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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So it seems there are quite a few (myself included) on both these sites... How many are actually on the former to find the love of our lives or is it used to just hook up??? |
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Pof is great for hook ups to meet singles I don't think I have ever been past one drink before going back to a girls house lol
Am on here to meet more open mined people for all the stuff that requires more than two people
I think that's the difference in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I originally joined pof looking for a relationship with a like minded person. Even listed bdsm in my interests lol.
Soon found out it's not the place to find a relationship. I prefer fab but have had lots of guys tell me they have more luck on pof than they do on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think pof is a load off bollocks..ffs mention sex and they run a fukking mile saying that I've just got the phone app so whether its diff on main site or not I don't know  |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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I was on POF as well as a number of dating sites. But was propositioned quite a lot just for sex. Then I found FAB, thought I like sex and actually I am quite happy being single. So closed the POF one down.
I did go on POF looking for a relationship. But like so many free dating sites found it just was a waste of time. Too many aren't actually looking to date at all. |
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Pof is better for meeting singles
On here couples and single women get so many messages per day they can't rread them all & I know this because I was part of a couple for a couple of years
Now am single nobody answers me lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Left POF because too many women messing
me about, felt I'd have to commit to either
finding a relationship or I'm just going to mess
a woman about with the wrong feelings, due to
being on this site....
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I'm also on pof but not logged in since I joined this site! At least on here you know what you're getting, on pof most of the guys would be all 'yeah yeah I'm looking for more than sex, want to find someone nice blah blah' which i was at the time! Then the messages would change and they would be messaging at midnight saying 'shall I come round we can have fun'! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on both, as well as Tinder as well.
I use pof for dating. Though if it's established in the beginning that a fuck is all it is then I'm okay with that. I want to find a boyfriend so I thought I'd try every option  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I'm on pof ...recently reactivated my account, I go through phases where I look for something I've yet to find on fab. .. as yet I've not found it on pof either.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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PoF is very similar to here in many respects.
Many don't know what they want.
Many use it just for sex.
Many lie.
Women get bombarded.
It's free unless you want to use the upgraded features. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it seems there are quite a few (myself included) on both these sites... How many are actually on the former to find the love of our lives or is it used to just hook up??? "
ive hooked up with plenty on fab. None of which girlfriend material.
hot...but extremely mental |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"So it seems there are quite a few (myself included) on both these sites... How many are actually on the former to find the love of our lives or is it used to just hook up???
ive hooked up with plenty on fab. None of which girlfriend material.
hot...but extremely mental"
maybe we dont want to be your girlfriend....yeah im mental...
had profile when i wanted to date..people wanted to move me in straight away...demanding and being quite honest, not my thing..found here im happy..its more honest... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it seems there are quite a few (myself included) on both these sites... How many are actually on the former to find the love of our lives or is it used to just hook up???
ive hooked up with plenty on fab. None of which girlfriend material.
hot...but extremely mental
maybe we dont want to be your girlfriend....yeah im mental...
had profile when i wanted to date..people wanted to move me in straight away...demanding and being quite honest, not my thing..found here im happy..its more honest..."
I meant pof not fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even though all/most of the girls seem to list 'looking for a relationship'? And 'if your looking for a one night stand, move on'"
best thing is 8 out of 10 girls ive pulled on there have all been 'looking for a relationship' but give it up in a matter of hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even though all/most of the girls seem to list 'looking for a relationship'? And 'if your looking for a one night stand, move on'
best thing is 8 out of 10 girls ive pulled on there have all been 'looking for a relationship' but give it up in a matter of hours"
Nice lol back to getting the rod out then :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a profile on POF a few years back and had a number of "successful" meets, including my current partner. She introduced me to Fab and we've had 1 play meet and a couple of socials - personally, I definitely 'got more' on POF rather than FAB. I've now got a single profile on FAB and I just use it to send messages to women who are too arrogant (sorry, busy!) to even reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even though all/most of the girls seem to list 'looking for a relationship'? And 'if your looking for a one night stand, move on'
best thing is 8 out of 10 girls ive pulled on there have all been 'looking for a relationship' but give it up in a matter of hours"
Very gentlemanly. So what exactly do they give up and you presumably take? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even though all/most of the girls seem to list 'looking for a relationship'? And 'if your looking for a one night stand, move on'
best thing is 8 out of 10 girls ive pulled on there have all been 'looking for a relationship' but give it up in a matter of hours
Very gentlemanly. So what exactly do they give up and you presumably take?"
not quite the imaginative type are you? Haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See Fab is for me to indulge and enjoy some fantasies and POF was to find someone i could be with not just for sex but tbh most of the time all i got was messages from guys I had blocked on here saying 'wanna fuck I know your a slut on fab'
Guys seem to think because us ladies have a healthy sex drive we arent good enough to date |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not necessarily, but it does make me smile when people have filters on their pof profiles 'must not be looking for intimate encounters', 'must not have messaged others looking for sex,' yet their fab profiles list numerous recent verifications from meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I closed down all of my other accounts when I found FAB because it suits my needs better and i'm hoping it's less likely any friends or relatives will find us on here! |
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Somewhere in between would suit me. I enjoy fab inc parties and group sex. But it would be nice to have someone for casual dating as well, meals and evenings out, but who is ok with the swinging thing. But I think I'm asking too much so I'll carry on fabbing for now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even though all/most of the girls seem to list 'looking for a relationship'? And 'if your looking for a one night stand, move on'
best thing is 8 out of 10 girls ive pulled on there have all been 'looking for a relationship' but give it up in a matter of hours"
Is this before or after you've pulled?! Sounds like your technique needs refining.......! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Somewhere in between would suit me. I enjoy fab inc parties and group sex. But it would be nice to have someone for casual dating as well, meals and evenings out, but who is ok with the swinging thing. But I think I'm asking too much so I'll carry on fabbing for now "
There's sites for that too. |
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