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Is it time we creat a sign to spot a swinger in public place
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The reason I ask for a sign for swingers . in case you are in a public place like restaurant or pub/holiday resorts.some swingers out there may be looking for a meet. Hence a sign will be better.
As for me .
Bring-out your handkerchief to wipe your face twice. This may sound funny. But very discreet sign
So what is your sign? |
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over a year ago
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That could end up a bit of a tricky situation
Imagine a man or woman having the sniffles so using a tissue often then they get approached by a couple asking for a 3some, try explaining that 1   |
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"pmsl my mum would prolly say is it like vics is it menthol or no i only ordered 1 cup of tea thanks "
Haha Pmsl
Would probably make a funny scene to watch unless they got lucky and were actually swingers |
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over a year ago
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No thanks, if there was a sign I certainly wouldn't use it. I value my privacy in public when I go about my day to day business. I don't want to be having a coffi somewhere and worrying that I'm giving off a signal so everyone knows what I get up to. |
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Any 'secret' swingers sign wouldn't stay secret for very long once the media got to hear of it. Most swingers value discretion. Fab has the facility to see who is near or put a meet up for those who are out and about. |
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over a year ago
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Like others have said, we value our privacy and prefer to keep the two very different lives we lead separate from each other.
There are plenty of other tools to find other swingers without having a 'sign' to say we are. And what if someone random was to innocently have said sign about their person without knowing its alternate meaning. They'd be in for a shock if you approached them in a swinging sense. |
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over a year ago
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Always seems to be men suggesting these type of things.... Why faf about, if you want the world to know your a swinger/swingle, get a T-shirt or Badge with Swinger or Swingle on it... |
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"It would take about 3 hours for the sign to get into social media...then what?"
Sad but true.
Unfortunately there are too many guys already on Fab who think every woman here will fuck anyone for the asking.
Can you imagine the reaction if Mrs J walked into a busy pub on a Saturday night with a tee shirt saying "I will fuck anyone. Just ask"!
That would be the reality sadly. |
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over a year ago
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I tend to walk around with a big pampas grass plant on my head and a t shirt that says 'i am fab' on it. I think that's gives off the right signal. I hope the irony in the sub text isnt lost heehee.  |
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over a year ago
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"As mentioned by people before me, this has been talked about many times and there is already a solution.
Its that little fish symbol you see on the back of cars. "
And there was me thinking it was the happy clappers brigade! |
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"No thanks, if there was a sign I certainly wouldn't use it. I value my privacy in public when I go about my day to day business. I don't want to be having a coffi somewhere and worrying that I'm giving off a signal so everyone knows what I get up to."
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"The reason I ask for a sign for swingers . in case you are in a public place like restaurant or pub/holiday resorts.some swingers out there may be looking for a meet. Hence a sign will be better.
As for me .
Bring-out your handkerchief to wipe your face twice. This may sound funny. But very discreet sign
So what is your sign?"
WHY are you assuming that every single swinger out there would wanna meet you ? |
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Even if you could recognise swingers in public. A single sign wouldn't tell you what they liked and what they were looking for; if it was down to hankies you'd need to carry a whole load of them and display them in order like they do with the flags on ships.
Also, I pity the poor person who innocently wipes there nose twice because they have a cold  |
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Don't think we need a sign
walked into our local charity shop and the woman behind the counter mentioned that we were kinky, shes not on this site she just guessed over the months we had been visiting the shop. without us mentioning our preferences I might add.
so if you are relaxed about your sexuality and preferences i think others pick up on this  |
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"Even if you could recognise swingers in public. A single sign wouldn't tell you what they liked and what they were looking for; if it was down to hankies you'd need to carry a whole load of them and display them in order like they do with the flags on ships.
Also, I pity the poor person who innocently wipes there nose twice because they have a cold "
erm is it not flu season #awkward  |
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I am only suggesting. But don't turn it into act of desperation. Yes some people on fab do separate swinging from their daily routine. But others do like to meet up with someone apart from club and Internet.
Yes privacy is more paramount. The act of wearing a t-shirt suggesting you are a swinger is utterly ridiculous. I don't subscribe to it. eg
If you travel abroad you can see for yourself as a swinger any form of spotting a fellow swinger in public is vital .mostly when there's a language barrier. If you think this is a tacky suggestion. Think again |
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"It would take about 3 hours for the sign to get into social media...then what?
Sad but true.
Unfortunately there are too many guys already on Fab who think every woman here will fuck anyone for the asking.
Can you imagine the reaction if Mrs J walked into a busy pub on a Saturday night with a tee shirt saying "I will fuck anyone. Just ask"!
That would be the reality sadly."
I am not surprise with your comment looking at your profile alone depict your opion about single guys
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"It would take about 3 hours for the sign to get into social media...then what?
Sad but true.
Unfortunately there are too many guys already on Fab who think every woman here will fuck anyone for the asking.
Can you imagine the reaction if Mrs J walked into a busy pub on a Saturday night with a tee shirt saying "I will fuck anyone. Just ask"!
That would be the reality sadly.
I am not surprise with your comment looking at your profile alone depict your opion about single guys
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Sadly I have to agree. Some (note some!) single guys on here assume you will fuck anything just because you are a swinger, and then have a hissy fit when you dare to turn them down. Imagine having to encounter that every time you popped to the shops just because you were giving off the sign. |
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"The reason I ask for a sign for swingers . in case you are in a public place like restaurant or pub/holiday resorts.some swingers out there may be looking for a meet. Hence a sign will be better.
As for me .
Bring-out your handkerchief to wipe your face twice. This may sound funny. But very discreet sign
So what is your sign?"
This may be a great idea but can't vouch for some of the more egregious elements that lurk in these forums. |
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god no way... you might find out great uncle Fred and aunt Mable are in to anal fisting at a weekend.."
I still worry about stumbling accross family members on here, to the degree I used to take the picture down off my wall when I cam...  |
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We find a simple "Quack Quack" does the trick... Most non swingers look at you as if you are mad (but never suspect you are into swinging!)...the odd smart arse answers with a "Quack Quack" (we just tell them to piss off!)...but fellow swingers... well they always answer with a "Cockle Doo Da Doo!"
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"We find a simple "Quack Quack" does the trick... Most non swingers look at you as if you are mad (but never suspect you are into swinging!)...the odd smart arse answers with a "Quack Quack" (we just tell them to piss off!)...but fellow swingers... well they always answer with a "Cockle Doo Da Doo!"
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I so wish this was true! |
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"This comes up every so often and I always want to ask the people that think it's a good idea........
Why do you think we need ANOTHER sign?
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Some of us are having a laugh...
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over a year ago
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"Shouldnt the reply be :
a cock or two will do? "
Shit...for all these years I've been thinking most swingers have a speech impediment.
But seriously...the women seem to mumble a lot and the men’s speech is somewhat muffled!
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"Could do something like a masonic handshake, or wear a T Shirt with "I'm not a Gynaecologist, but I'll have a good look" "
Don't like the Masonic link...I’ve heard they are into goat's...but shhhh....it’s a secret!
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all joking aside tho i suppose if the place was a known meeting place within the secret world of swingers it could be a good idea maybe 
