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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you arrange a nice meet and then they start asking if I'm going to wear stockings and suspenders and knee high boots and a corset or a baby doll or a costume etc etc
Does it put anyone else off?? I don't message with any demands I expect them to be clean and tidy but I don't expect people to be trussed up like a chicken. Do people understand how long it takes to do all that?? I think I've done well if I manage to get there on time! Humph |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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I wouldn't do any of those things, when I arrive I am wearing clothes and in a few minutes I am naked......all that stuff would get in my way and make me uncomfortable. So if someone asked me I would say I play naked.....that's it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People have fetishes and they want to fulfil their need for them, doesn't take me long to get ready, quick shower and get dressed but hardly anyone asks me to dress up (they probably expect me to though, idk but nobody has said anything yet).
Part of having stuff like that in your pics is that people expect you to be sat at home all dressed up and ready to fulfil their desires maybe? Hehe we're the always up for it bored housewives or something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest , the dressing up is a major part of what makes me feel good too .
When we go to a club I go the whole way with very attention to the smallest detail .
Evan for dogging I still dress up , although my attire has to be practical too .
It's for me to feel sexy aswell as our meets to enjoy it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ask because i like to see a woman dressed this way and a lot of women say they dress to please
If they are willing to dress up its a bonus, if naked is their preferance then i am not disappointed and would not make any indication that i am.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I totally agree with you and if I had the time I'd be exactly the same but if I meet during the week its a chill out meet more than anything and I explain that, I just don't like being dictated too when I don't make any demands myself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I ask because i like to see a woman dressed this way and a lot of women say they dress to please
If they are willing to dress up its a bonus, if naked is their preferance then i am not disappointed and would not make any indication that i am.
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But as you've asked they already know what you want, so there for they know if they don't dress up then they will be falling short. That's how I feel anyway!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I ask because i like to see a woman dressed this way and a lot of women say they dress to please
If they are willing to dress up its a bonus, if naked is their preferance then i am not disappointed and would not make any indication that i am.
But as you've asked they already know what you want, so there for they know if they don't dress up then they will be falling short. That's how I feel anyway!! "
that may be the way you perceive it to be but i feel differently. I ask it as a question and not as a demand and if they say no i always tell them it doesnt matter as its more than about what they were wearing. To me its just a question in a ment of time no different to asking will we be playing in bedroom if they say no in lounge id stiil be grateful to visit and wouldnt disappoint me. So would you feel you were letting me down if i asked the where are we playing question? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I ask because i like to see a woman dressed this way and a lot of women say they dress to please
If they are willing to dress up its a bonus, if naked is their preferance then i am not disappointed and would not make any indication that i am.
But as you've asked they already know what you want, so there for they know if they don't dress up then they will be falling short. That's how I feel anyway!!
that may be the way you perceive it to be but i feel differently. I ask it as a question and not as a demand and if they say no i always tell them it doesnt matter as its more than about what they were wearing. To me its just a question in a ment of time no different to asking will we be playing in bedroom if they say no in lounge id stiil be grateful to visit and wouldnt disappoint me. So would you feel you were letting me down if i asked the where are we playing question?"
Well no because its completely different |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you arrange a nice meet and then they start asking if I'm going to wear stockings and suspenders and knee high boots and a corset or a baby doll or a costume etc etc
Does it put anyone else off?? I don't message with any demands I expect them to be clean and tidy but I don't expect people to be trussed up like a chicken. Do people understand how long it takes to do all that?? I think I've done well if I manage to get there on time! Humph"
Haha yes very much so! I think it can be off putting someone trying to tell you what to wear especially when they say I like all you have explained and they turn up with hardly making an effort! I Would never not make an effort but sometimes I think pot kettle it also makes me laugh that people think we should constantly dress up in all the gear all the time xxx |
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I love dressing up. But i do it because I want to and because I feel sexier when dressed up.
I often have messages asking if I'm wearing the maids outfit I have on in one of my pics. I only wish my everyday life was that glamorous I could dress up everyday!
Fem x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love dressing up but I agree when guys start questioning what I'm going to wear sometimes it feels a bit demanding! It takes time to get dressed up in stockings and suspenders etc sometimes there just isn't the time and it usually ends up flung across the bedroom any way lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had guys ask if I would wear something specific but I've never had anyone demand anything. Mind you I chat extensively to anyone I meet so I don't think anyone that disrespectful would get to the meeting stage. I have no problem with specific requests.....I like to dress up and really it doesn't take any longer than getting dressed normally....unless I'm doing it wrong!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think maybe if I had more things to wear it wouldn't be a problem but I find 'sexy' clothes make me look like a porno potato so dressing up is quite stressful, even when I finish work on time!! Which is never!! Lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had guys ask if I would wear something specific but I've never had anyone demand anything. Mind you I chat extensively to anyone I meet so I don't think anyone that disrespectful would get to the meeting stage. I have no problem with specific requests.....I like to dress up and really it doesn't take any longer than getting dressed normally....unless I'm doing it wrong!!"
I'm sure your doing it very right! I just find it all very fiddly and time consuming sometimes x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had guys ask if I would wear something specific but I've never had anyone demand anything. Mind you I chat extensively to anyone I meet so I don't think anyone that disrespectful would get to the meeting stage. I have no problem with specific requests.....I like to dress up and really it doesn't take any longer than getting dressed normally....unless I'm doing it wrong!!
I'm sure your doing it very right! I just find it all very fiddly and time consuming sometimes x"
I find just a bow is very effective and doesn't take much effort at all  |
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"I've had guys ask if I would wear something specific but I've never had anyone demand anything. Mind you I chat extensively to anyone I meet so I don't think anyone that disrespectful would get to the meeting stage. I have no problem with specific requests.....I like to dress up and really it doesn't take any longer than getting dressed normally....unless I'm doing it wrong!!
I'm sure your doing it very right! I just find it all very fiddly and time consuming sometimes x
I find just a bow is very effective and doesn't take much effort at all "
I only wish I could carry just a bow off. You lucky, lucky lady! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've had guys ask if I would wear something specific but I've never had anyone demand anything. Mind you I chat extensively to anyone I meet so I don't think anyone that disrespectful would get to the meeting stage. I have no problem with specific requests.....I like to dress up and really it doesn't take any longer than getting dressed normally....unless I'm doing it wrong!!
I'm sure your doing it very right! I just find it all very fiddly and time consuming sometimes x
I find just a bow is very effective and doesn't take much effort at all
I only wish I could carry just a bow off. You lucky, lucky lady! "
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By *himaeraWoman
over a year ago
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"I think maybe if I had more things to wear it wouldn't be a problem but I find 'sexy' clothes make me look like a porno potato so dressing up is quite stressful, even when I finish work on time!! Which is never!! Lol xx"
Porno potato? That's brilliant!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think maybe if I had more things to wear it wouldn't be a problem but I find 'sexy' clothes make me look like a porno potato so dressing up is quite stressful, even when I finish work on time!! Which is never!! Lol xx
Porno potato? That's brilliant!! "
unfortunately its a fairly accurate description x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had guys ask if I would wear something specific but I've never had anyone demand anything. Mind you I chat extensively to anyone I meet so I don't think anyone that disrespectful would get to the meeting stage. I have no problem with specific requests.....I like to dress up and really it doesn't take any longer than getting dressed normally....unless I'm doing it wrong!!
I'm sure your doing it very right! I just find it all very fiddly and time consuming sometimes x
I find just a bow is very effective and doesn't take much effort at all "
Haha I like your style |
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No you should not make demands but it might come up in conversation and then its just a general conversation of what they like to do not what I want them to do. I have been lucky enough to meet a lady that loves to dress up and look stunning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Once people start to show more of an interest in what I'm going to be doing to please them and less about the pleasure of all involved then my interest in meeting up drops to an immediate zero |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once people start to show more of an interest in what I'm going to be doing to please them and less about the pleasure of all involved then my interest in meeting up drops to an immediate zero "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like dressing up and I have that on my profile. It makes me feel sexier and more confident and it's all part of the build up. But I do it for me, although it's nice when the man I meet appreciates it obviously. If a man started dictating what I should wear then I'd probably be put off meeting. |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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"When you arrange a nice meet and then they start asking if I'm going to wear stockings and suspenders and knee high boots and a corset or a baby doll or a costume etc etc
Does it put anyone else off?? I don't message with any demands I expect them to be clean and tidy but I don't expect people to be trussed up like a chicken. Do people understand how long it takes to do all that?? I think I've done well if I manage to get there on time! Humph"
Without trying to sound boring.. if you feel comfy you relax quicker...much prefer very simple small undies.. and hope they do the trick? ..and actually had a nice meet very last minute in old leggings and boots and all seemed to enjoy.... don't get me wrong nice to dress up too... about the body not the clothes maybe x |
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Whenever a meet has sent a message asking if I will be dressing sexy for them I usually say I will if you dress sexy for me.. They usually drop it then as most guys wont wear or dont own a full three piece suit!
Plus i had a social in jeans and my superman hoody once and they practically jumped on me.. The power of a big S across your boobs hey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My last meet asked what I'd be wearing, so I asked what he would like me to wear. told him what I had colour underwear etc and he chose. I also told him I'd like him to wear. wasn't on for very long though  |
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