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Does any older couples or even single females ever go for younger guys?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im 19, i know its young but im finding it hard to meet on this site :/ have had some of another site but this one seems against me... Anyone in this forum gone for a younger guy before? and let me knw of your experiance if thats ok? (i mean good or bad lol) Ed xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well you are inbetween two of my childrens ages so deffo a no go for me. How old are you looking at? I would imagine people old enough to be your mother would say no but if you set your sights on people say 30 or younger you may have better luck.
I've had guys aged between 18 and 22 msg/request/wink me and all been turned away. However I do have a 22 year old on my friends as all he asked for was some guidance lol told him it was strictly friends! I did have one msg off a 20 yr old saying he wished I was his step-mother....thought that was a bit unnerving so hit the delete and block button straight away :P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can only speak for myself: you're the same age as my youngest child therefore I would NEVER play with someone your age.
There are hundreds of experienced men my age to chose from to be messing around with kids.
That's not meant in a condescending way: you are the same age as my kid!
Good luck though, I've just stated my opinion others may wish to play with you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were all for meeting younger guys, till they kept letting us down..
Dont personally have a problem with the age difference and prefer the person to the age.
But you do need to make more effort with a profile.
Katie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Afraid I have to agree about the profile, says nothing about you and 4 cock pics.
Plus as my daughter is 28 and my son is 25 I don't meet younger guys either.
Good luck in your search though, have fun. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hmmmmm fascinating that people associate age with their children - wonder where that idea comes from? It would not be that that would be a put off, just that if we want an extra guy we already have a reserve.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we don't have kids, so age isn't a problem.
Mind you, when I was young I fancied older women but not once did the fact that they were a similar age to my mam put me off. 
Trace has played with younger guys but doesn't actively seek them out.
However, if she was in the market for one, the fact that you have a bareback pic on your profile and don't have 'safe sex' in your interests would definately be off putting. 
XXXX |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"However, if she was in the market for one, the fact that you have a bareback pic on your profile and don't have 'safe sex' in your interests would definately be off putting."
Damn, I thought it would be longer before someone pointed it out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"However, if she was in the market for one, the fact that you have a bareback pic on your profile and don't have 'safe sex' in your interests would definately be off putting.
Damn, I thought it would be longer before someone pointed it out.
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doesn't look particularly long to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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make sure you have a face pic even if its in your pivate gallery like me, dont lie, and dont agree to things just to get a meet if you no fully well ur not into that |
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Hi Ed, I'm 40 and wouldn't go near anyone more than 5 years my junior...just my preference. You have also go a pic of you barebacking and unless that is your regular girlfriend that could be off putting for some. At facepic would go a long way too!
Good luckx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hmmmmm fascinating that people associate age with their children - wonder where that idea comes from? It would not be that that would be a put off, just that if we want an extra guy we already have a reserve.
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For some of us we don't feel comfortable playing with: married people, bi people, people older than our parents, people younger than our children, people from different ethnic groups!
It doesn't mean we're moralistic, homophobic, geriatric loathing, incestuous bigots just people who like to play with people we are comfortable with. I don't understand how people with their own set of values when choosing playmates read something sinister whenever people post stating they feel uncomfortable playing with those younger than their children! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can only speak for myself: you're the same age as my youngest child therefore I would NEVER play with someone your age.
There are hundreds of experienced men my age to chose from to be messing around with kids.
That's not meant in a condescending way: you are the same age as my kid!
Good luck though, I've just stated my opinion others may wish to play with you!"
Absolutely agree there, much prefer the experience maturity and imperfections of my own age group than someone 30 yrs younger than me, 3 yrs younger than my son, what a gross thought  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Again thanks for advice and i am safe that was someone i knew for a while in that picture xx
Fair enough, why take it off then?"
Just so people don't automaticly pre judge me. Thinking i don't practice safe sex. Also i understand everyones points  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im 19, i know its young but im finding it hard to meet on this site :/ have had some of another site but this one seems against me... Anyone in this forum gone for a younger guy before? and let me knw of your experiance if thats ok? (i mean good or bad lol) Ed xx"
i never really get messages like this
where people say how well they do on other sites but finding it hard on here
if it was me i'd just stick to the sites i find meets on and not bother with the ones i finding hard |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im 19, i know its young but im finding it hard to meet on this site :/ have had some of another site but this one seems against me... Anyone in this forum gone for a younger guy before? and let me knw of your experiance if thats ok? (i mean good or bad lol) Ed xx
i never really get messages like this
where people say how well they do on other sites but finding it hard on here
if it was me i'd just stick to the sites i find meets on and not bother with the ones i finding hard "
That makes sense to us naughty. It seems to us that lots of people are getting loads of meets from these other sites.
As for meeting younger guys , we do , but not 19 year olds. No offence intended to the OP but surely at 19 years old most blokes are new to sex , leave alone swinging . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hmmmmm fascinating that people associate age with their children - wonder where that idea comes from? It would not be that that would be a put off, just that if we want an extra guy we already have a reserve.
For some of us we don't feel comfortable playing with: married people, bi people, people older than our parents, people younger than our children, people from different ethnic groups!
It doesn't mean we're moralistic, homophobic, geriatric loathing, incestuous bigots just people who like to play with people we are comfortable with. I don't understand how people with their own set of values when choosing playmates read something sinister whenever people post stating they feel uncomfortable playing with those younger than their children! "
I don't understand why people complain when other people don't understand why something is so. |
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A 20 year old has been my wife's youngest so far, although her preferred age range is probs 25-30. We haven't met that many guys though. We don't really have that much of a problem with age if a guy is mature in attitude with a decent brain and some good decent conversational skills (as well as other things) We don't have kids either so no queezy feelings of being with folks who we are old enough to parent...lol |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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I like young guys, but the brain is the important body part, closely followed by the facial appearance. And I do love a longhaired guy.
If all these things fall into place, then I might be your "girl" lol
Jane x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A 20 year old has been my wife's youngest so far, although her preferred age range is probs 25-30. We haven't met that many guys though. We don't really have that much of a problem with age if a guy is mature in attitude with a decent brain and some good decent conversational skills (as well as other things) We don't have kids either so no queezy feelings of being with folks who we are old enough to parent...lol"
i am going to say as a 20 year old male that this is bang on the head i find my age doesnt count for nothing once a conversation has been had....
just be polite and things all come togther |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 35, 36 at xmas.
In all long term relationships I've been in, ive always been a little bit of a toy boy but then again the age gap hasn't been too great and only a few had kids.
One relationship I was in when i was 22 was with a fantastic Rock chick but her daughter was nearly 17 and that relationship didn't last because as other have said, its a phycological thing, the age of the other persons kids playing a huge part.
I'm divorced now, but realization is that i'm likely to be looking at people from sort of 25+ purely because I value experience and also because (now as a father myself) I appreciate adult company in a different way.
your profile really could do with some effort, i've revised mine several times having taken advice form others.
I think you need to take the advice on board, maybe aim nearer to your own age on here, less likely to be turned away but no real profile isn't going to win you any awards or instantly stand you out.
Wish you luck, hope you take everyones advice and it helps you find what you feel you need. |
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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago
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We have the problem of being young age wise, but we've learned to get on with it now and although a hell of a lot of our messages never got returned, or sent back with too young we keep pressing on. There are people out there, but then youve got to match all the other criteria too like height and smoking/none smoking etc. Swings and roundabouts. But good luck. |
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