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Older women- wots the attraction?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay...

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By *ella-donnaWoman over a year ago

Manchester

Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

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By *16815Man over a year ago

Halifax

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

All those reasons and more!!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Their tea making skills are usually excellent

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't listen to bullshit from anyone. Regardless of age, we chat to see if there's common ground and meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

I'm still bemused by the gorgeous young men that contact me

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By *K430Man over a year ago

Dublin

Confidence,experience, just ooze sex appeal know what they want , and know exactly how to get it , and in fairness drama free

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Slough

Generally more knowledgeable and able to stimulate ones mind. Possibly a bit more humble about their body which is far more attractive (on balance) than a gorgeous, 20-year old selfie addict. Generally more skilled at the physical act of love.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Young lads like me can go out and pull anytime really with effort , with a more mature woman , its harder , the chase is better , and i think overall the experience and the persona of a cougar or milf is more attractive ? To me anyway ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Confidence,experience, just ooze sex appeal know what they want , and know exactly how to get it , and in fairness drama free"
xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Young lads like me can go out and pull anytime really with effort , with a more mature woman , its harder , the chase is better , and i think overall the experience and the persona of a cougar or milf is more attractive ? To me anyway ??"

Wow

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Generally more knowledgeable and able to stimulate ones mind. Possibly a bit more humble about their body which is far more attractive (on balance) than a gorgeous, 20-year old selfie addict. Generally more skilled at the physical act of love. "

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Their tea making skills are usually excellent

Oooook!!!! Lol

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Slough

Xxx"

In my experience, It's not until at least 23 that most girls realise that it's a good to move their hips during sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And i dont mean easy as such just anyone can go out in town and pull a lass our age , however its more of a challenge to get a milf ect ? Dont want to seem a nob haha ????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Confidence without the attitude from an older woman is attractive.

Conversation and a woman at ease with who she is and what she likes.

I am not suggesting that younger woman posses these qualities, just I find older woman have them Finely tunned.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not the age that gives a blanket attraction.

Same as any age group....some, older women are attractive

And some older women I'd avoid like the plague.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And i dont mean easy as such just anyone can go out in town and pull a lass our age , however its more of a challenge to get a milf ect ? Dont want to seem a nob haha ????"

Yeah? I have never once " pulled" in my life. Not everyone can just do that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I fancy older women more, cos of thier sexual experience and confidence, they are more on my wave lenght. I feel I can connect with them easier and to hold a good conversation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Female here ....I dont entertain young men find them imature and 99% of them either come to quick or have no clue what to do im not here to give them sex lessons xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh I like the question.

For me it is a massive turn on.

I expect someone 19-24 when they show their sexy bodies to be sexy. They have youth on their side.

But an attractive older woman?? I just think dang (yes I said dang)

It's a work of art to me that must be thoroughly enjoyed

Hi five to all the sexy mature ladies!!

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By *ockspur and FizzCouple over a year ago

Procrastinationville

Older women can be very attractive.

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

Mature ladies are attractive.. their maturity is appealing. Sex is not necessarily better though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some younger guys are attracted to older ladies because of a number of reasons.

Some younger guys chase older women because they believe it's an easier chase

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"Oh I like the question.

For me it is a massive turn on.

I expect someone 19-24 when they show their sexy bodies to be sexy. They have youth on their side.

But an attractive older woman?? I just think dang (yes I said dang)

It's a work of art to me that must be thoroughly enjoyed

Hi five to all the sexy mature ladies!!"

Well hello......loving the use of the word 'dang' there....

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

I think all the reasons above and a couple more!

I.e.

On NO account do we want their - babies - we've done all that - so it's more relaxed.

We don't want to get too close emotionally - i.e. I'm not going to introduce a young guy to my kids any time - so it's easier to keep it at friendship and great sex without it getting 'messy!'

We're usually confident and generally more fun as we're not worrying constantly about how we look or how we come across to others!

Most of us have a few wobbly bits which make a great cushion when the young stud needs to rest his head a wee while!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

lazy porn stereotypes...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Slough

"Some younger guys are attracted to older ladies because of a number of reasons.

Some younger guys chase older women because they believe it's an easier chase"

I'd say it's harder, younger people are more naive in general. They haven't heard all the bullshit before and fall for it.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"I think all the reasons above and a couple more!

I.e.

On NO account do we want their - babies - we've done all that - so it's more relaxed.

We don't want to get too close emotionally - i.e. I'm not going to introduce a young guy to my kids any time - so it's easier to keep it at friendship and great sex without it getting 'messy!'

We're usually confident and generally more fun as we're not worrying constantly about how we look or how we come across to others!

Most of us have a few wobbly bits which make a great cushion when the young stud needs to rest his head a wee while!

Oh - and also because there's a shortage of young women on fab!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me, I just find older women attractive. I also love the fact that they are older. Also maturity is always a bonus aslong as they have a playful and childish aspect to their personality when it matters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like all women but older women, seem to be more down to earth not all them but seem easier to talk to and along with plus they have that special something that I just can't put my finger on you could say charm

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"I like all women but older women, seem to be more down to earth not all them but seem easier to talk to and along with plus they have that special something that I just can't put my finger on you could say charm

I was gonna say 'wrinkles'!

I'll settle for charm though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love hot older women. Experience is shared and arousul amplified

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a generalisation, i think older lovers are generally less selfish, due to self confidence and less hang ups. 'When i was a young man, i used to much refer older women as it was my experience that they share themselves better. I always preferred a relation where 2 people are giving (or is that recieving?) over one or two persons just taking.

Of course now i am older, and the physicality is not so important, the voyeuer in me comes to the fore. so age really is largely irrelevent and attitude is far more important.

i guess as we get older we get more tolerant and able to compromise easier.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was gonna say 'wrinkles'!

I'll settle for charm though!

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well always wanted to message you as you have some charm but I am just smidge out of you age range ohh well(sad puppy face)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be fair you don't look your age ,do you see them though is what I want to know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some younger guys are attracted to older ladies because of a number of reasons.

Some younger guys chase older women because they believe it's an easier chase"

They'll learn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like older lady's because there's no hang ups and they don't want love (usually) plus most can't get pregnant and are available during the day so I guess the same goes round .and fuck me most know what go do in bed a lot of younger girls just lie there .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me its just the confidence they have

so easy to talk to & know exactly what they what! I find that sexy & very attractive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

older women in my eyes have the experience, much more up for experimenting and trying different things and they definitely know what they like.

Just love an older woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

Nothing about an easy lay at all. I mean look at yourself...just oozing sexiness

whats not to love about an older woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Older women are straight forward with what they want plus the idea of fucking an older woman is just exciting

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By *rueone71Man over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

The list is long...lol...too long that may take more than a day..lol!!

In short is skills togheter a mental connection. But make not mistake; women are quicker than men to learn... so age is just a number for them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

Something to add to their sexual CV

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By *rueone71Man over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay...

Something to add to their sexual CV

I may not totally disagree! True for some..not the majority

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

Why do you reckon older women are an easy lay?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any woman who looks good in a thong is hot regardless of age

As for chasing? Screw that I have just had a bag of do-noughts!! I aint chasing anyone right now for at least 2 days!!!

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

What she said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay...

Why do you reckon older women are an easy lay?

I really have no idea why some think that. Puts me off younger men, because of that false perception ( Disclosure: Not saying all younger men think like that... Phew! Covered my arse there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay...

Why do you reckon older women are an easy lay?

I thought younger woman would be more of an easy lay tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay...

Why do you reckon older women are an easy lay?

I thought younger woman would be more of an easy lay tbh. "
easy lay .... makes you sound like a right sleaze

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally think older women don't beat around the bush...love someone with experience...who can teach me a thing or too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think maybe because they're more confident and self assured as to who they are and what they want..

I'm always surprised at the amount of younger men that message me, but I'm not complaining!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay...

Why do you reckon older women are an easy lay?

Is the same as the "fat girls are easy" thing....some think we should be greatful that they wanna fuck us I think!

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By *luey manMan over a year ago

High Wycombe

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By *ocky-boyMan over a year ago

All over

Going to throw a spanner in the works here, younger men are attracted to older ladies because of the motherly aspect of it, i.e. They are still craving a mothers touch from when they were very small, they find it more comforting even though they don't realise this

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Slough

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay...

Why do you reckon older women are an easy lay?

Is the same as the "fat girls are easy" thing....some think we should be greatful that they wanna fuck us I think!

No because fat women aren't generally smarter than thin women. But most people do get smarter with experience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay...

Why do you reckon older women are an easy lay?

Is the same as the "fat girls are easy" thing....some think we should be greatful that they wanna fuck us I think!

No because fat women aren't generally smarter than thin women. But most people do get smarter with experience. "

Only said some...there are always some with that attitude regardless of who they are chasing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably less likely to be headwreckers.

Won't stop mid-sex to check their make-up and take a selfie

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By *wcwCouple over a year ago

cheshire

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."
older and mature women. Have got it all. They know what there doing. And what they want. In our experience it's the same with guys. Older ish. Guys know what to do with women. Mostly.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Slough

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay...

Why do you reckon older women are an easy lay?

Is the same as the "fat girls are easy" thing....some think we should be greatful that they wanna fuck us I think!

No because fat women aren't generally smarter than thin women. But most people do get smarter with experience.

Only said some...there are always some with that attitude regardless of who they are chasing"

Maybe some people think that but i think they'd quickly find it harder. Let's say a 25 year old persues a 50 year old woman. The woman is probably open to offers from 50 year old guys too. So his competition pool just got bigger. Whilst a 25-year old girl is less likely to entertain offers from a 50 year old man so a 25-year old man has less competition for her minge, all other things being equal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Age is just a number, I just like what I like...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whilst I find woman of all ages attractive I would say that ones in their 40's or 50's have easily been my best sexual experiences. Actually think part of that is down to lower inhibitions all round and being more relaxed .

Maybe 60's are even better but no reference point yet x

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I think all the reasons above and a couple more!

I.e.

On NO account do we want their - babies - we've done all that - so it's more relaxed.

We don't want to get too close emotionally - i.e. I'm not going to introduce a young guy to my kids any time - so it's easier to keep it at friendship and great sex without it getting 'messy!'

We're usually confident and generally more fun as we're not worrying constantly about how we look or how we come across to others!

Most of us have a few wobbly bits which make a great cushion when the young stud needs to rest his head a wee while!

Oh - and also because there's a shortage of young women on fab!! "

No shortage on POF and the young men chase mature women on there in there hordes!! They can be great lovers too, I don't think that always requires age.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Whilst I find woman of all ages attractive I would say that ones in their 40's or 50's have easily been my best sexual experiences. Actually think part of that is down to lower inhibitions all round and being more relaxed .

Maybe 60's are even better but no reference point yet x"

I bloody hope so!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They tend to have a better selection of biscuits.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They tend to have a better selection of biscuits.

I ate all the biscuits... my tea making is legend though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think all the reasons above and a couple more!

I.e.

On NO account do we want their - babies - we've done all that - so it's more relaxed.

We don't want to get too close emotionally - i.e. I'm not going to introduce a young guy to my kids any time - so it's easier to keep it at friendship and great sex without it getting 'messy!'

We're usually confident and generally more fun as we're not worrying constantly about how we look or how we come across to others!

Most of us have a few wobbly bits which make a great cushion when the young stud needs to rest his head a wee while!

Brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They tend to have a better selection of biscuits.

I ate all the biscuits... my tea making is legend though

You have my attention

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think maybe because they're more confident and self assured as to who they are and what they want..

I'm always surprised at the amount of younger men that message me, but I'm not complaining!

"
dont u ever feel like that..female here xx

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By *angolinMan over a year ago

London

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

I'm still bemused by the gorgeous young men that contact me "

By the look of your pictures, it doesn't surprise me at all

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"I think all the reasons above and a couple more!

I.e.

On NO account do we want their - babies - we've done all that - so it's more relaxed.

We don't want to get too close emotionally - i.e. I'm not going to introduce a young guy to my kids any time - so it's easier to keep it at friendship and great sex without it getting 'messy!'

We're usually confident and generally more fun as we're not worrying constantly about how we look or how we come across to others!

Most of us have a few wobbly bits which make a great cushion when the young stud needs to rest his head a wee while!

Brilliant.

Well I wouldn't call my wobbly bits brilliant - but they're definitely comfortable!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think all the reasons above and a couple more!

I.e.

On NO account do we want their - babies - we've done all that - so it's more relaxed.

We don't want to get too close emotionally - i.e. I'm not going to introduce a young guy to my kids any time - so it's easier to keep it at friendship and great sex without it getting 'messy!'

We're usually confident and generally more fun as we're not worrying constantly about how we look or how we come across to others!

Most of us have a few wobbly bits which make a great cushion when the young stud needs to rest his head a wee while!

Brilliant.

Well I wouldn't call my wobbly bits brilliant - but they're definitely comfortable!

You are my cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They tend to have a better selection of biscuits.

I ate all the biscuits... my tea making is legend though

You have my attention

Oh...and I have been a haidresser...one that likes long hair on a man... I give an amazing scalp massage...just so ya know

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By *entileschiWoman over a year ago

Norwich

I guess it comes down to confidence and skills learnt through the years. Either that or a mother fixation!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it's simple I just tend to find women older than me more attractive than those around my age or younger. There's no quirky reason behind it, I just happen to be attracted to more women older than me than younger, that said it's the person I'm interested in not the age.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

I'm attracted to most women who offer to touch my dick regardless of age. Notice i used the word "women" before you get smart!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

This.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They tend to have a better selection of biscuits.

I ate all the biscuits... my tea making is legend though

You have my attention

Oh...and I have been a haidresser...one that likes long hair on a man... I give an amazing scalp massage...just so ya know

You just tick all sorts of boxes. I've come over all a fluster.

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By *kultraCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

I'm still bemused by the gorgeous young men that contact me "

Bloody hell I wish I was that lucky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Easy lay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Easy lay

I'd like to know who these older easy women are lol

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple over a year ago

Surrey

When I go out with my younger girl friends... I always attract more fellas! Age is def on my side xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Re the easy lay comment, a real generalisation that older / large women are seen as a sure thing on here.

Blimey if you're a chubby 60 year old women you must be living the dream, busy busy busy!

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

Personally I think it is just a tick in the box to mark off on their bucket list!

I'm nobodies fetish

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple over a year ago

Surrey

When I go out with my younger girl friends... I always attract more fellas! Age is def on my side xx

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

Here, here! I take offence at being called 'an easy lay'! Especially by someone in the same age group.

I'm fussy about who I have fun with. Preference at the moment is with younger guys.

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By *ischievous_mickMan over a year ago

north west

For me personally. I'll say the more experienced ladies, as I don't like the term older as age I just a number. But they tend to give us lads a fighting chance to speak/message without the instant block or deleting which many of the ladies my age do. Like I say it's just from experience but if the ladies my age don't like the picture then they instantly block/delete without batting an eyelid. Yet from numerous experiences with the experienced ladies you all like to give us a chance to talk even if it just an hour or so messaging to work out if anything can develop. There's no harm in socialising after all it is a predominately a social site lol.

Also I find that experienced ladies have all been there done that an got the t-shirt they can cut through the sweet talk and get to the nitty gritty without breaking a sweat lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of older women are very humble and modest, that's an important factor in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good in bed I'd say

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay...

Personally I think it is just a tick in the box to mark off on their bucket list!

I'm nobodies fetish

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Slough

"A lot of older women are very humble and modest, that's an important factor in my opinion. "

Seconded. Nothing puts me off a woman's personality quicker than narcissism.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Women are either attractive to a person or not. Age is a factor in it but not all older women are the same.

Nobody ever wonders why men of all ages are attracted to younger women its taken for granted. I wonder why it comes as a surprise when an older woman's attractive to all ages of men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dunno, I thought it was impolite to ask a woman her age.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think every young guy goes through this at some stage its just a phase....same can be said why do some women go for younger guys.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I think every young guy goes through this at some stage its just a phase....same can be said why do some women go for younger guys.

Well let's face it, there comes a stage where a guy's too old for there to be any older women available

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think every young guy goes through this at some stage its just a phase....same can be said why do some women go for younger guys.

Well let's face it, there comes a stage where a guy's too old for there to be any older women available

Are you sure?? There's lots of very atttactive 50 + ladies on this site alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mature women are less pouty and less hassle because they are more confident and have more experience in bed. They are normally more interested to talk to and more relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Their tea making skills are usually excellent

I make a rubbish cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think every young guy goes through this at some stage its just a phase....same can be said why do some women go for younger guys.

Well let's face it, there comes a stage where a guy's too old for there to be any older women available

That's when they reinvent themselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Were not sure what or why but we have been contacted by several young cples recently asking to meet two of the cples have been in their 20s.

Very flattering in a way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I was a young whipper snapper I somehow managed to end up having sex with a woman who was 35 at the time. Without doubt it was the best experience of my life at the time and I'd recommend it to any guy in his early 20's to 30. Find an older woman and enjoy the experience of a life time. IMO of course.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"I think all the reasons above and a couple more!

I.e.

On NO account do we want their - babies - we've done all that - so it's more relaxed.

We don't want to get too close emotionally - i.e. I'm not going to introduce a young guy to my kids any time - so it's easier to keep it at friendship and great sex without it getting 'messy!'

We're usually confident and generally more fun as we're not worrying constantly about how we look or how we come across to others!

Most of us have a few wobbly bits which make a great cushion when the young stud needs to rest his head a wee while!

Brilliant.

Well I wouldn't call my wobbly bits brilliant - but they're definitely comfortable!

You are my cup of tea

Oh! Hello there!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Confidence

Experience

Lack of bad eyebrows (as per most under 30's)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think all the reasons above and a couple more!

I.e.

On NO account do we want their - babies - we've done all that - so it's more relaxed.

We don't want to get too close emotionally - i.e. I'm not going to introduce a young guy to my kids any time - so it's easier to keep it at friendship and great sex without it getting 'messy!'

We're usually confident and generally more fun as we're not worrying constantly about how we look or how we come across to others!

Most of us have a few wobbly bits which make a great cushion when the young stud needs to rest his head a wee while!

Brilliant.

Well I wouldn't call my wobbly bits brilliant - but they're definitely comfortable!

You are my cup of tea

Oh! Hello there!

Confidence ^^^^ case in point

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

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By *rNaughtyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

Agreed, plus emotionally more stable too and know exactly what they want, from my personal experience x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find older women just so sexy! I've been with allot of women my age but I just find myself looking at mature women at work, in the shops and just imagine the excitement of being with them - maybe they have a hubby, whatever it is I'm not sure I just find older women more refined and love how they just know what the love and take it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Young womens bodies can all look the same. Mature bodies are more exciting, often older women know exactly what they want. I love them. Also younger lads don't mind getting things wrong with an older woman. They get embarrassed if they are shit at fingering with a young hottie lol

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Slough

"Confidence

Experience

Lack of bad eyebrows (as per most under 30's)"

Seriously what is going on with eye brows these days? Who knew there was a problem with them that people needed to start shaving them off and drawing them back on again. Mostly it gives the 'bad tranny' look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Young womens bodies can all look the same. Mature bodies are more exciting, often older women know exactly what they want. I love them. Also younger lads don't mind getting things wrong with an older woman. They get embarrassed if they are shit at fingering with a young hottie lol"

Why would they be embarrassed with a young hottie and not with an older woman?

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By *lixir of lifeMan over a year ago

knob Creek

Can i just put my two penneth in please ?

Meeting people is about good,interesting conversation..

Talking on a certain level ..

That's why iv no interest in young girls..

Hashtags , instagram , selfies or love island isn't my level of conversation..

Swinging isn't just about sex ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can i just put my two penneth in please ?

Meeting people is about good,interesting conversation..

Talking on a certain level ..

That's why iv no interest in young girls..

Hashtags , instagram , selfies or love island isn't my level of conversation..

Swinging isn't just about sex .."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we are just amazing

(psst only saying what ive been told)

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By *lixir of lifeMan over a year ago

knob Creek

"we are just amazing

(psst only saying what ive been told) "

U certainly do look amazing xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1 they don't use your toothbrush and 1 bloody good nosh off while there nashers are in the glass ??????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

Hit the nails on the head right there

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Slough

"Can i just put my two penneth in please ?

Meeting people is about good,interesting conversation..

Talking on a certain level ..

That's why iv no interest in young girls..

Hashtags , instagram , selfies or love island isn't my level of conversation..

Swinging isn't just about sex .."

If i just wanted the best view when spunking then yeah, younger girl everytime. To spend an evening with someone then as you say, swinging isn't just about sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

How dare thy lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

Sexier. More sophisticated. Older the berry the sweeter the fruit. Easy going. Hornier. Know what they want. The list is endless !

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I'll know it when I find it.

"Can i just put my two penneth in please ?

Meeting people is about good,interesting conversation..

Talking on a certain level ..

That's why iv no interest in young girls..

Hashtags , instagram , selfies or love island isn't my level of conversation..

Swinging isn't just about sex .."

Nah, it's about generalisations also. Who can forget those?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Can i just put my two penneth in please ?

Meeting people is about good,interesting conversation..

Talking on a certain level ..

That's why iv no interest in young girls..

Hashtags , instagram , selfies or love island isn't my level of conversation..

Swinging isn't just about sex ..

Nah, it's about generalisations also. Who can forget those?

Yep!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Slough

"Can i just put my two penneth in please ?

Meeting people is about good,interesting conversation..

Talking on a certain level ..

That's why iv no interest in young girls..

Hashtags , instagram , selfies or love island isn't my level of conversation..

Swinging isn't just about sex ..

Nah, it's about generalisations also. Who can forget those?

Nothing wrong with using probability either, unless you want to form a personal opinion about 7bn people on the planet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

I do think some think older women are easier lays. I think the ones who do are very misguided. Just because we are older, does not mean we are desperate for a young stallion. We know what we like and are sexually confident. We don't sufffer fools gladly. Including some young studs who try to fetishise older women. I can smell those types a mile off. They would never make it past the first gate

. I'd much prefer someone to fancy me, because they find me attractive. Not because of my age.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"Can i just put my two penneth in please ?

Meeting people is about good,interesting conversation..

Talking on a certain level ..

That's why iv no interest in young girls..

Hashtags , instagram , selfies or love island isn't my level of conversation..

Swinging isn't just about sex .."

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By *anetandNickCouple over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

"Their tea making skills are usually excellent

Don't expect me to make tea - toyboys are expected to bring Prosecco!

Janet xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pretty much everything

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

Why would they be embarrassed with a young hottie and not with an older woman?"

I THINK I know what he means!

As an older woman I accept that the young hotties I meet are less experienced at some things than I am. Also, if a guy is doing something that doesn't feel 'quite right ' - rather than being horrid or just saying nothing - I'll gently tell/show him exactly how I love it! The guys are usually pretty chuffed when they make a woman gush for the first time by changing their technique - or make me orgasm repeatedly simply by adjusting penetrative position slightly!

As an older woman I accept that we all like different things and we're all learning all the time - perhaps a young woman wouldn't? I dunno - it's a bloody long time since I was young!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

The first paragraph nails it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Confidence, experience, fewer hang ups and inhibitions...there's plenty of reasons.

And I'm certainly not an easy lay, quite the opposite

The first paragraph nails it "

less worried about what others think of us -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just my preference so ladies if you like a man in uniform also come msg me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love older women it just does it for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me I look at women any age (18+) I'd she's attractive then that's all that matters. In experience i used to find I'd chase younger girls and certainly had some amazing times. But maybe at if my Mrs Robinson moments have been me being seduced by them now I understand that's called being a cougar.

Now I think I like older women because I like the idea of being seduced by one.

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

I don't understand either

If I was a young guy I would want a girl my own age

I never looked at older guys thinking they were hot ?

But I'm not complaining Haha I seem to be attractive to younger guys so might as well enjoy it myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kudos remember it's all about show for some people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand either

If I was a young guy I would want a girl my own age

I never looked at older guys thinking they were hot ?

But I'm not complaining Haha I seem to be attractive to younger guys so might as well enjoy it myself

You are on my Hot List...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why would they be embarrassed with a young hottie and not with an older woman?

I THINK I know what he means!

As an older woman I accept that we all like different things and we're all learning all the time - perhaps a young woman wouldn't? I dunno - it's a bloody long time since I was young!

This is also true. Less judgemental sex. You get to learn so much!

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"I don't understand either

If I was a young guy I would want a girl my own age

I never looked at older guys thinking they were hot ?

But I'm not complaining Haha I seem to be attractive to younger guys so might as well enjoy it myself

You are on my Hot List...

Am I ? I've sent you a friend request ... I can be on your friends list lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't understand either

If I was a young guy I would want a girl my own age

I never looked at older guys thinking they were hot ?

But I'm not complaining Haha I seem to be attractive to younger guys so might as well enjoy it myself

You are on my Hot List...

Am I ? I've sent you a friend request ... I can be on your friends list lol

You've made my week, cheers

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By *nlyfun3Woman over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I think it depends on the woman and the man. Its assumed older women have more experience and want to teach younger men. Some younger men when turned down by me have said i should be greatful!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I cant believe no-ones dropped the Freud bomb on this yet!! Oedipus complex anyone??

I'm not exactly a young man anymore, but I've no real interest in young girls - I prefer a touch of reality. Throughout my life, mature women have represented the best of society, and its a real turn on to realise that they too are horny!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We know what we want and aren't afraid to ask for it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Confidence and know exactly what works for them

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

Of course the older women are a million times better for the younger guys than the young girls because the older women don't play childish games, the older women appreciate the younger guys more, the older women make it very easy for the younger guys, no bullshit with the older women, it's straight to the point, the conversation goes like this, " babe do you want to fuck this pussy? Yes, ok, come on then."

I personally prefer the middle age women in my opinion from 25 upwards , cause I like my women mentally matured.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They tend to have a better selection of biscuits.

I ate all the biscuits... my tea making is legend though

You have my attention

Oh...and I have been a haidresser...one that likes long hair on a man... I give an amazing scalp massage...just so ya know

You just tick all sorts of boxes. I've come over all a fluster."

I'm all kinds of wonderful me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guys tell me that we are far better in bed..! As I ask the same question..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was brought up to spank my elders.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

"Xx I'm told I'm beautiful inside and out xx....." - not going by this post you're not!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My first ever meet was with someone 20 years my senior and to this day still the most exciting, thrilling meet i've ever had.

She was someone who made me feel special, she was honest in what she wanted and confident and tactile with it. She didn't mess around and is someone now a very close friend.

I would pick older over younger anyday!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."
glad im not the only one with this cynical view. Same with gym fit couples wanting to meet

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By *000_6ftMan over a year ago

Norwich

I like the older woman. Not sure why. Just do. I have met a few off here.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Their tea making skills are usually excellent

Don't expect me to make tea - toyboys are expected to bring Prosecco!

Haha, I like it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've played with women 10 years older than me but I didn't think of them as older at all. They were just sexy women I wanted to fuck.

I have been in a hot tub with a much older couple having sex and got really turned on. I would've fucked her in a heart beat. Why? I haven't got a clue. I just found it kinky and she had a very sexy body. As a young man I had fantasies about a middle aged house wife fucking me. Why? Again... no reason other than I found it very kinky

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

easy lay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was brought up to spank my elders.

This is definitely a rule to stick too!

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

For me the older women are more beautiful and better, the young girls are just too clingy and take things too personally. I have had the choice but the young girls are not my dig, too many games, yes I agree they might look physically more attractive but I don't dig them, if a young girl wanted me I would make her jump through a lot of hoops, except she checks me and steps to me maturedly, that is the only way I would look at them twice. I don't like the idea of the games, the young guys are not like this at all but each to their own.

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By *ockspur and FizzCouple over a year ago

Procrastinationville

Older women can be very appealing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me the older women are more beautiful and better, the young girls are just too clingy and take things too personally. I have had the choice but the young girls are not my dig, too many games, yes I agree they might look physically more attractive but I don't dig them, if a young girl wanted me I would make her jump through a lot of hoops, except she checks me and steps to me maturedly, that is the only way I would look at them twice. I don't like the idea of the games, the young guys are not like this at all but each to their own."

So in order to stop a younger girl play games with you you'd make her play games for you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The problem is youre looking at it as a binary choice.

Ie are they choosing older or younger women.

When in reality they're choosing and meeting both

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"easy lay"

Easy to lay (down), not so easy getting up these days at my age....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The problem is youre looking at it as a binary choice.

Ie are they choosing older or younger women.

When in reality they're choosing and meeting both

C'mon you know there are only ever 2 choices on here:

Older / younger

BBW / slim

Blond / Brunette

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guys,please please please, don't forget the 'er' on the end of the word older.

I was recently messaged by a young man who said that he had always wanted to experience an old woman like me.

This did not exactly endear me to him as you can probably imagine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love older woman ... there more sexy , attractive and know how to please ... yum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

No. It's an easy way to get my socks darned.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay...

No. It's an easy way to get my socks darned. "

Darn

it ain't the 1950's anymore....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

Less likely to spend during the social taking selfies and posting facebook updates

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By *rzambiqueMan over a year ago

Edmonton

"Please enlighten me why older women do it for many young men.

Or is it just bull to get an easy lay..."

The beauty and experience also older women don't mess people around they know what and how they want it in my experience

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By *impleSailorMan over a year ago

on the road again

Experience, knowing what they want, sexual attraction, confidence and like with any attraction, common ground

Some like smokers some not.

Some like tattoos some not.

Some like older women some not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id be more interested in finding out why older women like younger lads (so I can make note of it and do those things!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Id be more interested in finding out why older women like younger lads (so I can make note of it and do those things!)"

I dont like or meet .. lads. I prefer men..

Not all older women like young guys.. some of us inc me like or prefer guys around our own age.

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By *tranTV/TS over a year ago

City

Confidence to say no to stuff they dont like.

Higher sex drive than younger women a lot of the time.

It's harder to put them off by doing something like cumming quick. Cum quick with a 20 - 30 year old and they will treat you like you have the plague, do it with an older woman and she will smile and get ready for round 2.

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