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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How some comments made by ppl on the subject of sex try and bring me down when the nbr on this site are about 3000. i guess our views on sex are in the minority compared to the rest of the country
But who is right or who is wrong. |
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"How some comments made by ppl on the subject of sex try and bring me down when the nbr on this site are about 3000. i guess our views on sex are in the minority compared to the rest of the country
But who is right or who is wrong."
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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Your communication style is hard to understand.
People misinterpret and react to that misinterpretation.
Maybe spend more time reading your post back to yourself before you post it, to make sure that it is as clear as possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your communication style is hard to understand.
People misinterpret and react to that misinterpretation.
Maybe spend more time reading your post back to yourself before you post it, to make sure that it is as clear as possible. "
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Thank you!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How some comments made by ppl on the subject of sex try and bring me down when the nbr on this site are about 3000. i guess our views on sex are in the minority compared to the rest of the country
But who is right or who is wrong.
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if i decide to ask a question on sex and await comments. One of the reasons i came onto this place was the attitude to talk about sex. Not so free to talk about things.. |
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"How some comments made by ppl on the subject of sex try and bring me down when the nbr on this site are about 3000. i guess our views on sex are in the minority compared to the rest of the country
But who is right or who is wrong.
?????????????????????????????
if i decide to ask a question on sex and await comments. One of the reasons i came onto this place was the attitude to talk about sex. Not so free to talk about things.."
it really depends upon what you ask and in what way - there may be a lot ot members on the site but not all in the forums! |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Your communication style is hard to understand.
People misinterpret and react to that misinterpretation.
Maybe spend more time reading your post back to yourself before you post it, to make sure that it is as clear as possible.
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Thank you! "
Not you, Grim! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How some comments made by ppl on the subject of sex try and bring me down when the nbr on this site are about 3000. i guess our views on sex are in the minority compared to the rest of the country
But who is right or who is wrong.
?????????????????????????????
if i decide to ask a question on sex and await comments. One of the reasons i came onto this place was the attitude to talk about sex. Not so free to talk about things..
it really depends upon what you ask and in what way - there may be a lot ot members on the site but not all in the forums! "
If u ask someone who is not a member on FS what they think of swinging
I'm sure the response would be. To be able to talk about sex. Jees. Sex is such a fucking hassle.
It's this mixing of 2 distinct groups which don't work
serious swingers
not so serious swingers
Harmonious? it tries to be but just proven it can't be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if i decide to ask a question on sex and await comments. One of the reasons i came onto this place was the attitude to talk about sex. Not so free to talk about things.."
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As far as my experience on here goes, everyone can talk about anything under the sun.
I believe it is not the subject matter that makes it awkward for peeps to talk about or contribute in your threads, more to do with your communication style that some peeps, including myself, find difficult to comprehend, as already mentioned in another thread.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it depends on the context its being used! if its oh baby i wanna fuck u hard blah blah i just delete and ignore im not here to give some wanking fuckwit some racy chat for him to choke his todger to! if its open and honest question in regards to a potential meet and likes and dislikes etc then its fine! x |
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"How some comments made by ppl on the subject of sex try and bring me down when the nbr on this site are about 3000. i guess our views on sex are in the minority compared to the rest of the country
But who is right or who is wrong.
?????????????????????????????
if i decide to ask a question on sex and await comments. One of the reasons i came onto this place was the attitude to talk about sex. Not so free to talk about things..
it really depends upon what you ask and in what way - there may be a lot ot members on the site but not all in the forums!
If u ask someone who is not a member on FS what they think of swinging
I'm sure the response would be. To be able to talk about sex. Jees. Sex is such a fucking hassle.
It's this mixing of 2 distinct groups which don't work
serious swingers
not so serious swingers
Harmonious? it tries to be but just proven it can't be"
lol - we can discuss all topics - sex included - i think you may need to have a bit of experience in this daft thing called swinging - it's fun - we have a lot of fun and have had for a few years - we are harmonious with other like minded people! Z |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"if i decide to ask a question on sex and await comments. One of the reasons i came onto this place was the attitude to talk about sex. Not so free to talk about things..
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As far as my experience on here goes, everyone can talk about anything under the sun.
I believe it is not the subject matter that makes it awkward for peeps to talk about or contribute in your threads, more to do with your communication style that some peeps, including myself, find difficult to comprehend, as already mentioned in another thread.
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If my comments where so misunderstood y then even begin to contemplate righting a response or even giving an opinion about what i said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if i decide to ask a question on sex and await comments. One of the reasons i came onto this place was the attitude to talk about sex. Not so free to talk about things..
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As far as my experience on here goes, everyone can talk about anything under the sun.
I believe it is not the subject matter that makes it awkward for peeps to talk about or contribute in your threads, more to do with your communication style that some peeps, including myself, find difficult to comprehend, as already mentioned in another thread.
If my comments where so misunderstood y then even begin to contemplate righting a response or even giving an opinion about what i said. "
That is becasuse its an open forum and people can voice there views if you like it or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If my comments where so misunderstood y then even begin to contemplate righting a response or even giving an opinion about what i said. "
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Some of us do try and welcome newbies and don't always take the piss.
If we don't, we would be considered as cliquey/unfriendly/whatever.
I do wonder why I should bother sometimes! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if i decide to ask a question on sex and await comments. One of the reasons i came onto this place was the attitude to talk about sex. Not so free to talk about things..
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As far as my experience on here goes, everyone can talk about anything under the sun.
I believe it is not the subject matter that makes it awkward for peeps to talk about or contribute in your threads, more to do with your communication style that some peeps, including myself, find difficult to comprehend, as already mentioned in another thread.
If my comments where so misunderstood y then even begin to contemplate righting a response or even giving an opinion about what i said.
That is becasuse its an open forum and people can voice there views if you like it or not."
erm, i know this. but the content of what ppl say is not relevant. It's nagging at my self esteem. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Thank you!
Not you, Grim!
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I know that, and was thanking you for stating the obvious to the OP, silly!   "
He's still not reading it - this is eating away at my self-esteem - where are Provocative & Sprite.... |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"if i decide to ask a question on sex and await comments. One of the reasons i came onto this place was the attitude to talk about sex. Not so free to talk about things..
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As far as my experience on here goes, everyone can talk about anything under the sun.
I believe it is not the subject matter that makes it awkward for peeps to talk about or contribute in your threads, more to do with your communication style that some peeps, including myself, find difficult to comprehend, as already mentioned in another thread.
If my comments where so misunderstood y then even begin to contemplate righting a response or even giving an opinion about what i said. "
Grim, people (including myself) are reading the posts that you are starting and trying to understand the questions you are asking.
The answers you are getting in these threads don't seem to be what you want to hear and maybe you could come back into the thread and explain what you meant by the opening post (but that is your choice whether you do or not) it would just make it clearer for the rest of us to understand what you originally asked.
Everyone who starts a thread will get replies they agree with and those they don't, that's the nature of an open thread started by anyone and not just you!
As always, just my tuppence worth!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you!
Not you, Grim!
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I know that, and was thanking you for stating the obvious to the OP, silly!
He's still not reading it - this is eating away at my self-esteem - where are Provocative & Sprite...."
This is eating away at my will to live!! I didn't understand the point you made as the OP and with every post, I still don't understand the point you're making!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Focus on your FMF. It'll do wonders for that.
Trust me.
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Stupid here, what does FMF stand for please? 
i get to please 2 woman...
So what are you doing?
Taking them shoe shopping?
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Well the girl i know who organised it - said anything goes. I don't like to discuss detail
But they'll be fucking screaming with delight by the of the tonigh - so will i for that matter  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Given that we're all assuming that the second pic on your profile is your cum face, I agree that they'll be screaming! "
no that's what u call pulling a face. having a sense of humour. not taking yourself to seriously
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By *udereMan
over a year ago
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op from reading some of your recent posts and subsequent replies your clearly a deep thinker and complex guy ,but can i suggest chillin out and havin a laugh on the forums lifes to short to over analyse everything otherwise wheres the time for fun ?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So lets get this straight, you are having what many men (probably the vast majority on here) would give their right arm for....a threesome with two women.
But you still feel the need to moan?
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Can you be our official translator even if i still dont understand what the OP said at the top of the page |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In reply to the original post:
Your question is an eminently vacuous representation of semantic conflagration. Anyone with a modicum of perspicacity or circumspection would even contemplate offering an incredible retaliation.
Put it another way.......you post was part question and part statement and made no sense. As most swingers are not qualified in semantics and linguistics, or indeeed, psychology, there were few if any sane responses possible! |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Can you be our official translator even if i still dont understand what the OP said at the top of the page "
3000 people on the site and we all pick on his every word and criticise him.
Possibly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Given that we're all assuming that the second pic on your profile is your cum face, I agree that they'll be screaming!
no that's what u call pulling a face. having a sense of humour. not taking yourself to seriously
Hence me using the green smiley face... "
i thought that was someone throwing up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In reply to the original post:
Your question is an eminently vacuous representation of semantic conflagration. Anyone with a modicum of perspicacity or circumspection would even contemplate offering an incredible retaliation.
Put it another way.......you post was part question and part statement and made no sense. As most swingers are not qualified in semantics and linguistics, or indeeed, psychology, there were few if any sane responses possible!"
u did, u assume to put yourself in that unique position - that says something about u too.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In reply to the original post:
Your question is an eminently vacuous representation of semantic conflagration. Anyone with a modicum of perspicacity or circumspection would even contemplate offering an incredible retaliation.
Put it another way.......you post was part question and part statement and made no sense. As most swingers are not qualified in semantics and linguistics, or indeeed, psychology, there were few if any sane responses possible!"
i'll break it down for u and explain it to the prof. how ironic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Crikey this one's a bit of a tricky one to crack.
Who's right and who's wrong is hard to work out when I can't understand what the question is.
And who are the 3000? Is it some religious cult?
It's a mystery wrapped in an intrigue with text-speak thrown in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Crikey this one's a bit of a tricky one to crack.
Who's right and who's wrong is hard to work out when I can't understand what the question is.
And who are the 3000? Is it some religious cult?
It's a mystery wrapped in an intrigue with text-speak thrown in. "
the 3000 is the nbr of ppl when u do a search for profiles |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In reply to the original post:
Your question is an eminently vacuous representation of semantic conflagration. Anyone with a modicum of perspicacity or circumspection would even contemplate offering an incredible retaliation.
Put it another way.......you post was part question and part statement and made no sense. As most swingers are not qualified in semantics and linguistics, or indeeed, psychology, there were few if any sane responses possible!"
you hid your profile after i saw it. makes a lot of sense.. |
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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago
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DEAR MR GRIM
I know I've just come back from my local ale house, but I was only drinking lemonade, but your post has me totally bemused and dazed.
Though your command of the spelling of some complexed words seems above the average of most people, your command of putting thought to print has a habit of being confused to put things politely.
May i suggest as someone else has already that you do the following so as to make your posts far more coherent, readable and possibly easier to respond to in a more positive way.
firstly,,, think about what your going to type , maybe even writing it down before you do post.
secondly,, read and reread what it is your going to ask, and ask yourself if you can make sense of it,, if you can't then you really can't expect others to understand it either.
This is good advise and metered out because I'm sure that any further misunderstanding of you posts could be avoided.
I hope I've written this in clear and concise English and not confused you any further than you already seem to be
yours with kindest regards
TOUVAK |
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