Would be interested to know how you can be so blasé about cheating on your wife, you've posted the same question several times. How many times do you want to hear that cheating on your wife ain't clever and plain sucks?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"OP are you cheating or is your partner aware of you being on here? "

His op says she doesn't know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP are you cheating or is your partner aware of you being on here?

His op says she doesn't know. "

Shhh, I wanted him to say it out loud

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would be interested to know how you can be so blasé about cheating on your wife, you've posted the same question several times. How many times do you want to hear that cheating on your wife ain't clever and plain sucks?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its up to everybody individually who you meet, what your preferences are, etc etc. If someone is married (and I am), its up to us if we are on here or not and if you don't agree with it, don't talk to us. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can never understand how people who openly cheating on their other half feel it's ok to call themselves genuine on their profile

My definition of genuine os obviously completely different to theirs!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Good luck......with a married and cheating post you're gonna need it

Why do you say that, its not Single or couple towns you know lol, their are just as many "cheating" woman as you put it x"

Is that your line of defence?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clearly by posts o p has no respect for his wife and i firmly believe in karma so one day with luck tables will turn.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can never understand how people who openly cheating on their other half feel it's ok to call themselves genuine on their profile

My definition of genuine os obviously completely different to theirs!"

I don't call myself genuine, honest or anything like that on my profile. I just tell everyone I'm married and leave it to you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can never understand how people who openly cheating on their other half feel it's ok to call themselves genuine on their profile

My definition of genuine os obviously completely different to theirs!

I don't call myself genuine, honest or anything like that on my profile. I just tell everyone I'm married and leave it to you "

Sorry, my original post should have said 'some people' and it wasn't aimed at you in particular!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can never understand how people who openly cheating on their other half feel it's ok to call themselves genuine on their profile

My definition of genuine os obviously completely different to theirs!

I don't call myself genuine, honest or anything like that on my profile. I just tell everyone I'm married and leave it to you

Sorry, my original post should have said 'some people' and it wasn't aimed at you in particular!!"

Its ok, i know it wasn't, i was just making my point and i know we married guys aren't popular

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

some married men are ok. im just grateful to get some with someone who is my type its not always easy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some married men are ok. im just grateful to get some with someone who is my type its not always easy."

I'd rather go without than have to feel grateful. You've heard of sex toys right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ppl that say they dont meet married guys/girls...i would say 100% you have...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some married men are ok. im just grateful to get some with someone who is my type its not always easy."
My god...i thought ladies could be picky on here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ppl that say they dont meet married guys/girls...i would say 100% you have...

To my knowledge I haven't dabbled with any attached guy here. I once had lunch with a guy who was newly separated, and I spent the afternoon advising him to get his relationship back on track. He left the site

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple over a year ago

bradford

Just curious as to why you've put this post on

Do you feel bad/guilty

Just asking??!!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"ppl that say they dont meet married guys/girls...i would say 100% you have...

I know for a fact I haven't. 100%

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By *hyllyphyllyMan over a year ago

Bradford

This is the reason I don't meet anyone during the daytime. If I know the person is attached, I run for the hills.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Newbury

I just want to know who this 'Arry is....

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By *hyllyphyllyMan over a year ago

Bradford

"I just want to know who this 'Arry is...."

It's Flash Arry from St Trinians

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some married men are ok. im just grateful to get some with someone who is my type its not always easy. My god...i thought ladies could be picky on here?"

we can if we want but be too picky and you eliminate everyone. Personally I'm not that picky. I like diversity and I'm not afraid to try someone new. It's like a box of chocolates; I only like the nut ones in dark chocolate but now and then I have a bite from a new one to see if it's interesting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some married men are ok. im just grateful to get some with someone who is my type its not always easy. My god...i thought ladies could be picky on here?"

no not all ladies, and i am a bit picky thats why i said i am grateful to get someone who is my type.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not everyone is married that meets daytime,ive been asked if i am lots times,i very accasionally meet while my yngest at school if local,i am looking after my children or working nights at other times

Prefer men to be honest but if married cant accommodate so not much to offer me anyhow,so no point wasting time on social if all they want is a bj in a work van at end of it lol but yes i have met married men at partys.and clubs i dont interigate them on marrital status

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well that seems to have mixed things up lol, and for the record, I have the upmost respect for my wife, and really some people should not Judge until they know the full story now should they, that's not very Christian lol people have numerous reasons they do things, not always right , but you guys don't know that xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just curious as to why you've put this post on

Do you feel bad/guilty

Just asking??!!"

I 100% don't feel guilty, asked because im interested in the reaction x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just curious as to why you've put this post on

Do you feel bad/guilty

Just asking??!!

I 100% don't feel guilty, asked because im interested in the reaction x"
feel sorry for your wife. shame her husband cant control hes cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I left your wife a veri from lastnight she was amazing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just curious as to why you've put this post on

Do you feel bad/guilty

Just asking??!!

I 100% don't feel guilty, asked because im interested in the reaction x feel sorry for your wife. shame her husband cant control hes cock

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well that seems to have mixed things up lol, and for the record, I have the upmost respect for my wife, and really some people should not Judge until they know the full story now should they, that's not very Christian lol people have numerous reasons they do things, not always right , but you guys don't know that xx"

You could always enlighten us so we can make a mire informed decision why you choose to cheat on your wife ..do you think it would change anyone's opinion? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not very Christian ? I'm pretty sure one of the Ten Commandments pretty much says none of us should be here doing what we're doing lol and most of the stuff written in that there book also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We won't knowingly play with married/attached singles for a very simple reason , we've had the other half find out and stalk us from a meet where the guy was "single" . And we both know what it feels like when someone has cheated on you, it's not a nice feeling .

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

You have asked very similar questions before. Why do you keep asking?

You seem very happy and comfortable with your actions.

We wouldn't knowingly meet anyone who was cheating , male or female. It's your life and you live it as you want

Pandora

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"leave your wife ..have a clear conscience

Ohhh good heavens I don't want to leave my wife that's certainly not the plan"

you wont have a choice when she finds out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You have asked very similar questions before. Why do you keep asking?

You seem very happy and comfortable with your actions.

We wouldn't knowingly meet anyone who was cheating , male or female. It's your life and you live it as you want

Pandora"

?? I think your confusing me, I only started using the forum on Friday

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So Many Saints so few Sinners, oh well, that about answers my question thanks

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

"You have asked very similar questions before. Why do you keep asking?

You seem very happy and comfortable with your actions.

We wouldn't knowingly meet anyone who was cheating , male or female. It's your life and you live it as you want

Pandora

?? I think your confusing me, I only started using the forum on Friday "

look at the green arrow next to your name and click on it as I did

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have asked very similar questions before. Why do you keep asking?

You seem very happy and comfortable with your actions.

We wouldn't knowingly meet anyone who was cheating , male or female. It's your life and you live it as you want

Pandora

?? I think your confusing me, I only started using the forum on Friday "

Oh dear oh dear oh dear, so you lie to your wife and you lie to us too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have asked very similar questions before. Why do you keep asking?

You seem very happy and comfortable with your actions.

We wouldn't knowingly meet anyone who was cheating , male or female. It's your life and you live it as you want

Pandora

?? I think your confusing me, I only started using the forum on Friday "

amazing how you can remember which day it was when you posted your first 'married guys' post nearly a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're all here for our own reasons and those reasons aren't really any of my business however I fail to see how someone who has respect for their partner can come on an adult site and look for sex without their knowledge, if indeed that's the purpose of being on here. That's just my personal opinion and as long as people are honest they are not single I'm happy as I can move on, not interested in any part of that. If you can meet a total stranger for sex in the day time then get home to your partner and have no feelings of guilt then great, whatever makes you happy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have asked very similar questions before. Why do you keep asking?

You seem very happy and comfortable with your actions.

We wouldn't knowingly meet anyone who was cheating , male or female. It's your life and you live it as you want

Pandora

?? I think your confusing me, I only started using the forum on Friday

amazing how you can remember which day it was when you posted your first 'married guys' post nearly a year ago

Maybe 51 weeks ago was a Friday.

http://m.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/155754

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No I didn't lie, ? that was a year ago for gods sake, good god what's up with you people. I cant remember things from last week let alone last year ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No I didn't lie, ? that was a year ago for gods sake, good god what's up with you people. I cant remember things from last week let alone last year ,"

and yet you remember your married

lol

well, sometimes obviously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Have I found the only Forum based in the Deep South ?

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

I often look at a posting history, gives an insight into the person

As I said we wouldn't knowingly meet person who cheats. Our choice.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan over a year ago

Bradford

Ahhhh I see what you're doing, you're finishing your equation that you started 3 days ago....

Guys With Partners Playing Alone + Isn't the Daytime made for fun = arried Men and Daytime fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have I found the only Forum based in the Deep South ?"

why?

do lots of people in Torquay cheat on their partners?

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"We won't knowingly play with married/attached singles for a very simple reason , we've had the other half find out and stalk us from a meet where the guy was "single" . And we both know what it feels like when someone has cheated on you, it's not a nice feeling ."

We don't meet attached singles and this quoted post confirms why. Worst fears on swinging sites are things like this and crazy meets biting you on the bum afterwards! MrsB

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Interesting that yoy use the word Christian. Last time I checked "thou shall not commit adultery" was one of the then commandments, along with "thou shall not lie" so where does your wife think you are while you are wanting to sneak off to meet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have asked very similar questions before. Why do you keep asking?

You seem very happy and comfortable with your actions.

We wouldn't knowingly meet anyone who was cheating , male or female. It's your life and you live it as you want

Pandora

?? I think your confusing me, I only started using the forum on Friday "

Little tip OP the little green arrow on this post links you to every thread you have started/commented on, so do you still want to protest your innoncence to not posting before now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You have asked very similar questions before. Why do you keep asking?

You seem very happy and comfortable with your actions.

We wouldn't knowingly meet anyone who was cheating , male or female. It's your life and you live it as you want

Pandora

?? I think your confusing me, I only started using the forum on Friday

Little tip OP the little green arrow on this post links you to every thread you have started/commented on, so do you still want to protest your innoncence to not posting before now"

Little Tip Back, read what people actually say rather than reading what you actually want , Im gone now, reply if you want xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What is OP anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have asked very similar questions before. Why do you keep asking?

You seem very happy and comfortable with your actions.

We wouldn't knowingly meet anyone who was cheating , male or female. It's your life and you live it as you want

Pandora

?? I think your confusing me, I only started using the forum on Friday

Little tip OP the little green arrow on this post links you to every thread you have started/commented on, so do you still want to protest your innoncence to not posting before now

Little Tip Back, read what people actually say rather than reading what you actually want , Im gone now, reply if you want xx"

only just got further down to read that other post. I'm sorry this thread hasnt gone the way you want so you now have arse on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is OP anyway"

Original poster

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't have an arse on, its just you guys know nothing about me or my situation, yet your happy to throw stones, and before you ask no I DONT want to talk about it, when I get someone to talk to who is civilised then I explain I always do, but unfortunately I haven't met one of those here today, enjoy and bask in your Blinfolded opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just an observation about this thread...aren't we all basically liars on here?

I've yet to meet anyone who's family/friends know about their swinging lifestyle, so what's the difference between us and the Op's post?

I for a fact know we personally have to 'invent' normal parties or nights out to explain to family/sitters where we are going/have been, so really we are telling lies every weekend!

On what is supposedly a very liberal site/lifestyle shouldn't we all be a little more understanding of people's personal choices regarding how and when they choose to swing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just an observation about this thread...aren't we all basically liars on here?

I've yet to meet anyone who's family/friends know about their swinging lifestyle, so what's the difference between us and the Op's post?

I for a fact know we personally have to 'invent' normal parties or nights out to explain to family/sitters where we are going/have been, so really we are telling lies every weekend!

On what is supposedly a very liberal site/lifestyle shouldn't we all be a little more understanding of people's personal choices regarding how and when they choose to swing?"

Here Here and thank you

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"I don't have an arse on, its just you guys know nothing about me or my situation, yet your happy to throw stones, and before you ask no I DONT want to talk about it, when I get someone to talk to who is civilised then I explain I always do, but unfortunately I haven't met one of those here today, enjoy and bask in your Blinfolded opinion"

I'd suggest not starting a thread drawing attention to it then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'd suggest not starting a thread drawing attention to it then! "

Isnt that how Communism started

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

You wanted people's _iews I just gave our _iew and what we choose to do

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Newbury

...On what is supposedly a very liberal site/lifestyle shouldn't we all be a little more understanding of people's personal choices regarding how and when they choose to swing?"

Hi!

Welcome to the Fabs forums! You are clearly new around here....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, not new...just open minded

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Clearly by posts o p has no respect for his wife and i firmly believe in karma so one day with luck tables will turn.

^^^This^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Making up a story to a baby sitter is a white lie I'll agree but not sure its comparable to meeting people behind your partners back but either way, if you have a clear conscience then not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No I didn't lie, ? that was a year ago for gods sake, good god what's up with you people. I cant remember things from last week let alone last year ,"

For your sake you better hope you can remember where you told your wife you were when you were meeting other women.

You asked for other forumites thoughts, did you honestly expect that they would all give you a pat on the back and encourage you - I'd say that was as naive as your very glib claim about your wife not knowing.

If you don't like the negative responses from people who disapprove of your behaviour why invite their opinions in the first place - as some have already pointed out more than once?

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

"Well what are your thoughts, and of course she doesn't know, lets not be naïve xx

you asked a questioniso wanted opinions. Or am I wrong?

Not everyone will condone what you do why can't you accept that?

Don't think my post attacked you in any way just said what our personal choice is.

Pandora

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

"No I didn't lie, ? that was a year ago for gods sake, good god what's up with you people. I cant remember things from last week let alone last year ,

For your sake you better hope you can remember where you told your wife you were when you were meeting other women.

If you don't like the negative responses from people who disapprove of your behaviour why invite their opinions in the first place - as some have already pointed out more than once?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just an observation about this thread...aren't we all basically liars on here?

I've yet to meet anyone who's family/friends know about their swinging lifestyle, so what's the difference between us and the Op's post?

I for a fact know we personally have to 'invent' normal parties or nights out to explain to family/sitters where we are going/have been, so really we are telling lies every weekend!

On what is supposedly a very liberal site/lifestyle shouldn't we all be a little more understanding of people's personal choices regarding how and when they choose to swing?"

From what I can gather from your post (I havent looked at your profile) the significant difference between you and the OP is you are a couple and use the term "we" with regard to swinging. Not sure whether it is Mr or Mrs posting but would your _iews be the same if you discovered that your partner was arranging to meet other people to play without your knowledge or approval?

Yes many of us prefer to be discreet about being part of this lifestyle but the majority of us also use discretion when it comes to our "vanilla" sexual activity too. How many people feel the need to discuss their sex lives with their children, mother, father, siblings, friends or work colleagues?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

JUst a Final note on the Subject, for all the people who said they wont meet me, Sorry, I don't remember asking in the first place xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just an observation about this thread...aren't we all basically liars on here?

I've yet to meet anyone who's family/friends know about their swinging lifestyle, so what's the difference between us and the Op's post?

I for a fact know we personally have to 'invent' normal parties or nights out to explain to family/sitters where we are going/have been, so really we are telling lies every weekend!

On what is supposedly a very liberal site/lifestyle shouldn't we all be a little more understanding of people's personal choices regarding how and when they choose to swing?"

The difference as I see it, friends and family do not have a right or a need to know about your sex life, you have not entered into a commitment with them regarding it.

However, your spouse certainly does have a right to know!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"JUst a Final note on the Subject, for all the people who said they wont meet me, Sorry, I don't remember asking in the first place xx"

Thought your final word was half an hour back

BTW Martin correct me if I'm wrong but the majority have stated they wouldn't meet attached people, you just simply fall into that category, therefore don't take it personally.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Debateable...I like to think I am committed to my family as well!!

If its just sex, why is it a problem then for the op?

We don't know the full story of his married life....just because he seeks sex elsewhere doesn't mean he isn't committed to his wife!

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By *ate_night_massageMan over a year ago

Cambridge

"How would you feel if your wife had been on here for over a year? think about it

I'd 100% agree that you shouldn't be on here if you weren't 100% happy for your partner to be so as well.

But I wonder how accurate that particular stereotype of attached people on here is? Given how common the "promiscuous wife" fantasy seems to be amongst men, it seems unlikely that the stereotype is actually that realistic, for men at least.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan over a year ago

Bradford

My problem with the op is because I found out my wife had 2 affairs in the 12 years we were married.

I didn't find out until after we split, but finding out kicked the crap out of me.

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By *nnie17gezzTV/TS over a year ago

leeds

I always thought and still do , this is a swingers site . Hence it's name !

Fab swingers ! It's is couples and singles if your married you bring your wife .

Anything other than that is cheating .

Be sure of it honey .

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By *rs and Mr PandoraCouple over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

"JUst a Final note on the Subject, for all the people who said they wont meet me, Sorry, I don't remember asking in the first place xx

Thought your final word was half an hour back

BTW Martin correct me if I'm wrong but the majority have stated they wouldn't meet attached people, you just simply fall into that category, therefore don't take it personally."

Selective reading lol, sees what he wants. Ask a question be prepared for different answers and opinions

Next time maybe ask for a yes or no answer not thoughts or _iews

Surely you should respect the differing/_iews/choices/opinions we all have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Debateable...I like to think I am committed to my family as well!!

If its just sex, why is it a problem then for the op?

We don't know the full story of his married life....just because he seeks sex elsewhere doesn't mean he isn't committed to his wife!

So are you saying the sex you have with your partner is the same as the sex you have with everyone you swing with, that you don't share a deeper connection with your partner that sets it apart?

Nobody actually said he wasn't committed to his wife did they? They were offering opinions as to whether they would play with married/attached people and if not why not.

You are right we do not know the OP's personal circumstances and most of us don't want to, he asked the question, people are entitled to their opinions just as you are.

The OP did however pose the question and then become very defensive when he felt criticised which would surely suggest that he also feels what he is doing is to some degree inappropriate/unacceptable?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Debateable...I like to think I am committed to my family as well!!

If its just sex, why is it a problem then for the op?

We don't know the full story of his married life....just because he seeks sex elsewhere doesn't mean he isn't committed to his wife!

The vast majority of us are committed to our families, it doesn't mean we want to have sex with them or share details of our sexual exploits with them!!

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By *nnie17gezzTV/TS over a year ago

leeds

"JUst a Final note on the Subject, for all the people who said they wont meet me, Sorry, I don't remember asking in the first place xx"

You did ask for there opinion on a forum. Sorry Hun you final note don't let of the hook .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just an observation about this thread...aren't we all basically liars on here?

I've yet to meet anyone who's family/friends know about their swinging lifestyle, so what's the difference between us and the Op's post?

I for a fact know we personally have to 'invent' normal parties or nights out to explain to family/sitters where we are going/have been, so really we are telling lies every weekend!

On what is supposedly a very liberal site/lifestyle shouldn't we all be a little more understanding of people's personal choices regarding how and when they choose to swing?"

a very common misconception.

you are born into a family, so these people are yours by default, however you CHOOSE to love, trust, honour your partner, and this should be a rule throughout life.

swinging, in essence, is based on trust and honesty, whether that be with those you are getting involved in, or the person you are actually doing it with, so by that token, your partner requires a lot more trust and honesty than any member of your family.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Its up to everybody individually who you meet, what your preferences are, etc etc. If someone is married (and I am), its up to us if we are on here or not and if you don't agree with it, don't talk to us. Simples!

Therefore, if you're married and cheating get on with it ffs and stop with these look at me type threads!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"ppl that say they dont meet married guys/girls...i would say 100% you have...

Would be a brave married man that met me, unless his wife is out the country as (a) I don't meet men who can't accommodate and (b) it'll take some explaining away the "property of Miss Vee" temporary tattoo on the arse!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol you forgot the m there in married.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"some married men are ok. im just grateful to get some with someone who is my type its not always easy. My god...i thought ladies could be picky on here?"

Obviously not if they're "grateful". Takes all sorts.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Well what are your thoughts, and of course she doesn't know, lets not be naïve xx

I honestly don't give two shiny ***** what you do but the level of disrespect shown to your wife in this one sentence is breathtaking. You say in a later post that you have the utmost respect for her.....I doubt it very much.

I'm aware that this thread was started so that you could draw out all the people who are against married and playing away so that you could show them just how little you care for their opinion, but why are you bothered about it in the first place?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Just an observation about this thread...aren't we all basically liars on here?

I've yet to meet anyone who's family/friends know about their swinging lifestyle, so what's the difference between us and the Op's post?

I for a fact know we personally have to 'invent' normal parties or nights out to explain to family/sitters where we are going/have been, so really we are telling lies every weekend!

On what is supposedly a very liberal site/lifestyle shouldn't we all be a little more understanding of people's personal choices regarding how and when they choose to swing?"

My family and friends don't know my bank balance, how many times I opened my bowels last week or the fact my bra and knickers don't always match. There's something called "private" life some of us believe in!

How that correlates to bragging you're a cheat eludes me.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Well what are your thoughts, "

you will do what you want to do..... pointless asking others because, you will do what you want to do.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Debateable...I like to think I am committed to my family as well!!

If its just sex, why is it a problem then for the op?

We don't know the full story of his married life....just because he seeks sex elsewhere doesn't mean he isn't committed to his wife!

Being commited to your partner to me would mean not mentioning him or her on a website he or she knew nothing about to a bunch of complete strangers. The worst thing for me wouldn't be the sexual aspect it would be the betrayal of being discussed like that. If you're happy to have sex without including them why mention them in the forums?.

Of you're married just shut up and get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry OP, I am in a similar boat to yourself; however, I am fully aware that what we are doing is morally wrong. Our circumstances will differ and we all will justify our reasons for doing this.

Nonetheless, for those posters that have stated we are not committed to our partners, are being a little naive as to the multifaceted nature of life. For me, every aspect of my life with my partner is thriving; except our sex life. We have had sex once since we got back together in November with no breakthrough on the horizon. I do not meet regularly and would not have sex with just anyone, but there is only so much rejection and demoralisation a person can take before taking action to counter this.

Bottom line is that we all do things that are wrong and have no right to judge others. Opinions are fine, but too many people on here cross the 'opinion' boundary and turn it into a personal attack. Last time I checked, no human being had a halo glimmering above their heads; skeletons are in every closet my friends

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"leave your wife ..have a clear conscience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do some people feel the need to justify their lives to strangers on the internet?

Another thing I don't understand- why someone would have a clear face pic on their profile in a situation such as this.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Why do some people feel the need to justify their lives to strangers on the internet?

Another thing I don't understand- why someone would have a clear face pic on their profile in a situation such as this.

or just get on with it... no dramas, no justifications, just look for your hole with someone who will shag you and get the fuck on with it.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do some people feel the need to justify their lives to strangers on the internet?

Another thing I don't understand- why someone would have a clear face pic on their profile in a situation such as this.

"
Because hes cock as taken over

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"Sorry OP, I am in a similar boat to yourself; however, I am fully aware that what we are doing is morally wrong. Our circumstances will differ and we all will justify our reasons for doing this.

If sex is the problem then you have three options...

leave

cheat for many years to come as it obv wont get any better

or be honest with her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry OP, I am in a similar boat to yourself; however, I am fully aware that what we are doing is morally wrong. Our circumstances will differ and we all will justify our reasons for doing this.

If sex is the problem then you have three options...

leave

cheat for many years to come as it obv wont get any better

or be honest with her"

I did leave her...but due to her personal circumstances, it was better to move back; not just for her but our children also. Like I stated previously, life is far more complex than an individual's perception of it. Although, no matter the reasoning behind the act, it doesn't make it right. It's just a part of life. I know many, many guys and girls who have/are cheating on partners for various reasons, but would still condemn those that do the same. I wonder how many of the previous posters are hypocritical?!?! The internet is thriving with lies and cheats...but many of those people also mask reality by criticising others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have asked very similar questions before. Why do you keep asking?

You seem very happy and comfortable with your actions.

We wouldn't knowingly meet anyone who was cheating , male or female. It's your life and you live it as you want

Pandora

?? I think your confusing me, I only started using the forum on Friday "

No confusion about it this is the forth thread about married men playing away or daytime fun

I've been on the forums for 3 months and not started one.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

sorry fella, better for the kids if you split up as they can feel unhappiness.

same with dogs.

this WILL come back to bite your ass, and then what kind of life will it be for your young uns?

at least at the moment, they would have parents that just fell out of love and split up, rather than a bitter twisted mother full of hatred for their father, stopping him seeing them, or making it extremely difficult to do so.

not trying to be an arse, just showing you the options that will come to pass

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

People who cheat need to grow a set and man up...or buy a backbone....maybe tescos sell them..either way...hope their other halves are not having sex with their other half because they too are prob getting it elsewhere....maybe on here too!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just an observation about this thread...aren't we all basically liars on here?

I've yet to meet anyone who's family/friends know about their swinging lifestyle, so what's the difference between us and the Op's post?

I for a fact know we personally have to 'invent' normal parties or nights out to explain to family/sitters where we are going/have been, so really we are telling lies every weekend!

On what is supposedly a very liberal site/lifestyle shouldn't we all be a little more understanding of people's personal choices regarding how and when they choose to swing?"

Let me introduce myself, my friends and family all know I swing and my best mate has all my login details in a sealed envelope just incase.

I tell people where I'm going and that I'm meeting someone, not who but just that I am, they are my safety blanket.

If I'm going to do something I always do it with pride and openness.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Why do some people feel the need to justify their lives to strangers on the internet?

Another thing I don't understand- why someone would have a clear face pic on their profile in a situation such as this.

or just get on with it... no dramas, no justifications, just look for your hole with someone who will shag you and get the fuck on with it.....

I agree with this. All this drama and hand wringing, if you don't want people to comment on your situation keep quiet about it, nobody is naive enough to think that an internet forum is a good place to seek approval surely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just an observation about this thread...aren't we all basically liars on here?

I've yet to meet anyone who's family/friends know about their swinging lifestyle, so what's the difference between us and the Op's post?

I for a fact know we personally have to 'invent' normal parties or nights out to explain to family/sitters where we are going/have been, so really we are telling lies every weekend!

On what is supposedly a very liberal site/lifestyle shouldn't we all be a little more understanding of people's personal choices regarding how and when they choose to swing?

Let me introduce myself, my friends and family all know I swing and my best mate has all my login details in a sealed envelope just incase.

I tell people where I'm going and that I'm meeting someone, not who but just that I am, they are my safety blanket.

If I'm going to do something I always do it with pride and openness."

I think you will find you are in the minority on here then! Good on you for being honest, but some of us are not in the position to do that!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Why do some people feel the need to justify their lives to strangers on the internet?

Another thing I don't understand- why someone would have a clear face pic on their profile in a situation such as this.

or just get on with it... no dramas, no justifications, just look for your hole with someone who will shag you and get the fuck on with it.....

Amen!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Sorry OP, I am in a similar boat to yourself; however, I am fully aware that what we are doing is morally wrong. Our circumstances will differ and we all will justify our reasons for doing this.

I have plenty of skeletons in my cupboards and one thing I'm damn sure of I wouldn't be rattling their bones on the forum of a swingers website. You may have commitment to your partner but you clearly feel no need to respect her privacy by telling the details of your sex life or lack of it to all of us.

I think you're missing the point of what some of us are saying, a lot of us know that life isn't black and white, shit happens and we deal with it in varying ways but what would hurt me more than any sexual betrayal would be this discussing in public forums, I woudl find it humiliating..and please don't tell me what she doesn't know wont hurt her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry OP, I am in a similar boat to yourself; however, I am fully aware that what we are doing is morally wrong. Our circumstances will differ and we all will justify our reasons for doing this.

Understood. But I have given no details of my situation or regarding my sex life. I am just an image on a screen to you as is the OP. You have no idea who any of us are therefore any lack of respect caused by our partners is just an abstract concept to you and others. If myself and the people in it, were known to you, then I could relate completely to your point. Think about this situation in comparison to 'real' crimes of humanity and then put everything else into perspective. We all have our own judgments and thoughts based on our individual experiences. Neither of us are right. But we do have our own valid opinions in relation to our lives. The point I attempted to make earlier was that people have crossed the line when offering _iews on the OP's post. Constructive criticism is warrented but naive judgments aren't. X

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Sorry OP, I am in a similar boat to yourself; however, I am fully aware that what we are doing is morally wrong. Our circumstances will differ and we all will justify our reasons for doing this.

I completely understand that in relation to crimes of humanity a little sex on the side is nothing and in the grand scheme of things we'll all be dust in a hundred years, I have that perspective. However despite the fact that none of us know each other we have chosen to come together briefly to exchange opinions abstract or not..it is what it is.

PS I would argue that telling us you've only had sex once since November is a detail of your sex life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry OP, I am in a similar boat to yourself; however, I am fully aware that what we are doing is morally wrong. Our circumstances will differ and we all will justify our reasons for doing this.

PS I would argue that telling us you've only had sex once since November is a detail of your sex life.

Ahhhhh, that's where ambiguity comes into play

your definition of detail is kinda like the Cornish police service lol mine is more like CSI Miami

tell you frequency is by no means, detail! It's vague in comparison to real detail haha Round 4 to Koda (ding ding)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hello, I'm a reasonable guy, or so I think and don't wish to judge without the full facts!

As you clearly state you are MARRIED, she DOESN'T KNOW, how can that be RESPECTFUL and what are your reasons behind being a CHEAT?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well what are your thoughts, and of course she doesn't know, lets not be naïve xx

The bit about your wife not knowing...............think again. She might let on she doesn't know, she might turn a blind eye in order to continue the stability and security of the marriage, she might just be planning to shaft you good and proper. But in all probability......she knows

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Ooo

Ahhhhh, that's where ambiguity comes into play

your definition of detail is kinda like the Cornish police service lol mine is more like CSI Miami

tell you frequency is by no means, detail! It's vague in comparison to real detail haha Round 4 to Koda (ding ding)

Oh! I'm not sure who should feel more patronised me or the Cornish police, so much for everyones opinion is valid.

I didn't realise it was a point scoring exercise.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello, I'm a reasonable guy, or so I think and don't wish to judge without the full facts!

As you clearly state you are MARRIED, she DOESN'T KNOW, how can that be RESPECTFUL and what are your reasons behind being a CHEAT?"

No one knows people's personal circumstances but how can coming on a swingers site looking for sex behind your partners back be respectful? I'd also question why you need to draw attention to it on an open forum but its your life and if you can live with yourself then you live it how you wish.

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"Sorry OP, I am in a similar boat to yourself; however, I am fully aware that what we are doing is morally wrong. Our circumstances will differ and we all will justify our reasons for doing this.

Koda - I am never one to judge how other people choose to live their lives - I myself have done things I know are morally wrong too. But having been in a wrong and unhappy relationship for 11 years (my teens and the whole of my twenties) because it seemed like the best or easiest thing to do at that time I would be concerned re putting up with a situation that isn't ideal for you.

I don't know you or your relationship, and don't doubt that it is very different to mine, but if you're only 33 you may regret stifling yourself later on.

Taking the huge step to take myself out of that resulted in me meeting someone I am compatible with in every way, especially sexually.

Again no judgements on you or your life, just advising, based on my experience, that being happy in all aspects of life is vital

MrsB

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Maybe the poster just does not turn her on anymore....thats why she has gone off sex.............many reasons.....she could like I said previously.....she could be getting it elsewhere too.........either way......if its like this now...then how will it ever get any better...so looks like if you stay...you will always have to cheat....what a nice life your going to have!!!

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

it not even the married and cheating part that annoys me...

one part is the justification...

the other is the blazen gloating about it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just an observation about this thread...aren't we all basically liars on here?

I've yet to meet anyone who's family/friends know about their swinging lifestyle, so what's the difference between us and the Op's post?

I for a fact know we personally have to 'invent' normal parties or nights out to explain to family/sitters where we are going/have been, so really we are telling lies every weekend!

On what is supposedly a very liberal site/lifestyle shouldn't we all be a little more understanding of people's personal choices regarding how and when they choose to swing?"
my thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"it not even the married and cheating part that annoys me...

one part is the justification...

the other is the blazen gloating about it..."

I dont like the ones who gloat either.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Just an observation about this thread...aren't we all basically liars on here?

I've yet to meet anyone who's family/friends know about their swinging lifestyle, so what's the difference between us and the Op's post?

I for a fact know we personally have to 'invent' normal parties or nights out to explain to family/sitters where we are going/have been, so really we are telling lies every weekend!

On what is supposedly a very liberal site/lifestyle shouldn't we all be a little more understanding of people's personal choices regarding how and when they choose to swing?"

the "well we all lie" defense... love it....

that only works if all lies were the same.....

it may be in your world.... but I am guessing that in the world the rest of us live in there is a huge difference between the following...

"I only had one biscuit!" when you in fact had two....

and

"I am having sex behind the back of the person I profess to love more than any other!"......

but hey.. a lie is a lie... right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oi dont bring biscuits into it

my wife knows im on here as a single guy

and she also knows where the biscuits are

lying has nothing to do with what is said its the fact that the lie is told

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By *eendeeCouple over a year ago

sheffield

What about such as me ( mr dee) who is married and given permission to play by my wife do fems or cpls feel same way if I get offered a meet I tell mrs dee about the offer and mrs dee is always happy for me to meet xx

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"What about such as me ( mr dee) who is married and given permission to play by my wife do fems or cpls feel same way if I get offered a meet I tell mrs dee about the offer and mrs dee is always happy for me to meet xx

Individual couples vary but we don't knowingly meet anyone who is married but plays alone whatever their reason.

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By *rben112Man over a year ago

worcester

"Well what are your thoughts, and of course she doesn't know, lets not be naïve xx

How would you feel if your wife had been on here for over a year? think about it

great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry OP, I am in a similar boat to yourself; however, I am fully aware that what we are doing is morally wrong. Our circumstances will differ and we all will justify our reasons for doing this.

"
Totally agree with this. Each to their own, everyone has their own reasons to be here. Whether married or not. Or playing without their partners knowledge. Does not mean they are not committed but might just want/need that little something that their partner is not willing to try. I am a single female and have played with a married man. Does that make me a marriage wrecker? xx

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Sorry OP, I am in a similar boat to yourself; however, I am fully aware that what we are doing is morally wrong. Our circumstances will differ and we all will justify our reasons for doing this.

Totally agree with this. Each to their own, everyone has their own reasons to be here. Whether married or not. Or playing without their partners knowledge. Does not mean they are not committed but might just want/need that little something that their partner is not willing to try. I am a single female and have played with a married man. Does that make me a marriage wrecker? xx"

wanting/needing a little something that their partner is not willing to try doesn't mean someone isn't commited...but going out and getting it does. A partnership is about compromise and compromise can be difficut at times but I really hope that the people who are on here without their partners knowledge are on here for more than "a little something" their partner was unwilling to try.

Being a single female that plays with married men doesn't make you a marriage wrecker, no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"it not even the married and cheating part that annoys me...

one part is the justification...

the other is the blazen gloating about it...

I dont like the ones who gloat either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I read about half of this post and that was enough.

OP doesn't matter what sex you are, you have zero respect for your spouse as if you did you would not knowingly lie and cheat.

Your choice of course however trying any get out of jail card with the no one knows or understands makes a further mockery of your spouse as there is never ever any reason or explanation for you intentionally deceiving and hurting your "loved one"!

Us - not knowingly met any married people playing without consent, however such as life and if we have we only follow our instincts and a few near misses.

I most certainly do not entertain your sob story when your wife gets my number or my address and I have to deal with a very upset person just because you are incapable of telling the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if you're openly cheating on your wife (which I think is awful but it's your choice) then you should probably think about not plastering your face on your profile for everyone to see.

Either come clean to your wife, stop doing this or at least go to some effort to hide your identity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think if you're openly cheating on your wife (which I think is awful but it's your choice) then you should probably think about not plastering your face on your profile for everyone to see.

Either come clean to your wife, stop doing this or at least go to some effort to hide your identity."

What's the point? I am willing to bet she already knows! In a close relationship no way can you 'hide' things and I bet his behaviour is very telling and she is not stupid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think if you're openly cheating on your wife (which I think is awful but it's your choice) then you should probably think about not plastering your face on your profile for everyone to see.

Either come clean to your wife, stop doing this or at least go to some effort to hide your identity.

What's the point? I am willing to bet she already knows! In a close relationship no way can you 'hide' things and I bet his behaviour is very telling and she is not stupid. "

In my experience I must agree she will no my ex cheated on me, we now arent together and he was later shocked to discover I could tell him the exact night he first cheated on me, but I oviously knew him much better than he thought I did

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By *eendeeCouple over a year ago

sheffield

Individual couples vary but we don't knowingly meet anyone who is married but plays alone whatever their reason."

Thanks for your input is that the opinion of other cpls or fems to? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not for us well not knowingly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have asked very similar questions before. Why do you keep asking?

You seem very happy and comfortable with your actions.

We wouldn't knowingly meet anyone who was cheating , male or female. It's your life and you live it as you want

Pandora

?? I think your confusing me, I only started using the forum on Friday "
cannot even tell the truth on here we feel sorry for your wife she deserves better !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah the little green arrow!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Individual couples vary but we don't knowingly meet anyone who is married but plays alone whatever their reason.

Thanks for your input is that the opinion of other cpls or fems to? X"

opinion of us yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"leave your wife ..have a clear conscience

leave your wife, and do her a favour more like!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For us, we would never knowingly play with a married man. It's a swinging site, we do it together as part of our amazing married life. We like to meet other SWINGERS who are like minded, not cheating husbands!

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