was wondering. do any of you decide whether to meet someone based on the people they have met from there veri list. for example if youve seen that a bloke thats messeaged you has met some right mingers or just shags what ever moves..would that turn you off that person. i know it sounds snobbish. |
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Verifications aren't worth the cyberspace they occupy.
Decisions about meeting, from my point of view, are based entirely on instinct as a result of reading a person's/ couple's profile.
As they say "you don't get a second chance to make a first impression" and, harsh as it might seem, first impressions count. |
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"Verifications aren't worth the cyberspace they occupy.
Decisions about meeting, from my point of view, are based entirely on instinct as a result of reading a person's/ couple's profile.
As they say "you don't get a second chance to make a first impression" and, harsh as it might seem, first impressions count."
Yup!Tho i have to add chat to the first impressions thing,
You know AV one day we have to meet 
Who cares what others have to say,trust yourself ,just because someone else thought i was a great shag doesnt mean u will. |
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Verifications don't mean anything to me, however a loooooooooooooooooong list, coupled with multiple action shots of bareback sex with different partners: male and female certainly would! |
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"Verifications aren't worth the cyberspace they occupy.
Decisions about meeting, from my point of view, are based entirely on instinct as a result of reading a person's/ couple's profile.
As they say "you don't get a second chance to make a first impression" and, harsh as it might seem, first impressions count.
Yup!Tho i have to add chat to the first impressions thing,
You know AV one day we have to meet
Who cares what others have to say,trust yourself ,just because someone else thought i was a great shag doesnt mean u will."
You may have to come to Glasgow. The last time I was in Prudhoe was to visit a shipmate who lived in Winlaton and drove HGV for the lavvy people guys. |
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"Verifications aren't worth the cyberspace they occupy.
Decisions about meeting, from my point of view, are based entirely on instinct as a result of reading a person's/ couple's profile.
As they say "you don't get a second chance to make a first impression" and, harsh as it might seem, first impressions count.
Yup!Tho i have to add chat to the first impressions thing,
You know AV one day we have to meet
Who cares what others have to say,trust yourself ,just because someone else thought i was a great shag doesnt mean u will.
You may have to come to Glasgow. The last time I was in Prudhoe was to visit a shipmate who lived in Winlaton and drove HGV for the lavvy people guys."
The last time i was in glasgow was for my aunts 90th,omg i hope your note my cousin!  |
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"Verifications aren't worth the cyberspace they occupy.
Decisions about meeting, from my point of view, are based entirely on instinct as a result of reading a person's/ couple's profile.
As they say "you don't get a second chance to make a first impression" and, harsh as it might seem, first impressions count.
Yup!Tho i have to add chat to the first impressions thing,
You know AV one day we have to meet
Who cares what others have to say,trust yourself ,just because someone else thought i was a great shag doesnt mean u will.
You may have to come to Glasgow. The last time I was in Prudhoe was to visit a shipmate who lived in Winlaton and drove HGV for the lavvy people guys.
The last time i was in glasgow was for my aunts 90th,omg i hope your note my cousin! "
Er ............. 
PM en route. |
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"Verifications aren't worth the cyberspace they occupy.
Decisions about meeting, from my point of view, are based entirely on instinct as a result of reading a person's/ couple's profile.
As they say "you don't get a second chance to make a first impression" and, harsh as it might seem, first impressions count.
Yup!Tho i have to add chat to the first impressions thing,
You know AV one day we have to meet
Who cares what others have to say,trust yourself ,just because someone else thought i was a great shag doesnt mean u will.
You may have to come to Glasgow. The last time I was in Prudhoe was to visit a shipmate who lived in Winlaton and drove HGV for the lavvy people guys.
The last time i was in glasgow was for my aunts 90th,omg i hope your note my cousin!
Er .............
PM en route."
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"was wondering. do any of you decide whether to meet someone based on the people they have met from there veri list. for example if youve seen that a bloke thats messeaged you has met some right mingers or just shags what ever moves..would that turn you off that person. i know it sounds snobbish."
Absolutely. |
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We don't generally meet single guys but if we did and his profile said straight and that he insisted on condoms, then we checked his vari's and he'd met a string of T.V's and bare-backers, then no we wouldn't meet.
It would just prove he couldn't be trusted.
Needless to say the same would go for couples.
XXXX |
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"We don't generally meet single guys but if we did and his profile said straight and that he insisted on condoms, then we checked his vari's and he'd met a string of T.V's and bare-backers, then no we wouldn't meet.
It would just prove he couldn't be trusted.
Needless to say the same would go for couples.
XXXX"
cus ive been speaking to this couple for ages and been talking about meeting but ive now seen the type of guys they have met and ive been put off them. |
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"We don't generally meet single guys but if we did and his profile said straight and that he insisted on condoms, then we checked his vari's and he'd met a string of T.V's and bare-backers, then no we wouldn't meet.
It would just prove he couldn't be trusted.
Needless to say the same would go for couples.
XXXX
cus ive been speaking to this couple for ages and been talking about meeting but ive now seen the type of guys they have met and ive been put off them."
Others might find it "snobbish", and frankly the couple could be doing all sorts with all sorts and not have it on their profile and you'd be none the wiser.
However, we all have our own "standards" and really, if you don't feel comfortable you're not going to enjoy the experience are you?!!
If you don't want to go there...don't! |
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over a year ago
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"We don't generally meet single guys but if we did and his profile said straight and that he insisted on condoms, then we checked his vari's and he'd met a string of T.V's and bare-backers, then no we wouldn't meet.
It would just prove he couldn't be trusted.
Needless to say the same would go for couples.
XXXX
cus ive been speaking to this couple for ages and been talking about meeting but ive now seen the type of guys they have met and ive been put off them."
Go with your gut - if you don't like the sound of them it's not going to be a good shag is it? |
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By *waymanMan
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"We don't generally meet single guys but if we did and his profile said straight and that he insisted on condoms, then we checked his vari's and he'd met a string of T.V's and bare-backers, then no we wouldn't meet.
It would just prove he couldn't be trusted.
Needless to say the same would go for couples.
XXXX
cus ive been speaking to this couple for ages and been talking about meeting but ive now seen the type of guys they have met and ive been put off them."
Go with your gut - if you don't like the sound of them it's not going to be a good shag is it? |
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I didn't used to pay attention to the veris. What I might do nowadays is to see what sort of females a single male has met. If he's into lithe young things then I'd feel more uncomfortable. However, if I see he's met some other females with stretch marks & saggy bits I'm far more comfortable to meet him (this depends on age - I wouldn't expect a 40 yo to find stretch marks an issue, but if I went to the end of my (flexible) age range I'm less comfortable about it)
I used to not show my verifications. Then I thought 'fuck it' - if people want to judge me on how many there are then that's their right. |
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