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im experianced so why am i not taken seriously
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im not here to pretend or make out im anythin im not so why do i get so many timewasters or people talkin to me like im the one who gonna back down is this a sex site or a chance for people to belittle the percentage who want to get a somethin worth while , i aint desperate just thought if wanted fun a sex site be easyist to find it , feel like im not good enough but know i am why are u on a sex site if u dont plan on meetin for sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple "
Agreed. Your post constantly refers to yourself as "I" not we, seems odd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus it is a swingers site and not a sex site. Swinging is a whole lot more than sex x"
It annoys us when people think it's just about getting your end away on this site we as a couple don't look for just a quick fuck we want to enjoy the company and explore and experience new things |
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
Near enough |
"Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple
Agreed. Your post constantly refers to yourself as "I" not we, seems odd. "
This
Oh and you have plenty of verifications saying you meet, including 3/4 days ago, it's now the working week and also school holidays for some, whining and moaning won't really get you anywhere faster  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
7 veris this month so what are you complaining about?
If you're experienced, and you've been on here for a while (which your profile says you have), then you know that some times are quieter than others.
As others have pointed out, it's school holidays and a lot of people will be busy with family stuff or away on holiday.
Also, what's with the "I"? You're a couple apparently? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bud you've had plenty of meets yet you're moaning, kinda takes the piss a little out of ones who are genuinely struggling with no meets at all. Surely you know how to spot the signs of a timewaster by now, or to rephrase that, someone who isn't interested in meeting you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple "
The post is written as a single...true. But not necessarily as a guy. All verifications are from men. All refer to either couple or the lady of the couple.
My logic says the post is from the lady? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have had a fair few meets not sure what you are complaining about."
To be fair it is his other half that is getting the fun and not the OP. All the veris are from men rather than couples which means she has the smile on her face and he is missing out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have had a fair few meets not sure what you are complaining about.
To be fair it is his other half that is getting the fun and not the OP. All the veris are from men rather than couples which means she has the smile on her face and he is missing out"
lol thats true I guess watching her having fun is not as fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You aren't my type so I'm out
Try using we not I as it will reflect you are a couple"
That's not right just using we or I
I reckon that people look too much into things here stupid things like that And they don't message
My theory is go to clubs people travel miles to them some every week make a easy to remember user name
Don't forget not every couple or single girl can meet every day at any time
I am lucky my kids are grown up but when younger it was a logistical nightmare going out .
Like always clubs clubs parties parties social social leave the one on one meets to those that have the time to spend yonks sifting through Internet wannabes |
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"Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple
The post is written as a single...true. But not necessarily as a guy. All verifications are from men. All refer to either couple or the lady of the couple.
My logic says the post is from the lady?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of pictures of the female enjoying herself. None of the male or of them in just some ordinary poses, all just having sex and like some have said, bareback too. But you have veris, so its obviously working. Hope it continues this way for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try using we not I as it will reflect you are a couple...
That's not right just using we or I
I reckon that people look too much into things here stupid things like that And they don't message.
I was referring to the OP where it is written in the singular. I did not read their profile as I'm not interested. Many previous posters mention the same...
Did you highlight their comments?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could possibly be because you converse as a single guy and therefore show no signs of being an actual couple
The post is written as a single...true. But not necessarily as a guy. All verifications are from men. All refer to either couple or the lady of the couple.
My logic says the post is from the lady?"
Spot on, i didn't realise the OP was a 'couple'.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus it is a swingers site and not a sex site. Swinging is a whole lot more than sex x"
Very good comment. Even at clubs I notice the tendency towards social gathering is more common than sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not here to pretend or make out im anythin im not so why do i get so many timewasters or people talkin to me like im the one who gonna back down is this a sex site or a chance for people to belittle the percentage who want to get a somethin worth while , i aint desperate just thought if wanted fun a sex site be easyist to find it , feel like im not good enough but know i am why are u on a sex site if u dont plan on meetin for sex "
We are , we do , and often  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus it is a swingers site and not a sex site. Swinging is a whole lot more than sex x
Very good comment. Even at clubs I notice the tendency towards social gathering is more common than sex"
That's why we stopped going to clubs |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Lots of pictures of the female enjoying herself. None of the male or of them in just some ordinary poses, all just having sex and like some have said, bareback too. But you have veris, so its obviously working. Hope it continues this way for you. "
Was just about to post the same ... surely this what the OP counts as experienced |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not complaing bout meets just the way get spoken to , sorry am a couple aint single male wouldnt have the verivications to say i am if wastnt , funny how i make a point about timewasters putting us down then u all attack sayin i must be timewaster and im ungratefull , if i have so many people sayin im genuine and i am lucky why all the put downs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Coz that how he like it , and some of tge pics are him , sorry im greedy yet aint my wishs , u all judge me yet it how he want it and he my man and i dont think twice bout meets only him , glad u all think u know it all , and swinging as a coouple is only sex as if u in love what else cud a stranger give but a emotionless toy to get off on |
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
Near enough |
"Coz that how he like it , and some of tge pics are him , sorry im greedy yet aint my wishs , u all judge me yet it how he want it and he my man and i dont think twice bout meets only him , glad u all think u know it all , and swinging as a coouple is only sex as if u in love what else cud a stranger give but a emotionless toy to get off on "
^^ this says to me that you are more into this than him, maybe he wants connections and swinging relationships, you want a fuck behind the bike sheds. Just,y opinion, not a judgement. It sounds like a lack of communication between you as a couple tbh.
What a lot have said is its very difficult to know who is posting, maybe an idea - as most couples do - and sign off as him or her, you know just give us a clue
You started this thread asking why you weren't being taken seriously, I think your latest posting answers that question OP, try talking to each other and finding what you BOTH want. |
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