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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are thinking of trying anal for the first time. Whilst we enjoy a great sex life this will be the first time either of us have had anal sex. Any help/tips on the practicalties to make it as easy/pleasurable as possible would be greatly appreciated x |
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i love anal with the right people as there has to be trust there to do it i think
personally i am not a fan of lube but yo may wish to try it if it is your first time.
Take it slowly, get yourself nice and relaxed (a good few orgasms should do this  ), let the woman take the lead - backing herself onto the guy so she has control over depth and speed etc
hope this has helped and hope you have fun  |
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"and of course its no good with a floppy cock!.
if it aint stiff it ain't worth a fuck!,you just cannot get a floppy cock in there properly.lol"
pmsl!! true i guess
although there was a guy on here that could do it to himself when floppy  |
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My man is great at anal.. We start of nice and slow with him whispering in my ear to relax me. We dont need lube but you can get booty lube to help you out. He slides in nice and slow making sure all ok then slowly gets deeper and faster. Heaven. Make sure that if you do anal you change condoms before sliding back into a pussy ( prevents the possibilty of germs transferring )
So plenty of trust needed and patience. Have you tried butt plugs first??? That might ease you in to it too.
Good luck and enjoy |
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anal can be amazing with the right person as a person who used to be scared of anal i'll just say a couple of things
1. warm up, try with small anal toys first and slowly get bigger. dont jump straight to cock
2. lube can be very important (it is for me)have it warm will help too
3. rock hard cock is important so dont try if had to much booze as this will stop things getting where needed
4. lots of forplay and vaginal sex first is big help as relaxes all involved  |
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By *imberTV/TS
over a year ago
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"anal can be amazing with the right person as a person who used to be scared of anal i'll just say a couple of things
1. warm up, try with small anal toys first and slowly get bigger. dont jump straight to cock
2. lube can be very important (it is for me)have it warm will help too
3. rock hard cock is important so dont try if had to much booze as this will stop things getting where needed
4. lots of forplay and vaginal sex first is big help as relaxes all involved "
Will agree on all four points |
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Buy some "poppers" from your local sex shop about £4 bottle. Its what gay guys use to relax their ring. Sniff about 10 mins before will make u feel sexy and relax your anal area. Its cheap and legal Try it sometime |
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"Buy some "poppers" from your local sex shop about £4 bottle. Its what gay guys use to relax their ring. Sniff about 10 mins before will make u feel sexy and relax your anal area. Its cheap and legal Try it sometime "
I've heard that works, but can also give serious headache afterwards, so plenty of painkillers in case that happens, lol.
Lube, some swear by it, others think it desensitises the experience, but I would recommend using lube the first time at least, although I didn't and it was ok, in fact the lady loved it.
take advice from here, and find your own way around it. |
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"anal can be amazing with the right person as a person who used to be scared of anal i'll just say a couple of things
1. warm up, try with small anal toys first and slowly get bigger. dont jump straight to cock
2. lube can be very important (it is for me)have it warm will help too
3. rock hard cock is important so dont try if had to much booze as this will stop things getting where needed
4. lots of forplay and vaginal sex first is big help as relaxes all involved "
agree with all of them. Being relaxed is key to trying it, could also have a bath before hand as that helps.
But don't rush, go with what feels right. even if it takes 20 minutes or longer before you feel comfortbale. |
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