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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now we have been swinging for over 3 years and enjoyed everything from dogging to clubs and home meets in that time .
Recently we have chosen dogging over anything else as it's a simple and effective way to get spontaneous fun , and as our local club closed there's nowhere nearby .
However , with the cold nights and the same old faces at the local spots we thought we would try going back to meets and events and see what occurred .
And what a waste of time that was - a specific meet was listed, looking for a bi female couple who could accommodate . The resul was over 30 single guys responding , and 27 couldn't accommodate !
The only bi female couple were 126 miles away and we said we would travel 20 !
So we thought sod it
Back to the dogging and wrap up warm as it's so much easier , and the time and effort in going through the channels is more hassle than its worth .
Just a bit of a rant we know - but hey ho - it must work for some of you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was that easy to post and get a meet there wouldn't be the number of why can't I get a meet threads.
I put a lot of effort into this to make it work from chatting to travelling. Effort in etc.... ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a female friend staying over once and we put a meet up for a guy to have ffm fun. Not one responce so much for it being every guys fantasy "
Strange that no one replied to the offer of a threesone with 2 females when so many men are normally on here moaning that they can't get any meets lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every time we've looked for someone we found them and had a great time. We don't sit around waiting though, we're proactive. We only use Fab for meets when we have something specific in mind though. |
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over a year ago
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At the moment I'm not interested in meeting anyone new through fab as I really can't be arsed with all the getting to know you via messaging stuff,it was feeling like too much hard work and got boring
So I'll only make arrangements with long term friends or we'll go to parties or clubs to meet new people
That may change but right now I'm liking it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"At the moment I'm not interested in meeting anyone new through fab as I really can't be arsed with all the getting to know you via messaging stuff,it was feeling like too much hard work and got boring
So I'll only make arrangements with long term friends or we'll go to parties or clubs to meet new people
That may change but right now I'm liking it "
Exactly how we feel - really can'tbe arsed with the messaging and getting to know you malarky - wish we had a club nearer .
It seems we are in a distinct minority in so much as the socialising and strings of messages are the norm ... but it really does get boring when all we are looking for is a bit of fun ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now we have been swinging for over 3 years and enjoyed everything from dogging to clubs and home meets in that time .
Recently we have chosen dogging over anything else as it's a simple and effective way to get spontaneous fun , and as our local club closed there's nowhere nearby .
However , with the cold nights and the same old faces at the local spots we thought we would try going back to meets and events and see what occurred .
And what a waste of time that was - a specific meet was listed, looking for a bi female couple who could accommodate . The resul was over 30 single guys responding , and 27 couldn't accommodate !
The only bi female couple were 126 miles away and we said we would travel 20 !
So we thought sod it
Back to the dogging and wrap up warm as it's so much easier , and the time and effort in going through the channels is more hassle than its worth .
Just a bit of a rant we know - but hey ho - it must work for some of you
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