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My cousin's daughter.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi I think its really risky mate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback. "

Really?

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By *horshiperMan over a year ago

London

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback. "

WOULD YOU CONSIDER YOUR SISTERS/BROTHERS DAUGHTER - SHE IS STILL YOUR NIECE -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

WOULD YOU CONSIDER YOUR SISTERS/BROTHERS DAUGHTER - SHE IS STILL YOUR NIECE -

Niece? Cousins daughter doesn't make her a niece,does it?

I thought that made her another cousin but further down.

Anyway my opinion is she's a relative. So no. Don't be silly.

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By *AURA6969TV/TS over a year ago

RUGBY

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

WOULD YOU CONSIDER YOUR SISTERS/BROTHERS DAUGHTER - SHE IS STILL YOUR NIECE -

Niece? Cousins daughter doesn't make her a niece,does it?

I thought that made her another cousin but further down.

Anyway my opinion is she's a relative. So no. Don't be silly."
second cousin surely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback. "

If you had kids they would be good swimmers

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By *ittykate84Woman over a year ago

CHESTER

Second cousin and still far too incestuous!

Think you need to give your head a shake and go back to fantasy land

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your doorstep would be very smelly if you do!

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By *horshiperMan over a year ago

London

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

WOULD YOU CONSIDER YOUR SISTERS/BROTHERS DAUGHTER - SHE IS STILL YOUR NIECE -

Niece? Cousins daughter doesn't make her a niece,does it?

I thought that made her another cousin but further down.

Anyway my opinion is she's a relative. So no. Don't be silly."

Maybe a cultural difference.

My cousins are classed the same as my brother or sister and their kids are my nieces and nephews - they address me as such

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

WOULD YOU CONSIDER YOUR SISTERS/BROTHERS DAUGHTER - SHE IS STILL YOUR NIECE -

Niece? Cousins daughter doesn't make her a niece,does it?

I thought that made her another cousin but further down.

Anyway my opinion is she's a relative. So no. Don't be silly.second cousin surely "

Yes. Thank you.

My brain froze.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Second cousin and still far too incestuous!

Think you need to give your head a shake and go back to fantasy land

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

steer clear on this one

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I knew I'd get the usual sarcastic replies, that's why it's taken me a while to actually post this.

why is it with this forum that you ask for a bit of advice, you just get ridiculed?

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By *entleman rajMan over a year ago

Loughborough

"steer clear on this one

True stay away from him. Very weird.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no no no... far too close to home!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

when I see threads like this, I always think the op has already made up his/her mind and what anyone says on here will make no difference whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I knew I'd get the usual sarcastic replies, that's why it's taken me a while to actually post this.

why is it with this forum that you ask for a bit of advice, you just get ridiculed?

She's your cousin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I knew I'd get the usual sarcastic replies, that's why it's taken me a while to actually post this.

why is it with this forum that you ask for a bit of advice, you just get ridiculed?

She's your cousin.

My point is, some are making out I'm making this up. not my style.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"when I see threads like this, I always think the op has already made up his/her mind and what anyone says on here will make no difference whatsoever."

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By *horshiperMan over a year ago

London

"I knew I'd get the usual sarcastic replies, that's why it's taken me a while to actually post this.

why is it with this forum that you ask for a bit of advice, you just get ridiculed?

I cant see one post that is ridiculing you. All posts are questioning do you really want do this ?

If it took that long to think whether to post it maybe you shouldn't off.

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By *erseyridersCouple over a year ago

wallasey

big fat no no nono ,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I knew I'd get the usual sarcastic replies, that's why it's taken me a while to actually post this.

why is it with this forum that you ask for a bit of advice, you just get ridiculed?

She's your cousin.

My point is, some are making out I'm making this up. not my style."

Whether you have or not the point being in the majority of replies so far the opinion is 100% no.

Do not shag your cousin.

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By *lactontogMan over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

If you had kids they would be good swimmers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Point taken.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Second cousin, but with 60 million other people living on these islands, even if you only fancy 1 in 60, you still have a million other people to shag. If you must shag her, save her till last. Make her partner 1,000,001

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stay away from friends, friends' family and relatives.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sure why not, keep it in the family as they say, have it abit discreetly for now and see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Stay away from friends, friends' family and relatives."
... Or don't and alienate everyone you care about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From a genetics standpoint, it really depends on how you are related - although this would only be of consideration for pro-creation - in which case problems would occur if you shared mitocondrial dna.

As for legal or ethical point of view.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback. "

How do you think your cousin would feel to know that someone they probably trust as a member of their family thinks about their daughter in that way? how would you feel if they fancied fucking one of your kids if you have them? Try thinking with your bigger head...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

WOULD YOU CONSIDER YOUR SISTERS/BROTHERS DAUGHTER - SHE IS STILL YOUR NIECE -

2nd cousin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm really close to all my cousins. I have male cousins if in 26 years they wanted to do anything with my daughter I'd take their fucking heads off.

You've probably watched this girl grow up from a baby, it's way too weird. I would steer clear and tell her to stop being so fucking weird as well, Jeremy Kyle material right there.

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By *imply_SensualMan over a year ago

warrington

The fact you have asked the question, is an answer itself - you are already doubting it, which means you are well aware of the consequences, for what, a shag?

If in doubt, don't - that applies to a lot of things in life.

If she is flirting with you, I am sure there are other women that will too, and they will come without the baggage.

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By *ain n MableWoman over a year ago

Milton Keynes

How do you value your relationship with your cousin? Because when it gets out (which it will) that cousin will never speak to you again. Stick your cock away and activate your brain.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know cousins that married. A couple of couples actually. You're both adults,do what you think is best. We don't know your family or what impact it will have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

WOULD YOU CONSIDER YOUR SISTERS/BROTHERS DAUGHTER - SHE IS STILL YOUR NIECE -

Niece? Cousins daughter doesn't make her a niece,does it?

I thought that made her another cousin but further down.

Anyway my opinion is she's a relative. So no. Don't be silly.second cousin surely "

Its first cousin once removed (I googled when my cousins daughter was born lol). Its legal to marry your first cousin so don't think its morally wrong but depends how close you are to your cousin and whether you are willing to risk that relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

WOULD YOU CONSIDER YOUR SISTERS/BROTHERS DAUGHTER - SHE IS STILL YOUR NIECE -

Niece? Cousins daughter doesn't make her a niece,does it?

I thought that made her another cousin but further down.

Anyway my opinion is she's a relative. So no. Don't be silly.second cousin surely

Ahh I thought that. What's second cousin then?

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

If you had kids they would be good swimmers

I'm in tears here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

WOULD YOU CONSIDER YOUR SISTERS/BROTHERS DAUGHTER - SHE IS STILL YOUR NIECE -

Niece? Cousins daughter doesn't make her a niece,does it?

I thought that made her another cousin but further down.

Anyway my opinion is she's a relative. So no. Don't be silly.second cousin surely

Ahh I thought that. What's second cousin then?"

My child and his are second cousins, so kids of cousins xx

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By *ldestswingerintownMan over a year ago

Lancaster

very good friends of mine from my university days were first cousins and they married each other - they took genetic counselling and now they've two wonderful kids and are still together 40 years later.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback. "
put it this way.. Would you be happy of your cousin slept with a kid of yours?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How do you value your relationship with your cousin? Because when it gets out (which it will) that cousin will never speak to you again. Stick your cock away and activate your brain. "

Honestly don't have any kind of relationship with her (cousin). We see each other at weddings and funerals and that's kinda the way its always been.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I knew I'd get the usual sarcastic replies, that's why it's taken me a while to actually post this.

why is it with this forum that you ask for a bit of advice, you just get ridiculed?

Ask something sensible, then you won't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Keep if locked in the wank bank for a rainy day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the title alone sounds wrong lol

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple over a year ago

Takeley

Think you're more concerned about the societal and familial fallout from this, which kind of answers your original post. That said it's not illegal, however, unless you are very sure and can both put up with the tough times ahead, then, good luck to you. Not knowing your family or relationship with them, only you can be the best judge of that. Big however: if you embark on this, then it will get out, it always does. Think carefully!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Err I dunno.. But know wot u mean about on your shoulders. Got them myself

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I think there are enough people in the world to shag without having to go anywhere near my own family - no matter how many times removed I still consider them to be family.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sings "My perfect cousin"!

Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm really close to all my cousins. I have male cousins if in 26 years they wanted to do anything with my daughter I'd take their fucking heads off.

You've probably watched this girl grow up from a baby, it's way too weird. I would steer clear and tell her to stop being so fucking weird as well, Jeremy Kyle material right there. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's pretty messed up.Its grotesque just reading it.

If your asking others opinions you must know it's wrong surely??????

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By *psomEricMan over a year ago

Epsom

"There's been a bit of flirting being going recently. She's 31 so not a kid.

I have an angel sitting on one shoulder telling me to steer well clear, but on the shoulder is the wee devil telling me to bash on.

What's the verdict guys? would really appreciate feedback.

WOULD YOU CONSIDER YOUR SISTERS/BROTHERS DAUGHTER - SHE IS STILL YOUR NIECE -

Niece? Cousins daughter doesn't make her a niece,does it?

I thought that made her another cousin but further down.

Anyway my opinion is she's a relative. So no. Don't be silly.second cousin surely "

First cousin once removed technically. Your shared relative is the same as your cousins but one generation apart.

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

Cant see anyone on here ridiculing you op, but seriously stop thinking with your cock and think with your head, its not illegal but that doesnt make it right.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are there no women in your area for you to play with? FFS she's a relative. Totally disgusting. (judgemental hell yeh!!) Gross.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A first cousin is the child of your aunt/uncle - your parents sibling.

A second cousin is the child of your first cousin.

Once removed is if you take the cousin stage up a step.

For example, a first cousin once removed is your parents cousin.

I have several of these as y father was an only child, but his father was the third of six.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think there are enough people in the world to shag without having to go anywhere near my own family - no matter how many times removed I still consider them to be family."

I've a fair few family members I'd like to remove....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can legally marry your first cousin so give the op a break

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can legally marry your first cousin so give the op a break "

My Aunt & Uncle were first cousins

Happily married for 40+ years

I think the issue for me in the OPs case would be that it was a relatives 'child' he was looking to get jiggy with as opposed to the family link.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"You can legally marry your first cousin so give the op a break "

You can legally smash your private parts with a hammer but I would not recommend it.

I think regardless of the attraction, it would be the family fallout that would be a huge issue, not to mention, what if it's all in his head and she is not acting in anyway to show interest to him. Other than in a loving family way?

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By *couseratMan over a year ago

Eastbourne

Ok to joke with, not Ok to take it further.

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