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Why is phone sex frowned on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here! "
It does nothing for me personally, so why would I engage in it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have nothing against phone sex although i wouldn't do it with someone that i don't already have a good rapport with and would only do it with someone i intend to meet as part of the build up, or someone i have met. It would do nothing for me at all with a stranger or someone i didn't want to have sex with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here! "
Is it frowned on? Niche maybe but I don't think it is frowned upon as such. Most people are here for physical interaction. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here!
It does nothing for me personally, so why would I engage in it?"
Ohh your the ENGAGED number ha ha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have nothing against phone sex although i wouldn't do it with someone that i don't already have a good rapport with and would only do it with someone i intend to meet as part of the build up, or someone i have met. It would do nothing for me at all with a stranger or someone i didn't want to have sex with."
Sometimes its not all about sex, its talking to a person to get to know them! Also its nice to talk and have fun with people you like that are miles away from you! Some of my best meets have started with phone sex as a way of getting to know the person!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here!
Is it frowned on? Niche maybe but I don't think it is frowned upon as such. Most people are here for physical interaction."
Its great when physical interaction isn't possible!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here! "
I don't think it's frowned on, it just doesn't do anything for most people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here! "
It does nothing for me, I won't give out my number to a random stranger and there is no way I'd buy a second phone for use on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here!
Is it frowned on? Niche maybe but I don't think it is frowned upon as such. Most people are here for physical interaction.
Its great when physical interaction isn't possible! "
Not for everyone and men get lazy if they think they don't have to get out of bed to have an orgasm. It's one step down to asking for a blow job to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here!
I don't think it's frowned on, it just doesn't do anything for most people."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's rather boring, isn't what I'd consider to be swinging as such and I'm not here to provide a free wank service for someone...there are phone lines for that kind of service..
I think it becomes clear the longer we're here as well that once people have shot their load, they're less likely to actually meet in the flesh... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really can't do it .Rather have the real thing.Phone sex is boring .Flirting is good if it's a build up to a meet on kik .But that's it I think I'd laugh with phone sex.  |
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here! "
Everything else is frowned upon so why show phone sex be any different?????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here!
Everything else is frowned upon so why show phone sex be any different?????? "
True.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Didn't know it was 'frowned on' on this site; I'm sure a lot of people get some kicks from it.
Personally, I use this site to arrange actual meetings and for an occasional laugh in the forum! |
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"Didn't know it was 'frowned on' on this site; I'm sure a lot of people get some kicks from it.
Personally, I use this site to arrange actual meetings and for an occasional laugh in the forum!"
That's not acceptable behaviour anymore either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here!
Is it frowned on? Niche maybe but I don't think it is frowned upon as such. Most people are here for physical interaction."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here! "
Yes but the problem I found is my insurance didn't cover water damage! So check what cover you have  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I work hard to look this cheap.
My voice, however, is cultured and deep. It's often been suggested the I should be on the radio or do voice overs.
Phone sex isn't what you might expect if you called me! (I get several requests a day for it) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here! "
Phone sex is never a fantastic experience in my opinion
I don't frown upon it but I have found guys who ask for phone sex have no intentions of meeting and is sooner spend my time talking to guys who want to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I work hard to look this cheap.
My voice, however, is cultured and deep. It's often been suggested the I should be on the radio or do voice overs.
Phone sex isn't what you might expect if you called me! (I get several requests a day for it) "
This really made me smile this morning. (Had similar with a gay guy...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Phone sex is boring its like when you get one of them copy and pasted messages on here of what he wants to do to me and is the length of war and peace... i loose interest after the 1st line lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is phone sex frowned on here? If its done well its a fantastic experience also pretty safe if you use a separate number for use on here! "
Just doesn't turn me on at all - but as long as you are honest about what you want then there is nothing wrong with it. I have had two bad experiences - with men who exchange numbers with me saying we can arrange a meet more easily but then it turned out all they wanted was me to tell them what I was wearing, doing etc....so they could masterbate.
The deceit involved by some people in getting phone numbers is what might give phone sex a bad name I think.
Of course, I don't know you OP, so please don't assume I am hinting that you would be deceitful - I am just answering your question with a recent experience still very fresh in my mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I work hard to look this cheap.
My voice, however, is cultured and deep. It's often been suggested the I should be on the radio or do voice overs.
Phone sex isn't what you might expect if you called me! (I get several requests a day for it)
This really made me smile this morning. (Had similar with a gay guy...)"
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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To me phone sex is boring, a bit like wank texting - guys are horny and want free wanking material, I'm busy, have stuff to do and get nothing out of it myself. I'm not interested in wasting my time on guys that want fantasy instead of reality. Want to fuck? Then don't mess around and make the effort to organise a fuck. Oh, no, wait, they don't actually want to fuck me they just want instant relief there and then
Plus I don't give out my number to random strangers as I get stupid messages and calls at all sorts of times.
It's not frowned upon, it's just boring compared to the real thing. If we are going to take time out of our lives to entertain a stranger then why not go all the way and make it worth it? |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I don't want to give my number out to a stranger, as I have no wish for them to call me when I'm either shopping, at work or in bed at 3AM and they think I want to know that they are horny. |
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