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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I thought as I have seen so many rant statuses from my friends list and on browsing on fab I'd just throw this out there to all the men who think ladies who don't respond and delete deserve abuse. They don't, simple guys, just because you send a message and you don't see the girl on your "who looked at you bit" it doesn't mean they haven't. It probably means they have and your not for them. So sending an abusive mail on follow up isn't an appropriate response IS IT!!!. Girls are on here for fun, exitment and pleasure do you realy think that your giving any by being a misogynist. Chill out guys and fab happy not angry, your just spoiling this site for everybody else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you looking for brownie points . lol ok we will give you some for standing up for the woman here on fab . Its not nice getting nasty mail ."
dnot want brownie points just a level playing feild
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 23/01/15 14:19:03]
Crawler... not at all. When was the last time a girl sent you abuse after not responding"
I'm sure the ladies are more than capable of fighting their own corner and know full well how to report and block. Or are you under the impression that women need looking after??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't bother me if they send abusive messages, i enjoy blocking those type of guys and then spending a minute fantasizing that i ruined their day by ignoring their advances. Then i get back on with whatever i was doing...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You tell 'em Dunkin!
And please note ladies of the north west this thread has nothing to do with the fact the gentleman is looking for a meet tonight...... "
no it doesn't I'm taking it down cos I'm busy tonight lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 23/01/15 14:19:03]
Crawler... not at all. When was the last time a girl sent you abuse after not responding
I'm sure the ladies are more than capable of fighting their own corner and know full well how to report and block. Or are you under the impression that women need looking after???"
no I'm not just sick of seeing that girls get abuse and that is all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 23/01/15 14:19:03]
Crawler... not at all. When was the last time a girl sent you abuse after not responding
I'm sure the ladies are more than capable of fighting their own corner and know full well how to report and block. Or are you under the impression that women need looking after??? no I'm not just sick of seeing that girls get abuse and that is all"
What about couples? Single blokes? Bi? Gay? Tv/Ts? I take it that's ok then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 23/01/15 14:19:03]
Crawler... not at all. When was the last time a girl sent you abuse after not responding
I'm sure the ladies are more than capable of fighting their own corner and know full well how to report and block. Or are you under the impression that women need looking after???
no I'm not just sick of seeing that girls get abuse and that is all"
Nothing wrong with fighting someone elses corner for them OP, shows empathy. Sticking together can be a positive trait. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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To be fair to the OP, he meant well.
In my swinging life and not just Fab, 4 sites and clubs I have encountered thieves, hustlers, liars, manipulators, moochers & STD infected and the common denominator was they all had a vagina 
So, your intent was honourable but there are good and bad in all groupings. 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be fair to the OP, he meant well.
In my swinging life and not just Fab, 4 sites and clubs I have encountered thieves, hustlers, liars, manipulators, moochers & STD infected and the common denominator was they all had a vagina fair point, there are shitty men and women. But this is only to do with my experience on fab. I have come across some female players on here but hey all they did was play me slightly that's all
So, your intent was honourable but there are good and bad in all groupings.
Good luck "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 23/01/15 14:19:03]
Crawler... not at all. When was the last time a girl sent you abuse after not responding"
That was harsh of me, I meant sycophant
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone smell something  think what you like. I personally don't care tbh. At least I have the balls to say it"
It does just come across as a little bit crawly is all I think folks are trying to say....
I think most lasses are hardy enough to defend themselves so rarely need a defender ya know....it's a good sentiment you have mind.....you'll work out how fickle a place this can be......
Put the lady's (or any group for that matter) down, you'll be lynched, defend them to vigourously, you'll get the piss taken and called white night...
If its how you feel though and still feel the need to say it then please do as its who you are
*Courtesy of the department of zero help* |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To all the peeps on here who are thinking this is some kind of promotional thing or a kind of bull shit thing it's not. I've been thinking of putting this on for a few days. Think of me what you will. You all have opinions, and some are valid and some aren't but there yours to own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To all the peeps on here who are thinking this is some kind of promotional thing or a kind of bull shit thing it's not. I've been thinking of putting this on for a few days. Think of me what you will. You all have opinions, and some are valid and some aren't but there yours to own."
I think it's for the ladies to make these kind of statements that have been treated in this way.
Fair play if you're using it as a marketing tool, and I respect all opinions but you haven't walked in the shoes of those who are able to say this with authority.
You're like the white middle class white collar liberal guy screaming about racism.
Noble yet not credible....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I thought as I have seen so many rant statuses from my friends list and on browsing on fab I'd just throw this out there to all the men who think ladies who don't respond and delete deserve abuse. They don't, simple guys, just because you send a message and you don't see the girl on your "who looked at you bit" it doesn't mean they haven't. It probably means they have and your not for them. So sending an abusive mail on follow up isn't an appropriate response IS IT!!!. Girls are on here for fun, exitment and pleasure do you realy think that your giving any by being a misogynist. Chill out guys and fab happy not angry, your just spoiling this site for everybody else."
What about the women on here? And the ladies?
The ones who are not looking to meet and are just here to chat?
The inability of people (not just men) to respect others is shocking. The need for some people to throw their toys out of the pram and send abusive emails is something that a forum post won't address.
I accept that an abusive message is horrible, but it shows the message sender is an arse and one to avoid. Block. Report. Delete.
If soneone is a thundercunt who hurls abuse, they aren't going to read your post and think "oh, fair point, I'll change my ways".
Will you be patrolling the forums to protect the vunerable, or are you just trying to curry favour with the girls? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To all the peeps on here who are thinking this is some kind of promotional thing or a kind of bull shit thing it's not. I've been thinking of putting this on for a few days. Think of me what you will. You all have opinions, and some are valid and some aren't but there yours to own."
It did not come over well. Are you a female? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I thought as I have seen so many rant statuses from my friends list and on browsing on fab I'd just throw this out there to all the men who think ladies who don't respond and delete deserve abuse. They don't, simple guys, just because you send a message and you don't see the girl on your "who looked at you bit" it doesn't mean they haven't. It probably means they have and your not for them. So sending an abusive mail on follow up isn't an appropriate response IS IT!!!. Girls are on here for fun, exitment and pleasure do you realy think that your giving any by being a misogynist. Chill out guys and fab happy not angry, your just spoiling this site for everybody else.
What about the women on here? And the ladies?
The ones who are not looking to meet and are just here to chat?
The inability of people (not just men) to respect others is shocking. The need for some people to throw their toys out of the pram and send abusive emails is something that a forum post won't address.
I accept that an abusive message is horrible, but it shows the message sender is an arse and one to avoid. Block. Report. Delete.
If soneone is a thundercunt who hurls abuse, they aren't going to read your post and think "oh, fair point, I'll change my ways".
Will you be patrolling the forums to protect the vunerable, or are you just trying to curry favour with the girls? "
Thundercunt....Now that's a Marvel Hero I'd love to see |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To all the peeps on here who are thinking this is some kind of promotional thing or a kind of bull shit thing it's not. I've been thinking of putting this on for a few days. Think of me what you will. You all have opinions, and some are valid and some aren't but there yours to own.
Do you know who I am. Do you know my life history. Have you walked in my shoes since I was born, no you haven't. So how can you say I am incapable. ???
I think it's for the ladies to make these kind of statements that have been treated in this way.
Fair play if you're using it as a marketing tool, and I respect all opinions but you haven't walked in the shoes of those who are able to say this with authority.
You're like the white middle class white collar liberal guy screaming about racism.
Noble yet not credible....
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"you looking for brownie points . lol ok we will give you some for standing up for the woman here on fab . Its not nice getting nasty mail ."
I had one of them this week, single word only content, began with C. Presumably because I didn't send a trillion pics, though he didn't ask for them. It's bizarre how some people operate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok I thought as I have seen so many rant statuses from my friends list and on browsing on fab I'd just throw this out there to all the men who think ladies who don't respond and delete deserve abuse. They don't, simple guys, just because you send a message and you don't see the girl on your "who looked at you bit" it doesn't mean they haven't. It probably means they have and your not for them. So sending an abusive mail on follow up isn't an appropriate response IS IT!!!. Girls are on here for fun, exitment and pleasure do you realy think that your giving any by being a misogynist. Chill out guys and fab happy not angry, your just spoiling this site for everybody else.
What about the women on here? And the ladies?
The ones who are not looking to meet and are just here to chat?
The inability of people (not just men) to respect others is shocking. The need for some people to throw their toys out of the pram and send abusive emails is something that a forum post won't address.
I accept that an abusive message is horrible, but it shows the message sender is an arse and one to avoid. Block. Report. Delete.
If soneone is a thundercunt who hurls abuse, they aren't going to read your post and think "oh, fair point, I'll change my ways".
Will you be patrolling the forums to protect the vunerable, or are you just trying to curry favour with the girls?
Thundercunt....Now that's a Marvel Hero I'd love to see "
Thunder, thunder, thundercunts, Ho!
Thundercunts are on the site,
Thundercunts are loose!
Mail the ladies, call them whores,
Hurl at them abuse!
Thunder, thunder, thunder, thundercunts!
Thunder, thunder, thunder, thundercunts! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 23/01/15 14:19:03]
Crawler... not at all. When was the last time a girl sent you abuse after not responding
That was harsh of me, I meant sycophant
I still think crawler was funnier
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 23/01/15 14:19:03]
Crawler... not at all. When was the last time a girl sent you abuse after not responding
That was harsh of me, I meant sycophant
I still think crawler was funnier
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"Ok I thought as I have seen so many rant statuses from my friends list and on browsing on fab I'd just throw this out there to all the men who think ladies who don't respond and delete deserve abuse. They don't, simple guys, just because you send a message and you don't see the girl on your "who looked at you bit" it doesn't mean they haven't. It probably means they have and your not for them. So sending an abusive mail on follow up isn't an appropriate response IS IT!!!. Girls are on here for fun, exitment and pleasure do you realy think that your giving any by being a misogynist. Chill out guys and fab happy not angry, your just spoiling this site for everybody else."
I'd like this one to be 'president' please. Should have a special rossette next to your name |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thunder, thunder, thundercunts, Ho!
Thundercunts are on the site,
Thundercunts are loose!
Mail the ladies, call them whores,
Hurl at them abuse!
Thunder, thunder, thunder, thundercunts!
Thunder, thunder, thunder, thundercunts!"
I have just splurted coffee over my desk  I wish I had cone up with that! Funny as fuck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about women and couples that sends abuse back, even tho you have send a nice message? "
Putting "Please" after "Can I fuck you" does not constitute a nice message ffs!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about women and couples that sends abuse back, even tho you have send a nice message?
Putting "Please" after "Can I fuck you" does not constitute a nice message ffs!!
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lol I didn't, all I said once was, hey nice pic, fancy some sex fun this week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about women and couples that sends abuse back, even tho you have send a nice message? "
That's terrible. People should be sending abuse to you without waiting for a message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about women and couples that sends abuse back, even tho you have send a nice message?
That's terrible. People should be sending abuse to you without waiting for a message."
no they shouldn't, they are adults, not kids. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about women and couples that sends abuse back, even tho you have send a nice message?
Putting "Please" after "Can I fuck you" does not constitute a nice message ffs!!
lol I didn't, all I said once was, hey nice pic, fancy some sex fun this week "
Ah so it's only me you send that to? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about women and couples that sends abuse back, even tho you have send a nice message?
Putting "Please" after "Can I fuck you" does not constitute a nice message ffs!!
lol I didn't, all I said once was, hey nice pic, fancy some sex fun this week
Ah so it's only me you send that to? lol"
No not you lol a couple and woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about women and couples that sends abuse back, even tho you have send a nice message?
Putting "Please" after "Can I fuck you" does not constitute a nice message ffs!!
lol I didn't, all I said once was, hey nice pic, fancy some sex fun this week
Ah so it's only me you send that to? lolNo not you lol a couple and woman "
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"Ok I thought as I have seen so many rant statuses from my friends list and on browsing on fab I'd just throw this out there to all the men who think ladies who don't respond and delete deserve abuse. They don't, simple guys, just because you send a message and you don't see the girl on your "who looked at you bit" it doesn't mean they haven't. It probably means they have and your not for them. So sending an abusive mail on follow up isn't an appropriate response IS IT!!!. Girls are on here for fun, exitment and pleasure do you realy think that your giving any by being a misogynist. Chill out guys and fab happy not angry, your just spoiling this site for everybody else."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never understood this 9 month I've been on here and only met 1couple it does make you think it's a waste of time but then again I don't message every woman and her cat and never would I ever send a message twice I'm not desperate and what I want takes effort from both sides I've had conversations with women but then I get dis intrested because the effort isn't there on there part but who can blame them when there getting 100s of messages and 80% are fantasist 10% are abusive idiots and the good 10% get overlooked for them reasons socials are the way to go or so I've heard but don't really fancy going to clubs on ya own not knowing anyone anyway that's my rant it's weekend lets all have big smiles and happy weekend DUDE X |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Come on now, give the man a break, he probably means well, whatever his intention
To the OP....welcome to the forum, as you can see we are all a bunch of cynics  But don't let it put you off as it can be a fun place on here at times |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Come on now, give the man a break, he probably means well, whatever his intention
To the OP....welcome to the forum, as you can see we are all a bunch of cynics But don't let it put you off as it can be a fun place on here at times "
thanks for the sentiment. My reasons for the post are clear I think. No agenda just what's rattling around in my head. Nice to see it provoked a bit of debating though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never understood this 9 month I've been on here and only met 1couple it does make you think it's a waste of time but then again I don't message every woman and her cat and never would I ever send a message twice I'm not desperate and what I want takes effort from both sides I've had conversations with women but then I get dis intrested because the effort isn't there on there part but who can blame them when there getting 100s of messages and 80% are fantasist 10% are abusive idiots and the good 10% get overlooked for them reasons socials are the way to go or so I've heard but don't really fancy going to clubs on ya own not knowing anyone anyway that's my rant it's weekend lets all have big smiles and happy weekend DUDE X"
Are your statistics scientifically proven ? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Come on now, give the man a break, he probably means well, whatever his intention
To the OP....welcome to the forum, as you can see we are all a bunch of cynics But don't let it put you off as it can be a fun place on here at times thanks for the sentiment. My reasons for the post are clear I think. No agenda just what's rattling around in my head. Nice to see it provoked a bit of debating though."
To be fair, whatever your intention it does come across a but white knight sort of thing.
I wouldn't take too much notice of peoples status anyway, if people were that bothered about single mens mails they would block all men and mail the ones they want instead,
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 23/01/15 14:19:03]
Crawler... not at all. When was the last time a girl sent you abuse after not responding
I'm sure the ladies are more than capable of fighting their own corner and know full well how to report and block. Or are you under the impression that women need looking after??? no I'm not just sick of seeing that girls get abuse and that is all
What about couples? Single blokes? Bi? Gay? Tv/Ts? I take it that's ok then?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone mentioned a "profile help" business.
After this thread - I reckon I could make a small fortune with a "Thread sentence, paragraph and punctuation" business........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone mentioned a "profile help" business.
After this thread - I reckon I could make a small fortune with a "Thread sentence, paragraph and punctuation" business........"
I wondered what the OP meant by exitment.
Excitement or excrement ? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Come on now, give the man a break, he probably means well, whatever his intention
To the OP....welcome to the forum, as you can see we are all a bunch of cynics But don't let it put you off as it can be a fun place on here at times "
Cynics? Us? 
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Actually, yes, you have a point.
Guilty as charged |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never understood this 9 month I've been on here and only met 1couple it does make you think it's a waste of time but then again I don't message every woman and her cat and never would I ever send a message twice I'm not desperate and what I want takes effort from both sides I've had conversations with women but then I get dis intrested because the effort isn't there on there part but who can blame them when there getting 100s of messages and 80% are fantasist 10% are abusive idiots and the good 10% get overlooked for them reasons socials are the way to go or so I've heard but don't really fancy going to clubs on ya own not knowing anyone anyway that's my rant it's weekend lets all have big smiles and happy weekend DUDE X
Are your statistics scientifically proven ? "
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"You tell 'em Dunkin!
And please note ladies of the north west this thread has nothing to do with the fact the gentleman is looking for a meet tonight......"
Dunkin,??
Imw now wanting some donuts... Anybody got any donuts.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Actually i think the OP has mistyped.....i think it was meant to say "women get a grip".....It's the women with the constantly whinging statuses that need to get a grip and learn to use the block button |
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