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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering who convinced the other and how much effort it took to get to soft/full swinging.
We've been playing online for about 8 months now and we're off to our first club soon, although I'm not sure that she is 100% comfortable yet about someone joining in with us although we talk about it all the time. I'm happy to take things at her pace and although she is submissive, know that she must be in charge for our first club experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were mutually interested but it was a friend kissing the Mrs that kicked things off thats what piqued her interest in women
We went to a club with no intentions of playing at first to find our feet and see how things went |
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Paul was a long term swinger when I met him and I wanted to try it but it took a lot of talking before we did as he didn't want me to try anything without being totally sure. So it was the opposite of trying to convince me.  |
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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago
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We always only ever go to the clubs with the intention of socialising and whatever happen beyond that is a bonus.
Just go with that in mind, no expectations and no pressure. Things will develop naturally from there.
We have been doing this for a year or so and still only soft swap
At the the end of day it takes as long as it takes.
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20 years ago, the lady who has now been my wife for 19 years told me that she felt one man wasn't enough for her and that she very much wanted to try threesomes (MMF).
That was fine with me. I didn't need much persuading. We did wait a few years, in part due to moving countries, until we were fully comfy actually embarking on non-monogamy. |
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