"I think it's great that you can see who doesn't fancy the look of you.... because that's just about all it's good for."
Heh, so true 
When I became a supporter I was intrigued by this feature and would click the link in between reading threads just in case someone had looked at my profile.
Then I realised that, as you say, all you really get out of it is knowing who looked at your details and decided it wasn't worth the effort to contact you.
Saying that, I still click the link. But I'm down to only clicking it once per day. My psychiatrist says that with a bit of effort, I should be able to ween myself off it completely by the New Year. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I love it....
best is when a single guy verifys a female on here...
he will suddenly be looked at my most of her previous meets.
sadly it comes across like dogs marking their territory.
I sometimes leak pee laughing. |
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"we find it strange that you have to be a site supervisor to see whos looked at you pay for it other sites dont what do you think of this"
I didn't know you had to be a site supervisor to see who's looked at you, we are silver members  and this facility is just one of a few good additional extras that you can pay for. We don't really use it much though. Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it, its an added feature that has its uses, but I wouldn’t regard it as something I couldn’t live without, or as something that makes a dramatic difference in achieving successful meets…..
When I first became a site sponsor I was perhaps more intrigued to see who had _iewed my profile, so much so, I remember once quickly clicking through the last 100 to _iew mine, only to find that around 80-odd of them were so called straight males…. so I think that just about sums up its worth for me, really…. Now’t to get to excited about … but nice to have anyway,,,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whoooo-hooooo...... I can see you..... but you cant see me,,,, cuz I've got my hands covering my eyes,,,,, |
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The thing is... it doesn't tell you how long they looked at your profile for... or why.
Someone looking twice or more isn't always a positive indicator. I always go back for further looks at ones which I think are nasty... usually because I can't believe it the first time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There ya go, purely in the interests of non-relevant useless information…. I just check-out the last 100 members to _iew my profile,,,,, and,,,,,,, yep…….. 78 straight guys……. 7 couples….. 2 single women and the rests are bi or bi curious guys,,,, and j-wanna know how many of them even bothered to say Hi….. nahhh,,,, I didn’t think ya would….  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have loads look at me and some do 5 or 6 times a day same people and some never say a thingjust look but its allso nice to see the ones who are looking at you because thay look at feedback you give one of your meets then thay Wish to see what your like.lol |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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I may well be one of soxy's 78, as I am always impressed by the effort TV's go to, so will have looked once. No message though, as we're not a match.
I'll also look at people's profiles multiple times to perve their pics...or remind myself what they're looking for, etc.
I have been known to contact people who looked a lot of times - it's usually a welcome message.
Finally, I agree with View - if I verify someone, my looked at me page becomes a bunch of people who, I guess, must have that person on their hotlist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we had a new cpl to the site once look at our profile about 15 times in 2 days.
then they deleted their profile.
that was a bit hard to take, thought maybe we'd grow on em 
everyone who looks now seem to be bloody miles away..so they're doing just that.looking  |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"I love it....
best is when a single guy verifys a female on here...
he will suddenly be looked at my most of her previous meets.
sadly it comes across like dogs marking their territory.
I sometimes leak pee laughing. "
Aint that the truth! |
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Surely if someone looks at your profile but doesnt message you it means their not interested in meeting you. They had this on another site and people where obessive over who had looked at their profile, i never bothered to look at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you would think so but why would 20 different profiles all from over 200 miles away look. its not because there's a possibility of a meet. some people look just because they can. i suspect some look just in case they're missing something.
not on ours they ain't. its bog standard.
david baddiel once said that he'd taken to watching porn on fast forward, he then realised as he'd seen every permutation of sex what the fuck was he hoping to find?
he still watched it tho? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I look at people's profiles when I amazingly have some free time and I'm at a loose end. Sometimes I look out of simple curiosity. And sometimes I look for a good old perv! 
So I figure people could be looking at my profile for any of these reasons... |
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"i have loads look at me and some do 5 or 6 times a day same people and some never say a thingjust look but its allso nice to see the ones who are looking at you because thay look at feedback you give one of your meets then thay Wish to see what your like.lol"
Just because one browses now and then, doesn't mean we want what's on offer!  |
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"i have loads look at me and some do 5 or 6 times a day same people and some never say a thingjust look but its allso nice to see the ones who are looking at you because thay look at feedback you give one of your meets then thay Wish to see what your like.lol
Just because one browses now and then, doesn't mean we want what's on offer! "
I totally agree.... infact ,,,, sometimes I even touch things which I've no intention of buying as I walk around shops... ...... shoe's mostly |
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"i have loads look at me and some do 5 or 6 times a day same people and some never say a thingjust look but its allso nice to see the ones who are looking at you because thay look at feedback you give one of your meets then thay Wish to see what your like.lol
Just because one browses now and then, doesn't mean we want what's on offer!
I totally agree.... infact ,,,, sometimes I even touch things which I've no intention of buying as I walk around shops... ...... shoe's mostly "
we love looking at all the profiles of the people who post on the forums.
they often have a lot more to say than "nice tits"or have you got msn!
curiosity mostly but hey ya never know what your gonna cum accross..........no pun intended! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we find it strange that you have to be a site supervisor to see whos looked at you pay for it other sites dont what do you think of this"
a chat site i use has this where you have to pay to see but i like it and i like this site so i will quite happily support it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have loads look at me and some do 5 or 6 times a day same people and some never say a thingjust look but its allso nice to see the ones who are looking at you because thay look at feedback you give one of your meets then thay Wish to see what your like.lol
Just because one browses now and then, doesn't mean we want what's on offer! "
true but same people 5 or 6 times a day most days it a bit strange maybe i should mail them ,, lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have loads look at me and some do 5 or 6 times a day same people and some never say a thingjust look but its allso nice to see the ones who are looking at you because thay look at feedback you give one of your meets then thay Wish to see what your like.lol
Just because one browses now and then, doesn't mean we want what's on offer! true but same people 5 or 6 times a day most days it a bit strange maybe i should mail them ,, lol x"
i must come have a look then x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely if someone looks at your profile but doesnt message you it means their not interested in meeting you. They had this on another site and people where obessive over who had looked at their profile, i never bothered to look at it"
I look at profiles, because I am a nosey bugger! I hardly ever message people as not looking to meet (right now) but this doesn't mean I don't like the look of them, or am not interested. I also may look back at the same profile because I am forgetful or because "holy shit" that pic was hot and I want to see it again  and well if ive looked more than twice I really need to stop drooling lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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of course people look at our profile all the time but never contact us, Sasha is attractive and it's nice people look at her but then they see the pictures of me and my age and don't want to meet, understandable and perfectly acceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Site 'supervisor' ?
Is that something like a mod ?
We're site supporters and we can see who's looked at us.
What do we think of it ???
Dunno, we never use it, but do you feel a bit vexed because you have to pay for the facility ? Sorry I've just not quite latched on the the purpose of your thread, maybe you could explain your feelings about the matter in a little bit more detail.
Please come and sit on our special couch and talk about it ...
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Surely if someone looks at your profile but doesnt message you it means their not interested in meeting you.
...or they could be shy. Or choosing their moment
Or not stopped laughing yet."
Oi!
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"Well ive only just become a site supporter and i love the looked at me list, i can browse down it, peak at people and block anyone i like, married guys cheating for instance
And message people without conducting a search  "
If that's how you are using it then I'm gonna have to go and _iew your profile - just to make sure I appear on your radar, you understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A feature I look at probably once a day, and most of the people looking at me are guys, the odd couple and fewer females. When I uploaded new pictures a few weeks ago I had loads of both straight and bi guys looking at me...not a problem, but maybe I should change my style of pics, as I'm trying to attract ladies not guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know you say other pay sites don't charge you to see who's perving, perhaps not, but i bet you have to pay to send and receive messages?
it's not at all strange, there has to be some benefits.
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