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Cannot Accommodate Cannot Travel?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They can only do local meets at the other person's house or outdoors. "
I find that less incomprehensible than the first two paragraphs of your profile.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thats me!.. I won't travel or accommodate! My choice! I won't have guys at my home, ever! I have children!... I won't travel miles for sex, as there loads of guys I can meet local. Some guys make a night of it and book themselves into a hotel. Not everyone is a quickie type of guy after a rush a run meet!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They're married, skint and don't have a car."
Or perhaps have poorly long term seriously ill children and need to stay in local vicinity incase of emergency phone calls.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats me!.. I won't travel or accommodate! My choice! I won't have guys at my home, ever! I have children!... I won't travel miles for sex, as there loads of guys I can meet local. Some guys make a night of it and book themselves into a hotel. Not everyone is a quickie type of guy after a rush a run meet!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sensible explanations! My interpretation of 'travel' was just the opposite of accommodate; i.e. that you'd meet outside of your home, but it looks like many interpret that as going to another city. Maybe fab needs an option for 'Hotels only', 'Outdoor only', Your place only etc.
Silly me, so that's why so many 100's of miles away are contacting me, doh  |
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Its how you interpret it...
Can't travel - local people only, only willing to go a distance of maybe 5 miles.
Can't accommodate - Don't expect a sleepover, I like my space and have a life outside of fab. |
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I have cannot accommodate on mine.
I can, but only at times my children aren't here, and I'd never have a complete stranger in my home, a social meet first then maybe I'd invite them.
I just put 'cannot' as figured anything else could be explained if I was intrested in meeting someone |
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Seriously in this day and age who would invite a stranger into their home?
Define stranger.
I assume people know what I meant by stranger.
Sort of. It's different for different people.  "
Very true and each to their own but people seem to expect to be accommodated. It's up to the individual's circumstances and views on it. |
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Seriously in this day and age who would invite a stranger into their home?
Define stranger.
I assume people know what I meant by stranger.
Sort of. It's different for different people.
Very true and each to their own but people seem to expect to be accommodated. It's up to the individual's circumstances and views on it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They're married, skint and don't have a car.
Or perhaps have poorly long term seriously ill children and need to stay in local vicinity incase of emergency phone calls.
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I have to stay in my area because of my daughter with severe learning difficulties, she's not ill but I have to be available in case she is hurt or unwell and I need to fetch her home. I also don't host as I don't want to XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have cannot accommodate on mine.
I can, but only at times my children aren't here, and I'd never have a complete stranger in my home, a social meet first then maybe I'd invite them.
I just put 'cannot' as figured anything else could be explained if I was intrested in meeting someone "
This for us too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sensible explanations! My interpretation of 'travel' was just the opposite of accommodate; i.e. that you'd meet outside of your home, but it looks like many interpret that as going to another city. Maybe fab needs an option for 'Hotels only', 'Outdoor only', Your place only etc.
Silly me, so that's why so many 100's of miles away are contacting me, doh "
I agree, more options are required. |
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If they put this but don't qualify it, they are doing themselves no favours
They potentially won't show up in searches relevant to what they really do, if others look for their type of scenario.
Imo, if you leave your home for a meet, you are travelling - on foot, bicycle, train whatever.
If house bound but can't accom, then this description suits those who want to meet. |
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