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OMG why cant i find any1 to play with lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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please honest responses, have a look at my profile ladies and gents....any tips as im having trouble. 
my pics are clear face and body, friends only can see but if i message i always attach a face pic.
where am i going wrong??
thanks in advance x  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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maybe dip your cock in a glass of iced water.. looks a tad big and may scare some.
apart from that.... your profile is nicely written, you come across as a decent lad.
maybe try and attend a club, a social in your area, post more in the forums and chat to people and build relationships..
welcome, hope it works out for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apart from a straight man looking for TV/TS your profile looks fine, you haven’t been here very long so give it time and try and get yourself known in chat and around the forums and maybe even attend a social, whatever you do good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think there anything wrong with your profile,its a lot better than some on here
I think its more about patience,you've only been here a short while and it can take time,like View says try and go to the clu_s or socials in your area or join in here or chat to try and get to know people
Theres a party near you at a club in Jan next year, a good way to meet new people 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just hang in there fella & don't worry about it too much, it's all ment to be fun after all! I have to disagree with the parties/clu_s etc - I've never attended one & haven't really had any trouble at all on here...Just pick your messages carefully & believe me, you will have the required results!  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"please honest responses, have a look at my profile ladies and gents....any tips as im having trouble.
my pics are clear face and body, friends only can see but if i message i always attach a face pic.
where am i going wrong??
thanks in advance x "
Your profile looks ok to me, although even though I like a cock picture on a profile, it pokes my eye out everytime someone posts if it is on the avatar.
As an aside and the fact I am hungry cold and tired, it took me a while to figure out your name, I couldn't get past reading it as Free no wessex.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put more pics on. Not of your wanger though.
Errr hmmmm don't speak on my behalf "
pmsl. ooops sorry. Show more of your wanger too, to keep the ladies happy. It'll pi$$ us guys off though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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8 weeks? 8 weeks - it's not magic here you know?
If you think the site is full of timewasters just go somewhere else. It is not appealing to tag everyone on this site who is happily having fun with that name.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"8 weeks? 8 weeks - it's not magic here you know?
If you think the site is full of timewasters just go somewhere else. It is not appealing to tag everyone on this site who is happily having fun with that name. "
Bit of a harsh reply. He's not complained |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't please all the people all of the time.
For us we probably wouldn't even look at your profile because your avatar is a cock pic and I am straight, I hate being confronted by a dick as soon as I click on a profile.
By all means have your wanger on _iew but we won't even entertain chatting to people who don't have any pictures, unless of course they are sent to us in the first contact ie an e-mail.
Your profile is quite good but it does seem to be all about what you want, even the OMG title of the thread suggesting that you think everyone should be chomping at the bit to meet you.
Couples and females alike all want to see what's in it for everyone, you cannot guarantee to satisfy everyone you can promise to try your best.
Can travel, great, but how far.
Can accommodate, overnight or just for the playtime.
No mention of the womans partner, I am straight but do like to think that I can get along with the guys we meet, I want to know that he will respect me and more importantly my partner, I don't want to be dismissed as irrelevant.
As I said, pretty good profile as they go on here but my personal opinion is that you can never have too much information on them, some will ignore it all some will read bits and some will read it all, give them the choice by having the information there so that there is something for everyone.
Clu_s and socials are a good idea despite what some think, they certainly can't do you any harm, try them if you don't like them at least you know they are not for you.
At least your trying so with patience you will be rewarded sooner or later.
Most women and couples on here are inundated by mails from single guys so apart from standing out from the crowd you have to understand that many will wait to be contacted and not do the contacting themselves, so put yourself a good copy and paste mail together to send out BUT, always read the peoples profile, respect it and add to your copy and paste message something which shows you have read thier profile and something which personalises your mail to them/her.
Have fun and be lucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"8 weeks? 8 weeks - it's not magic here you know?
If you think the site is full of timewasters just go somewhere else. It is not appealing to tag everyone on this site who is happily having fun with that name. "
where did that come from a polite requst for advice is all I read,not a single mention of timewasters at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus Jed. That reply longer than war and peace"
But quite short by my standards, sometimes I just talk about the election in the USA to make my replies longer and one time at Band Camp I was playing the trumpet and then stuck it .................................. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"8 weeks? 8 weeks - it's not magic here you know?
If you think the site is full of timewasters just go somewhere else. It is not appealing to tag everyone on this site who is happily having fun with that name.
where did that come from a polite requst for advice is all I read,not a single mention of timewasters at all"
he asked ladies to look at his profile, I did and read it there. Just felt it was not good to read about timewasters, he has not even been here that long.
Just my opinion.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"8 weeks? 8 weeks - it's not magic here you know?
If you think the site is full of timewasters just go somewhere else. It is not appealing to tag everyone on this site who is happily having fun with that name.
where did that come from a polite requst for advice is all I read,not a single mention of timewasters at all
he asked ladies to look at his profile, I did and read it there. Just felt it was not good to read about timewasters, he has not even been here that long.
Just my opinion. "
I think I must be immune now to the timewaster stuff on profiles because your a_solutely right its in there and I did'nt even notice it |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"8 weeks? 8 weeks - it's not magic here you know?
If you think the site is full of timewasters just go somewhere else. It is not appealing to tag everyone on this site who is happily having fun with that name.
Bit of a harsh reply. He's not complained"
he is about half way down his profile.... i'd have another read 
but be nice is right.... he has only been here 8 weeks.... and it took some of us months and months to get our first meet... so the profile is only part of the big picture and reading negative stuff in it is a turn off.... sorry but it is!
your profile is your chance to make a great 1st impression... so putting negative stuff in it doesn't leave the best picture
as I say to everyone.... time, patience, common sense... you get out what you put in! so what makes people scream "good god I have to meet that guy!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its just a case of supply and demand the site supplies more men than is needed lol
Seriously though remember single guys out number people looking for single guys but about 500 to 1 lol so though you are probably a lovely guy and your profile seems fine to me getting a meet at such as young age with no verifications really is like winning the lottery
people do win the lottery though so chin up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*read's OP's profile*
You've got plenty of friends - why not meet them? "
i really dont think thats his choice
Im pretty sure it takes both parties to agree to meet not just him to skip through his friends list and think...."humm i think i'll meet ann today" lol |
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"*read's OP's profile*
You've got plenty of friends - why not meet them?
i really dont think thats his choice
Im pretty sure it takes both parties to agree to meet not just him to skip through his friends list and think...."humm i think i'll meet ann today" lol"
Now there's an idea. You mean, that's not how it works? |
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Ok, there is little wrong with your profile, except why would a straight man want to meet TV's etc? But thats your preference.
I personally wouldn't meet you because you don't have the safe sex box ticked.
But other than that, the only advice I can give you is stop whinging, people don't like negativity.
8 weeks isn't long enough to give people on the site a fair chance. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks mate, sometimes i really take it personal when no replies come through i start to think, is it me lol
its is all fun, and i do have a life outside of fab!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok i understand u want me to go, but just understand that even if i do go you bf of fb's cock wont look any bigger lol
and it was not a complaint.....wanna try again?? |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"*read's OP's profile*
You've got plenty of friends - why not meet them?
i really dont think thats his choice
Im pretty sure it takes both parties to agree to meet not just him to skip through his friends list and think...."humm i think i'll meet ann today" lol"
I accept it takes 2 (3) to tango, but if I was short of meets, surely I'd have a better chance with friends than strangers? That's why they're friends, isn't it? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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actually well done OP..... you are the first I have ever seen that comes back and answers all the offers of help.
many people post asking for advice and you never hear from them again.
well done you sir. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"ok i understand u want me to go, but just understand that even if i do go you bf of fb's cock wont look any bigger lol
and it was not a complaint.....wanna try again??"
"Reply with quote" is the option when you want to target your response at a specific individual on the thread.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok i understand u want me to go, but just understand that even if i do go you bf of fb's cock wont look any bigger lol
and it was not a complaint.....wanna try again??
"Reply with quote" is the option when you want to target your response at a specific individual on the thread.
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Nice one Sharp...
Took me ages to work that one out and ended up posting "non quoted" comments which came over as totally random..
Thanks to the kind person who nudged me in the right direction, as you have just done for the OP.... you know who you are.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, anyone who has on their profile "I'm experienced, don't need to be taught anything and I satisfy" is not for me!
I'm looking for playmates who are open to new things and wishing to push boundaries. One trick ponies not for me.
I like discerning men. Men with taste and appreciation for the finer things in life: namely me! Therefore a "straight" man who would sleep with anyone, anywhere including tvs...sorry not for me, but every pot has its lid.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok i understand u want me to go, but just understand that even if i do go you bf of fb's cock wont look any bigger lol
and it was not a complaint.....wanna try again??
"Reply with quote" is the option when you want to target your response at a specific individual on the thread.
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guess it was meant for me but I do not really see why he makes such a comment about bf of fb as he was the one asking for advice. Showing his personality? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok i understand u want me to go, but just understand that even if i do go you bf of fb's cock wont look any bigger lol
and it was not a complaint.....wanna try again??
"Reply with quote" is the option when you want to target your response at a specific individual on the thread.
guess it was meant for me but I do not really see why he makes such a comment about bf of fb as he was the one asking for advice. Showing his personality?"
Hmmmmm...I thought his comment was rude and uncalled for: highlighting an arrogance I don't think many will find attractive! |
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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago
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"You can't please all the people all of the time.
For us we probably wouldn't even look at your profile because your avatar is a cock pic and I am straight, I hate being confronted by a dick as soon as I click on a profile.
By all means have your wanger on _iew but we won't even entertain chatting to people who don't have any pictures, unless of course they are sent to us in the first contact ie an e-mail.
Your profile is quite good but it does seem to be all about what you want, even the OMG title of the thread suggesting that you think everyone should be chomping at the bit to meet you.
Couples and females alike all want to see what's in it for everyone, you cannot guarantee to satisfy everyone you can promise to try your best.
Can travel, great, but how far.
Can accommodate, overnight or just for the playtime.
No mention of the womans partner, I am straight but do like to think that I can get along with the guys we meet, I want to know that he will respect me and more importantly my partner, I don't want to be dismissed as irrelevant.
As I said, pretty good profile as they go on here but my personal opinion is that you can never have too much information on them, some will ignore it all some will read bits and some will read it all, give them the choice by having the information there so that there is something for everyone.
Clu_s and socials are a good idea despite what some think, they certainly can't do you any harm, try them if you don't like them at least you know they are not for you.
At least your trying so with patience you will be rewarded sooner or later.
Most women and couples on here are inundated by mails from single guys so apart from standing out from the crowd you have to understand that many will wait to be contacted and not do the contacting themselves, so put yourself a good copy and paste mail together to send out BUT, always read the peoples profile, respect it and add to your copy and paste message something which shows you have read thier profile and something which personalises your mail to them/her.
Have fun and be lucky "
When the next chapter out can't wait LOL. JED
So good advice there jed, By the way you said once you to old and that you only get meets because of the miss, I am sure your wrong !!.
To the O.P. i thnk your profile is ok, just wait and see like most say. Some people get meets straight away as they in city and loads of swingers or if your like us live in the country meets can be a little hard to get. Even couple have problems arranging meets.
So keep your pecker up and christmas is cumming soon !!! LOL
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