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New to site and not having any luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Evening ladies

I need some advice, I am new to this site and this sort of thing.

I am actively messaging lovely and sexy ladies who I believe wish for the same NSA fun, but I appear to be have little to no replies at all. If anyone can offer any help it would be greatly appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Many look at profiles before deciding whether to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You've been on the site 5 weeks and already had a meet, you're doing better than a lot of guys here

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Be patient.

We all know what a cock looks like may be add some more pictures.

Good luck and welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry I'm not a lady but all I can say is that you might want to expand on your profile text a bit and maybe add more than just a dick pic. I find a lot of women are more interested in what's between your ears than your legs. Good luck

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Seeing you are asking, I always say, those who only have a cock pic, I tend to think they must be a cock, you make your own luck on here, your profile is your shop window!

If you think a female has ever looked at a cock pic and thought I must meet the owner of that, then you are badly mistaken

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By *apillonNoirWoman  over a year ago

There...

Hi. You might want to do a quick search for profile advice. There are literally hundreds of threads all giving the same advice - you only need to read a couple in other words...

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By *jbucksCouple  over a year ago

Bletchley

For starters you need a pic of your face as most women prefer how you look not how your cock looks. You don't have to put a face pic up on your profile if you want to keep it private but in messages attach one and I'm sure you will get more replies and more of a headway and just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do you really think having a single picture of your cock on display, is enough to have ladies wanting to drop their knickers?

Not even starting on the non existent text.

Do a forum search, and go read the many, many threads about profile advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I do try keep it private, but each time I send an email I do send a face pic, but still little replies. Ref the text I have no idea what to put. Just very new to this whole thing as been married and wife ended the marriage after 7 years of being together.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

One thing to remember is that this is a swingers site, not just a casual sex site. So if you don't float someones boat you've no chance.

Just because you like the look of a "sexy lady" doesn't mean she likes the look of you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Same. Patience : )

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would very strongly advise you to not have a picture of a cock as an avatar. That's an instant delete for most women. Also do realise, that as a single man only looking for women, the ratios are about 1:100. There are easier ways of getting sex.

Mrs

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By *eliciousladyWoman  over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

As most of the previous replies point out..a single cock pic is usually a delete/block from many females on here.

Have a profile with a few well worded paragraphs, inject a little humour if possible.

Take some body photo selfies.

Search the forum for 'profile advice'

Best of luck OP

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By *ooneyloubylouWoman  over a year ago

Rotherham


"One thing to remember is that this is a swingers site, not just a casual sex site. So if you don't float someones boat you've no chance.

Just because you like the look of a "sexy lady" doesn't mean she likes the look of you."

Not classing every single male the same but agree whole heartedly. Its a swingers site and women aren't here as a cheaper alternative to a prostitue. Some, not all come across in their messages like the women on here are.

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By *parkybunnyCouple  over a year ago

Zurich. NOT London.

An avatar that isn't a silhouette and personally I'd lose the pic with urinals in the background.

Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Well I've had ago changing it on everyone's greatly appricated advice. Any feed back muchly needed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *apillonNoirWoman  over a year ago

There...


"Well I've had ago changing it on everyone's greatly appricated advice. Any feed back muchly needed"

Try again... I know where you got that from...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ya need a big willy,6pack,loads of tats,and look like brad pit for the good looking women.....

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