that necessary or relevant to what was asked????? its a public forum people WILL post what they think oh and for the record I am anti bareback in swinging those that do are fools hows that then, so sue me "Also very true. The difference is between judgment and making assumptions about a whole person. And judgment in itself is not a negative act_ it be comes negate when it is used to label people. Having a preference is ok- Being labelled as a result of that preference is not ok? | |||
"I suspect a lot of posts and replies are a form of attention seeking, to ge them noticed on the site. ?the have to say something crowd, hence the the yes/no crowd or i think this or that etc. " Which camp are you in | |||
"yes, but why share them with people who don't want them? there is a thread, about 4 weeks old, where a couple just ask if couples into bareback will message them. there are loads of replies from people saying they never do it, etc etc. was that necessary or relevant to what was asked????? its a public forum people WILL post what they think oh and for the record I am anti bareback in swinging those that do are fools hows that then, so sue me Also very true. The difference is between judgment and making assumptions about a whole person. And judgment in itself is not a negative act_ it be comes negate when it is used to label people. Having a preference is ok- Being labelled as a result of that preference is not ok?"* negative | |||
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"Opinions are like arseholes.... everybody's got one!" It must be raining in the beacons again | |||
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"I suspect a lot of posts and replies are a form of attention seeking, to ge them noticed on the site. ?the have to say something crowd, hence the the yes/no crowd or i think this or that etc. So if you post ..its all attention seeking...??? And if you agree or disagree with an opinion...its crowd pleasing..arse licking...interesting perspective... You have got my attention...which crowd are you pleasing ..????? "I considered I said something relevant to the thread, so none apply. If I post a totally irrelevant post then one might apply | |||
"I suspect a lot of posts and replies are a form of attention seeking, to ge them noticed on the site. ?the have to say something crowd, hence the the yes/no crowd or i think this or that etc. Which camp are you in "Depends what I said. I have to admit, that I have almost given and have started to post irrelevant stuff in some threads, especially to some peoples posts. That old saying, if you can't train them, beat them
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"Ah irrelevant posts and threads you can have a bloody good laugh with.....try it "I have started, just need to make sure the mods also have a sense of humor | |||
"Ah irrelevant posts and threads you can have a bloody good laugh with.....try it
I have started, just need to make sure the mods also have a sense of humor"Now you are pushing it  | |||
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"At some point I am going to get an opinion and when I do I will post it on here. Then you can all have a go at that lol. Who cares, its supposed to be a bit of fun isn't it ? I think every one is far too busy with their own opinion and view and they all differ depending on your starting view point. Shoot me down someone lol" With a yummy rear like that you must not be shot down... you need promotion... | |||
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"im confused?? so if you post your attention seeking?? if you dont agree with someone your judgemental?? will someone please explain to me what the forums are for then?? i for one if i dont agree with somethin yeah i will say so and really to be honest if you judge me by it feel free because to be honest i really dont give a shit!! waitin for someone to explain now! xx" someone puts something up on it and others comment on it as they want. Public forum so i guess you can make judgement on what they say. | |||
"i've never really looked much at the forums before, but they do seem to attract judgemental people who flame others and moralise, declaiming their virtuosity, the anti bareback and bi brigade. Whats happening to the world, this is a swinging site FFS. Are these the same people who have "NO TURNING" and "NO BALL GAMES"signs at their houses? Its fine what they do, just as its fine what I do, but stop damning people for their choices, as it is after all their choice." To a certain extent I agree with SOME of what you say, but the post is very judgemental in it's own right, and of people you don't even know. It's a forum after all. And as they say, "if you can't stand the heat, ...", enough said? | |||
" its a public forum " Statement of fact... " people WILL post what they think " Statement of fact... " oh and for the record I am anti bareback in swinging " Statement of a personal preference... " those that do are fools " That's just plain judgemental - why need to say it? " hows that then, so sue me "So maybethat's what the OP meant by judgmental folks? xx j&r | |||
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"i adore irony "got a laundry basket of it here any ofers? | |||
"i adore irony
got a laundry basket of it here
any ofers? "il have to smack that bottom if you persist | |||
"i adore irony
got a laundry basket of it here
any ofers? il have to smack that bottom if you persist "I only say these things so you offer | |||
"i adore irony
got a laundry basket of it here
any ofers? il have to smack that bottom if you persist
I only say these things so you offer
"Boo........ | |||
"i adore irony
got a laundry basket of it here
any ofers? il have to smack that bottom if you persist
I only say these things so you offer
Boo........ "cheek each _adchick? | |||
"i adore irony
got a laundry basket of it here
any ofers? il have to smack that bottom if you persist
I only say these things so you offer
Boo........ cheek each _adchick? "You got a paddle....... I got a whip.... Lets party girl | |||
"certainly be boring as hell if we all agreed on everything lol " hmmm isn't that a 'glass half empty' perspective? Us optimists would assume we'd all be shagging everyone else on the site silly in one mass orgy, and having a naked picnic on the worlds largest duvet afterwards lol | |||
"certainly be boring as hell if we all agreed on everything lol hmmm isn't that a 'glass half empty' perspective? Us optimists would assume we'd all be shagging everyone else on the site silly in one mass orgy, and having a naked picnic on the worlds largest duvet afterwards lol " that sounds delightful!!! x | |||
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"well said,couldnt agree more,power to freedom of speech "you said it your self - freedom of speech - or does that only apply if they agree with you? | |||
