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Female Timewasters

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Has anyone else had the problem of female time wasters, u get a meet set up and on the eleventh hour oh sorry I have my period and cannot meet. I have lost track of how many times this has happened. Is it just me?

I would just prefer sorry your not my type

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By *uby0000Woman over a year ago

hertfordshire

maybe its true lots of women wont meet when on especially a new relationship

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

Wouldn't they of said that before organising the meet though if that were the case??

At least they are letting you know beforehand I suppose rather than just not turning up.

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By *irlsnightinWoman over a year ago

Stratford-u-avon

Agree what waste everyone's time if you're not interested! It's annoying x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I have not had that problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"maybe its true lots of women wont meet when on especially a new relationship

But if your talking to them weeks in advance then a heads up might be better, the night before or in the day of a meet is just a bit of coincidence (for me anyhow)

, It's just happend too often for me,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has anyone else had the problem of female time wasters, u get a meet set up and on the eleventh hour oh sorry I have my period and cannot meet. I have lost track of how many times this has happened. Is it just me?

I would just prefer sorry your not my type

I think a lot of the time they may think its a good idea to meet you, then they change their minds or find someone else they like better. Some people dont know what they want. Which is why i said i would only meet people with recent verifications also i would have some idea what they were like.

It has put me off wanting to meet people, i think why bother.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It could be time wasters or it could be true not every woman is lucky enough to be regular I no I could never tell you when its going to happen until it does

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if its happened a lot it seems like they have changed their minds, i have had to cancel myself, hardly ever on the same day though, i hate letting people down even when i havnt felt like meeting them. If they were that keen they would make an effort to meet you when they said they would.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes periods are unpredictable, I have had to cancel the same day in the past when mother nature has turned up out the blue. I've also had to cancel if my son has become ill rather fast.... I'm not a time waster but sometimes life happens....

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I has to cancel a planned meet for this very reason, not being on the pill my periods happen when they happen and there isn't very much I can about it, they guy wasn't too impressed but I can't stop nature taking it course

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By *portyndNaughtyMan over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

Yes I had. After a couple of weeks talking to this girl we finally agreed to meet. On the day of the meeting she did not show up, did not give any excuses or apologized and to make things worse blocked me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've had to cancel at very short notice because of periods, as they can turn up early even after years of being regular, and I assure you we are just as pissed off as the bloke is.

Having said that, if the OP is getting a lot of women doing this, either he has some amazing hormones that can get women to menstruate on command, or his selection process is lacking somewhat. Maybe a longer chat and a social meet so all parties are happy? Periods can't mess with social meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would just prefer sorry your not my type

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well said mate I've had the last 4 of my meets either don't answer you when you've travelled to see em or just don't answer you at all. Like you say just be honest please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would just prefer sorry your not my type

It has put me off wanting to meet people, i think why bother."
but how can you get verification's when they don't meet you specially if you arrange a meet in public???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes periods are unpredictable, I have had to cancel the same day in the past when mother nature has turned up out the blue. I've also had to cancel if my son has become ill rather fast.... I'm not a time waster but sometimes life happens.... "
it true but when they don't say nothing at all it isn't very nice xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had issues with my contraception causing unpredictable bleeding and have had to cancel (postpone) a number of times. Generally men have been understanding and some i've still met despite it. However one guy practically called me a liar because it happened so often when he asked to meet (nothing about him being pushy of course). He made me so angry I sent him a very graphic picture, I was then told I was sick and promptly blocked! If they don't believe you what do you do??

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