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How many verifications are too many?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel that the number of veris isn't so important, but rather how frequent they are. If there's one by meet every other day, or every other week, I'm thinking "yeah, right... You definitely left enough time to get tested, didn't you..." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"30. Any more than that and you're immediately blacklisted  
What if someone has been on this site for a number of years?
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It's not quite the same when i have to explain my jokes.... |
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"What do you think is the optimum number of verifications on a profile or does it make no difference at least you know they turn up? "
. I just ignore them as they are completely meaningless .What matters to me is a well written profile .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you know how many verifications somebody had? All you know is what they want you to know 
That's very true. Assuming everyone is honest "
So if you choose not to show all your verifications that means your not honest? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How do you know how many verifications somebody had? All you know is what they want you to know
That's very true. Assuming everyone is honest
So if you choose not to show all your verifications that means your not honest?"
Let's say keeping their cards close to their chest - kind of makes sense. As long as your genuine and reliable that's the main thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What I don't get is why everyone seems to write them in Victorian English... "This woman will amuse and delight you..." No one speaks like that lol"
Hehe. They all read the same
Sucked like a Dyson
Don't pass he/she by
Treat with respect
Could carry on all night but I won't
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"What I don't get is why everyone seems to write them in Victorian English... "This woman will amuse and delight you..." No one speaks like that lol
Hehe. They all read the same
Sucked like a Dyson
Don't pass he/she by
Treat with respect
Could carry on all night but I won't
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So they CAN'T carry on all night..? Tut. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you know how many verifications somebody had? All you know is what they want you to know
That's very true. Assuming everyone is honest
So if you choose not to show all your verifications that means your not honest?
Let's say keeping their cards close to their chest - kind of makes sense. As long as your genuine and reliable that's the main thing."
I don't show all my verifications for the simple fact that some guys write shit verifications, I don't want people to know how my last meet rated my blow job, how many times we fucked or if he made me cum, I also don't show verification that have my real name in them, its not that I'm ashamed of how many meets I've had I'm just embarrassed by the contents of some
Some some guys may look and think oh she's been on here years and only had 20 meets that's OK when I'm reality I may have 500 hidden  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not put off by lots of verifications - why would I be? We are no longer willing to meet someone unless they have a few verifications that reflect they are experienced and comfortable with playing with an MF couple like ourselves - we've been burnt too many times to take that risk. If there is up to 10 verifications I will read them all and this usually gives me a greater insight into the person. Unlikely to read much more than 10 though, but I will certainly skim them to see if we know anybody they know, as it gives me additional comfort if someone I know has met them. I don't see the point in displaying verifications that reflect a brief chat at a party, but it doesn't bother me if people do. |
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At least verifications mean people are prepared to go through with what they say they are. I'm sure a good webcam session could generate hundreds so a the total is pretty meaningless
Often people prefer not to verify anyway. I think it's not far from becoming a rating like tripadvisor. Though, as I type this, a hygiene rating may not be a bad idea. |
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Shame as I liked admiring your pics but rules are rules. 
that's no good 
at least he doubly knows now. 